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How can I muster enough to leave?
You are not really clear whether it was your husband who humiliated you or his lover's husband (and WHY would you ever listen to him?). But whatever. IF you are going to make it work, then you need to be able to process it all, IF you are to process it, you will need to be able to talk to your husband about it for AS LONG AS NECESSARY.
Suggest you seek couple therapy - if he's that committed...
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For people who have gone to the Untied Kingdom or who live there. What are some good and fun night clubs.
In ALL of the United Kingdom? That's a little like asking if you know any good nightclubs in the United States of America.
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Girls: what was going through your mind when you lost your virginity and a penis slid inside you for the first time?
Pervy troll
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Should offensive criticism of religions be banned?
Nope. Religion should be banned. Anything that encourages people to fantasize about reality in a way that could give them permission to start killing people, a holy war, Armageddon, etc., should be outlawed.
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How to put an end to being horny.
masturbation
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wife and i are very shy when it comes to talking about sex, need help on how to approach her about we can open up.
Start slow and ease her into a short and playful discussion about something you'd like to do.
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If a guy|girl leaves u because ure "too horny",does that make sense?
Sexual compatibility is very important. If you are going to spend the rest of your life with someone, it's a good idea to find someone with a similar sex drive. Imagine that you want sex everyday, and you marry someone who is happy having sex once a month. Neither of you is going to be happy. No, sex is not all there is in a relationship, but it's pretty important. It can't "make" a...
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Would a man who is curious about male bisexuality only perform oral sex on a woman with very large breasts?
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When I see someone who is more talented in something than I am, I totally lose my confidence. Why?
When you compare yourself to others it will make you both vain and bitter. There will always be greater and lesser people than yourself - so it's a no-win situation. Comparison is odious. Embrace yourself for all the wonderful qualities that make up the package called you and embrace others for the exact same reason.
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Has anyone commited suicide before? And what way did you try it? Was it by yourself or with someone else?
Yes, I killed myself about 6 years ago. I was alone, in a car. I used a vacuum cleaner hose connected to the tailpipe of my car, into the passenger window. The car was running and I was duct taping up the gaps in the window. I don't think I managed to finish before I passed out. Other than the stink and the coughing, I think it was really effective. It didn't take me long to die, and by the...
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My wife once asked me if I would ever cheat on her. I replied that i would if it was Shania Twain but added that she would only need to give me the nod and it would be all over. The question is. Would you describe that as cheating or not.
Would I describe fantasizing about Shania Twain "cheating"? or would I describe having sex with Shania Twain with your wife's permission "cheating"? in both cases, NO. (your question is kinda unclear)
Cheating is about having an understanding or assumption about sexual exclusivity, then going out and breaking that without your partner's consent. It does not bleed into one's fantasy life, nor...
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How hard do you spank your sons? Hard enough to leave stripes and welts. Enough to leave a cherry red butt. Enough to leave a pink butt what
Can you say "kinky"?
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At what age should you start curbing "naked time"? My daughter is 4 (almost 5) and it's starting to bother my husband a little. I always ask her to wear her underwear...she's inside her own home, NEVER outdoors, so I don't see what the big deal is.
Hey there
I read the other answers and comments and here's something you might want to explore for his peace of mind, and for your daughter's safety. Don't blow your top here - there is no judgement.
Ask him if it's possible that part of his discomfort has a sexual edge to it. There are men who have been socialized to only associate the naked female as a sexual image. This really creates...
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who here would kill his girlfriend and the person that they were cheating with and then throw them in the river outside? I NEED ANSWERS FAST
I think only the psychopaths here would do that. Or, perhaps the sociopaths.
Dude, you should seek therapy to deal with your anger issues.
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how do i ask my friend if he wants to try anal sex???? we are both straight,but we have given eachother head and handjobs.
Right, you're not straight - either of you. I wouldn't even guess you were bi. I would say you are both gay, and you should get some advice and counselling before you continue your sexual relationship - cause you also sound pretty young. I hope you live in a big city and can find a place to get help and support.
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More men will pay for sex than women. Is it because some women want it with a special person? Most men and women have strong sex drives. I do know women who would pay for sex and I know men who just want it with someone special. So I guess it's not a gend
Almost all sex workers are for male clients. Even the men - they're called rent boys and their clients are men. Why? because women can usually get all the sex they want for free, and women, typically, want to have sex within some kind of relationship (realise that I am generalizing here). Men, on the other hand are generally goats, who want to have sex, often unfettered, uncomplicated sex.
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My wife said she was "turned on" after viewing an email from her friend that had pictures of 80 half naked women showing off their boobs, asses, thongs, ect. She has a libido issue so this surprised me. Is she lying? If not, what do you think it means?
Why would she lie, and how would we know if she was some kind of freak who would lie about something so meaningless?
Maybe she's a dyke, maybe she's bisexual, maybe she just gets turned on by nudity. If by "a libido issue" you mean she has a low libido, then you just might want to find a way of using this "turn on" to spark things up. Don't be a dolt and start feeling all inadequate.
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I think my friend saw my girlfriend naked naked...
I think you will have to kill him. Don't bother talking to him, since he will probably lie anyway, and you know, men who see a woman naked, especially a woman who is walking around a shared apartment, where there are other people, naked, they all have to be either killed or turned into stags. You know, like the Greek myth.
You're being an idiot.
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Me,my wife talked about doing more she wanted to wait a month,we have but how do i bring it back up in the right way, without sounding pushy
you talked about doing more . . . what?
I am gonna assume here that you're talking about frequency of sexual relations. You want sex more often, she want's it . . . what, twice a year?
You will need to give more information if you really want some advice. But I would say - you're going to have to risk sounding "pushy". But better sounding pushy than being pushy, right?
If you are not...
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i was wondering Can u get prego by swallowin sperm? i said no and my sisters said yeah what do yall think?
I think this is the problem with "abstinence" education people. If there are any parents out there, please go out and tell your children about the basics of human reproduction. Any reproduction actually.
You and your sister should go to your parents and ask them, nay beg them, to educate you. If you are too shy or afraid, then go to Planned Parenthood at talk to a counselor. The very idea...
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What does this mean?! His reaction was weird!
I think you are asking the wrong people. Maybe he was really excited? nervous? Only he would know the answer.
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I want my wife to sleep with other men, even strangers, but she isnt into it. what can i do?, has anybody ever been in this situation before
It's called a cuckolding fantasy - google it and read all about it.
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What should I do with the fact that my fourteen your old son may have got his fourteen year old girlfriend pregnant .
*shrug*
What you should have done was instruct him about birth control and sexuality. What you should have done was cultivate an open and honest relationship with him so that once he started dating you could help him navigate the tricky world of teenage relationships. What you should have done is keep closer tabs on him so that he and his GF did not have hours of unsupervised time together...
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Im now wondering what causes some people to lose their natural aversion to sexual stuff? We all start out innocent and pure especially women
You haven't always been disgusted by sex. That is in no way a "natural" reaction. I would suggest that you may want to unpack your disgust and figure out what happened to you that has caused you to believe that sex is dirty, disgusting and dangerous.
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You are in a relationship with someone whom you have a deep love for, would you say there is a problem if there is no sexual intimacy?
There are all kinds of relationships that do not involve sexual intimacy. Friendships, parental, sibling, etc. If you have never been sexually intimate with the person, then I would say you were friends, and you may well love them deeply, but your relationship is not one that would be commonly described as an "intimate" relationship.
If on the other hand, as I suspect, you have been sexually...
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What can I do to make my Boyfriend want to come home to ME?
How old are you? How long have you been together? What is the nature of your commitment?
These details help in the consideration of a good response. My guesses are:
a)young
b)not long
c)not much
In which case, I would tell you there are plenty and I mean PLENTY more fish in the sea. Women are brainwashed to believe that any guy in clean underwear is a catch. It's not true, and there are...
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What is the difference between Intelligence and Knowledge?
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Does mastaurbation make your penis not grow
No. Someone is telling you fables to scare you off of masturbating. Masturbation is a perfectly healthy activity with no negative impact on your health or well-being. In fact there is some evidence that men who masturbate to orgasm frequently have less risk of testicular and prostrate cancer. Keep that spunk fresh!
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How do I lick my girlfriends breasts?
goin out on a limb here, but I would say - with your tongue.
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I'm 6.1 Inches In Length And 4.8 In Girth, Is This A Good, Bad Or Small Penis Size For A 19 Year Old?
Bad news for you - you are longer than average. (Average being 5.1–5.9 in in length and 4.85 in girth)
Oh, the bad news? women whose partners have smaller than average dicks report greater sexual satisfaction. Guys with small members try harder, perhaps.
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If you have been with a man 7 years & for the past 3 years you have only had sex twice & you get turned down always. What do you do?
Ask him what the fuck is up. Tell him you won't live in a sexless relationship, that he may want to live without, but you don't. Then you give him the choice to either go to therapy to work it out, start putting out in hope he gets his groove back, or let you seek something on the side (if you want to stay with him for other reasons).
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what is it legal to do sexually if im 14 and shes 14?
You should check the laws of your jurisdiction - they differ from state to state and from country to country.
There are all kinds of ways you can enjoy sex together if you are both wanting to and it's legal and safe to do so, without vaginal intercourse. The only reason I would advise against vaginal intercourse is that no matter what kind of birth control you use, there is a risk of...
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location crank position sensor
38° 53' 53.3" north
77° 02' 09.9" west
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How does one make a comeback from a bad breakup?
One takes a break from dating, takes up a few new hobbies, gets lots of exercise (to deal with the lack of sex) reconnects with friends, grieves over the loss of the mate, and, over time, develops an understanding of what went wrong, takes one's share of the responsibility for the problems and moves on.
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Why am I attracting bad relationships ?
Without more info it's hard to answer your question. What makes your relationships "bad"?
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What does it mean when a guy tells a woman that he likes her more than a friend?
I love you more than unicorns!
Don't be a retard, what do you think it means? Sheesh, youth is wasted on the young.
Okay, here it is. It means that he likes her more than a friend and would like the relationship to become sexual. He says it that way because he wants to know if the woman feels the same way and is interested in exploring something more intimate. Unlike another answer here, I...
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When having sex with my boyfriend, whom I love, Im worried what he might think and cant stop. Help.
What are you worried about what he's thinking? That you're boring? That you're smelly? what? Talk to him and tell him what it is that you're worried about. What's the worst that can happen? He'll say "yeah, I am thinking about how boring the sex is" Then you can BOTH do something to fix it. yay!
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is it dangerous to insert plastic in the vagina?( like instead of a condom)
I take it you mean like Saran-wrapping his cock, rather than using a condom??
I wouldn't say it's "dangerous" unless you call getting pregnant or an STD a danger.
Condoms are frankly pretty high-tech devices intended for fitting over a cock and preventing the passage of sperm, bacteria and viruses. Saran wrap, on the other hand is intended to keep your food fresh in the fridge.
Tell him to...
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can people have sex with cats? such as: lick womens pussys?
Yes, animals can be trained for many things.
And you didn't ask but, yes, it's wrong. Animals can be trained to do these things, but it's wrong to use them for sex, since they have no ability to consent to sexual acts.
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I want to recieve anal sex, how do l do this without going to hell or getting a disease? Where do l go to find the guy?
I don't think you go to hell for anal, but maybe you believe in some fucked up religion.
Disease prevention for anal is called "safe sex" and if you visit your local Family Planning outlet, you can probably get info on that. Heck, if you google "safe sex" you can probably get loads of information. The basic idea being no genital to genital contact and no swapping of bodily fluids.
Where do...
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Why do ladies prefer to facesit when receiving oral from their man? Is it a control thing?
Uh, what's your sample size? I don't know anyone who prefers to "facesit", and with all the guys who have gone down on me, not one has said "wow, what a treat, someone who lets me be on top".
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what are rules for staring at women at the gym. too the point that his face turns red and he doesnt blink or smile. he just stares hard.
That's creepy, and you should tell him so. If he doesn't stop, then tell the people who run the gym.
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Do you think the earthquake in Haiti was a natural disaster or a man-made act of terrorism? See: http://manmadeearthquake.lookera.net
Conspiracy theorists make me chuckle. If you have ANY experience in government at all, you would have a clue how hard it is to get two analysts to agree to any plan of action, never mind whole departments, or sections. If they would agree to a plan of action, their ability to execute it AND keep the whole thing secret is beyond belief. NOT to say that people in government are incompetent. It's...
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Do you think the earthquake in Haiti was a natural disaster or a man-made act of terrorism? See: http://manmadeearthquake.lookera.net
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I just had a break up and i m feeling blue ...... i want to suicide what should i do?
Stop being a drama queen (or king) and suck it up.
Everyone feels shitty after a break-up. You'll get over it. Killing yourself is the most stupid selfish thing you can do, and you won't feel better, or affect her life. What you will do is destroy forever the lives of the people who really love and care for you - your parents, your siblings, your grandparents and the rest of your family.
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What if your ex left you a Facebook message saying "a plague be upon thee vile seductress wench, and a plague upon thy future generations"?
Damn, that would be awesome. I love the idea of being a vile seductress wench. I would think the guy is cool, and would probably try to seduce him again!
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Are you debating on leaving because of the "new" AB?
Sucks mightily. None of my "friends" (who were long time users) have any recent activity, and this is the first time I have been on since the changes. I likely won't be back too often. There are a lot of new users who will come and play, and AB is simply in it for the $$. What to they care about loyalty?
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i realy like this one guy in my school we talk and stuff but i dont know hes a senior i am a freshman. what should i do??
Learn to spell and write well - that will take you farther, make you happier, wealthier and more fulfilled than any guy.
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For black and white couples... What is a good name for a boy and a girl of a mix baby?
Chocolate milk
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____________ is for wimps.
Healthcare
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If your a guy and a girl tells you that they love you before you tell her is that ok? Or should the girl wait for the guy to say it first?
People are SO ignorant, there are absolutely rigid RULES that govern love and relationships. Para A, Section 3, subsection 56 of the Book of Love states as follows:
"The male is required to say "I love you" first. If the female says it first, the entire relationship contract is considered null and void and you will have to begin again at the first date, but only after a period...
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Is it better to have children in your 20's or 30's?
Late 20s to early 30s. Having things in common, being a good parent and having the energy to do things with your kids and your grand kids has more to do with the person than the age. There are a lot of people who are starting families in their 40s, and they will have different advantages, probably more patience and greater financial stability.
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I am a very shy girl around guys but of course when u drink its a different story lol..i put myself out there especially for this one guy. i know i will b drunk n he might be there i want to do something but i dont want it to be awkward any help?
Wait til you're a grown up.
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I met this really nice man upon a dating website hes 46 and im 17 nearly 18 is it wrong?
Yes, yep, si, oui, indeed, absolutely, positively, without a doubt. Not only wrong, but if he is trying to meet you, or already has, AND he knows your age, you should probably report him to the police. Now.
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Is it against the bible for black and white marriges?
People are stupid (or smart) and use the bible to justify many many things. They use it to justify their prejudices, their belief in God, their thoughts, their decisions, etc., etc., it's quite problematic. But if you want to see if IT'S REALLY IN THE BIBLE (not that it should matter anyway, since the bible does permit us to sell our daughters into slavery, and stone to death people...
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True or false, lingerie makes a great gift?
Wasn't so great for my dog. USED underwear are preferred and only cotton.
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If your best friend told you they were in love with your S/O what would you do first?
Sometimes you just can't help who you fall in love with.
I would appreciate her honesty, and assume she was telling me not because she wants to act on her feelings, but because she wants me to know what's going on and engage my help.
So, I would talk with her and help her to understand her feelings around the situation (cause she gotta be really conflicted!) and see if we...
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This guy im casually seeing has an empty house.he told me he has gotten a key cut for the house for me.why do you think he is giving me a key?
Cause he's married, and wants you to use the house as a love nest. Surprise him and use it with someone else!
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My friend (a girl) called Jesus a fag as a joke. I blew up. I called her every mean name I could think of. Am I wrong? Should I apologize? I feel I should, but don't really want to.
yep, you're a jerk.
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Does anyone here want Jesus to return? I don't because think about how many holy wars started by him merely bringing peace. Now when he returns he is going to kill the atheists, the gays, the Jews, and all the non-believers and send them to Hell.
There's that loving god thing again. Crazy isn't it how contemporary Christians confuse Jesus, God, the God of the Old Testament?
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Why do so many atheists hang out in the Christian catagories?
Because we're looking for a coherent discussion that supports Christianity.
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I just found out my bestfriend has brain cancer she 16 and we both rele care about each other i found out two days ago i'm still in the emotionless shook state is that normal and how do i talk to her about it?
Meet up with her, sit her down and apologise for being a dope. Tell her that you have no idea what to do to help her, or how to talk to her about it, but that you love her and want to be able to support her, and most of all you want to continue being her friend. She's gonna feel really weird and is dealing with her own shit, and won't know what to expect from her friends. Because of...
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Ok, I am seeing this guy. He is great, and possibly someone i could see myself with for a while.The thing is, he is Native American and Puertorican, and in my parents eyes, Black.What should i do i want to be with him, but I dont want to lose my family?
The question is, What should you do with your family and how do you address their racist attitudes?
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I'm trying to delete a file but my computer won't let me. It says I need permission, permission for what? I'm the administrator. How do I delete it?
What's the file?
If it's a data file, it could be read-only, or otherwise protected. In windows, right click on the file and check out the properties. That may help solve your mystery.
It could also be a virus, trojan, or some other kind of malware. If you google the name you may find some information on it.
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If you had a choice of dating someone who was healthy emotionally, versus someone with bipolar or depression, all other things being equal, who would you prefer?
Someone with bipolar or depression is mentally ill, not emotionally ill, so your comparison is off. If however, you are asking if, all else being equal, I would rather date someone who is mentally ill or mentally well, umm, then I don't think I need to answer that. It's like asking whether I prefer to date someone who is physically healthy or chronically ill. Why would anyone choose...
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How can a man please a woman without touching her( with anything) in the bed room?
Leave her to sleep
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What did/would you say after you lost your virginity?
I thought we were having popcorn with the movie.
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How hard is Harry Potter in Your opinion?
Depends on whether his wand is in his hand.
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The guy I have a crush on is visiting prostitutes. What should I do?
Go with him?
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How much of a debt do we owe to veterans?
It's an interesting question, and one that I am sure will get all the flag-draped patriots drooling. Anyway that should offer up a less than wholly respectful and embracing response will get DR-ed.
But I think people go to war for all kinds of reasons, some because they get off on the idea of killing, some because they want to feel powerful, some because they can't otherwise find...
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Can you give a 3 year old Xopenex HFA and then also children's mucinex
Ask your Doctor.
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Do you believe in fate or is life just a bunch of unrelated random occurances?
I don't believe it's either. There are random occurrences for sure, but most things that happen are related to things that happened before. For instance, if you hadn't asked this question, I would not be typing this answer. I may have instead gone downstairs for a hot chocolate, tripped and broken my neck. Gee you saved my life! Thanks.
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How can i talk to my mom with out arguing with each all the time? we argue over about silly little things and never lets it go! what can i do to make her shut up and listen?
I understand that you are saying you and your mother argue a lot and it makes you feel frustrated. You wish she would shut up and listen to you.
