Is having a three-some, with your spouse's approval and involvement, considered cheating?
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I don't see how it could be if the spouse knows about it. Do I think 3 somes are healthy for a marriage? No. But that wasn't your question.
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I think that the phrase "with your spouse's approval and involvement" would keep it out of the cheating category.
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No, it is not. If the couple both enthusiastically agree with full awareness and understanding of the situation, it is not cheating. If you can prove an agreement to open-marriage, it cannot even be used as adultry for cause of divorce in my state.
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NO I would not say it is cheating , what a couple choose to do behind their bedroom doors is their business as long as both of the partners are agreeable and happy with what they are doing then there can be no problem
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umm, if he is involved then how are you cheating on you. if you want it could be said both of you cheated on each other with the same person at the same time. LOL
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No, i would hardly call it cheating, you have your spouse's approval and involvement. Enjoy !
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No, I would imagine it is consentual cheating and therefore not any grounds for a divorce. If a partner approves and participates in the group sex it's calling "swinging". Personally, I would not agree to such a thing and would suggest my husband get psychiatric help if he suggested it.
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No it's not cheating, but it destroys marriages. I just think anyone who engages in that, is taking a huge risk, because it normally ends in disaster. But, whatever they choose to do, is their business. There seems to be a double standard as well. Men want 2 women, they think that is their fantasy coming true. But I would bet my next paycheck there is not a man out there that would want another man involved, unless he is bi..
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its like when you take a test, its cheating if you look at notes, but its not cheating if your teacher says you can look at your notes..
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Cheating is pretty much when the spouse being cheated on feels betrayed and knew nothing about it...if you spouse in the other hand approves this and is actually involved its not considered cheating... You, may feel different though, you can feel that you cheated even if your mate said it was ok... but to the yes of everone else, is not cheating.
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lol no bc your both agreeing to it, so i dont see it as cheating. some ppl could but i dont see how.
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It is not cheating. Cheating is only cheating when your partner does not know about it and would not approve. If you are both involved then you are swinging. If your partner was not involved but still approved then I would still consider that as not cheating. If you both want to do it - then do it. If either of you are not really happy about it - then be very careful. Sometimes men are all keen on the idea - when it is another man and their wife, but they can then get jealous. Swingingi is very popular so it must work very well for some. What time can I come over?
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I will say one thing regards to some comments of it being cheating when the other partner doesn't know about it; some partner's don't want to 'know' but they do give their approval. 'You can sleep with other women/men but I don't wanna know about it/don't tell me any details'.
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