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did you tell him this bothers you and give examples so he knows what you are referring to?
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i hope all works well with you cuz it was a struggle for me and 6years later im gettinga divorce...
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if its consistant (not putting you first) then I wouldnt expect it to change.... im not saying divorce, I think the reason so many people get divorced is they are so quick to quit and arent willing to work hard to make it work... I would either try to talk to him about it and if that doesnt work go to counseling... if he truly cares about you he will be willing to work it out
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why would you marry someone that has never wanted to put you first? Weren't those some red flags? are you young?
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You mean you're only just getting around to asking this?
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My ex-wife was like that to me: ended in divorce. Now I am married again and have found that there will always be things that aren't perfect, so don't give up too fast. Talk about it and if he is genuinely concerned he will put in effort. But don’t let him forget as he could easily slide back into the same habit. It is probably part of his genes, but can be controlled.
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If he's been like that the whole time why in the world did you marry him? And from the sounds of it only after dating him for only a year and a bit? I am thinking you jumped in too soon without working out relationship problems first. You have to talk to him, maybe seek couples therapy... but if he's never put you first and you still married him he's probably not going to see any reason to change. You got you, you're his, he probably isn't going to see any consequences to not changing.
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Find someone else.
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Obviously he has always been this way and you accepted it because you married him , why do you want to change him now?
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The question is what should you have done? This issue should have been resolved before you married the guy. Its a little late now to try and change the way he treats you.
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