However, people tend to not let go of something if they feel their point is not being heard. If you wish to be understood by your mother, seek first to understand her. Demonstrate to her that you understand her point of view by acknowledging you...
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Have you ever dated a guy who always needed his mothers approval about anything?
I think everyone cares what their parents think. We would all love to have mutually caring and respectful relationships with our parents, and if that's the case, then I would think someone would seek out a parent's support on big decisions. But to seeking "approval" is somehow different. . .
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Ive been a loner through out my childhood and was picked on by everyone. Do you think It could be the same for the rest of my life? People seem the same to me.
The trick is to find a place where you are wanted and needed for your skills. I wonder if you have ever been diagnosed with Asperger's. Children with this disorder tend to be bully targets because they just don't fit in and have a very different way of processing information than the rest of the world.
One entrepreneur (don't remember where) has created a company where a...
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What are some good ways to get back a girl that has dumped you?
Great success and happiness is always the best revenge.
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How long is elvis dEAD AND HOW OLD IS HES EX WIFE PRISILLA NOW
Priscilla, born in 1945, would weigh in at 64 years OF AGE. ELVIS IS DEAD FOR THE REST OF TIME.
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I caught my little brother stealing money from my mom's purse. I made him put it but I'm wondering if I should tell my mom? I was also thinking about making him tell her; which one is better?
Here's another solution.
Sit him down and give him the talk. Let him know that what he did was very wrong, that giving into temptation like that would break something very precious - trust. When someone's family stops trusting them, that is a very bad place to be. Explain it that way, so you are sure he understands the link between him satisfying a momentary desire and the long term...
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Can you wear a but plug all day my girl friend wants me to stick one inside of her while we have sex
so, you're planning on having sex all day? I don't get it. But hey, whatever works.
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Due to husbands abuse I am now paying hospital bills, how can he be held responsible
Call the police and file a complaint.
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I weigh like 250 pounds and im in a size 16-17 in pants
my boyfriend says i have a beautiful face but if id lose some weight id be drop dead gorgeous.should i be mad?should i find a guy who likes me the way i am?
Sounds like he likes you as you are (he is your boyfriend after all) and appreciates your many attributes, but thinks you should lose some weight. At 250 pounds, unless you're seven feet tall, you are fat, if you are under 6'6", you are obese, and if you are average height (5'6"), you are morbidly obese. You risk all manner of health problems including type-two...
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Something you might find in the dessert
Chocolate (wondering how long it will take for Certified to get it) ("IT" being either the error, or the fish s/he seeks to hook)
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Do you believe that abstinence is the "right" thing to do?
I love Bill Maher's take on Abstinence : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e24fYOXzk1I&NR=1
Too funny. So, trumpet your abstinence but know that it's totally unrealistic.
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My friend is coming over for the weekend. He always likes to take me to watch women dance nearly naked. I just feel like an old pervert going to places like that. I am 43. The women are usually in their twenties. How do I tell him I do not want to go?
There's an amazing conspiracy amongst men about porn, strip clubs etc. Rare is the man who will stand up and say "It's just not my thing at all". I worked in a 100% male environment (excepting me), where some guys thought it was okay to post porn on the walls. As the only woman, I had other battles to fight. Finally when management made the decision to "sensitize"...
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Tell me why I don't like Mondays? I don't like, I don't like, I don't like Mondaaays, hey hey.
Totally off topic here, but you commented on my "not feeding the dog - give me points" post (which has since been yanked) saying the hardest way to get points was to put up a question asking for points.
In fact, over the past two days I posted two questions asking for points. Combined they received almost 100 points before being yanked. Try scoring that with two answers.
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Do all atomic motions stop at Absolute Zero?
All molecular motion stops at absolute zero. In theory.
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I really want to talk to and get to know this girl where i work but im afraid of talking to her because i am the security guard at the place she stays at once a week. not professional to hit on her when she jus want to get to her place. what do i do?
Can you talk to her and get to know her without "hitting on her"? Some guys have a problem doing that, seeing a woman or approaching a woman from a non-sexual angle. It's a pity really, cause it would allow you to get to know her a little without making either of you uncomfortable. If it turns out you really do want to date her, find another job and then tell her why you changed...
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Since I have nothing to offer women, would it be a good idea to prepare myself for a life of perpetual lonliness?
Well, given that you think all white women are bitches (saw your response in another thread) I would suggest buying a poor Asian woman and bringing her home to be your life-long mate. However, from what I understand, once you dress them up and feed them a bit, those mail-order brides can become pretty bitchy.
Or you could try men. But I hear they can be bitches too.
Last suggestion, get...
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I'm feeling generous and I want to flap my fairy wings and shower someone with points since I won't be on all weekend. Who wants em?
Don't know if you're still feeling generous, but I have loads of neglected Q and A that could use a sprinkling.
Cheers!
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I give max points to all who answer my questions and to all questions I answered. Does it mean I'm a Point Fairy?
Nope, I would say what makes you a point fairy is that you randomly give points to discussions of which you are not a part.
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If I pass out free points would you want any?
yep!
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Are kids ever too old to get a good night kiss and be tucked in?
I don't think so. For my kids it's the time for a quiet chat. They are in their 20s now, and living on their own, and when they are around, they usually go to bed way later than I do, but if there is an occasion where they go to bed an I am still up, I will usually pop in to say good night (only after knocking, of course)! My son will still ask me to rub his head, like I did since he...
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How many proposals of marriage have you had in your lifetime?
Three, none of which were of any interest to me, unfortunately.
I did get married once before, but he didn't propose.
Now, I want to get married to my current guy, but he doesn't believe in marriage, and once we live together we'll be married in his eyes, so I don't see any proposal forthcoming from him.
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Is keeping the wrapper from a sandwich a girl ate considered stalking? She did drop it in a public trash can, and it was on the rim, not actually in there with the other trash.
Okay, now I know you're joking
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I miss my ex terribly today. I just want to call him, but I'm sure he's with his new girl (of 3 weeks) having fun and I will just look like a needy loser. I know I should just distract myself, but I can't get him out of my head. so sad. :( what to do?
You know what to - distract yourself, but not by spending time in front of your computer. Call a friend right now, make plans to do something fun. Go.
Now.
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Ok in high school i have this girl that everytime we pass by in the hall she either says hi or asks for a hug we only know each other from the hall way and dont have any classes together so why could she all of a sudden have an interest in me
I would say she would know better than we would. Ask her.
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Is having your status on myspace as single the same as having a profile on an adult website?
Nope, not at all. But if you're in a relationship it could be a problem with your partner.
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My 9 year old daughter has become very passive agressive, ignoring my requests. She gets angry very quickly and is starting to have an "attitude with me." How do I talk to her and avoid conflict.Let her know Ilove her and how do i discipline her?
Well, firstly, conflict may or may not happen, but that's okay. Could it be your desire to avoid conflict that has created in her the passive aggressive attitude? Perhaps there are unsolved issues that she needs to work out, but conflict avoidance has taught her to hide her feelings. Just a thought.
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Why does my dog chew her bedding and how do I stop her from doing it? I have two other dogs and toys, she also does this when I'm home.
Sounds like she needs to get out more. Dogs chew out of boredom. several walks of 15 minutes per day are better than one long one, and for people who use the back yard as their way of taking their dog out, well, that just doesn't work. They need the stimulation of the different smells, other (non-familiar) dogs, sights and sounds they get on a walk.
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My partner uses me to get our two year old son to behave as in " be good or I will get Daddy!" I think he is starting to see me as a scary figure, she says not to be so stupid, what do you think?
Think you should both go to parenting classes together. It will help you arrive at an agreed approach.
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I purposely beat my son's boastful, little 9 year-old friend in an armwrestling match last weekend, to "teach him a lesson", but now he wants a re-match. I'm surprised and not sure what to do. What do you recommend?
Accept his challenge on the condition that he not re-challenge you for a year should you win. Beat him again and say "see ya in a year".
I never "let" my kids win anything, not even board games. By the time my son was 8 he was beating me in chess.
They are both strong, independent individuals pursing university degrees. When we have time together we still play games...
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I have problems with larger groups of friends because sometimes people do not include me in their conversations. They talk over me, interrupt, change the topic, ignore comments. Is that normal or just rude? Why do people do it and what should I do?
Well, if this is happening a lot with diverse groups of people, you should probably look at yourself. You know what they say, the common link in all your dysfunctional relationships is you.
Maybe it's not something so terrible as you being really boring, or self-absorbed. It could be something really simple, like you speak really quietly, or a little too slowly. I used to attend a...
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My sister is home from school and faking sickness.There's nothing wrong with her (she told me) but she's making a complete mess and I just cleaned up. She is faking sickness to do wat she wants.What should I do to stop her?
Stop cleaning up after her. When your folks get home, tell them she made the mess, and you're done cleaning up her messes.
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How do you feel if you lose a friend
I guess it would depend where I lost them. Sometimes I find I will put a pair of friends through the wash and only one comes out. Strange. I am usually pretty upset and confused when that happens.
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Taking another poll,Yay or Nay ? I asked my girlfriend to quit her job [*she was an exotic dancer] She complied,now that she's unemployed she claims,I have to buy her a new car as I'm the reason she does not have a source of income. She wants an Audi TT !
Well, I don't think you should buy her a car, but you should probably help support her. You asked her to give up her job (not a smart thing if you weren't interested in supporting her) and she agreed (not a smart thing unless she saw it as an opportunity to become a kept woman), therefore you have some responsibility in this situation.
A car though: NAY
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Does rejection ever stop hurting?
Once it's happened 30 times or so you develop a skin. Rejection, like failure, is very good for your character. Eventually you will lose your ego, and realise that there are loads of different people in the world, and you will, if you keep trying, find the right fit. Like the right job (or jobs).
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Are relationships becoming just a joke?
All mine have been. Does that count?
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Why is it acceptable for a woman to "get to know" a man before sex, but unacceptable for a man to ask for sex before getting to know a woman?
It's not unacceptable for a man to ask for sex before getting to know a woman, but be prepared to be refused, and to not get a second date.
Also know that you will preselect an aspect of the personality of the women that you do end up in a relationship with (women who are okay with casual sex). No judgement here, they may be the most interesting and liberated women you will ever meet....
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Does saving your virginity for marriage is important or rather essential?
Neither important nor essential. People who keep their virginity for marriage end up by getting married to have sex. The horniest period of your life will start around the age 17/18 years of age (depending on the person) which is way too young to know what you want in life.
I think Americans are pretty much the only people left in the western world that are so focussed on virginity, and you...
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Husband put passcode lock on his cellphone. Recently I discovered him talking to women on chat and texting them till 4am (60text messages). A friend texted him he's going teabag a lot of chins during the week when his work scheduled was changed.
If your sex life has not picked up, then yes, I would say he's goofing around with other women - going outside your marriage for thrills. He may not actually be having sex with someone else, but he's looking for "spice" one way or the other.
If you're willing to tolerate it, then let it lay, otherwise you will have to insist on a frank discussion, perhaps with a...
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My Gf said she would put pink streaks in her hair but she put blue in instead! What shoudl I do?
Dump her. She's clearly not trustworthy.
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Does anyone know a way to get my mom to close the door when she showers??? I already tried giving her a robe but she must think it is for decorating her closet with.
Take a photo and post it on the Internet
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I have been dating my divorced boyfriend for 5 months. Lately anytime we have an argument or even a disagreement he immediately threatens for us to break up or tells me to get my stuff and get out but then totally regrets saying it later what should I do?
I really hope you're not living together already.
Sounds like he feels really threatened about any disagreement. Sadly the reality is that ALL couples will have disagreements. Successful couples know how to work together to solve their problems.
The worst thing that can happen in this situation is that you become increasingly afraid to "rock the boat" and you start...
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I got married....I have reason to believe my husband (who wed one time in Hawaii) never got divorced or annulled. How do I find out? If he is still married.....is my marriage valid?
and no (to add to Mojo's answer), your marriage is not valid if he is still married. But, if he is still married and he lied to you, you're probably better off to not be legally entangled with him.
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How come I can't get over the doctrine that says all people that aren't Christian, and maybe some people who honestly profess themselves as Christians, will go to hell?
cause it's a fairy tale made up to scare little children and foolish people into following a set of rules.
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Should we blame the people who are rude/impolite or should we blame their parents for not teaching them how to interact with others in a civilized fashion?
Concepts like "rude" or "impolite" are completely subjective. Your definition of these terms will differ significantly from people from a different culture, from people who hold different values and from people who have more or less tolerance for behavior.
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I am having troubly believing my religeon. i am catholic but i dont believe that God created the world and a bunch of other stuff. I also go to a Catholic school and don't really believe everything we learn in class. What should i do?
I don't mean to be disrespectful, but overall, my general sense is that neither you nor Believer are very well educated. That means that you are easily duped and manipulated into believing something. It's difficult to correct your perceptions without actually tackling the educational deficit that you both suffer.
The arguments that you posit have come from other sources who are...
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When I asked, "I am God prove me wrong" why did the most violent response (shooting+running me over with a car) get the most points? Why did no Christian say, "This is out of line"? What does this say about the Christians on AB?
It may not have been the Christians, I think it was probably the grammar police.
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Lots of religions say that the world was created by a God or gods. But do any explain why they went to the bother? If so, what do they say?
Why did you never get points for that question. I think it's an excellent one.
I believe that it simply supports the fact that man created god to explain what science was not yet able to.
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My girlfirend has a huge wart on her thumb and a plantars wart. Is there anyway to get rid of these wthout surgery. She is gorgeous otherwise and want to go holistic not surgical. Thanks Nick
Both plantar warts and those on the hands are caused by a virus. They are contagious. I suggest that you read the following article:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plantar_wart
I have heard that the duct tape method works quite well.
As for warts on the hand, there are off-the-shelf treatments that work very well.
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I am having troubly believing my religeon. i am catholic but i dont believe that God created the world and a bunch of other stuff. I also go to a Catholic school and don't really believe everything we learn in class. What should i do?
Your logic escapes me.
oh right, you're not using any.
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I am having troubly believing my religeon. i am catholic but i dont believe that God created the world and a bunch of other stuff. I also go to a Catholic school and don't really believe everything we learn in class. What should i do?
Follow your heart. Use your brain.
Ask yourself what you want from your life, your education and your system of beliefs. There are a lot of different paths that you can take and it's up to you ultimately to choose one. And in the end, it's your life. Take responsibility for it. Use it well. Put it to good purpose. Good luck.
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If I were rich, I would by everyone I know a_______?
an ass when I see one?
Oh I see, you meant BUY, you weren't being poetic - I get it now.
Sheesh!
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Believers: Do you enjoy the prospect of non-believers burning in Hell?
As I love to celebrate the image of the son of my god being tortured to death on the cross, I equally embrace the thought of non-believers writhing in agony. Pain, humiliation and the abuse of power is my trinity.
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What is one word you would use to describe Jesus?
exploited
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Is a group of pirhanas, ripping to shreds another animal while not harming their fellow pirhanas, an example of morality without God?
No. Damn. There's no such thing as "morality" amongst most intelligent beings. No species will survive if cannibalism is practiced routinely. It all comes down to simple economics, environment and evolution.
Economics: if the society invests in an individual - usually through sharing a resource - then the society will benefit by keeping that individual around and to a certain...
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Are Americans losing their religion?
Let's hope so!
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What should we thank Jesus for?
Certainly not for all the incredibly tacky souvenirs
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Why are their different types of religion if God is one?
Because we didn't understand the universe and how it functioned, we created a divine chariot to drive the sun across the sky. Mystical explanations were created to explain what couldn't be explained in another way. That was the seed of all religion.
The priestly class saw it as a way to make a living - being a living telephone to "god". The politicians saw it as a way of...
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About how much money do you have in another country's currency (Euros, Canadian dollars, etc) in the back of your dresser drawer?
About $100, but it's not in my dresser, does that count? (I have about 20 Euro, 10 Sterling, about 1.50 worth of Ethiopian birr, 45 USD, several dollars worth of Mexican Pesos & several Australian dollars.) I try and get rid of currency that I will not use again - when I do a clean up, I put it aside and donate it at the airport, where there is usually a foreign currency collection...
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Is the book "A Million Little Pieces" by James Frey true?
From the very beginning it struck me as false. The whole waking up on an airplane - what airline in the world would take a battered, bleeding, clearly smashed out of his skull, person on board unescorted? Total bullshit.
As I kept reading it there were a number of things that just didn't ring true. The timeline felt very strange, and it was clear at one point he was in university, and...
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My son is currently a baby and I keep having a dream where I step on his fat head and crush it. Is this normal for new parents?
Is that a dream or a fantasy?
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Why do people feel the need to tattoo the name of their love interest on their body?
because they can't tattoo it on yours.
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Is the recession over?
Governments the world over are printing money like mad and trying to buy their way out of this recession. If not for that we would officially be in a global depression.
I'm not an economist, but my gut tells me there will be repercussions to this - likely a further weakening of the financial system and a prolongation of the "recession".
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I have such a great time at work with my co-worker, he puts a smile on my face all day and makes me get up and want to go to work. We've told each other that we have feelings toward one another. How should I act upon this?
I was going to say "don't touch it!" but then I read that you did and got burned.
Well, we learn best through experience. So, put it down to a good learning experience, and never go there again. Even if you are both single, a work romance, tho it may be really exciting and hot, has bad news written all over it. There was a reason why 40 years ago people in co-ed work places...
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Going to South Africa to help build an orphanage, what should I bring the kids? (light stuff for the suitcase). Answers URGENTLY required!
pens, pencils, t-shirts
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When you think of Alabama, you think of...what?
Sweet home - tho I have never been there
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My boyfriend invited me to grad and ignored me the whole night, so I hung out with my friend that i like, today my boyfriend dumped me and my friend sorted things out between us. A few hours later i texted my friend admitting my feelings. help!?
Wait, your friend sorted things out between you and your boyfriend? and now, you like your friend? and have admitted that? does "like" mean that you're attracted to them? is that what you are trying to say? WTF
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Do you have Hidden feelings?
All my feelings are completely invisible.
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I have a 12 year old daughter who I think is seeing a girl in her school, how do I approach this situation, I'm ok with gay relationships but I think shes too young to know what she wants.
Look at it this way, she's way too young to be "seeing" anyone, to be in a relationship, or to be dating. I told my kids they had to be 16 before they were allowed to date, and I told them that from an early age, so they understood what was expected of them. My daughter told me later that she really appreciated it because girls pass through some very confusing times, and she...
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What would you do or how would you feel if you find out you shouldn't be here or shouldn't have lived? Something your parents told you or if you've been in a accedent or maybe caught in a robbery?
Well, I had a precedent once. But I don't think that means I shouldn't have lived. I do know, personally, several people who are too stupid to be alive, but somehow they managed to squeeze through. Where is the quality control on this planet, anyway.
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I thought my boyfriend was cheating. I contacted his female friend and she told me all these believing lies. I know now that he was telling the truth. He says he cant trust me anymore.
How do I gain his trust back, prove I'm sorry and really love him?
uh, HE can't trust YOU? what have you done to break the trust? Sounds to me like he's playing with your mind.
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I dumped my boyfriend me and him are friends. and i think he should go out with him and she just offer yes and he sai that she's cute and annoying.she said that i hang out with him 247 i dont though.what do i do?
Learn to speak english
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My friends are getting in the way of my relationship with my boyfriend, I don't want to lose my boyfriend or my friends an I don't want to choose but how can I make it clear to them we need our space?
