What do you do when your s/o "fights dirty" & throws things in your face to make you feel bad? Do you fight back?
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snakelover
ANSWERS: 7
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Depending on where you are living, you fight back by him moving out or you do. You've been through too much shit snakelover.
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Refuse to play into the game! If you refuse to participate, and continue to stand your ground silently rather than going down to that level, the s/o will not be in control of the situation anymore. Sounds like s/o is on a power trip...
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well my s/o never fights dirty. its not a nice thing to do, what you/he did in the past should stay there if he cant accept it or move on from it maybe he shouldnt have forgiven you in the 1st place. in a relationship no1 should make the other 'feel bad' as if there is a reason to feel guilt im sure you dont need him or any1 2 tell you too. remember 2 wrongs dont make a right. if it happens tell him that he is being hurtful and unreasonable
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Don't drop to his/her level. Set some standards for discussions at a time when you are both calm and do your very best to stick with them.
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You should tell him to grow the hell up and stop trying to manipulate and mindf*ck you into feeling like everything is your fault. Two adults are perfectly capable of having a discussion or even debate about issues without resorting to emotional and mental abuse. Emotional and mental abuse is JUST as damaging as physical abuse. If he is incapable of having an adult and civil discussion with you, then refuse to speak to him until he has grown up a little. Don't participate in his childish games. Be the bigger person.
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If i know im not at fault and he's trying to make me feel bad, i bring up everything bad that he does on a daily basis to shut him up.
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but of course..that's what i would have done
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