I'm a 19 yr old female and I can't orgasm. Sex feels amazing and my bf is really good, I can't do it through masturbation either. I'm so frustrated... what are some reasons and how can I overcome this?
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Artmesia; Foreplay and Warm-Up, your body might just need to gear-up. You might begin with thoughts about the person(even when your with them) you going to be intimate with, His body, his breath on your neck, the feel of his hair and his hands ALL over your body(going under your clothes)- your back, ears, sides going to your front(still wearing clothes) and brushing across your breasts giving you shivers and then down your thighs and butt. Laying down you would take your hands and brush across your sholders and down putting a finger gently in and rub(Relax)(perhaps some calm music). Don't rush- perhaps you tense-up when you thing of being close- but Only be intimate with a Guy IF your really into him- like wanna feel his Abs agenst your skin and kiss him holding tight. It's OK- take the time to discover, get some feathers to give yourself chills or some of your favorite candles to help the mood. My Wife gets Randy if I have a Lavender Candle burning without any pre-anything... Be Patient- Explore yourself...(((((HUG)))))...
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A lot of the time it is more of a mental thing than a physical one. You could be thinking about the actual act of orgasm instead of letting yourself feel the moment. This is not uncommon. Many women go through the same thing. Me being a man, I can offer you this much: Experiment, experiment, experiment. You will never know if you can or how you like to orgasm until you find out exactly what you like. That can only come with experimentation. Leave yourself open to trying new things. However, if you still find yourself not able to do it after trying different things, I suggest seeking some professional help. There could be some sort of subliminal mental blockage that's stopping you from reaching your desired climax. You may need to talk with a counselor. Either way, good luck! You're still young and your sex life is really just beginning. I'm 27 and I still feel like my sex life is just beginning. As long as you and your partner keep it interesting, you should eventually be able to orgasm. :)
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Best of luck!!May god bless you with umpteen orgasms in future!!!
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I would see my dr. to be sure there isnt something else going on. If all is normal then relax it will happen eventually.
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