Have regular "date nights" where you only hang out with your BF. Make it clear to your friends that you are not available that night. Choose a few nights when you hang with your friends, and your BF can come or not as the case may be.
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If your friend said, "maybe because if I would never call you, we probably would never talk," would you still be friends with that person? what do you think of this "friend?"
It sounds like they are hurt and feel they make all the effort in your relationship. Think about it, and if it seems true, and you value the friendship, then apologize for being a crappy friend and try to do better in the future.
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A buddy was just released from prison for having an affair with a student when he was a high school teacher. It was consensual between both parties. I have known the guy all my life. My wife is concerned. Should I resume my friendship with this guy?
Under age or not, there is no way he should have had sex with a student. Totally unacceptable. He was a colossal fool. But he is deemed to have "paid his debt" to society, and has certainly paid a high price for being an idiot.
Marginalizing people who have offended increases their chances of re-offending. People like him and others whose crimes are much more heinous need to be...
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What do i do to motivate my son who is 35,to leave home?
- Charge rent and make him buy his own groceries
- Tell him his life, as a child, is over
- Sell the house and move
- Send him on a holiday, and make his room into an office before he gets back
- Take him to see the movie "Failure to Launch" three times
- Tell him men who have their own digs get a lot more sex
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How do you stop SIDS?
I read a study once that said co-sleeping was believed to have a big roll in preventing SIDS. It was based on the hypothesis that babies often lack certain self-regulating abilities, and in fact will fall into such a deep sleep that their breathing simply ceases. In the study they observed a few moms and babies sleeping together (understandably a difficult study to find volunteers for), and...
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Is it against the law to have water at work?
um . . . only if it's neck deep, otherwise it's kinda expected.
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Do you believe in Cod?
I ate Cod last night. Yum!
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Why should I do anything other than despise you?
Why would you bother having such a strong feeling for someone you don't even know?
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Do you know that you have more computing power on your desk than they had aboard Apollo 11. Would you have been willing to go to the moon in a ship so equiped?
There's actually more computing power in one of those musical cards than on Apollo 11. But mechanics work well too - and space travel is largely about mechanics.
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What do you love the most, about the one you love?
That they never use superfluous commas.
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Have you ever said something and immediatly regretted it?
you mean today, right?
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My boyfriend just broke up with me!..Why? Why? Why?
Guess it wasn't working for him. Be thankful he didn't take you through more years of dissatisfaction.
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When we actually meet extraterrestrials, will they use they're technology to help or destroy us?
They will use good grammar to dominate and enslave us
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Men, how many of you have had women get in the way of your life more than they should. Example, I flirt constantly, and a lot of times it gets to the point where I can't take care of my priorities. I date too much, I guess. Women are my disease. :(
Why are you blaming your problem on women? You have an issue sorting out your priorities and establishing boundaries. You have an issue, perhaps, with self-discipline. You maybe are so need of attention, that constant flirting validates you. That's not a problem with women. That's a problem with YOU.
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I need dog help. I have a 1 year old male springer spaniel who hasn't been neatured, my dad has him in a cage for many hours a day, meaning he gets bored. He has had little training. He chewed up our fence and my dad attacked him. He bit back. What to do?
Get your dog neutered. And then, take your dog yourself and your Dad to animal obedience training.
Caging a dog is fine. Allowing them unsupervised time in the yard in place of proper exercise and walking is not. A spaniel is a high energy dog. If you are not prepared to spend a minimum of an hour a day exercising this dog, you should find him another home.
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I am 19 and the man I am dating is 52. A 33 year age gap. What would you say as a friend or outsider to this relationship?
If you want an analysis, here it is:
You have a daddy fixation. If you don't know it now, you will realise it at some point.
If you think you want to stay with this guy, then you have to do the math. How long, realistically, does he have to live? 15, 20 years? in 20 years you will be in your prime, and if he's still alive, he will be really old. the number of vital 72 year olds...
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I met a guy that told me he cannot continue to talk to me because he might develop feelings for me. He cant stop looking at me when he sees me, and told me to please end the friendship on good terms. Why did he do this?
Don't know, but it sounds like he's playing games. Move on
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My girlfriend beats be at everything, board games, Call of Duty, everything. Does this give me an excuse to beat her physically?
haha, totally
Try beating her in a foot race first, if that doesn't work, then offer her a duel.
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What do you do about other people who are jealous of you, and they show it by arguing you all the time and making snide remarks at you?
don't hang around them.
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Is it me, or just because someone is a millionaire, that means we (meaning you or I) automatically want to be friends with them?
Most people tend to make friends with people who are similar to them. I wouldn't completely discount the idea that I would be friends with someone well outside of my "class", but I am where I am based on birth, education, where I live and the kind of work I do. This leads me to meet and associate with people of a similar "class", we have similar backgrounds and...
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My bf is mad because I wouldn't go out in 8inches of snow to move my care so he could go to work. It took him 2 minutes to do it and he had to leave anyway. Would you be mad about this if you were him?
If he yelled at you for 10 minutes, this isn't about the car. Most fights within a couple are not about what sparks them, there's other stuff going on and it's worth exploring what that is.
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Why are all children so damn retarded and ugly?
Cause they are humans. Who let the alien play on AB, anyway?
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Would it be wrong to call the girl you like on the phone and say i was bored, and tell her you like her, but make it seem that is not the reason you called?
Why would you tell someone the only reason you called was because you were bored? Call her up, ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime. She'll get the "I like you" part from that.
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When my boyfriend and I have sex, I don't know what I'm suppose to enjoy. It doesn't feel that great but I still moan so my boyfriend thinks I'm enjoying it. Is this just me or am I just not feeling it?
If you don't know how to pleasure yourself so you can instruct your BF, and you're not talking to your BF (in fact you are deceiving him by pretending to enjoy something you don't) then I would say you have some work to do. There are tons and tons of books on sex, spend some time in the library, look stuff up online, visit www.venusenvy.ca for some instructional information and...
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My new husband hit me for the first time. He apologized and cried. What should be done in this situation? He is blaming me for getting hit.
The key here is: ". . . hit me for the first time . . ." He'll hit you again, you even know that. So, what do you think should be done?
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Why would a mature 33 year old woman play with my head and feelings after confessing the love I have for her?
Some people are messed up and don't understand their own feelings very well. Better not to fall in love with people like that, they are dangerous.
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Reasons for you breaking up with your past partners are..........?
Because I liked bad boys and I always choose them. I have reformed now.
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Me and my girlfriend broke up back in august and now were cool again but not a couple. she doesnt show me the same affection she use to plus she's messing with other guys now. should i leave her alone and move on b4 i mess around or stick in there?
Well, you're not a couple. So I don't see what the issue is. Clearly she considers you a friend, and that's it. If you don't like that. move on.
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How do girls pee when they're wearing a dress?
Same way as normal, out of our ears.
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What would you do if your neighbor's kids were throwing sticks over the fence into your yard?
How about this novel idea - "ask them to please stop doing it"
What's wrong with people that you have to talk to their parents or get all outraged. If someone came to me because my kids were doing something so harmless, I would think they were an idiot for not just dealing with it.
The other day there were kids in the school yard across from me breaking a couple of...
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My colleague seems to be homosexual and he tries to touch me for no reason, which i thought earlier as friendly gesture.I have to work with him on day-to-day basis. he is talking to other colleagues about me badly. Is there a way to get rid of this?
His sexual orientation has nothing to do with anything. If you are uncomfortable with him touching you, tell him, and ask him to stop. I suggest that writing him a note, or telling your manager would be escalating unnecessarily. Imagine it were you. How would you feel if someone left you a note about something rather than deal with it outright? Also it sounds like you were okay with his...
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Is it bad to say to my girlfriend such this words "don't ever do that again or else you'll loss me"?
Yes, it's bad grammar
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Do you understand the feeling you have?
I am hungry - it's because I need to eat, so my stomach is empty and growly.
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I think am in love but am not shore whenever a see this person a feel like the happiest person alive and i haven't been able to stop thinking bout him for the 4 days and i don't want to eat after seeing him do you think it love or just lust
If you met him four days ago, it's not love, it's obsession or infatuation. After four days, you can't possibly know anyone. I don't care what all the hopeless romantic people say. Read any sane rational book on relationships and they ALL say the same thing. Love, real love, takes time, and knowing.
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Mom's seem to tend to favor their sons. Dad's tend to favor their daughters. Agree or disagree? How was it in your family? Who seemed to favor whom? Did it create a problem for you?
Okay, my theory on this one is that most women have been in a mother/daughter relationship before (with their mothers), as most men have been in a father/son relationship. Women bring baggage to their relationships with their daughters that they simply don't have with their sons. It makes the mother/son relationship much more easy-going - like the father/daughter relationship. Easy and...
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Will I survive?
No one gets outta here alive
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"im not talkin to no1 that she would kno, but im just flirting with another girl 2 plan b" does this mean he's talking about two seperate girls?
He's flirting with a girl that you don't know, but may replace you. But yeah, he sounds like he's an illiterate jerk and you should DTMFA.
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Have you ever been randomly kissed by a stranger?
Only on NYE
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Would you rather work with a boss who was a different gender from you or was younger then you? Why?
Doesn't matter. My boss is both a different gender and younger than I (okay only by a few weeks). The thing is, he's got tons of experience, has stuff to teach me and we work really well together. Our boss (my boss's boss) is younger than both of us and female, and we all work super well together and have complementary skills. Age and gender have nothing to do with anything in my...
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My true love broke it off with me. Her strengths build up my weakness and my strengths build up her weakness. We are star crossed lovers. She ended it because I belong to another . Who can I turn to for support in my time of sorrow.
Off the top of my head, i would say a shrink. You need to get your act together mate.
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You get to do one of these: Home run in the world series, hole in one at the Open or 24 hours non-stop sex with Angelina Jolene?
If I HAD to do one, I would pick the home run, but only if I didn't have to play the whole game.
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I'm beginning to dislike the city that I live in, however I am currently attending school here, have a stable job, etc,. Should I just wait it out and then after I'm done with school move away, or should I move now and try to find a school elsewhere?
Depends where you are. I would say there are very few cities in the US of any interest at all. So, if you move from one faceless American city to another, then you haven't done yourself any favors.
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What should you be doing instead of answerbag-ing?
Going home
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Im 6 weeks pregnant and the father does not want to talk to me will this change?
I would say there's a 99.999999999% or greater chance you will be raising this kid on your own. If you're not prepared to do that, I am sure you know the options.
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How do I get out of the friend zone with a girl?"
Tell her she's a loser and that you never want to see her again, that should get you outta that zone.
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If a girl spends most of her time hanging out with her family rather than her boyfriend, what does this mean?
It means that she's close to her family and that her boyfriend is jealous and possessive.
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If you say i love you what should the boy say
Oh, gosh, look at the time!
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Should People Live Together Before They Marry?
Only if they have the same address
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Would you let a friend of yours date your mother?
None of my business, probably none of yours.
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If Arnold Schwarzenegger was to whisper in your ear, what whould he say?
VOTE for me
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Seriously!?
totally
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So i just found out that when me and my ex was together she was still talking to her ex. I was basically her rebound girl. Our conversation ended nasty and I hate her. I'm tempted to get someone to curse her out. Should I do it? I need revenge.
So, how old are you exactly?
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What is the worse thing a girl can do to turn a guy off?
"Is that all you got?"
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What is the worse thing a girl can do to turn a guy off?
I hear a bullet can be effective
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My ex's mom told her that she does not want her talking to me. what do u think of that? the ex is already a mom and she's 17..... she does not say anything to her mom but she says she loves me...
now again what do u think of that?
So, you were dating a 17 year old who already has a kid, and her mother is saying she doesn't want you involved, and you're wondering whether you should get back together with her?
Why would you invite that kinda mess into your life?
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What do u think of people who are indesisive about stuff like what they want out of life?
I'm still not sure what I want to be when I grow up.
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We think my dogs leg's broken. last time we took him to the vet he sed tat its just a strained musle, but he woke me up ((the dog, not the vet)) crying SO loud!! he sounded like a giant baby SCREAMING. i cried almost the whole mornin. what can i do?
Ask your vet for an X-ray and some pain killers - depending on the size of your dog, you could give it aspirin (follow the dose like you would for children) it will help with the pain and reduce the swelling
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Why are mothers so overprotective?
Having a child is like having your heart run around outside your body. Some people (mothers and fathers) react to the pain they feel about that by holding on tightly. Others understand that to succeed in their role, they have to hurt and let go.
My 19 year old spent six months traveling abroad and was frequently out of contact for weeks. It was actually physically painful for me, but it was...
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I was wanted to make a joke and I pulled down my mom's pants,but her underwear came down too.Mom stood in front of me and kicked my balls under a table,said loudly that she has 2 berries under her shoe and everybody started laughing.Did I deserve this?
The behavior on both your parts was totally inappropriate.
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I'm 16 and been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months now and I love her. But recently I started to get more and more attracted to other girls, but my feelings are still there for my girlfriend. I'm confused can anyone tell me why I'm like this?
You're 16
There's a reason all the old fogeys wonder why kids are trying to get into serious relationships at such a young age. They remember what they were like at 16 and the level of growth and maturity it took to have a REAL relationship.
I am sure you love your gf, but when you're 28 you will look back at yourself and know the reality.
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Are you anti anything?
Antidisestablishmentarianism
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My husband wants to go get an apartment closer to his ex's home and wants to have his son over or him visiting him every weekend. This troubles me cos i feel he still hurts that his ex divorced him 7 months ago without an explanation
The big problem with this picture is that you are married to a man who has only been divorced 7 months.
This isn't a moralistic judgement, but a question of how long you could possibly have known him. NO ONE who is making self-aware conscious choices is ready for an intimate relationship 7 months after a divorce esp, one involving children. And there you are, already married!?
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Can a divorce court judge grant a husband/wife visitation, but stipulate that his/her little whore/boy toy never be allowed to meet the children? In those exact words?
Probably not.
You are talking a legal document here, and those usually use legally defined terms. So ask yourself what the legal definition of "little whore" and/or "boy toy" might be. Unless the woman is actually selling sex for money and is of diminutive stature, then referring to her in that way would make the clause not applicable to her, but would make it...
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What can be the best compliment from a husband to wife?
Honey, I swear your ass is looking less fat
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How can i get a girl alone at school so i can talk to her?
drag her into a toilet stall and bar the door.
better if it's in the girl's toilets
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How many japanese were killed in nagashaki and hiroshima by the nuke we dropped there?
The bombs killed as many as 140,000 people in Hiroshima and 80,000 in Nagasaki by the end of 1945, roughly half on the days of the bombings. Amongst these, 15 to 20% died from injuries or illness attributed to radiation poisoning. Since then, more have died from leukemia (231 observed) and solid cancers (334 observed) attributed to exposure to radiation released by the bombs. In both cities,...
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How do you know if a friend likes you more than a friend?
When they kiss you, they use their tongue
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When it comes to parenting, do you believe fear equals respect?
fear = fear
respect = respect
You can instill a kind of respect by creating fear, but it's a bit like how a battered wife "respects" her husband. It's unhealthy and one day he'll wake up with scissors sticking out of his throat.
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My little brother wants to know whats the worse thing that can happen if you have unprotective gay anal sex
It depends. If he was on the receiving end (i.e., He was the one being penetrated) the chances of him contracting HIV are the greatest. It would also be the case were he a woman on the receiving end of unprotected anal sex.
However, unprotected vaginal sex does not carry as great a risk of HIV infection (this is not so say you should EVER have unprotected vaginal sex, it's just that...
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Guys, is it a turn off if a female's nipples are unsymmetrical?
No one's anything is symmetrical. We are all asymmetrical, so much so that very symmetrical people are usually not very attractive. Clearly this applies to faces, but I imagine it applies to other things as well. Besides, when you are naked with a man, he's usually not far enough away to tell that your boobs are crooked.
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How do you find the courage to leave someone you love who constantly threatens to kill themselves if you leave, to the point of holding a gun to his head?
You run as far from him as fast as you can before he decides that his threats to kill himself have stopped working and he starts to threaten to kill you.
I would also consider reporting him to the police and asking that they confiscate his gun (if they can do that) due to mental illness.
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If noone found out, what % of women would wank off an anonymous cock (clean and healthy) sticking through a hole in the wall. everyone would be anonymous. if you are a femalle - would you?
No interest in whacking off a stranger. No interest in gluing his dick to the wall either, but the thought is pretty hilarious! If there was an uninvited cock in my presence, and I happened to have a tube of crazy glue, . . . let's just say I'd be tempted.
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Does abstinence go against our basic humanity, or enhance it?
Given that "humanity" is the state of being human, and a basic requirement of the human race, indeed of any biological entity is the ability to reproduce, I can't see how abstinence can possibly enhance our basic humanity.
Clearly this does not address anyone's individual ability/choice/interest in either sex or reproduction, but the question is asked as a generic,...
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Is it common in America for people to approach women in shopping malls, parks, cafe's etc and ask them out on date?
No
That's one of the reasons the European guys are more successful in America.
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My brother thinks its cool to be gay, this can't be right is it?
Nope, he's wrong. Being gay is HOT!
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My brother thinks its cool to be gay, this can't be right is it?
No, it's not right. Being gay is HOT!
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Help!!! Relationship problem!!! Read my answer!!! Please!!!
Good luck with that one. I would say it's more her problem than yours tho. She's the one who cheated on him. If you were so drunk that you don't remember, maybe you didn't even have sex - is that a possibility?
She sounds like a player for sure. I mean what virginal girl who is about to give her virginity to her bf gets drunk and loses it to his friend? sumpin about that...
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Upon which part of the body does it feel best to press your tongue?
The ice cream part
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If an investigator for the government knocked on your door and asked you questions about your neighbor, about what type of person they are, how they get along with the rest of the neighborhood, what would you think of them?
That's standard screening procedure for a top secret clearance. It doesn't mean they've just applied for a job. They have a job or are about to get a job where they will have access to top secret information.
If you're thinking it would be cool to have top secret clearance, the kinds of information they gather directly from you are:
a) names addresses and employment of...
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How can a guy tell if his girl is actually having an orgasm, instead of just faking it?
the vaginal walls contract somewhat spasmodically during orgasm. If you are going down on her and have your fingers insider her, you should be able to feel it. You'd have to ask a guy if he can feel it with his penis. Judging by the nature of these answers, though, I would have to guess not.
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I want to make a raspberry trifle that calls for a custard. Can I use a pudding mixture with cool whip folded in, instead?
probably, but custard is yummy and easy to make. If you're using real port, real raspberries (frozen - Soooooo much better than jam), real cake (pound cake is the best) and real whip cream, use real custard too. It's the most awesome dessert!
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The mail must go thru so is it legal for a mail carrier to refuse to deliver mail because you have a dog (that dog is tied up) and they are scared of dogs?
Though your friend may love and trust her dog, dogs often react very badly to letter carriers. One theory is that the dog understands that when a friend comes to the door, they are let into the house. The letter carrier comes almost every day and "is turned away". Therefore, according to the dog, they pose some kind of threat. One learns as a letter carrier, never to trust dogs since...
