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by Yahoo Answers Is A Fraud on November 13th, 2008
I haven't noticed. I'm a black man and I have no problem with black women with white men. My sister is married to a white man.
by SABOTEUR on February 20th, 2009
I imagine it's impossible to be a black male in America and not realize, or feel as if you're considered to be inferior to white men.
As you mature you understand that people are individuals and not everyone believes in the inferiority of the black male.
BUT, the "inferiority seed" is planted at an early age, and it's watered throughout the black man's lifetime by subtle references that he's not quite good enough.
So while I wholehearted applaud ANYONE dating, REGARDLESS of race, I'd be lying if I said I haven't wondered, however fleetingly, whether black men weren't "good enough" for the black woman with the white man.
by Moon Unit on November 13th, 2008
This is a bit of a generalisation.
My cousin's boyfriend's black family love his white gal.
Maybe black men who are not as wealthy as a white family would dislike it, as so many times the family of the white girl have interfered and broken up the relationship to the 'lowly' black guy.
Racism sucks.
(At least Obama's being elected has futher shown that we are gradually waking up to ourselves, that more are realising it's only skin)
by LeonBar on February 20th, 2009
Inherent racism. Black men won't hate any white man specifically for dating/loving a black woman. If they do, it's probable they simply hate white men.
by Anthony on February 20th, 2009
Not all of us hate it. I'm black and one of my closest friends is white and he has dated black women ever since i have known him. We always had kind of an inside joke about it because when we would go out together, we would both walk in a restaurant or club with black women on our arms! We always found that funny.
by Nefertiti on November 13th, 2008
I think this might verge on stereotypying a group of people. You may want to re-phrase your question so people don't take offense to it. :)
by NoFlyZone on February 20th, 2009
never knew black men hated it... there are a lot of interracial couples these days. i think it's kinda cool, personally. i think if everyone did that we'd eventually be just "one" people and the world would unite. what a concept!!!
by R U Sirius on November 13th, 2008
Really?...........I don't think you can justify it and I really don't think they care on who we date.
by DueceGod - doGeceuD on November 13th, 2008
i think it goes both ways, im just glad most of us arent being ignorant. i love to see everyone just get along.
by Gene H on November 13th, 2008
And white guys don't? What is the black equivalent of KKK? All races have those loogy individuals who think, "Hey, they's after ore wimmin!" but for the most part, most people are over that.
by Lets Go Sharks on November 4th, 2009
As far as I know they don't.
by Blackope-Knowledge is Power on November 4th, 2009
I suppose the same stupid motivation that causes white men to hate it when black men date/love white women.
by MasterS on November 4th, 2009
honestly i don't think i have seen this, black men date white women, i don't think i have seen a black man hate on a white guy dating a black women, if they actually do this, i would wonder why.
Racism is all i could say.
by Carlos Lehder on February 20th, 2009
i just hope it all ends , but i really dont think it will, ever, unfortunatly!! And i do believe our new prez is just gonna make things worse. but what r u gonns do!!!!
by sexykins20 on November 4th, 2009
jealious
or they think white men taking or women next will be or jobs
by Carlos Lehder on November 13th, 2008
oh , i finally got it i said black instead of afro american, but the problem have with your pc /libreal meantality is my black woman is portugeese NOT AFRICAN AMERICAN, but because of people like you i have to refer to my wife as an african american
and she from portugal, pc should stickit up thereass this is in respnse to nefertiti
by beccabean on January 31st, 2010
I'm lmao @ all these answers of people saying they've never known of this happening. Thats because black women rarely date white guys so black guys have few reasons to get upset. However, as a black woman myself I can say it does happen. A lot too. None of the guys in my family want me to date white guys, other guys are okay, just not white. My dad told me when I was little that white guys use black women so I should never let that happen & I should stay away from them. My black guy friends don't like to see black women with white guys and they, as well as my brothers, HATE HATE HATE to see a cute bw with a white guy. I thought it was kind of funny, but at the same time some black guys take it too far & actually get really angry at bw who date wm and they harrass the women, but never the white guy! I never understood why, but they guilt trip bw by saying they are with their "slavemaster" and some other ignorant things. These same guys would also date white women too! They see white MEN as the problem, so bw with wm are terrible people in their eyes.
I'm speaking from experience. There are bm who do really hate it & some who are just bothered by it.
by MT53191 on May 16th, 2009
I always thought it was the other way around. I mean it couldnt be that much of a problem since black men date white women too right.
by DarkMusclePrince on November 4th, 2009
Not sure who these black men are but it doesnt bother me at all
by Gene H on November 4th, 2009
I've never seen that. Oh, some black guys might just hate white guys, but it probably has nothing to do with whom they are dating. I could be wrong.
by Somedude81 on November 4th, 2009
It may happen but, I have never heard a black man say he hates it when white men date black women. Not only is it stupid but, who really has time to hate someone for dating outside their race(assuming you have a life and intelligence that exceeds that of a rock).
by AnnieB on November 4th, 2009
I never knew a black man who had a problem with a white man dating a black woman. I know a couple of black women and white men who dont like a white woman with a black man.
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on November 4th, 2009
You wouldn't by any chance be a narrow minded bigot by any chance?
by Inthisworld on December 14th, 2009
I have definitely seen and experienced it. I was dating a Greek guy once (I'm a black woman) and we decided to go to this really nice mall in D.C. and we got harrassed so bad by the black men that were in the mall that we had to leave. Another time I was with my friends in a club, one of my best friends being a pretty white blond girl that exclusively dates black men btw, and we were all dancing and I happened to be dancing with a white guy and some black guys walked up to us,faces all frowned up and just grabbed me to try to pull me away from the guy I was dancing with. My current boyfriend is black and he knows I have dated outside my race in the past and he has dated outside his race and he has no issues when he sees black women/white men couples but he is very open and fair minded which is why I love him.
Would you date a handsome black guy?
by pmcclainjr on December 11th, 2011
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Do you think white girls would like me?
by manonthemoon on December 7th, 2011
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What do I do if my boy toy starts to like my friend?(I'm black,my boy toy is white/Spanish and my friend is white)
by Quiet771 on November 17th, 2011
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Ladies: Do you prefer white men over black men?
by Cepasy on December 22nd, 2011
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Why most black women don't date outside their race? (You don't see too many black women with white men)
by RCLAY on December 30th, 2011
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good for your a normal person
by Carlos Lehder on November 14th, 2008
amen about Y!A Im a refugee from there.
by Lets Go Sharks on November 4th, 2009