ANSWERS: 11
  • Why was your judgement poor? If he was nice and helpful to you when his friend was an ass that says good things about him. One for helping you and two, because he was willing to do the right thing despite the trouble that may have caused him with his friend. If there is some other reason like he isn't attractive enough or tall enough or something like that give him a chance. Some of the rarest treasurers are buried ones.
  • Tell him you would like to see if that new cream will help clear up your herpes before you get serious with anyone right now. It seemed to knock that syphillus right out but the tingling sensation makes you wander about the affectiveness on large splotchy rashes.
  • Ooops, ha ha. :p Well yeah, he might be confused if you gave him your number then go and tell him that you're not interested. I wouldn't suggest making up a story though, so maybe you can find a nice way to tell him that you used poor judgement? Thanking him for his assistance might help, though chances are he'll see it as a cover up. At this point though, really the only thing to do is be truthful and tell him you're not interested, but still really appreciate what he did, and that you have no real idea why you gave him the number. If you're not interested in him, then his perception of you after said declaration shouldn't bother you too much. Unless you don't mind making up some big story as to why you can't see him, but that would suck. :/
  • So you're saying that you're not willing to give a guy who was helpful and nice a chance, but you were willing to give his jerk of a friend a chance in some instance, then you gave this poor generou soul your number, and you don't want to see the nice guy again. Hmmm, definately confusing, but what you did was wrong, firstly, be aware that the nice guy wasn't being nice, to get your number, but to simply help you, someone he doesn't rally know, out of the kindness of his heart, OK, well you should figure ou what is wrong with yourself an simply explain your logic to this guy, or the alternative is to grow up, lie with the decision you made, and at least hang out with the nice guy once to give him a chance and see how it goes, then come up with a real reason for not hanging out with him again, don't judge people too quickly, and take what you can get, becauause if you'e the kid of person who makes decisions like the one you described, you're in for a very hard and lonely life ahead, no matter how pretty or cool you think you are, and FYI life does't actually work like mtv or desperate housewives. Good luck.
  • Just tell him something like, I have to be honest with you, I was drinking when I gave you my number and I really shouldn't have, you seem like a nice guy, and I want to thank you again for being helpful, but I really don't want to see anyone right now.
  • Sounds rough. I'm sorry you were scared FI and the truth always works. It takes courage and you strike me as a person who has this. I'm with you.
  • Just be honest and sincere. Just tell him that you think he's a really nice person, but that you weren't thinking when you gave out your number because you're not ready for that type of a relationship yet (Something like that). Rejection is a part of life, he's just going to have to deal with it---plain and simple.
  • He called right away??? Oh man... I think Rickster pretty much summed it up for me too.
  • oh no, im sorry this is not (your name here) you must have the wrong number. good luck! *click* now you don't have to worry about him callin you back ;)
  • When you gave him your number, do you remember what you said to him? I'd simply reiterate your gratitude for his stepping in and coming to your aid..that you appreciated it very much. He was a gentleman and you just wanted to thank him again, privately, for his courtesy and kindness to you. I probably would have done the same thing under the circumstances. He seemed like a Knight in Shining Armor. I have a friend who was a waitress at one time..some guys were hassling her and a complete stranger stepped up and got them to stop it..one thing led to another and well, they've been happily married for 12 years! Happy Voting Day! :)
  • next time don't waste his time

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