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I did something really stupid this girl said she liked another guy and she wasent ready now out of anger i said i dont give a shi* anymore but i do how do i say sorry
p.s. she liked me to
Just like you said it here. Tell her you reacted out of anger, you didn't mean it and you're sorry. And you really DO give a shit. Maybe she'll laugh, and you'll laugh, and you can both relax for a while.
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I meet this girl and i love her so much how do i know if shes the one for me?
You sound young. I would say you won't find "the one" until you're about 30, so for now, enjoy yourself and learn about people and what you like about them. Date a lot of girls and figure out what it is that you want and need in a partner.
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Is it really possible for a relationship that has 20 yr age difference or more to make it? Maturity wise and life experience do they have anything in common?
I would say it depends on the age. If they are 20 and 40, then I would say they likely don't have enough in common in terms of maturity. If they're 30 and 50 they might have a little more. 40 and 60 would likely be alright, except the 40 year old is mid-career and the 60 year old is retired - so there's the potential for a lifestyle clash.
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Age is just a number to some but...If you can not find someone near your own age, what would be a good age spectrum to find a significant other?
It's the old "half plus seven" rule. Take your age, half it, add seven. That's the minimum age you should target. Do the reverse to find the max age and you'll get the ballpark.
For example. You're 20. the minimum age you should be dating is 20/2+7=17. The max? 20-7 * 2 = 26
As you age, the difference matters less, so say you're 40. 40/2+7 = 27 min....
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I want to do something special for my boyfriend and i's 1 year something with lagerie but i donno wut to do ive never tried anything with it before
I think anything involving lager is a good idea.
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How would you feel if your boyfriend was planning a vacation without you to pursue a hobby that you could be involved with, but it is cheaper for him to go alone
Maybe he doesn't feel you are yet at the stage where you vacation together. Maybe you need to talk about what you expect from the relationship.
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Why are there still fears over nudity?
I don't know about fears, but America WAS founded by Puritans, who believed that the human body was corrupt and evil. Those beliefs still resonate thru the American social fabric.
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Let us know a moment of your life you will never forget..
The moment I read this question.
Cause otherwise, nutin's really ever happened to me.
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I suspect my dog has been raptured, what should I do?
HAHAHA
Thanks for the laugh.
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How do i answer questions and know whats right on a taxtest?
It's called "studying"
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What about the 100 million, Christian holocaust?
If they were anything like you, then 100 million clearly wasn't enough.
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What do you do if you love your job but can't stand some of the people you work with
All jobs have their challenges. If you love what you're doing, you should definitely keep doing it. One thing I have discovered is that the things you can't stand in other people are usually related to how you perceive yourself, rather than anything to do with them. Relationships are a dynamic between two people. Whenever I have an employee who complains to me about someone else, I...
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My spouse and i used to have problems, i had an emotional breakdown one night at a mutual friends house. she was comforting me and we ended up kissing. i stopped and left immediately and felt horrible. should i tell her and risk our revived relationship?
No, definitely not - don't ever let anything like that happen again though.
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ATHEIST?lets say the end of the world came as said and you had children who accepted jesus but you didnt,and yall were standing at judgement time,he shows yall heaven and than hell, and he sent the children to heaven but you couldnt how would you feel
Obviously as an atheist I would know your question is based on total fantasy on your part. That's why I am an atheist - I don't subscribe to your mythology. Simple as that.
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My brother's girlfriend tells him that she is love with as well as another guy that she is dating.he really loves her and wants to marry her.i told him to move on? how can i help him.he is 30 and needs to settle down and start a family soon
Usually getting involved in other people's lives like this, especially when they are family members, just makes them dig in deeper and hold on longer then they ever would have if you just left them to their own devices. "He needs to settle down and start a family soon"? According to whom? I haven't read "The Book of Life" (as you clearly have) that says exactly...
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What does it mean if a girl compliments your eyes? im a guy.
I would be very careful with that. I understand there is an alien mating ritual that begins with the female telling the male he has "nice eyes". The unsuspecting human male thinks she's flirting, and, in a way she is, but the resulting mess is very hard to clean up, and your parents will be heartbroken.
Beware.
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What would you do if you had a big date and someone, whom you owed a big favor to, insisted on coming along?
If they wouldn't take "no" for an answer, I would find a fourth person and make it a double date. That way, if my friend got on well with their date, the favor would be paid in spades. If they didn't, they would probably never want to come on another date with me.
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What is Thailand/Laos like in July and August weather wise. I was planning on doing a USA road trip but the Pound isn't too great for exchange but the Baht is always good. Don't really want to go if it's raining all the time though!
It;s pretty much raining all the time.
I was there at that time of year, trying to get out of Luangprabang, Laos and there was literally no way out. The Mekong was closed to river navigation due to land slips and debris mountains floating downriver, and the road to Vienchen was closed due to landslips - all due to the endless rain. We had to fly in the end.
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Could you please translate this into Turkish for me: "I have a life-threatening allergy (anaphylaxis) to fish and shellfish. Please make sure my food does not contain fish and shellfish and it has not been prepared with contaminated ut
Are you serious? You would trust your life to some answerbag-level translation?
That's just nuts.
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Have you ever been "stealth camping"?
If by "stealth camping" you mean sleeping somewhere you shouldn't have been out doors, then yes - did it several places while bike tripping. If you mean pitching a tent somewhere you shouldn't be, yes, I have done that too. Once in a square in Mexico. Once on the Toronto Islands
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I say love, you think......?
boat
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Do u find woman with hairy armpit hot?
Probably they would have to have two of them, but, someone's armpits have little to do with whether or not they are sexy. Loads of european women don't (or didn't) shave their pits and are smokin.
It was really a north american invention - the whole shaving the pit-thing, and people who babble on about hygiene and pit hair have bought the whole ad campaign hook, line and...
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Do you have a very sexy neighbor?
I AM the sexy neighbour
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What is an item that you might find in a bin of "rejected" items at airport security? (humorous or real)
A fork - from my son's backpack at Charles de Gaulle. He had flown to France with it (left over from some lunch), but those Surete never sleep!
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Is it time for bed yet?
Yes, and I am off. Good night! Sweet dreams!
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If your 17 year old daughter's b/f, came to stay for the night and was still there 4 days later.. would you say something?
uh, yeah. I would be okay with the occasional sleepover, but no one stays without asking (and getting - or not) permission. I had this happening with my son (who was 18 at the time) and his gf. I finally sat them both down and told them if they wanted to live like a married couple, they needed to have the entire experience (the bill-paying, the cleaning-up, the cooking, the shopping, etc), not...
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I am scared to talk to my husband about anything that I want to do or want to buy because that causes problem where he stops talking to me for days at a time. I am really unhappy and dont know what to do about all this? Any suggestions?
No suggestions, but I have two words for you:
emotional abuse
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Among the 3 basic human needs: to be happy, to know the truth and to be loved, which is first for you?
a) those are not basic needs
b) "the truth" is a highly relative concept
c) "to be happy" - wtf does that mean, anyway?
Basic human needs are air, water, food and shelter. MOST people in the world struggle every day to ensure they have these, and a lot don't get them.
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My little sister, who is 16, has just had her heart broken for the first time. How can I help her? I can't seem to find the right words, but it breaks MY heart seeing her so sad.
Pain is okay. It won't kill her. Let her talk, listen to her, give her your sympathy. Don't try to fix or heal her. Just tell her she can talk to you all she wants. Tell her you love her and you feel her pain, and acknowledge how much it hurts. People who say "take her shopping, or distract her" don't really understand human psychology. We need to be able to feel our...
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Would you have a problem going to a doctor that you knew was cheating on his spouse and yet he claimed to be a "christian" and had christian music playing in his doctors office? (he got caught in the act by his wife!! LOL)
I would have a problem going to a doctor who played christian music in his waiting room. I would question the professionalism of anyone who confused their faith (=private life) with their profession (=public life).
Otherwise, his behavior is well in keeping with a lot of "Christians" - at least those who go to great lengths to convince everyone of how Christian they are. They...
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Which university is better for a PhD in Marine Conservation, Simon Fraser University in Vancouver, BC or James Cook University in Townsville, AU?
Wouldn't it depend on the subject of your research and thesis? I figure the closer you are to your thesis supervisor, the better off you are - both academically and financially.
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Would it be inappropriate to ask a woman on a first date if she has been female from birth?
Well, how would you feel if you were asked if you were male from birth? Perhaps a little too feminine for your date?
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I think I may be bi-sexual, is this something my family ever has to know? They can be quite homophobic.
I guess it depends on whether or not you ever have a long-term same-sex partner.
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He calls me nasty names, argues about anything, hits me, and tells me to get out, but then gets mad when I try to leave. Why? And why am I still here?
Why? Because he's an abuser.
Why are you still there? Because you're a victim.
Lose the victim mentality, take control of your life and get the hell out. There are shelters that will take you in. Then go out and find a therapist who will help you find out why you believe you deserve to be treated like that.
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Live in b/f has sexual texts w/ friend of 15yrs. Confronted, she says joke, he says sorry. He goes to her town for work, changes weekend to sync with her, then has to stay at her place cuz his mom is out of town. Cheating?
Wait, his mom won't let him stay at her place when she's outta town? What's wrong with that picture?
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If your husband is overseas @ war and you find a recent email to another woman stating that he misses her and loves her and wish he had married her do u consider that cheating?
Totally. Even if he never even met her, expressing that sentiment to someone other than your wife is cheating.
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I'm 27, educated and attractive. What do I need to do to bag a rich guy? I'm sick of dating broke asses.
How about getting some manners?
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I would like to get back together with my ex. How many times should I hear the words "I'll think about it" and let her change her mind before I just give up?
I would ask her straight out - how much time do you need? Because you're ready to get back together, but if she is not ready (in whatever timeframe you are prepared to give her) then you will move on. If she doesn't know how much time she will need, then you need to decide for yourself how long you are willing to wait. Then tell her. But try to not make it sound like an ultimatum.
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I don't want to move on but how can I? I'm so deeply in love with guy but he is confused & says I keep pushing when he isn't ready & stressing out. Says he doesn't know what he wants now has told me to leave him alone & move on. I'm heartbroken!
http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1337681
Why ask the same question twice?
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I don't want to move on but how can I? I'm so deeply in love with guy but he is confused & says I keep pushing when he isn't ready & stressing out. Says he doesn't know what he wants now has told me to leave him alone & move on. I'm heartbroken!
Move on - completely - delete his email and all his contacts - make sure you have no way to easily contact him. Then start cultivating all your friendships and go out and have a good time with them. In time you will be fine and you will wonder what all the fuss was about.
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When two gay guys get married, are they said to be "husbands" or husband and wife?
Partners, is the usual term.
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What do you do when your wife is doing everything right to make things work,after she had an affair?
Forgive
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My wife cheated. what if i cheat,will that help me not look at her bad,maybe if we are both drity?
Doesn't seem very fair to the person with whom you are planning to cheat. I would call that "using". Also, did you never hear a teacher tell you "two wrongs don't make a right"? There's a reason for that. Two wrongs just make things more wrong. It won't fix anything.
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What is a child called who accuses a mother of emotional abandoment after 17 years of care giving and nuturing that often times went above and beyond the call of duty?
If the child had mental health issues, I doubt you would be asking that question here, so that leaves me to believe that you were probably not very good at parenting. Maybe it's no fault of your own, you probably had lousy parents too, and were never given the love you needed. But you also didn't fix yourself in order to give your daughter the love and support she needed.
Kids...
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How can i make my bedroom sexier?
Decorate using live naked people
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My girlfriend says she doesn't want a serious relationship with anyone yet, but she says she loves me more than anyone. What does this mean?
It means, I guess, that she doesn't want a serious relationship right now. What's the big deal? Maybe she has plans for uni or something and doesn't want to get in too deep. How old are you anyway, and what's your hurry?
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My wife and i are 30 and have been together for 15 years we have had an awesome relationship and i just found out that for the last 8months she was having an affair she is now pregnant by this man and its over and wants to work it out i beleive her
Well, I suppose if I were with the same guy my entire adult life, I would be curious about the other side of the fence too.
I would say it depends on you. Can you hold up your head and know you are raising a child who, thru no fault of it's own, is not yours, and be prepared to deal with the consequences without being blameful to the child or mother? That's a big question. The...
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Why would a man married to a woman for 20 years cheat with a woman he has only just met?
Well, he's been married to the same woman for 20 years. If they still have sex, it's probably pretty predictable. She likely takes him for granted, doesn't find him very exciting anymore, and certainly doesn't fawn over him. Then he meets a woman who is enticing, who seems to like him, it's all new, fresh, adventuresome. Damn, I'm gonna go find me one!
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I'm married and was taken advantage of one night after drinking at the bar. Today I went to see that person and he was on top of me again. I did not enjoy it at all and I don't know what to do about it. It will never happen again. What do I do?
Are you saying you were raped? or that you had an affair and didn't have fun?
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I don't know what i want anymore she tattoo the girly parts,she has tried any and everything one can do, I dont know what to do i just want to sleep with 20 women,i dont think that will help getting over an affair sucks.
How about taking a course in self-expression or writing?
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A few weeks ago my husband and i were out of town on a business trip with customers. one night we all went to a strip club. my husband was drunk and ended out making out with two of the strippers. he doesnt remember it - im still pissed. what should i do
What kind of business is it where getting drunk at a strip club and making out with strippers would be considered professional conduct? What are you, drug dealers? How about a little class here. If you want to impress your clients, take them out for a really nice dinner and buy nice wine. Talk about your business with them, or get to know them. If I was the client of someone who thought it was...
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Is it cheating for a married man to check out an old girlfriend's pictures online? Not nude, just regular pictures.
No, it's curiosity, it's voyeurism, it's possibly many things, but I wouldn't call it cheating.
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I recently found out my husband was having an affair. I was devastated but want to try to work it out. First he said he wants to stay and work it out but last night he said he is unhappy but doesn't want to leave. What am I to do?
Hard to say. Are their kids involved? How big is your home?
My tendency would be to take a break from the relationship. It sounds like he needs to work things out, and decide what he really wants to do, but that doesn't mean you need to give him the comfort of your bed while he does that. You can be nice and friendly and supportive, but let him have the emotional space he needs to sort...
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If you found out one of your parents was having an affair and you ran into the third party what would you do?
I would mind my own business. I figure my parents are adults, capable of making their own decisions. I certainly wouldn't blame the third party for my parent's indiscretion.
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Husband feels that it's ok for him to have friends (Women) that I don't know. Do you feel that is ok for a marriage?
It's okay for him to have friends, that you don't know, but does he tell you about them, or did you "find out". I have a married guy friend, we've been friends since before I was in a relationship, and once we went out and included his wife. But we usually just meet for lunch or drinks after work. There's nothing to it, but could something evolve? Who knows. I...
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Is my married man serious about me? He's told his best friend about me, and his mum and dad both know of his intentions to leave his wife. He loves me and i love him. he is deeply unhappy in his marriage. He has been married 2 months.
Sounds like trouble. Who cheats on their spouse after two months? What a loser.
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10years this year the marriage went bad i talked bad to her,she lost alot of weigth ,i put 12th on my list,she was always num 1.she had an affair 6months ago,we dated for 3months she did everything to get me back tattoo my name on her girly parts.
that's supposed to be a question?
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Im 17 years older than my partner, will he eventually run off with someone younger?
If you're younger than 43ish, then I would say yeah, but not cause of the age difference - more because he's still really young to be settling down for life.
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Parents, do you think its unreasonable for a 15 year old to be with well trusted friends for a day?
Parents who have issues with their 15-year-old being out of sight for a day, or even a week, have trust and control issues. It could be that the kid has broken their trust, or it could be that the parents are fearful of what might happen to their kid. If the kid has broken the trust, then it's a different story, but if the parents are being controlling because of their own fears, then they...
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For Gay Guys: What turns you on about a guy that a girl doesn't? Honest question people. Not looking to bash anyone.
Well, not being a guy and not being gay, I figured I would weigh in on this.
Some people are attracted to women, some people are attracted to men. Last night I went to an event where I found one attractive man and one attractive woman. I flirted with both of them. So, you see, for me it's people, their smiles, how they interact with me (I am somewhat outrageous - clearly that is not a...
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Weekend again and still havent got a date, do you think there is something wrong with me?
I don't have a date - wanna do something?
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IF A GUY MADE A MOVE BUT YOU HATE HIM WHERE WOULD YOU HIT HIM?
It's my standard response to ANY guy who makes moves on me. I am this smokin hot lesbian and I really don't like any men at all - I think they are ALL jerks and assholes looking to dip their dicks into anything. My favorite move is to karate chop them in the throat. But you gotta be careful, cause they can press charges against you I found out.
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IF A GIRL MADE A MOVE BUT YOU HATE HER WHERE WOULD YOU HIT HER?
It happened to me once. I walked up to a guy who I thought was really sexy and wild. I told him that I thought so, and he responded by punching me in the gut and saying "I hate you, you scag". I still really like him tho. He's so cute!
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Ladies and gents: what if your man (or yourself) had testicular cancer and one of the side effects to having the testes removed was growing c cup sized breasts, would you still have the surgery done? ladies how would you treat your man?
Mmmm, just think - a lover with a penis AND breasts - be still my beating heart.
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I am SO ticked off at AB right now! Every once in awhile, I will prepare what I think is a really good answer, only to find that AB hangs up or something and will NOT post it. Then I have to rewrite the entire thing! Grrrrrr! Any suggestions?
Write short answers :)
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What is the biggest factor in initial attraction?
A very large penis, but it's always hard to know - that's why I hang out in nudists camps.
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I choose not to make friends because i'm scared being hurt and betrayed..Is it wise to do so?
Absolutely! You should shut yourself in your house, because if you go out, you may have an accident, also, don't work because you may get fired. Don't cook, you could get burned, and don't, for heaven's sake cut anything, cause you may slice yourself. Eating may be an issue. . . It might be okay for you to drink water but be careful there's always the risk of choking.
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Where can i find a rich , young , kind lover?
the combo doesn't work. Rich + young usually means inheritance, often meaning brat or entitled or as someone pointed out, your corner drug dealer. These are rarely paired with kindness.
If someone is rich, young and kind, then they have excellent parents who are hands-on, and they are likely attending Harvard. Is that where you are? no? then forget it. Boys like this have a future and...
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Why is it important to combine honesty with love? What is honesty without love?
Honesty without love is honesty. Love without honesty is impossible.
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Is your marriage a bit of heaven... or a bit of hell on earth?
It's a bit of both
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My boyfriend gets really upset when I dont answer the phone right away. I usually call him back but sometimes he calls every minute of every five minutes. What should I do as he seems to be botherd by this? I do have a child and get busy.
He's trying to control you because he feels so insecure about the situation. On some level he believes that imposing this kind of control will solve his problem. The real deal is that it won't and until he works through his insecurity he will only make life miserable for both of you.
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Is it wrong to wake your girlfriend up out of a sound sleep and tell her she had a seizure if she didnt?
Totally, then the next day you can do it again. Wait a few days, and when she's walking in front of you, bash her over the head, and when she wakes up, you can tell her she had another one. Do it until you kill her, or she goes for brain surgery and dies on the operating table. Rinse, repeat.
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How do I end a relationship with a Virgo?
Tell them you want to sue them for false advertising cause they ain't no Flippin virgin!
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Girls, what you like most, kiss, sex or shoping or anything else.
