A bully is the physical A male of the territory. How do you get rid of a territorial a-male? Introduce a better a-male.

I spent 3 years as a School Resource officer in Florida and if you understand bullying, you can help to stop it. A bully just doesn’t become a bully and they’re not born that way. A bully is usually being bullied or abused at home. They usually have self-esteem which they got by being a victim. Bullying is learned behavior, and what’s learned can be unlearned. They don’t have to continue the cycle. There are a lot of reasons why some people bully. They may see it as a way of being popular, or making themselves look tough and in charge. Some bullies do it to get attention or things, or to make other people afraid of them. Others might be jealous of the person they are bullying. They may be a victim of being bullied themselves. Some bullies may not even understand how wrong their behavior is and how it makes the person being bullied feel. Are you afraid that a kid at school might be dangerous, AND afraid of being called a tattletale? Most schools will protect your privacy. They won't tell who told them. They’re very careful not to. Pretend that you're asking them for change in the cafeteria. Tell people you went to a guidance counselor to talk about your grades. Nobody has to know why you really went to talk to them. Stand strong. Spend time with your friends - bullies hardly ever pick on people if they're with others in a group. You've probably already tried ignoring the bully, telling them to stop and walking away whenever the bullying starts. If someone is bullying you, you should always tell an adult you can trust. This isn't telling tales. You have a right to be safe and adults can do things to get the bullying stopped. Even if you think you've solved the problem on your own, tell an adult anyway, in case it happens again. An adult you can trust might be a teacher, school principal, parent, someone from your family or a friend's parent. If you find it difficult to talk about being bullied, you might find it easier to write down what's been happening to you and give it to an adult you trust.

the only useful thing i have found is to be nice to the person (it weirds them out), and to act like it doesn't bother you. This is very difficult though, as i had a lot of trouble "ignoring" people. Humor also works well, if you can make other people laugh, you are well on your way. If you can find a buddy it will help you to feel less alone as well. Facing the bully with a buddy is half as hard as facing one alone. Good luck, i know i may not have helped other than for you to know you are not alone.

it depends if its verbal than just reply to them like Bully:youre moms a fat cow you know you:i know shes the best