Uhm I'll be the first to answer this and I'll be blunt. No sorry. I don't think this is shallow just you can't develope a relationship with someone who you aren't physically attracted to.

I'm sure that appeals to a few men, however; they are few and far between. I like women slim and slender.

Absolutely, i much prefer women with shape and curves. I am not into the wafer skinny look thanks.

Believe it or not, I think its often also SOMETHING to do with personality etc. My husband adores me. I'm a size 14 (aus) and he has dated women that were bigger than me before, and also women that were a lot smaller. He is skinny, but I'd still love him if he wasn't. He is my best friend, my lover and everything else, and none of that would change if I gained 10kg, or lost 10kg. So it shouldn't be about whether they find you sexy, it should be about whether you find yourself sexy and what good personality traits you have.

size is not an indicator of how sexy a woman is, indeed, I have found that women with curves are often much sexier than slim women. I'll go with the curves thank you.

When I met my man I was a size 7, now I'm a size 16. He is still very attracted to me (you can't fake this, if you know what I mean) but I know he wants my hip bones back. And I am working on getting them back for him. The moral here is, if you find a man who loves you, your weight won't matter, but you should want to be your best for the one you love anyway.

Dress size doesn't matter... Beauty and attraction are in the mind. I had a girlfriend once who was so bony we both ended up with bruises. :-)

Sure, but not morbidly obese. I like woman with a little meat. i dont like nor do i think wafer thin girls are healthy.

I'm a UK size 16, American 12/14, and I have to say that I've always felt very good about my curves. I think it's a persons attitude that makes them sexy.

Some do. Often, I believe that one looks for a reflection of "self" in others; some sort of validation to what one believes/wants to believe about himself. If one believes that only a "thin" woman supports/validates his story/image then his attraction will follow that image.

I think larger woman have more to love, no pun intended. More to hold on to and just more to offer than a girl who is skin and bones. I like the curves personally. This is all second place to personality though!

ooh it's great to hear from all the guys on this topic...im alittle over weight...i call it the post baby weight,,my partner also says that he like's a little curve's...it makes a girl feel great that she does'nt have to live up to the standards of the girls in the magazine's...or starve our selve's....thanx guy's it's put a great big smile on my face and boosted my confidence :)

I'm a size 11, and I've never ever had a problem with men. I'm extremely curvious and have a naturally portuational body.. I was very lucky! Hour glass! But a man lovesss meat.. Leave the bones for the dogs!! I have a big butt, a little in the middle, big thighs and boobs and my man ADORRRESS IT.. he drools, and hes 'hot' in the typical world.. He has the body and the looks of a model, people honestly think he's a calvin klein models.. and he hates bones that show on girls.. and he loves the MEAT.. So the typical guy doesn't only like skinny.. which I thought, I thought I had no chance in hell to get my current bf.. but I was wrong! soo if your confident.. and love yourself..thats whats really shows though.. YOUR CONFIDENT.. if you carry and dress yourself well.. you'll be BREATH TAKING.. size 2 or 20!

There's a huge market for Big Beautiful Woman (BBW).

its not about the size of the chick...it's about the proportion of the chick... a size 14 on a chick who is 4'11 is not the same as a size 14 on a chick who is 5'10.

absolutely my wif is an 18 she is very sexy see www.myspace.com/hisyounglove

I do my ex wife was a size 18 when we met and was a 24/26 when we seperated and eventually divorced and not it wasn't because of her size it was because she met so many men on the internet who gave her a big head and she thought I wasn't attractive enough for her anymore

I do my ex wife was a size 18 when we met and was a 24/26 when we seperated and eventually divorced and not it wasn't because of her size it was because she met so many men on the internet who gave her a big head and she thought I wasn't attractive enough for her anymore

I do my ex wife was a size 18 when we met and was a 24/26 when we seperated and eventually divorced and not it wasn't because of her size it was because she met so many men on the internet who gave her a big head and she thought I wasn't attractive enough for her anymore

I do my ex wife was a size 18 when we met and was a 24/26 when we seperated and eventually divorced and not it wasn't because of her size it was because she met so many men on the internet who gave her a big head and she thought I wasn't attractive enough for her anymore

I am a size 18/20 and have never had an issue on men thinking I am sexy. My husband prefers my curves and wouldn't have it any other way! A womans confidence makes her sexy, not her size.

It depends on the guy. For me its not the size of the girl its proportion. If you a size 14 with a big but and no boobs or huge boobs and no but it doesn't work for me. If you've got butt and boobs that match then its on.

different men like different things, myself i prefer slim redheads, but... the GM at my job is a large, voluptuous blond who looks like the Valkyrie in an opera and she is pretty hot too. beauty is a very complex blend of physical and mental effects that vary from viewer to viewer.

To answer your question. Think about it this way. Look at the Greek and Roman statues and classic art. That is when strait men decided what was attractive i.e.; women with a "womanly shape" and now with a multi-billion dollar fashion biz run by mainly homosexual men we see skinny women with bodies of pre-adolescent boys in women’s clothing. So my question would be is who would you like to gain attention from gay men or strait ones. I am a fan of the classics my self. I love women not a-sexual drag queen types.

what is a woman without boobs and hips.The bigger the better but must have a pretty face. I met a hotel receptionist in germany who must be 5'10" and weighting around 90 Kgs.very fair and nice features.I felt an extreme desire to make love to her although I am just 5'5" and weight 70 Kgs.

I'm 6ft tall with huge boobs and about a size 16-18. I'm only 19 but I don't look that big and guys never have a problem being attracted to me. I do intend to lose weight but only so I feel more healthy. For now I'm gunna live it up being happy the size I'am. If a guy looks at a girl and has a problem with her weight then they're shallow bastards.. and us girls deserve better. Girls on TV are small enough and even smaller off screen.. It's too thin. Bone structure has alot to do with it aswell. A woman wasn't created to look like a pole, more like a curvy beauty.. =] It's all about confidence so no-one should let other oppinions change the way they feel about themselves and it won't brush off onto other people. Be happy and accept the way you are, and you'll shine through to others.. All the men I know don't like skinny women. It's not in their makeup to be attracted so all the men that do like extremely skinny girls are just control freaks and need to feel that they have power over the girls. Some men are insecure about their size and prefer smaller girls aswell. There's so much to it but overall. It's self acceptance and confidence that makes us shine so we can live healthy lives. Men that matter like curves and women that aren't just skinny poles..

I think size has nothing to do with being sexy. If a woman is comfy with how she looks then she can be as sexy as she wants.

Yes i do bigger is sexy for me :)

You bet! Size 10 to 18 is perfect for me, not any more and not any less. Size 0??? Yuck!

yes indeed, sexy is more than just "looks"