I like good grammar, spelling and syntax.
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I'm dont consider myself as being gay, and for those who are I dont have a prob with it, but at times I like to get jacked off by another dude
What's your question?
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My boyfriend is widower and has a 19 and a 20 year old. They don't work and dropped out of college. He is very lenient and an enabler. My jaw drops at the life they live. I can't take this and I have younger kids. Anyone have any advice?
if I were you, it would make me crazy. I couldn't tolerate it. Run away.
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How do you know if someone is your friend?
Someone came up to me and said "hey buddy could you spare a dime". He called me buddy, so I think that makes him my friend.
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Do you ever worry that you've hurt someones feelings (on AB) with something you said?
I worry that I have never hurt anyone's feelings. I keep trying and trying, but it never seems to happen. asshole. . .
See? It probably didn't work with you either.
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My ex-husband and i have two daughters together. Do you think it is right that everytime I need something for our kids I have to go through his new girlfriend becuase she doesnt want me to talk to him?
um, no. You have a joint custody with your ex. Her insecurity is her problem, and your ex's problem, not yours. You should never have to deal with her.
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If your brother told you he was gay would you dissown him?? Help me please! I love him to pieces but is he the same person?
No, I would continue to think of him as the giant asshole that he is, only perhaps, I would think he was an asshole with a prick in it. Otherwise, it would pretty much remain status quo.
Actually, come to think of it, if he tole me he was gay, I might actually think better of him. It would make him more human and I would hope that it was the repression of his homosexuality that caused him...
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Can you name something that money can't buy?
dreamless, drug-free sleep
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Can a woman beat a man in fighting?
Any woman can beat any man in a fight. Here's the scenario :
Man: Let's fight
Woman: Sure (hauls off and knees him in the balls as hard as she can)
Man: (collapses to the floor clutching his groin, groaning)
Woman: Are we done yet?
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I'm a married, middle-aged manager. I had drinks after work with coworkers. Soon, it was just me and a 23 year-old secretary. She said she had a crush on me. I kissed & fondled her a bit. Now, I'm embarassed. How do I get out of this?
I would suggest you come clean to an HR person and ask their advice. If there's ever a chance that the secretary presses charges, your story would at least be on record. If the HR person agrees, I suggest you apologize to the secretary in the presence of the HR person, say you are very sorry, and promise that there will be no other inappropriate conduct from you. Be clear that it's...
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How can a high school boys relate to girls? For me there is no common interest to talk about :(
um, at a guess? how about school?
physics
PE
Home Ec
teachers
the geeks
the jocks
the druggies
the school play and how lame it is
the band
lockers
the relative state of the washrooms
the building in which these things take place
the state of the city in which they live
the state of the state
the state of the union
the state of the world
the difference between boys and girls
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Homosexuality is not a sin , the act of being homosexual is a sin. Understand ? Disagree?
I think asking questions about homosex and sin on AB is a sin, and the act of asking questions about homosex and sin on AB is, like, a super-sin.
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How do I stop myself from being jealous of my boyfriend's ex? They dated for a long time and broke off a 'friends with benefits' thing when he met me. Now we live together, but they're friends... I know he doesn't love her but I'm still jealous. Help!
I think you should take out a contract on her and have her removed from the scene.
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Your boyfriend is always touching you in public, you really love him, but dont like a public show, what should you do? (Hes really sensitive)
For me the PDA (public displays of affection) are a deal-breaker either way. I love being touched and want to be touched by the man I love, whether we are in public or not (appropriate touching in public, of course). I want him to sit by me, hold my hand when we walk together, put his arm around me, etc. i would want to know right away if he weren't comfortable, and I would probably move...
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Have trouble meeting the kind of woman i want should i just go to a 3rd world country and buy myself one?
Hell, why not. Though there is this growing problem of smart girls who "sell" themselves into marriage with desperate north americans, get married, get immigrated and disappear. Poof.
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Just found out my husband was going to cheat. He told bragged to his buddies and mom. She talked him out of it. How can I ever face any of them again if I stay?
buy a shirt saying "I'm with STUPID"
and wear it when you plan to meet up with any of these folk.
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Should sex-ed classes teach about Human Trafficing, and female mutalation going on in 3rd world countries? Girls from my school belive it should.
Those are both highly political subjects. It is fairly widely acknowledged in the AIDS community that the figures associated with human trafficking for the purposes of sex are hugely exaggerated. Also, what would one teach people about female circumcision? that it's wrong? Would you also teach them about male circumcision? and what would the stance be on that?
Most places (don't...
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What is the proper procedure for a Canadian to follow when marrying a Kenyan man for one reason...for him to become a canadian citizen?
Lie
Pretend you are getting married for real, then do whatever you would do if you were really getting married. You will have to lie to a lot of people, and you will likely have to live together - so if you're not prepared to do that, i wouldn't bother. They are a lot stricter than they used to be.
One way is for him to enter canada on a visitor's visa and then get married,...
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What's one thing you can never find?
The meaning of life
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Are you an underachiever? If so, why do you not demonstrate your full potential?
Totally! It's partly my personality type, partly because I can do a lot in a very little time, and I learn really quickly. So, in a work situation, I can whip something of quality together in the time it takes my colleagues to get to their offices. Essentially I know I could do five jobs worth of work here and maybe even then not be working to my potential. So I spend a lot of time...
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What was the final straw to make you bin your partner?
When I found out he was fooling around on me. I put up with a lot of BS from him, but when he told me he had fucked someone else I kicked him out. Asshole! 20 years ago, and it still makes me mad.
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Pity - is this an ok jumping off point for a relationship?
I'm thinkin "no". Pity is a really horrible thing, and if you feel pity for someone, then you are also feeling superior. I would say there is too much of an imbalance to start a relationship.
Compassion is another thing altogether.
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Ladies if someone came up to you with 5million dollars in a case and said this can be all yours but you have to walk away from your relationship with your b/f or husband and never see them again what would you do
Yeah, I would have to say I would. I mean, I love him and everything, but he cares a lot about money and if he ever found out I turned down the 5 mil, he would kill me. So I would take it and send him 20% ;)
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I want to be the most important person in my future husbands life..even more important to him than his mom..is that wrong?
As you get older, you will realize there is room in your life for all kinds of people and relationships: parents, children, partners, friends, colleagues. You cherish the people closest to you, like your husband and your children. Hopefully your husband will feel the same.
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What are the chances of getting pregnant over 50 with the mirena coil fitted
The chances of becoming pregnant over 50 are slim indeed. If you are still producing ova, they are likely damaged or infertile.
The Mirena coil reduces the chances of pregnancy even more. It prevents sperm from reaching any egg you may produce. And it reduces the thickness of the uterine wall, so IF you produce a viable egg and IF a spermatozoa reaches it and fertilizes it, the fertilized...
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My friend wants me to come along to a house party tomorrow but i am not sure i really want to go. How could i let her down nicely?
Tell her you don't feel like going. If she's your friend, she'll understand. Her disappointment is hers to deal with.
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A guy asking you about your best friend. but, at the same time, u're in love with him.. so, what's you are going to do? do you feel jealousy?
Well, first off, I wouldn't fall in love with someone who I wasn't involved with. So some guy asking about my friend, I may be attracted to, but never in love with, unless it was my BF asking about my friend, in which case I would slap him silly. Otherwise, I would do my best to get them together, and distance myself from my attraction.
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My boyfriend said that he likes an independent woman but the more independent and less needy I become the more he fights with me and tries to control me. He now says that if I don't give up all of my friends and family he will leave me.
Anyone who makes that kind of threat is really setting you up for disaster. Say goodbye, and quick!
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If you are sick.. who's are you thinking first? is that your lover?
Huh?
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Do you believe in spanking your children? Not like beating them or anything, but the occassional butt spanking?
One of the major problems with spanking is where the line is drawn. In every study done on spanking it's been shown that the majority of parents spank their kids during high stress times in the household, or in response to stimuli that have nothing to do with the child. That means parents spank when they feel impatient or stress, not in response to any particularly outrageous misbehavior...
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Do you believe in spanking your children? Not like beating them or anything, but the occassional butt spanking?
God, yes, I love being spanked.
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Do the woman & men in wife swap actually sleep with each others spouses?
Um, shouldn't this be under "TV shows" it's very confusing if you have never heard of this show. And by "sleep together" do you mean "have sex" or do you mean "sleep together"?
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How do you keep kids from drawing on the walls?
I let my kids draw in their closet. It was a nice space, enough wall room, and i didn't have to see the scribbling unless I wanted to. Any time I saw them going for another wall, I would tell them gently that they had their drawing wall, or paper.
Once they grow out of it (and they will), you can paint over it if you have the heart to do so.
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Do guys like tall girls? I'm 5'11 and weigh 130, I'm not ugly and yet no guy ever asks me out?
Firstly, guys almost never ask girls out. They are too chicken, especially under the age of about 25.
Secondly, getting guys to ask you out is not the point. If you want to date, date. Nothing is stopping you but your own complacency - you sit back and hope to be chosen. CHOOSE your own destiny.
Thirdly, dating, relationships and love have very little to do with looks or height or body...
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What should I get my girlfriend of 4 months for Valentine's day? She is allergic to all metals except gold, white gold, silver, and nickel.
Chocolate, I mean, four months? if we were talking 16 months, then maybe splash out, but four months? Chocolate, defs.
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Have you taken the Myers Briggs Type Indicator? Has knowing your "type" helped you in either your personal or professional life?
INTP - and yes, it's helped me to understand myself.
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Do all INTP personality types do badly at school? (not necessarily grade-wise, since we tend to get high grades regardless of how well we know the material..)
Pretty much. We don't have the social skills that it takes to be "successful" in high school. I think we are the quintessential nerds, er sumpin. Anyway, we don't send out the right signals, either for social interaction or for dating.
But if you think it's tough being an INTP male, try being an INTP female. Now THAT is a social challenge!
But all is not lost....
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Ok here is the deal I am a girl and not gay...my best friend acts like a guy,dresses like one and insists on wrestling with me all the time and but everyone tells me that she is gay and in love with me.??? Do you think she is?What clues should I look for?
Just make it clear to her that you value your friendship, but you are not interested in a relationship with her.
If she was a guy acting like that, what would you do? Unless you expect a different level of behavior from a guy (and why would you?), your evaluation of the situation and your response should be the same. Whether she's gay or not is rather immaterial.
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Please comments on this: If you really love someone, and that person told you to wait for him or her when you grow up. Would you wait? And what if you heard from a certain friend that he or she had a boy/girlfriend? Would you still wait?
What does "wait" mean in this context? Like you're not going to have friends, you're not going to date, you're not going to have sex or you're not going to get married? If that isn't defined, then it's just something romantic someone said, without really thinking about it.
If by waiting you mean sitting around pining for someone hoping they will come...
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Today i went for movies with my ex boyfriend. while we were watching movie he touched my knee and leg, part of thigh and hold it for few minutes. he did it 4 times atleast. so what does it mean? what does it signal
Why didn't you lean over and say, really loudly, "Why are you touching my leg like that"?
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I asked a girl out about a year ago, and she didnt like me so it got akward between us. Now, i think she likes me again. How do i know if she really likes me, and should i ask her out? P.S. Me and her twin bro are bffs and idont wanna kill ourfriendship
Well, if her bro is your BFF, why can't he help out in the situation a little?
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What's the most gruesome death you've ever read or heard about?
There was a recent case of a couple of yokels involved in a hate crime, who dragged a black man behind their truck. The were "only trying to scare him", so they tied his feet with rope and drove off. By the time they figured they had put some fear into him he had lost an arm, a good deal of flesh, oh, and his head.
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Have you ever been afraid to have kids?
Yes, when I was giving birth. YIEEEEE NOOOOO!!!! Heh
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I kissed my girlfriend once before, now when i asked for a kiss she said that i already got my birthday present (the kiss) does she not like me anymore? Also the school year is coming to an end and i may never see her again but i still like her a lot .
I'm thinkin you're young, and you should part happy with your nice memory of your birthday kiss.
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Money cannot buy you true love or true friendship. Yet the 'lack' of money can be a source of great distress. Poverty usually does not win friends or love, either. What are your thoughts on this paradox?
Your assumption is that true love and friendship will remove distress. In my experience true love is a great source of distress.
What money can buy is shelter, food, heat. Life can be pretty flippin distressful without those things.
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What do you think people though when they first seen fire?
Holy shit! Run!
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Can you think outside the box?
I don't know the box.
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My girlfreind and i want the best possible future together, do you think she should drop any male flirting types that try to worm their way in between us?
Either she's with you or she's not. Either she puts the relationship first, or she doesn't. Who she hangs out with should have no impact on that. No matter how flirty or what they tell her or what they lie about, if she trusts you and you trust her, then nothing will harm that. It sounds to me that you have doubts about that.
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The democrats loudly complain about the crminals in the Bush white house. Why are they doing nothing about William Jefferson, D-LA who has been indicted, among other things for bribe taking? Or does everyone keep $90,000.00 in their freezers?
I know I do - just for emergencies tho.
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Did you hear all the boo's George Bush got today?I didnt agree with alot that Bush did,but that was classless,and disrespectful.Would you agree?
Whatever I think of the booing, the fact that people felt moved to boo says something about their feelings towards Bush.
Frankly there are few politicians who have sown such deep rifts in their own countries and between their country and the rest of the world. It will be a very difficult task to repair the damage of such partisan politicking that has infiltrated almost all walks of the...
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Why do people keep calling Barack Obama the first African American presidential nominee when he is in fact mixed race (father is black, mother is white)? I think he should be called the first mixed race presidential nominee.
Well, he's as much white as black, so if you are being entirely logical he could be either.
But the point about his black-ness is that he is in the position to inspire generations of black people and really make a difference in their communities. It gives home that a black lad now has a realistic chance of becoming president. Now, when a black girl has that same chance, it will be a...
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Do you think the Obama's will have another child during his Presidental term?
With his ambitious agenda, I don't think he'll have time for sex.
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Will you keep your eye on what Obama will do the next 100 days?
The world will have it's eye on what Obama will do.
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For a 17 or 18 year old girl what is the oldest age a guy should be that she could date?
Here's my math answer to that:
Take the older age, divide by two and add 7. That's rough estimate of an acceptable age difference. What it means is that the younger you are, the closer the ages should be, and the older you are, the less difference it makes.
If you start with the younger age, take off seven and double it. so for a 17 - 18 y/o
20 - 22 is the max age you should...
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What does it mean if a girl asks you for money for her 16th birthday?
It means she wants money for her 16th birthday.
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Do dreams really mean anything?
They can for sure. Dreams are like the sub-conscience's playground. All the rules are asleep, and the swirling mass of flotsam and jetsam of your experiences come out to play. Sometimes there are messages there, sometimes they are deeply meaningful and sometimes they are just for fun. But every image in your dream belongs to you alone - you created the play, scripted it, cast it, and...
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Imagine that my only goal in life was to get laid as soon as possible. How would I accomplish that?
You didn't like the answer that you should hire a hooker, but seriously you gotta know that unless you're exceptionally handsome, charming or rich, you are in a very very long line of horny teenage boys whose sole goal in life is to get laid as soon (and as often) as possible. Given that there are very few women out there whose idea of a good time is getting laid by a horny teenager...
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My baby will be 2 at the end of june. He does not talk at all. Should I be concerned?
Einstein didn't speak until he was four years old. "Normal" isn't necessarily good.
I see this question was asked almost a year ago, has your baby spoken yet?
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Imagine that my only goal in life was to get laid as soon as possible. How would I accomplish that?
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All I want is head from a decently attractive girl. What do I do to accomplish this as soon as possible? Im a teenager and reasonable answers only please.
Earn some cash, and go and find a nice-looking hooker who you can buy it from. Expedient, relatively cheap, good, and you don't have to worry about calling her again.
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Do you think it is unusual for a 12 year old boy to love to read?
My son read Moby Dick (in it's original) when he was 11. I couldn't even read that now. So, no, it's not unusual, especially if someone has given them the love of reading. For my kids it was me, who read to them all the time - thru meals, at bedtime, waiting for the bus. For me, it was my Grade 4 teacher who read to us every day for an hour. Thanks Mr. Sykes!
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If you had a young child, and he willfully killed another young child, would you turn him in, or lie to protect him?
No child is going to go to prison for murder, unless they have a long history of heinous crime. The chances are very good though, that the child is mentally unstable. The authorities, with appropriate parental engagement, would hopefully get the child they help they would need. Turning the child in is the only thing to do.
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My 11 year old son has been caught with gay/porn in his history on his cmputer, i have found 2 profiles sayin hes gay and 3 sayin he likes girls i tell him all the time i love him regardless but he denies being gay what do i do bout his c
At 11 he is too young to be unsupervised on the internet. It's probably too late for you to exercise the proper supervision at this point, without it seeming like a punishment, but ALL (and I do mean ALL) advice about kids and internet say the same thing. The internet should ONLY be accessible to children in a public area of the home. Without the proper supervision, he's clearly...
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You must be Asian
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Do you think that online dating works for real? If so would you say its better than meeting someone face to face?
These activities are not mutually exclusive. Most people on online dating sites want to meet fairly early on, after the exchange of a few emails. So . . . Really, all the dating sites do is facilitate meeting a lot more people than you normally would.
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Is it wrong to meet someone from the internet, in real life when theres a big gap difference in age?
There's no way a 27 y/o who is healthy, and with good intentions would ever arrange to meet a 16 y/o. This guy has evil on his mind, no matter how much you like him.
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Wife committed adultery told people she was single and destroyed me. She begged for forgiveness and swore she was sorry after six + months of therapy I was able to them a week ago find out she is texting and talking to the same guy
Ask her flat out what she is doing. Maybe nothing, but at this point, she doesn't have any "right" to privacy on this particular issue. Depending on what she's up to, set her down and have a heart-to-heart about what she really wants to do. If she is to regain your trust, she needs to sever contact completely and forever with this guy. Was this not part of the discussion...
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How do you respond if your man/woman calls you their ex-lovers name
Laugh and imagine how you would react if you did the same - you'd feel like a heel.
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My girlfriend has never orgasmed before but wants to. After months of trying to achieve this through mostly fingering, still nothing. Any help? Does oral work better?
Oral, yes, why not.
A good lubricant + hands & fingers is also good.
If she has never given herself an orgasm, that is likely the best first step.
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Would it be a good idea and save lots of time if men and women who want to get married had a sticker on their back telling us they are available?
I'm thinkin it would work better on the forehead.
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When I say "FudegBucket" you immediatly think of what?
That you have trouble with spelling.
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Im going out with a 26 year old... im only 16! is this suitable?
Nope
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Would you spank your child @ 15 y/o if he/she came home drunk & stumbling?
Spank? a 15 y/o? Don't think so. I would send them to bed and be sure to wake them up really early and give them lots of chores to do. Sometimes a wicked hangover is the best punishment of all.
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Was i raped? i said no bbut when i knew he wasnt going to stop i just didnt put up a fight and just did what he said
Yes, you were raped. Just by your words "I knew he wasn't going to stop", you know it too.
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Why to guys leave me for a uglier girls
Beauty attracts, personality keeps.
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What do you think of girls pledging their virginities to their fathers? Disguisting or necessary?
Weird? for sure. Necessary? who knows. Effective? definitely not. Studies have shown that of these virginity pledgers, 76% engage in pre-marital sex within 5 years of making the pledge.
