It depends on what the woman wants out of the relationship. If she wants to be with him and want him to feel the same, I think it does matter if she sleeps with him too early. Guys want what they can't have, and if they get it too easy, it makes them not want it as much and less meaningful. Also, if she sleeps with him too early, he may or may not think that she is that way with other men. Also, if she waits, he may try harder and do more in order to earn it, and when he gets it, it will be more meaningful, or victorious. I think waiting will add respect for the woman in the mans eyes.

Hey lost Meli-- First, you need to ask yourself what you want from him. If you just want his body, then get him drunk and take advantage of the guy (he probably won't mind...unless you leave scars- Lol). If you want to date him, if you want him to like you, if you want to have his babies, then relax and give it time. Any guy who's hitting it off with a girl is usually wondering after the first good date how long it'll be before he gets to sleep with her. If you want him to come around after he's already sampled the goods, then you have to make sure that he likes you enough to want to call you. THAT is the key. You'll know that he likes when you've shown him you're whole person and he continues to hang around. Three dinner-and-a-movie-dates is NOT enough time for him to really know you. No matter how great the conversation or how many obscure connections you have, you can't know each other after just hanging out a few times. Maybe you need to get laid and you can't hold out until he really knows you...go ahead and "have" him. But if things don't last long after, you've got no one to blame but yourself. Now, there are exceptions. Maybe he wants to continue having sex with you, and by proximity, he absorbs your personality through osmosis. But I wouldn't put all my eggs in that basket if I were you. Guy's shut off after sex; physically, mentally, and definitely emotionally (alcohol does not change this), it's science. So, the next time you find yourself craving some new man meat, ask yourself what you really want from him, and then come to an educated conclusion. If he's a keeper, he'll wait. After all, you're worth it. Having said THAT---If a man loses respect for you if you sleep with him too soon (whatever that is) then he does not deserve your respect. An intelligent man will not judge you, for he knows to judge you would be to judge himself. ;)) Good luck!

make him wait for it - at least until you get to know what kind of guy he is - unless you just want to....

I am no man but I have a few guy friends that are single and I hear comments made by them like, if she gives it up tonight on our first date then I know she ain't nothing but a ho. So from what I have observed you should wait until he makes a move first def. and then only then if you are ready. Depends on what you want. Every relationship is different. I agree with Sodifficult answer as well.

I really do say there is something about love at first sight. If you give it up on the first few dates that doesnt mean your a ho it means that you are horny, men are born horny, so you both had needs and you basically got what you needed. I really dont think there is any laws about this, but I would throw a guess out there that if you put out in less than 15 minutes there may be some name calling.