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Realize that life goes on. Everything I've seen about you from here says (to me, anyway) that you are a lover of life and happy in your own skin. That is a gift. It's not the same for everyone. Your friend could be feeling things that he/she hasn't even told you about, even though you are best friends. You never know whats going on in another person's head. Your feelings are valid, but they imply that he/she did this deliberately to hurt you. This is not the case, you are collateral damage. Be there for your friend in their time of need, and try to separate your feelings and focus on theirs. It will be difficult, but if you intend to keep this friend, you'll work it out. Good luck and go easy.
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Perhaps you could focus on her pain right now and set your feelings aside for a spell. Its what best friends do. You could try staying with her for a week or so. She'll appreciate your attention, and you'll have something to occupy your mind as well. Axe
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Explain to her that this love passed will only make way for greater love to follow ... It is only by the love we lose that we are able to find the one who will never leave ... Without the stepping stones of love through life, we cannot reach the one love whom awaits us all > who never leaves. A broken heart mends in time > a lost life is never returned ... Perhaps explain to her that her worst decision could cause you and the most important people in her life a worse pain than she feels now ... If I was close > Explain to her > I Moto would surely take her out to show her > other great people (guys) are plentyful and capable of a stronger love through friendship or more. If it helps any? and I can help more > You can ask her to email me if need be. Goodluck! > You are indeed a great friend.
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Personally? This shouldn't come as a shock to you, but I watch a movie. Usually a comedy that I know makes me laugh. Hasn't failed me yet. Or I make a plan to take on a new project and I start on it. Usually a new short film. I find I'm happiest when I'm ultra busy.
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Hi Happy, I don't have any words of wisdom to deal with a difficult situation like this. Maybe what I can do is at least get one giggle out of you... ;)
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