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I'm 22 and my guy is 23. We separated for a 6m because i wasn't ready to be committed. 1yr 1/2 later he says he's not going to be ready until he's 25. Do you think he telling the truth?
Who knows if he will be ready at 25? I am guessing he thinks he might be ready, but he can't really know that. All you can know is that he's not ready now. By committed, do you mean married? Cause I think you are both too young.
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Is there someone on Answerbag that you just don't flirt with?
There is everyone on Answerbag that I don't flirt with.
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I've noticed that when answering relationship questions, 99% of the people are so quick to tell the person to dump their S/O and move on without a second thought. What ever happened to working it out?
Most people don't think when they answer these questions, they don't want to probe for more information, so can't possibly see a way for someone else to work something out. There's just a knee-jerk reaction that says more about the person answering the q then it does about the situation being described.
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What's behind the trend of women dating far younger (age gap of 10 and over) men?
There are a lot of young men and young women looking for sex. The young women want sex from a man who is experienced, has money to take her out, has a car to pick her up in, etc.
There are a lot of older women and men looking for sex. Older men have clued in long ago that younger women seek their experience, the comfort and stability they can offer, and so have been seeking out...
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Is it true that there is only one way that a woman can get pregant because i was told that a woman can get pregnant from the ass
Depends on whether or not "the ass" is wearing a condom.
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At what age children start to argue with parents?
Depends on how the child is raised. If they are raised in a situation where they are taught to respect authority, they learn pretty quickly (often thru punishment) not to speak their mind. If they are raised in an atmosphere where their thoughts and feelings are respected and heard, then they learn pretty quickly how to discuss issues and situations in a surprisingly rational way.
In the...
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What do i do if my sister is getting married and my parents forbid my interracial partner to join me at the wedding?
I would talk to your parents about the situation to ensure that you really understand why your parents object to your partner. If indeed they are racially motivated, then I would talk to your sister, and let her know why you will be declining the invitation, and how saddened you are by the situation.
If they are racially motivated, your parents are hoping that the relationship is...
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Can you write an interesting sentence?
This sentence, in it's original form, was so interesting that it had to be changed - not only by AB staffers, but by several Internet Service Providers along the chain.
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Can you write an interesting sentence?
How odd, my posting appeared twice, thus I deleted my first gripping phrase and am replacing it with one more prosaic.
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So I thought someone I was talking to on the internet was another guy, it wasn't. I like talking with this person...but I just feel disappointed now knowing "he" is a she... Why? I don't think I'm gay..but..it was disappointing.
Depending on your age. . . a lot of kids in their early teens go thru a gender identity crisis and become attracted to members of the same sex. These days, there seems such a rush for people to "identify" as straight or gay or something. Try to not label yourself, realize that as you grow up your ideas and preferences for many things may change. Be true to yourself, and keep your mind...
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Have you ever gotten into an argument with a total stranger?
In fact yelled at a guy last night. Mostly cause he was a moron.
Dogs on leash - my dog has been jumped by a husky in the past, and so has an aggressive reaction to them. I pulled her over and made her sit, and was trying to keep her controlled, and this guy with his "husky" just let his dog jump all over her, and he ended up snapping at her. So i started yelling at him to get his...
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Yes or No: There will be robot love companions in our lifetime that will be indistinguishable from humans?
I hope so! The thing is, will it constitute cheating?
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What makes a man lose interest in sex?
Loads of things can affect a man's libido - physical health issues, stress, depression, over-work, fatigue, etc. etc. Family situations can impact his desire and attraction to his wife (that have nothing to do with his wife), body changes in himself or his partner. The list is pretty long, actually.
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Any Twins in your Circle of Friends?
I have one identical twin for a friend (I know his brother, but he's not really a friend) and another set of identical twins who are both friends. I also have two other friends who have twins siblings that I have never met.
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How do i get my 3 year old to stop crying? She only does it when im around. What have i done?My 2 year old isnt like that at all.
more context is needed.
Some children cry only when their parent is around because they don't feel safe expressing their feelings otherwise
Some children cry only when their parent is around because they have found it's a way of getting attention
There could be other reasons, but you need to assess the situation. Do you only pay attention to her when she cries? if so, you need...
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If a guy called you pet names like angel,baby,darling or hun.and always gave you lots of eye contact and a wink every time he see you,what would you think?
It depends on whether he has always done this, does it to others, or if you have a relationship building between you. I think tho, if he was your friend, you wouldn't be posting this q. So, what i think is that he's one of those creepy charming types that uses his charm and smarmy ways to get into as many girls' pants as possible.
I would say to him, "My name is ______ ,...
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My 13 year old stepdaughter tells me her that her mother is physically and verbally abusive, should I say anything to her father (my husband)? I can be honest and say that I do not want her to live with us, because of her mental and emotional status.
In some jurisdictions you are legally required to report what you know to the authorities, and can be prosecuted if you don't. You may want to check this out with a lawyer, but only as a hypothetical situation because telling the lawyer may create in him an obligation to report (yes, yes, I am aware of client privilege).
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Why is the sky so high?
any lower and the planes would have trouble flying in it.
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Have you ever become good friends with someone and then one day they just disappeared never to be heard from again?
erm, it happens to everyone who becomes my friend for some reason. Eventually they just . . . disappear. I worry about that, because a few of them have been found in a wooded area near where i live. . .
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What do you guys/girls think of this poem. It is a Haiku so it is kinda short. The Snipers/// Spys in the window/ Killing all those that they see/ Killing for country/
And it's not a haiku either
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Where are you and what is the tempeture there right now?
It's warmed up to -28 so far this morning
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IS BEING FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP?
Depends on the people involved. Some people can do it without being attached. If someone is doing it as a way to get into someone, then they are not being honest about their motivations. The FwB I had before my BF - we both knew there was no real relationship there, not in the long term, and we both were still "on the market". In the end we both found S/Os at around the same time, so...
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Hi my mate needs advice. she seen a bloke past2 years on & off. & she never wanted 2 get close he wanted 2 get close but she didnt, he was mad about her, & still is but is actin strange.She told him she really likes him, he said he likes her, What she do
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My friend has been seeing a man off and on for the past two years. She doesn't wanted to have sex, but he does and is angry with her rejection of him. He is now acting strangely, but they still really like each other. What should she do?
That's the question I will answer, and hopefully that's the question you asked.
I would say that your friend...
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My husband and I have a great relationship but it is a sexless relationship. I'm always asking when and he says soon. It has been well over a year and I'm tired of waiting. What should I do?
Have you ever had sex with him? If so, what happened?
Are you prepared to live in a sexless marriage? For some people it's not a big deal, but if it is for you, then you need to do something about it. Not having sex for an entire year indicates a fairly serious issue. I am pretty sure he knows what's going on with him, have you talked to him seriously about this issue? If he...
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What do I have to do, in order make a girl interested in me?
Learn to juggle
(I know I answered another question like this, but science does indeed show that women are very interested in guys who juggle)
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Should I spy on my teenage daughters (4 of them) internet activity, I have the tools to do so, but resist it?
All advice to parents regarding internet use says the same thing : have the internet access in a public place in your house. People ignore that all the time saying they can't do it for various reasons - which really are just excuses.
Using spying to replace appropriate parental supervision is just plain bad parenting. You would be violating their privacy because you are not prepared to...
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What do i have to do in order to sustain my girlfriend's interest in me?
Learn to juggle
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Why is water the only substance that expands when frozen?
Water had a number of unusual properties that make it a unique substance. Expanding when moving into a solid state is one of them. Another is it's ability to change from solid directly into a gas without the intermediary stage of liquid. It has a very high and elastic surface tension, and is unusually colored (very light blue -not visible in small quantities). It's a very strong...
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I am in my late 30's and single. What do you think if the idea of older women with younger men?
so, who's the older here, you or the women you are looking for (hint, your statement is not linked to your question clearly). bottom line is, how much younger? My personal rule of thumb is half plus 7, which means if you are 30, then 22 is the youngest you should be going for. If you're 38, then it's 26.
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I know for a fact my ex is seeing someone (thanks to facebook & friends), but he won't admit it. I'm not sure why. Do you think he's just trying to spare my feelings or to keep the door open? How can I find out?
Forget about him sugar and move on. Find someone else to invest your energy in.
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How can i be more romantic with my girlfriend if she doesnt find the typical things (opening the door, seeing chick flicks, flowers, etc) that great?
Seriously, I think you should be asking her. I mean, how can WE know what she finds romantic? I personally find flowers to be charming, but not particularly romantic. What I find romantic, is holding hands, talking quietly in the night together, things like that.
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My girlfriend vomits whilst making love, what can be the reason for this?
define "making love". are you face-fucking her? or tonguing her? what's going on physically?
If there is no physical contact with her mouth that could stimulate her gag reflex, then it's possible that you smell really bad, that she's terrified due to past sexual experiences - possible abuse, that you're a horrid lover, that she's bulimic . . . I don't...
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Women's Studies graduate auctions her virginity to help pay for college what do you ladies think
dunno, lost mine to my BF when I was 18. Had I known that I could SELL it for a mill or more, I may have reconsidered. Damn. Sure it would make me a prostitute - at the time, but I was also a waitress. Not a waitress anymore. So there.
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Women: "why do you want to look like her"?
nope, I would be happy to look like I think I do in my head, but I don't. It's weird every time I look in the mirror.
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Ladies: Would you find a man with a full beard attractive? Should I shave it or at keep it shorter instead?
Blech, beards. Give me a clean-shaven man any (and every) day. I know it's a hassle, but so is plucking my eyebrows, and it hurts less.
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Is it oxymoron to call yourself "Liberal" (considered open minded)and yet want to force ideas on others?
no, an oxymoron is a rhetorical figure in which incongruous or contradictory terms are combined, as in a deafening silence and a mournful optimist. The word you may be seeking is "hypocritical", if forcing ideas on others was in fact contrary to the tenants of Liberalism.
However, i am not sure that, using your definition of Liberal (considered open minded), precludes holding the...
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I work in a ok place and there is this girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy and she put her head on my shoulder when we were standing there does that mean n e thing?
Maybe she was tired.
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How long does it take to get citizenship of another country?
Totally depends on the other country, and of course who and what you are. Of which country are you thinking?
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Have you ever fallen asleep whilst kissing/having sex?
I've had sex while asleep, but I was already asleep, and so was he. There was a lot going on at night in that house. Apparently.
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I think my gf is a compulsive liar and i cant figure out if she relaly loves me or if its jsut another one of her lies
And there you have hit the nail on the head as the number one issue with a liar. You will never know a)if she loves you b)if she is faithful to you c)if she already has a husband d)if she is really going to work etc. etc. etc. Compulsive liars are really fucked up people and there is no way they make good partners.
Someone I know married a compulsive liar, and all of the above and more...
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What would you think if your best friend tells you that he's only your best friend because you're too ugly to be his girlfriend?
I would think that I had made a terrible choice of "best" friends.
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Do you think it is ok for parents to allow a young child to dress however they want? For example if a 5 year old boy would rather wear dresses and bows should the parents let him? Why?
I had that experience with my son. He has an older sister, who was a real girly girl. And he loved her with all his heart. I think he just wanted to be like her in all ways and wanted to wear her dresses all the time. I let him, cause why not? It didn't seem to be a problem for anyone, except that people understandably mistook him for a girl sometimes (he was very boyish looking despite...
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Can we find another, less pejorative word than "cheater" to define men and women who have relationships outside their marriages?
First of all a cheater is someone who has broken a promise or a vow. If you are in an open marriage, then you are not cheating if you take on a lover, because both parties are aware of the potential and they may have set ground rules about how it's done.
If you are sneaking around, and you know your behaviour is going to hurt your partner, and is contrary to your agreement, then you...
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Can a guy like to wear girl clothes and not be gay? Or what would you call that?
Where have some of these people been for the last 30 year, the moon? Okay maybe if you are 10 you haven't heard of a cross-dresser, but seriously, there are many many references to cross-dressing throughout popular culture.
A transvestite is someone who practices cross-dressing - this may or may not be a sexual fetish, and the person may or may not be gay.
A Drag queen, is someone...
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What's the best way to politely reject a job offer?
Thank you very much for your offer. I have decided to accept another position, but I very much enjoyed meeting you (if you did) and I hope we have a chance to work together in the future.
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Girl can u tell me if u find me attractive or average or below average or quite decent in looks....?so that i would become easier for me to choose a right kind of girl for me....?
Would you shut up already with your digging for compliments. It's really a bore. And how you look doesn't matter if you are really stupid and needy.
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My b/f' doesnt like to discuss his kids or ex with me. She called & he returned her call, he spoke in a very hushed tone , almost a whisper. Clearly he didnt wish for me to hear..when I asked him he said it really wasnt my business. Am i wrong to be mad?
He feels that his past life is his business, for whatever reason he doesn't want you involved in it in any way. You feel that his past life is your business, and you want to know more about what's happening.
I think it's rude of him to be making phone calls in your presence - especially since he doesn't want you involved in the situation. If he wants to keep you and his...
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What does it mean for a married man to say he is attracted to other females and does this mean he will cheat?
No. It is normal to sometimes be attracted to people outside your primary relationship. If your husband tells you he's attracted to someone, I would take that as a GOOD sign that he is being honest with you and disclosing something that may hurt you but will help him stay faithful.
If someone is attracted to someone outside their relationship and hides it from their S/O, the chances of...
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I let my ex come back, he hurts me but I always let him come back and I don't know why What should I do? He knows I'll let him back b/c he knows how I feel Is he just playin mind games or tryin to see how far I'll bend? B/c I'll bend 'till I brake for him
I think you have answered your own question.
You know you should leave him forever, you know he's taking advantage of you, and you're willing to keep taking him back until you "break". Seems pretty clear what choice you have made.
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If you could instantly learn one lesson/thing what would it be?
Classical piano at a grade 10 level.
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What do you do when it feels like the walls are closing in on you?
I often feel suffocated when I am stressed, so I go outside for a walk or a run. The exercise helps alleviate the stress, and being outside addresses the claustrophobic feeling.
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Why do women need so much attention?
This q has been asked in many ways here. There's another one that's similar . . . Why do men need so much attention, or something like that.
The bottom line is some people are needy, some people are very independent and some people are very distant. When there's a bad match (say between a "normal" person and a distant one, or between a needy and a...
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Disregard this question
It's not a question, so I am not disregarding it.
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Any other ways to drink Captain Morgan Spiced Rum besides with coke and ice?
in hot apple cider with cinnamon
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Is it okay for me to tell my husband that he needs to tell his mother to move out of our house? She moved in with us in November and was supposed to move out in Dec. It's January and she has made no plans to leave! I am about to have a breakdown
Yes, of course it is. The decision to have someone move into your house is one that should be made together. If someone has over-stayed their welcome, it is perfectly appropriate to ask them about their plans. I suggest tho that you offer to support your husband in this, and that you plan to talk to your mother-in-law together. He may be as concerned about it as you are, but can't bring...
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Why do you think married women cheat on their husbands?
Because their men are lousy insensitive lovers?
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He has told her to leave me alone and that she needs to move on. He has told her we are togeather . But how do i know if he is lying to me? something just seems fishy.
If it seems fishy, it probably is. Trust your gut.
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I love my boss.We secretly started talking on the phone..we use to talk for hours everyday,he would get fired if caught.we hooked up and now he tells me that we cannot talk untill I get a new job.He completly ignores me like I don't exsist.Why?Im so hurt!
You've been played. The thing is that immoral people are immoral. It's not that they break only the codes or rules that you agree should be broken, they break them all. Including those that say we should treat people with decency and respect.
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If you're not gay and I'm not gay, is it possible to be gay together?
If by "be gay together" you mean to have sex, then yes, it's totally possible. I am not gay and my BF is not gay, and we have sex all the time. In fact for most couples I know neither of them is gay, but they have sex too. So weird.
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I am a little OCD and this has always bothered me. Why, when the ethnic or other demographic breakdown of a city is provided, the sum total is over 100%? Am I not understanding something here? (see answer for breakdown of my city)
You need to ask a statistician. These numbers are not for mere mortals to understand.
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I have been with my girlfriend for almost 5years and she keeps inviteing a male friend to stay over night or for a few days! mind i don't like him and they know that is it highly possible that she's cheating on me? she's so different when he's around
Do you think she's cheating? That probably more important than whether we think she's cheating. If it's making you miserable then tell her. If she doesn't do anything about it then you can either put up with it or dump her. If she's a good girlfriend she will support you and stop having him over, at least that's what I would do as long as my BF wasn't the...
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How is it fair for a woman to expect your attention when she has nothing to occupy your attention? nothing to talk about, figure out, or do... she just wants your undivided attention. how can that possibly be reasonable?
Why would you date someone like that? How is that reasonable?
Maybe you have gotten tired of her excessively large breasts.
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How do you know everyone who has cheated will do it again anyway?
You don't. Some people learn from their mistakes.
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I am a 21 yo i am dating a man who is 13 years older than me. He is married but legally seperated from his wife but not divorced yet . his wife keeps calling me and harrassing me and telling me he is lying to me that they are still togeather?
Despite the presence of a question mark at the end of your post, it's not actually a question.
However, he sounds like a nightmare, and I suggest you dump him ASAP.
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What is the one invention that is making your life SOOO much easier or better?
my iPod. I love my iPod. I can carry ALL my music with me wherever I go, and access it so easily. I listen to music a lot more and it's improved my enjoyment of life considerably.
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My boyfreind tells me that one day he will marry me? what does that exactly mean? we have been dating for 10 months how long should i wait for him to propose? i feel if you want to marry someone you should just do it. am i wrong?
Yes. There is no hurry, and I guess he's not ready yet. If you are dying to get married, you might want to ask yourself why.
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How do you stay married forever--what are some tips
Do the dishes.
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What keeps you from cheating on your s/o?
I have no desire to cheat. Whatever I need or desire I ask from my s/o. We both know that trust is vital to our relationship and that trust is sacred. If someone were to break it, it would probably mean the end of the relationship. People usually cheat because they are dissatisfied with their relationship and are, for whatever reason, not willing to work on it.
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Why he is keeping me in his facebook friends list?? isn't it over as he said !!
keeping you as a facebook friend means nothing. The fact that he doesn't respond to emails from you seeking closure (if that's what you're doing) means he lacks the maturity to discuss his actions and lacks respect for you. If you are cyber-stalking and obsessing, delete him from your friend's list, block him, delete his email address and any email you ever got from him....
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My boyfriend keeps accusing me of cheating and he claims that he's hearing it from other people. I have a feeling that he is cheating on me with his ex. What should i do?
It does indeed sound like he has a guilty conscience. Why are you with such a creepy guy?
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Do you believe it's wrong to forgive someone who has cheated on you? Do you believe it's wrong to forgive the person/people who helped your s/o cheat as well? To both of these questions, why or why not?
Forgiveness is crucial. You don't have to accept them back or open your heart to them again, but you do need to forgive them. We are all human and we all make mistakes. Holding your anger and hurt inside you only hurts you. Working at understanding and forgiveness heals you and allows you to forgive yourself for your own failings.
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Why do we say "the late Mr. Smith" when referring to someone who has died? Why use "late"?
cause now, he's late for EVERYTHING
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What is your opinion on the economy?
