Would things with you and your EX ever work out again?
by 
CincinnatiDrummer
ANSWERS: 29
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No, there was too much damage and hurt for it to ever work again, even if I wanted to try again (especially as I'm remarried now).
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Nope. Not only have both of us remarried, but there was entirely too much water under the bridge.
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If her sister died maybe. Otherwise my ex would just make me puke.
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No, they are exes because it was over.
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I think they would, this time. I really do.
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They are working out right now. As the saying goes "if you love someone let them go, if he/she returns he is yours to keep" or something like that :)
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No, I have moved on and there is no reason to look back. I do wish him well though.
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i dont date exes again
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No :)
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Not even if I wanted them to. I would never take her back...
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No. We stuck a fork in it a few weeks ago. It is done.
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probably not....but I am still friends with ALL of my exes
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Oh hell no!!
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No. I have been with my current girlfriend for about a year now and since that time, all of my exes have moved on. They are all either married, have kids, or in a serious committed relationship right now.
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I would like to hope so. And yes.. I was the one who was dumped.
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Not without her spending a very long time over my knee getting a very severe attitude adjustment.
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I think it would depend on which Ex we were refering to. Some of them have hurt me worse then others. LEts just go with probably not. As I am getting older I am learning that some of the things I allowed myslef to be put through were completly unecessary. Although I am always up to be friends.
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No, I think people become exes for a reason, that being that we see things that just won't work between us. Unfortunately, after time we forget those things or overlook them and think that things could work again, and well usually we end up right back where we beagn... breaking up for the same reasons! Exes are exes for a reason, listen to your instinct or intuition.
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I'll be the optimistic one and say yes! I have faith that we will and that he'll change. He's already showing some improvement and it's shocking to me! I'm like all smiles but I'm changing and becoming better as well, just to be ready for the day :)
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No. I was a different person when I was with him. I was someone who would date a slob. A lazy pig. A little boy in the body of an overweight 25-yr-old. (A fat guy who would eat deep fried chicken tenders every day.) A disabled person who would date someone who only dated disabled women (because he wasn't "good enough" to get the normal ones). A disabled women who couldn't drive and valued him for his ability to do so (even though it was his mother's car). I was a woman who would use sex as a distraction from my miserable life. A woman who was desperate to get away from her family. A woman who would rather be with someone like that, than face the loneliness and utter boredom of being alone. But not anymore!
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No. It would take compromises neither of us would want to make.
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I doubt it. She was quite bitter and I took her to the cleaners in the divorce. I might attend her funeral, just to see what she looked like, but I hope I die first. In my Will, my house and office would be sold. Those proceeds along with any other cash would go to friends (unless I get married again) However, I did provide for a portion to go to my ex wife, exactly one US penny...a penny for her thoughts (because she never adequately explained what was wrong (midlife crisis I guess). She'll be pissed. :)
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Seriously. I promised to never hit her, and I never did. I abhore abuse. However there were many times when she needed a really good spanking. I was too much of a modern man to know it, or to do it.
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The first one, NO. He was verbally and mentally abusive and he got what was coming to him in the long run. The second one, YES. We loved each other deeply and I honestly think he just wasn't ready for me. He just needs to figure his life out and grow up. Once he does that, I truly believe we can at least be friends.
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No and never. I'm too forgone to forgive her for anything.
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I married the same woman twice. So even though I am twice as dumb as the average man, I have to say yes there is always hope to work things out with an ex
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Take it from someone with a lot of experience. It will most likely never work out. If your ex cheated on you, he will do it again. No matter what went wrong the first time, it will defintely happen again. Save yourself another heartache and look elsewhere.
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With my first and third I think it could be worked out again. we are still and now friends. My second I doubt it seriously. she has too many problems...she always accused me of trying to have affairs from the start of our marriage and also accused me of lusting after any woman that crossed my path...I never cheated on her not once during our marriage although after she told me she would take her employment over me any day I did try but without success. in the end she divorced me. It could never work out unless there were some big changes. She did come to visit me one time and it didn't take me long to figure out it would never work between us.
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No, I wouldn't date the ball~less b^stard again!
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