Though it hasn't yet been declared, we are headed for a depression, and a long one. I don't see any recovery until Q3 2010. Until that time, look for shortages of credit, low liquidity, lack of market and investor confidence, depressed housing markets, and growing unemployment. You heard it here first!
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After two or three minutes my wife will often tell me she has a headache, sometimes she need not say a word and I get the message. Is this normal or am I clairvoyant?
Two or three minutes of sex? What are you doing? If you're banging her and you hear a "thump thump thump" maybe it's her head against the headboard of the bed? That's sure to do it. Try moving down in the bed.
Two or three minutes of foreplay? It means kissing, touching, fondling and licking various parts of the body, not just the forehead (a common mistake)
Two or...
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What’s something your sibling does that you can brag about?
Legally blind but drives a car.
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What did your parents forget to tell you as you grew up?
That life was hard, but that perseverance pays off.
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I am in love with my brother-in-law. I am married but am in love with the brother-in-law. What do I do?
Spend some time thinking about the best case scenario if you make a move with this guy. What do you think the impact will be on the family - that's two marriages in one family that you will be destroying.
Also, what is the situation in the family? My BF's brother-in-law flirts like crazy with me I think cause he has some kind of competition going with my BF. I have no idea what...
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How do you persuade someone.?
. . . to ask a complete question with some context?
I find ridicule works.
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If your pet suddenly talked and asked for a beer, what would you say?
"You're such a great dog, you are welcome to a beer. But if you want to barf after, please ask to be let out first."
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My man is in love with me and his ex,how can get him to choose me?
You can't. You are in a relationship with someone who is not emotionally available to you. There is nothing you can do to MAKE him be available to you. You have to decide whether or not you want to stay with an emotionally crippled man, who clearly cannot be on his own, and can't let go of the past.
What is it that draws you to such an emotional cripple? Don't you think you...
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My bf lives about 5000 miles away from me, and he said that the soonest possible time that he will be able to come and see me is on december this year :( .sometimes i feel like i cant take it anymore. what should i do? :(
More details are needed for a good answer. How long have you been dating? From the wording of your question it sounds like you have never lived close together. If that's the case then I would suggest you move on. There are PLENTY of guys who are much closer than that.
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What happened in the past that still makes you laugh every time you think about it?
I have a friend who is really accident-prone. I mean REALLY. Over a two-day period, he fell twice on his face, walked into a pole, broke things in a shop, and had something fall on him from a shelf. And for the most part he was sober. When I tell the story of the evolution of the bruises and bumps on his face, it always makes me laugh. Cruel, I know, but soooo funny.
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Should I have to pay my parents the money I make from a part-time job?
It depends on the situation. In my house I have made the rules clear to my kids, so it didn't come as a surprise to them when once they had finished high school and weren't in uni, they paid rent - NOT a small portion of their earnings, as some have suggested, but something more substantial. I have no interest in housing freeloaders, simply because I don't think it helps to...
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If a friend just crashed their car and asked to borrow yours. Would you accept?
Yep, sure. I don't use mine much and I am happy to share it with people who need it. Chances are good if someone has just had an accident, they won't have another one soon.
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What goes through a woman's mind on a first date?
1) How long is he going to talk about his ex-wife?
2) How long do I have to stay here so that I don't come across as terribly rude?
3) Why is he telling me about the things he owns?
4) I never knew it was possible to talk quite so much about a car.
5) . . . cute . . . funny . . . good conversationalist . . . interesting and interested
6) (there was no six)
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What are peoples thoughts on cybersex?
Tell me more about that and . . . ummm, yes, that's it. oooooh yeah. oh yeah, that's nice.
:D
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Time-outs or spankings? What form of discipline seems to work best?
I prefer being spanked, personally. Time-outs don't really turn me on all that much.
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I am single man,and seeking female companions,
how i approach to women i am interested in,without fear of rejections .
I want to live my life, but I stay indoors cause I could get hurt. How can I get outside without being afraid of going outside?
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Do you believe that when you let go of the ex, and moved on they always want to know then?
Huh?
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Is it true America was founded by pruids and if that is true way is europe more aproveing than america on all around sexuality and appeal?
erm. . . Puritans. America was founded by Puritans, and other persecuted minority religious groups fleeing Europe. Suggest you google Puritans, and read about them. Then maybe Puritans and their role in forming american culture.
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If your girlfriend of 2 years hid a promise ring you gave her from her mother?...She's an uppity college mom, who's husband left her when she was like 30. 46 now and never remarried, I think maybe a lesbian but who knows. We never had any probs(mom n me)
Except in your last question you called her an uppity bitch. So, what gives? is she the man-hater, or are you a misogynist? From what I have seen, it seems like the latter.
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My sons wife constantly gets mad at him because he spends so much time at our house when she wants him home with her. He has always been very close with us. Is she too needy?
Ummm, he's married and has a new family. How much time does he spend with you? and why isn't she there too? I would find it weird if my husband left me at home a lot to go hang with his parents.
I would say that unless there is some special circumstances (like he helps care for an infirm relative) then anything more than an hour or so a week, without his wife at his...
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Do you think it's possible for a person to be manipulated into cheating on his/her s/o?
There are probably many people who would not need to be manipulated into cheating, a simple invite would suffice. Then there are many people who are easily manipulated. But if you're asking if I could be manipulated into cheating, I would have to say no. There's nothing that anyone could blackmail me with, and I wouldn't cheat on my BF ever.
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Am I the only person who is extremely interested in human relationships?
yup, clearly the only one. The rest of us wander the earth, islands unto ourselves.
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I want a bf. But there's no cool guys at my school. I'm 12 if anyones out there. Help me.
erm. . . 12? What do you want with a BF at 12?
But if you really want someone to take you out on dates and lust after you, try hanging out on a street corner in a miniskirt. Also the child porn market really goes for girls your age - try advertising your services on the web, I am pretty sure you could find some cool guys to take care of you.
On the other hand, if you want to enjoy your...
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I have been dating my bf for a year and half, he has met my daughter and yet he still doesn't want to move in together. He talks about it, but doesn't say when. Even tho he knows I am currently looking to move. What is the best way to handle this?
I think if he's talking about it, that's a good sign. I have been dating my bf for a year, and we only just started talking about it, and have set a tentative date (in another year and a bit) and figure by then we'll know for sure whether or not we have a good chance of making it together. I brought it up by saying that I would like to ultimately build a life with someone, which...
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Did you have a dream last night,?
yes, I dreamed all night (it seemed) of owls. I kept seeing through tree branches to an owl perched on a roof. Later in the night, I dreamed that three owls were standing around me, and tho they were all barn owls, they had different color feathers, like they were wearing different clothes.
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Who does most of the housework in your house?
The dog. She's the only beast who regularly cleans anything. The kitchen floor, and her own dishes. She rocks.
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I am 99.9 percent sure my daughter took money out of my purse while visiting and I confronted her knowing she isnt trustworthy, she denied it saying she didnt go upstairs. What should I do?
Let it go and lock up your valuables next time.
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What's the best place you can take some one on a date if you have no money?
Depends on where you are. If you have a park nearby, then go for a walk, if you're near a mountain, then go on a hike. I live in a place that has a canal that freezes in winter. Skating there is the most romantic thing in the world, and it's FREE!!
Your municipality probably has things that you can see for free - exhibits, lectures, etc. There are likely many groups that offer free...
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What did you do today to make you feel good about yourself?
Baked bread :))
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Is there any sane women left?
ARE there any literate men left?
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Which person, living or dead, would you like to run up to and give a big friendly hug?
Santa Claus . . . oh wait, he's not dead or alive :'(
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Do you think it's wrong for me to secretly 'try out' religions?
Why "secretly"? Who are you hiding from? certainly not god. Personally i believe in a god who is wherever people are seeking a better more spiritual path. What you may find if you really try to understand other religions is that they all have aspects that will speak to how you see the world. That's what I found (Comparative Religions in uni). Fortunately there is a place of...
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Why do young married people between 18-30 have the highest divorce rate?
Because they're young and have no idea what they want in a mate,
Because they marry to escape a bad family situation,
Because they're horny and want to screw and are told they can't do that if they're not married.
There are probably lots more reasons, but that's what springs to mind.
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My relationship with my bfriend ended cos I cheated on him,we have a son together .He wants to get back together for the sake of our son.I still love him and i regret what I did.He has not forgiven me.Should I accept his offer?
You should get back together only if there is hope that he can forgive you and you both want to heal the relationship.
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How many eggs can you eat?
144 per year exactly
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What is your favorite quote in another language? (please include a translation to english)
Not my favorite, but I always found this amusing:
Comment voulez-vous gouverner un pays qui a deux cent quarante-six variétés de fromage?
- Charles De Gaulle
How can you govern a country that has two hundred and forty-six varieties of cheese?
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What is your favorite quote in another language? (please include a translation to english)
L'enfer c'est les autres
- Jean-Paul Sartre
Hell is other people
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Who has a problem with gays, lesbians, or bisexuals?
Some (but not all) religious groups do. An outstanding "religious" group are the Unitarians who have been supporting gay rights and performing gay marriages for years. If anyone is interested check out www.uua.org
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My friend has been going out with her boyfriend for over a year now, she's 27 and he is 39, she really wants to get married but she feels that her bf is not yet ready and he hasn't asked her. What must she do?
Has she talked to him about it? It seems kinda weird that instead of her talking to him about it, you're talking to us. What's the point of that?
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Is swallowing cum safe
pfft
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Women: what do you like in men?
I do like my man to have all the essential body parts. I suppose if one part were missing, I could live with that, but it would be difficult for him to live without a chest.
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My daughter 13 tells me everything like I am her buddy. Thats a good thing but she told me the new next door neighbor boy of 15 is asking her to get drunk/and or smoke pot w/him. She hasn't done either one yet but wants too now. Help? What do I do?
Talking to air, this poster hasn't been on in the two years since she put up this Q. Wonder what's happening now?
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Is gay marriage wrong?
Nuffin - people really just want to impose their beliefs on others. What two consenting adults do together is of no concern of anyones. (hint to those saying it's a slippery slope towards marrying dogs and children: "consenting adults" is a key legal concept, please do us all a favor and learn what it means)
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My good friend met this guy a month ago. They are already living together & now planning on getting married. I think she is making a huge mistake. I already expressed to her that i think shes making a mistake by doing this to soon. What should i do?
Let her know that no matter what, you'll be there to support her.
Stand by and get ready to pick up the pieces.
Bite your tongue when you want to say "I warned you".
Hope for and wish them the best of all possible worlds.
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Ladies, What's the point of diamonds?
As the hardest substance in nature, I think they have many practical purposes. But for a really beautiful gem, you need a huge honkin jewel - if you have ever seen the crown jewels in the Tower of London, you'll know what I am saying. So, if you can't spend several million dollars, there are far nicer gems to be had. Never mind that most diamonds are created either by destroying the...
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Why does man exist?
To pick up after woman.
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My boyfriend makes me sound like a total worth less B!TCH to his friends, so if we break up they don't date me. Is this a bit crazy? I am pretty awesome to be around and don't want people thinking that. How can I make it look like i'm not?
Why would you even date someone like that? If he's such an ass, his friends are probably asses too, so why would you want to date them?
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I feel so bad,i cheated on my boyfriend because alot of people in my fam keep telling me he was a guy n dat he probably done it to me so y should nt i,but i regret it i feel ashame i really do luv him any advice on y they said this 2 me/did i do wrong
Troll or Trailer Trash, hummm . .
My guess? Trailer Trash from the south - Louisiana, is it? Boyfriend locked up, perhaps? You went back to your family cause he was paying the bills and now your family doesn't want you shacking up again with an ex-con.
I wonder how close I am. Anyway, rest assured that your family, warped as they may be, likely has good intentions towards you....
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Over the long run of time who do you love more your spouse or your pet?
"Over the long run of time" my pet will be dead, so I am betting on my spouse.
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Does your significant other have to be attractive?
Only to me.
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In my job we use "finger cots" to keep from getting fingerprints on photos. My stepmom threw a fit because one of these fell out of my pants when she did the wash and she thought it was a condom. No explanation good enuf. What would you do?
I would cry for her that her husband is so obviously lacking in the "size of the ship" department (sorry that's probably your dad). Then I would tell her that if she chooses not to believe your explanation, that's her prerogative and in future you will do your own laundry and would appreciate it if she would mind her own business.
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Should I spend $4.00 on Cigarettes or Cat Food?
Well, if your cat smokes, I am betting he'd prefer the smokes. If the cat food is for you, I am betting you'd prefer the smokes too. So, I'd have to say, go for the smokes.
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What do you think of the idea of being an "ex gay"?
Well, how people identify themselves is not scientific. For sure there are a lot of bisexuals out there who identify as "gay", then, when it serves them to do so, they identify as "straight". They could settle down and marry anyone and be contented, but it doesn't make them either gay or straight. Or ex-gay or ex-straight for that matter.
For people who have an...
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Does anyone know of 5 very angular symbols that represent 5 virtues or morals? i know it has nothing to do with Sikhism but anything else you might come up with would be very helpful.
Seems there are several of "five" type symbols related to virtues or otherwise
In Christianity:
The pentagram figured in a heavily symbolic Arthurian romance: it appears on the shield of Sir Gawain in the 14th century poem Sir Gawain and the Green Knight. As the poet explains, the five points of the star each have five meanings: they represent the five senses, the five fingers,...
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I don't feel anything for my husband anymore. We just live our lives together, but apart. Understand? I don't know what to do. I don't want to leave him, but I don't want to be unhappy. What do you think?
I saw a movie the other night - Paris je t'aime - I think. A series of shorts by different directors based in different Paris neighborhoods. In one of the stories a man is about to tell his wife that he is leaving her, but she bursts into tears and tells him that she has just found out that she's dying of cancer and hasn't long to live. He decides at that moment to rise to the...
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Which is the longest word in an English dictionary?
Ahhhh google-
giving you answers you don't really want to hear
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Longest_word_in_English
lists a disputed word that has over 200,000 letters. Also lists "coined" and "technical" words that are longer than the longest non-coined, non-technical word, which, by the way, I have always understood to be the longest english word:
...
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Should homosexual couples be allowed to marry?
Sure, and they can in a socially progressive country.
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Where are all the single, good-lookin guys between 40 and 45 years of age?
In their basements playing WoW, or cybering in SL.
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When you argue with your children, do you think like your children, or do you step back and think like a mature person? I see many that get caught up in the argument, do you see that a lot?
I sometimes have to rise to the level of my children. I didn't use an "authority" model to raise my children, and tried to stick to reason and natural consequences. I think it's worked quite well. My kids were allowed to question decisions and I usually would give way to well-reasoned arguments, which made them into very good arguers. They know how to present their case, to...
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Should my roommate's boyfriend (who i don't know) be allowed to shower and sleep over at my house all the time? (we only have 1 shower) I own the condo but she pays rent. Don't know what is acceptable and what is not.
You rented to one roommate, not two. Two people use facilities more, like more hot water, more space, more time in the bathroom. They also create more noise and more mess. It is totally fair for you to sit your roommate down and tell her you're not cool with it. Then set some limits - i.e., that she can have a guest over once or twice a week with a max of five or seven times a month, or...
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Should i tell my boyfriend about my husbands girlfriend?
Hahaha, too funny.
After I did the math on that one, it made me laugh. Then, reading how a bit of someone's soul died when they read it, that just made me laugh harder. Just goes to show you that some people . . . uh, well, can you say gullible?
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Do social aid institutions work against evolution?
Apparently human evolution ceased about 100 years ago. I think antibiotics and other modern chemicals have contributed to the end of the adaptive ability of the human race, but they are not the only sources - evolving technology is also a factor. In order to cease human evolution, the interaction has to be global in scale - it has to happen all over the world, so unless you mean something...
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Where are the available single men ages 35-50 that have no children?
Down in their basements playing WoW or having cybersex on Second Life.
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For six years I have been dating this wonderful single Mom with 4 children. At home she co-sleeps with all of them 12-19 yrs old. What is going on? Two yrs ago when I found out about it she said it was only occasional but I believe its fairly regular?
Everyone sleeping together was totally the norm a few hundred years back. In today's society many people think it's weird because we now have a tendency to sexualize everything. Studies have shown that co-sleeping boosts confidence in children and strengthens family bonds, there is some limited evidence that it can even reduce crib death. I can see how entering into this family...
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Iv been with my boyfriend a year, we dont live together. im desperate to be with him. he said he will propose soon. we discuss our wedding. But allways he says soon. He has a commitment problem. im 41, been divorced with kids. He's never
I don't understand why you're "desperate" to be with him. Do you have emotional or financial dependancy issues? If so, that may be enough to make him hesitate. In your 40s you and he both have seen a lot of water under the bridge. There's no harm in taking it slowly and being sure it's what both of you want. If you can't sit him down and talk about a time...
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I want to be more outgoing (because I am quite shy), so my school friends will like me more. When I go back to school, how can I change to make myself more outgoing?
Join the drama club - audition for the school play - join the choir and the band. There's nothing like performing to get you over shyness and hanging out with a bunch of extroverts that you will learn from.
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What is the best way to make someone really hate you?
Tell them their question is stupid, and they are stupid. In fact their whole family is stupid.
Did it work?
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Why do women get mad when men don't call them that much? Why are they desperate for so much attention?
It all comes down to DNA. If you are an evolutionary biologist (HINT - Creationists beware) you would say that all relations between men and women are breeding strategies. It's all about reassuring the continuance of your genes. YOUR genes. The strongest and fittest genes. So, evolution favored men who would breed continuously - by finding many partners and impregnating them. Evolution...
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How many times a week do you actually sit at your table at home and eat dinner without any disturbance like, tv, radio, or the phone or (cell) phone ringing?
Usually. I have one tv, it's in the living room and it's only on if someone is watching it. Can't abide the endless noise of an unwatched TV. I do have a radio in the kitchen, but usually I listen to it (on a public broadcasting channel) when I am alone - it's a good source of topics for dinner conversation. As for the phone, well, it does ring sometimes during dinner -...
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So which countries currently don't hate America?
Dubai
Uruguay
and
Djibouti
but I am not sure about Djibouti
or Uruguay
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People always give me and my girlfriend comments like "you guys are so cute together". I think its getting annoying, what does it mean anyway?
either you're:
a) both under 5 feet tall
b) dressing alike
c) do really cutesy things like poking each other's noses
or
d) say really cutesy things like calling each other schmoopsey
Stop being or acting so cute, get a little more hardcore and people will stop calling you cute.
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How long can you be married in Idaho and be able to get an annulment?
googling "family law idaho annulment", returns this:
http://law.findlaw.com/state-laws/annulment-and-prohibited-marriage/idaho/
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Where & What is the worlds tallest Man-Made Structure?
Burj Dubai or Dubai Tower in . . . wait for it . . . Dubai, UAE
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burj_Dubai
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What do you think of people who use big words all the time? No matter if they know what they mean or not.
We have a word for them - sesquipedalianists, and those who fear them have hippopotomonstrosesquipedaliophobia.
Calling someone a sesquipedalianist (someone who uses sesquipedalians) is somewhat ironic, cause, clearly one employs a rather large word to criticize someone who uses large words.
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If you're breastfeeding, have you ever had a drink. Please explain.
Loads of people have, and I have. My mother's doctor told her to drink a beer every time she fed her baby. He said it would help her relax and give her some liquid. That may have been incorrect advice, but was 50 years ago and it's as wise and valid (or possibly more so) than the freakin "never ever allow alcohol to pass your lips" attitude that exists today. It's a...
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Why do I have trouble ending a relationship that I know needs to be ended. I always try to convince myself that things will get better but they never seem to.Some people can just end it and walk away, why cant I?
Well, I have read the other responses, and mine is perhaps a little different. I have flushed many a relationship for loads of reasons, and here am I at middle age without a long term relationship under my belt. Why? The thing is, I have come to realise that I don't know how to make a relationship work, so when the going gets tough, I get going, rather than digging in and working on it....
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I wanted to know if I can go ahead with a commitment ceremony despite being in a civil partnership with my ex? Or do I have to go through a dissolvement beforehand?
That's actually a great question. It would be a better legal question if you were planning a marriage. Since it's a commitment ceremony, i don't think it much matters, since it's not entirely "legal". However, you might want to check out the family law statutes in your jurisdiction.
I, for one, have been in two common-law "marriages" and have been...
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Is it true that only people you love can truly hurt you?
The closer you are to someone, the more the emotional entanglement, the greater potential for hurt. That's why it's hard to really open yourself up to someone - to really love someone with all your being means be very vulnerable to being hurt.
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The two owners of my company are gay and have been a couple for 14 years. They just announced they are splitting up but remaining partners in owning the company. What do you think their chances are of making that work?
Chances are probably about the same if the situation involved a hetro couple. Gay people are actually just people and any two people may or may not have the maturity to manage a break-up in their personal lives in a way that would allow them to continue to work together.
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9 abusive relationships in 2 years. I'm only 14. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME!?
Which you are amply proving by being in your ninth abusive relationship in 2 years.
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What are some good break up songs to listen to that will make me feel better and not cry?
How about "Thorn in my side" by the Eurythmics
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhi4bNF-QB0
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How serious can a 22 year old guy be about a realtionship?
Don't know, have you asked him? I would say it depends ENTIRELY on the 22 year old guy.
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How would the 'Average Joe' get an investigation for revocation of a Security Clearance instigated? It is not due to passing information, it is due to a married man's affair with a co-worker and they both have government security clearances.
I would say you should mind your own business. If you really really truly in your heart believe that your co-workers are a serious security threat due to their affair, then I would tell their bosses.
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What are your thoughts on people who constantly have to be in a relationship and they cannot be single?
I say ARRRRGH! and all the kids on here (under 18 years old) who obsess about love and relationships and girl/boyfriends. It makes me crazy - are we raising a bunch of dependency dependents? Seriously, you never hear about people doing anything alone, all the kids move in packs, or herds. Maybe they're cattle, or something, anyway . . . just ARRRRGH!
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Why are parents so concerned about their kids sexuality?
I think many people want to raise children who are "just like them". Either "just like them", or Just like they would have been had they all the opportunities they are giving you. Like - they want you to be a doctor, cause they woulda been a doctor had they had the loving care and support that you received, see?
Very few parents set out to raise their children to be...
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Is there any way to get text messages both sent and received from my child's phone, forwarded to mine? I want to know what they're doing.
Creepy. If you can't trust your children at 14 and 16, then you can't trust em, and if you can't trust them, then why did you buy (and presumably continue to pay for) cell phones for them? What is watchdogging them going to do? create more fights, is my guess. Either way, you start surveillance and they'll start messaging in the old fashioned way - by talking to people (oh...
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If your boyfriend stayed with you but had his own house and he rented the house without telling you or discussing it with you would it upset you? I dont want a live in and its almost like he is forcing me to keep him because he rented out his home.
It would totally upset me. I would ask him straight up if he had a place to sleep tonight, cause it certainly wouldn't be in my house.
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Has anyone on AB been purposly ignoring you?
I find most people just ignore me. It's probably for the best.
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Who will be the last person to answer this question?
raindancer :D
Oops!
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I am 18 and seeing a guy that is 31. He has a girlfriend overseas but says its not cheating because he likes me and she wont find out. What should I do?
pffft, what should you do? you should get a clue. It's not cheating because he likes you and she won't find out? even at 18 you gotta know that's a load of shit. He sounds like a total creep, never mind that he's totally using his age to take advantage of a way younger girl.
I don't have huge issues with older people dating way younger people, but in order for it to...
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Are you earning the freedom others died to give you?
I wonder what "freedom" means. I mean, I hear people say it, and everyone stands around and nods their heads, but I suspect that it's one of those words that means a different thing to everyone. It's a motherhood statement - generally applicable and acceptable but largely meaningless.
I know people are going to get mad at this and downrate me, but I also understand that...
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Twelve is too young to go out with boys, right? (i am asking this as a GIRL)
Right.
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How would you handle it if the person you are dating, is on another's myspace page with a caption that reads...my man and me?(they are no longer dating)
I would understand that it's a photo of historical significance only. I have not removed my ex BF from my photo albums, because he is part of my kids' histories. I would wonder about the self-esteem of my current beau if he had an issue with that.
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9 abusive relationships in 2 years. I'm only 14. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME!?
You're way too young to be in a relationship, but clearly are desperate for love - this is what happens to children who are neglected. I suggest you find a good therapist and find a way to parent yourself.
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No Country For Old Men, it won so many awards, I don't get it. I'm watching it now, it's just a whole bunch of shooting and killing people! Did you like it?
I have to say, it was the best movie I had seen in 10 years.
I walked into the cineplex not having any idea what we were going to see, and saw that the latest Coen brothers film was playing. I hadn't heard anything about it. At the end of the film, I was in awe. I was also aware that most everyone else in the theatre left grumbling.
The guy I saw the film with hated it. He said it was...
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Can you tell me what an AB ninja is?
no, no I can't. They are invisible, and can kill with their razor-sharp wit. Please be careful.
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Been seeing this guy for 7 mo. now when we 1st started messing around neither wanted a relationship, but I assumed this would be on a purely sexual relationship now 7 mo. later we live together but there is NO defined relationship what should i do
I'm calling bullshit on this one. If you're living together there IS a defined relationship. You are both in a relationship, and it's going on long term. You are both of you in some kind of relationship denial, I guess. So, since you asked what you should do, I would recommend the following:
1) sit down and have a long hard think about what you want from this guy (just sex, or...
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What makes you refrain from fixing a computer with a baseball bat rather than a reformat?
Not much.
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I'm having trouble understanding why a girls parents would press charges on the father of their daughters baby, chances are, she had part in it too lol. Wouldn't that make things worse? What if the father wanted to start working more to support the lady?
Without knowing ANY of the pertinent context of the situation, here are a couple of guesses:
The pregnancy could be the result of a rape
(and remember here that a girl under the age of 16 in many jurisdictions is not considered competent to consent to sex, therefore sex with someone under that age is RAPE)
The "father" could be physically abusive toward the girl.
The girl could...
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I told the person that I 'm dating that I felt bad and that I'm srry if things have been going fast...he told me why should I feel thsi way and that he doesnt have any bad impressin of me and that we are just having a lil fun...do you think hes sincere?
I think he's sincere in that he's saying he's just in it for "a lil fun". In other words, he doesn't have a "bad" impression of you as a "good time girl". Will he get into a serious relationship with you? Very doubtful.
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I can't figure this out - can you help? The man I've been seeing's moved abroad for grad school. Got a v sweet email from him, saying how much he missed me. It ended, "PS This is something I'd be far too shy to say to you in person but.." Meaning?
but . . . I'd like you to know that I am into sex acts involving small furry mammals. Was that what he wrote? cause if so, then I would say he was possibly drunk or possibly he loves sex acts involving small furry mammals.
But seriously, if the reference is about him being too shy to say he misses you in person, then I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for a proposal or anything.
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What is making the battery on my ford windstar drain
You leave the headlights and radio on.
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As a Single Parent, what is your hardest challenge in trying to raise your Child(ren) right?
Sheltering them from the onslaught of media, entertainment and crazy social expectations.
It's way too easy to use being alone as an excuse to park them in front of a TV. Give them lots of books and things to draw with and nothing to do. Then read to them before bed time. Make a point of eating dinner with them every night. Forget about dating and devote yourself to being a parent. Let...
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If you had an identical twin, would it bother you knowing that everyone your twin sleeps with would then be able to picture you naked? Would you insist that certain people be off-limits? Or if married, would you feel weird with the spouse?
What a funny Q. I guess you don't know too many identical twins. The two pairs I know are differentiated enough psychologically that they don't think that way at all. They also differ physically - like one works out and the other is overweight, kinda thing.
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Why is the naked body offensive?
it's not.
The reason why many people think the naked body is offensive is because they have a prudish idea that nudity = sex. Now why people would think sex is offensive is another question all together. Maybe it's because we like to pretend that we don't derive animal pleasure from our bodies, that, somehow, we're too "above" that.
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When in history has a majority ever handed over equal rights to a minority voluntarily?
When in the history of the world? or of the USA?
In the US, women were granted (quasi) equal rights - or does "voluntarily" mean without the minority having to get out and speak up?
In Canada an amendment was made to the Canadian Human Rights Act, an anti-discrimination law that applies to federally regulated activities throughout Canada, that made discrimination based on sexual...
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Why is my man still seeing his baby mama?
I never get why people ask us, complete strangers who know nothing of the context, questions they should be putting to the person they're asking about.
So, here's my response : I have no idea, ask him.
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Have you ever swam in mixed company, where all of the women wore swimsuits but all of the guys were naked?
Yes, but "all the women" was me, and "all of the guys" was the guy who was driving the motorcycle.
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I'm giving 4 points for Christmas, who wants some? (that's all I can give)
Same here! giving you three. Merry Xmas
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How do you become a sweet boyfriend?
Dip yourself in honey
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What does dedication mean? My girlfriend dedicated a song for me but I don't know what that means.
It means she's thinking about you and either loves the song and wants to share it with you, or feels there is a message in the song lyrics or meaning that she want's you to hear.
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How do you test just how strong someone's feelings are for you in a relationship?
Put yourself in a very dangerous position where, if s/he comes to save you, s/he will die doing so. That way, if s/he doesn't really love you enough to die for you, you will be killed, thus saving the world from more of your "testing". If s/he saves you and dies doing so, then you can know that you have killed your girl/boyfriend when really all you wanted was a little reassurance.
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I have been with my boyfriend for over two years. We live together. Found some condoms in his jacket, his ski bag and in his sock drawer when I was packing for us for vacation. Any thoughts?
Check the expiry dates and see if they are still good. If not, throw them away. If it appears they have been purchased within the past two years and you don't use condoms, then you may want to have a chat with him about it.
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What is the cure for a bad attitude in your house?
i don't take no lip from my house, that's all i have to say. I would just tell my house how much I do for it, and if it continued to give me the 'tude, I would turn off the heat. hahahahaha, that'd show the cheeky thing. gimme 'tude, I'll freeze your pipes.
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I saw a sign yesterday outside a church. It said "God is too big for one religion". Why do you agree or disagree with this statement?
Just found this interesting article
http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/ideas/articles/2008/12/14/when_jesus_met_buddha/?page=full
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A colleague is very jealous but on the face nice to everyone?Only I feel her arrogance and she tries haaard to find my fault.She is jealous because I have better education, look better.the thing is people believe whatever she says as she appears so nice..
You feel her arrogance, yet you "have a better education" and are better looking? hummm, remember the old adage "whenever you point your finger, three more are pointing at you.
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How tall are your friends?
5'5
4'11
6'1
5'11
5'8
6'
5'2
5'9
5'1
6'2
5'8.5
5'8
6'
5'1 3/4
5'5
4'11
6'1
5'11
5'8
6'
5'2
5'9
5'1
6'2
5'7
5'8
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5'7
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Why do men constanly accuse women of cheating on them?
My man doesn't accuse me of cheating. Ever.
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My gf and i broke up 4 months ago after a 3 yr relationship but have still bein acting like a couple. she tells me today that its over n that the past few weeks have been "fun" and doesnt mea anything. im soo hurt right now please help
Girl, I would say you have more issues than your gf being mean/breaking up with you. You both seem to have some deep-seated dependancy issues - why would someone break up and continue to live with them and sleep with them?
The only thing you can do is pack up and move out - whether or not you can afford to - cause otherwise your headed into an abusive situation that will be harder and harder...
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Whats the best way to get back at a women at work who is trying to come on to your bloke
seriously? Get back? what are you 12? Damn, ignore her. if you're secure in your relationship, then you're fine. Some people are naturally flirty, and don't play by your rules. Your job is to ensure your boyfriends DOES play by your rules, then you are free to relax about it.
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Hi. i got a labret in my lip but i can't figure out which way to unscrew the ball. i keep hearing about clockwise and anticlockwise, but is that direction to me as the pierced person, or to the outside person? thanks!
Ahhh, it doesn't matter, does it? clockwise is clockwise. . . I think.
Usually it's righty tighty, lefty loose-y.
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My gf is embarrassed to go eat with me at a christmas feed the needy place. what can i do to convince her to go with me.
Right, well, I would say ask her to give it a whirl. i used to go to the Saturday "out of the cold" dinners. They said everyone was welcome, and tho I didn't think I was "needy" I was a single mum raising two kids, and the prospect of not having to make a dinner was lovely. So I would take my kids along, and when they were older we would go and help out - make food,...
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For those of a certain age: Best drive-in movie memory?
Going in my friend's pick-up and backing into the spot. There were four of us in the bed of the pick-up with cushions, beer, etc. Don't remember the movie. Big surprise - good times.
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I want to marry my girlfriend but I cheated on her 3 years ago..should I tell her or no?
It depends on why you are wanting to tell her. If it's just to unburden yourself, I would say no. Suck it up, forget about it, and never do it again.
If you think it will happen again, if you're worried about that, then you better talk to her.
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Why do wemen feel your bum when you walk past but when you start talking to them they are not interested
What are these wemen of which you speak? They sound awfully fickle. If they can be pursued in a court of law (if they are legal entities) they can be charged with assault for feeling up your bum.
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What's the meaning of Wife? Why do you NEED to get married anyway?
The concept of marriage arose around the time of the concept of property. When people started to own things, they needed to be able to identify their progeny for the purposes of handing down the things. in cultures where property was communal (and i am talking indigenous cultures) marriage and identity of progeny wasn't typically an issue.
The idea of wife evolved with the idea of...
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What would you say to a mom who "pimps out" her 16 year old daughter?
Sad all over. The mother is sad, and it's sad that she can't take care of herself enough to take proper care of her child. Likely had a similar life herself. Typically abuser were abused, and her daughter may well grow up to be just like her mother.
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Are kids really kidnapped by strangers as much as the media would like us to believe?
I saw a program once that explained the whole "child find" phenomenon - the one that put a kid's picture on every milk carton kind of thing.
Apparently the vast majority of "missing" children are in fact runaways (something like 85%). The next largest group is children taken by non-custodial parents (around 14.999%). Now, I am not saying that runaways and children...
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Women, please rank in order of what you would take right now from your s/o: 1) A quicky, 2) a nice back massage, 3) 30 minutes of sensual love making, and 4) a nice home cooked supper.
Three please
Two . . .
Then sleep
then one in the morning when we waken
Finally four - tomorrow night
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What is the one thing you would never do on a date?
Belch loudly
Lift a cheek to let one rip
spit (specially indoors)
pick your nose
sneeze into your hands, look and say - wow! never thought I'd see that again!
talk about your attraction to sheep
talk about your attraction to your mother
talk about your mother
snore (or really fall asleep even)
Pick at your ear with a utensil
use your napkin to clean your teeth
blow your nose on...
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Since moving in with my woman, Ive been totally fascinated with the panties and pantyhose she wears. I'm a totally straight guy, but for some reason I'm DYING to try them just to see what they feel like. How can i ask her about trying?
Just ask her. If she says no, tell her you'll have to buy your own to try them, and you're just giving her the heads up so when she finds pantyhose and panties around the house, that are not hers, she won't freak.
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If you were in a war zone and you had a choice to retreat or fight, what would you do?
I would set up a ghetto blaster and start playing music. Then i would dance. and play. and I would invite everyone around me to do the same. If i ended up with a bullet thru my head, so be it. I am always amazed at the fighters in the trenches in WWII who ceased shooting at each other and came out of their trenches and walked into no man's land to shake hands with their "enemies"...
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My friend is mad at me. My other friend got mad at me when my friend got mad at me. Now, my other friends friend is mad at me 'cause he likes her. Now, everyone is mad at me and I am now mad at everyone. What do I do?
You'll hate this answer, but here it is: grow up.
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What do you honestly think of the band Keane?
oh god, I have totally fallen in love with hopes and fears
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If you were allowed to watch another human die, without being intrusive to them or their family, would you?
Sure. Like watching a child being born. If the mum and dad didn't mind me being there. These things are amazing transitions. it's an honor to be witness to them.
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I like this boy&we hookedup 2x. last wk we texted everyday but on fri nite i got drunk andi sounded desperate asking him if he wanted to meet up. did i ruin my chances? havent heard from him since&wont see him 4 a month bc of skool break. what should i do
Grow up and realize that you will meet other guys. Stop hooking up, since it's really just the reinvention of the guy getting exactly what he wants (sex) and you feeling like you lost something and it's making you needy and desperate, but pretending not to be.
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Honest Question: Do some women turn to being Lesbians because they've given up on finding a decent man?
I actually have become straight, cause I gave up looking for a decent wench.
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Help! How did you handle the purchase of your child's first car? Is it unreasonable to ask that they have a job to assist with the expense?
um, wow. I am having trouble wrapping my mind around what kind of situation would lead to someone feeling it would be unreasonable for a kid to contribute to their own expenses.
My son started buying his own toiletries at 16, his own clothes at 17 and at 18 he bought himself a return ticket to Australia and had saved enough to spend 6 months there travelling. Now he writes me and tells me...
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I am single with no children. Most women are shocked to know I have no kids and want to rush me into a relationship with some random woman to a have a few. What is the big rush?
Depends how old you are and whether you want to have kids or not. Picasso fathered a child at the age of seventy (I think), so unless you're 69 then you have a bit of time. Of course if you don't want to procreate, then don't.
If the women you meet are "shocked" to hear you have no kids, I would suggest you are hangin out with the wrong kinda people. Most people I...
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Why do some women need so much drama?
DRAMA!!??!! Who the @#$% said we needed drama! Go%$#mn it, you piss me off so much!!! You and your #$%#ing questions.
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Taking hyphenated-American to its most ridiculous extreme, what would you be? (my answer shall explain the question)
Anglo-saxon-pictish-viking-romanfranco-canadian
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My boyfriend of 4 years told me that he doesn't see marriage as an option for him. And he doesn't know if he wants to be in a relationship as we have a period of 18 months Long distance (8 hours drive) coming up. Should I fight for thi
wow, seven out of seven say move on sugar. Count this as number eight. Bum rap, just make sure with the next guy you talk often about where you might be headed, just to ensure you are on the same page commitment-wise. Good luck.
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Is adopting a child when your 49 sound normal? Do you think this would affect how the child grows? The child is 12 years old (girl). Also, if there is only one parent (mom).
Sounds perfect to me.
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Do you like being random?
Golden retriever
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Im not gay, but a gay guy asked me if he could think about "doing gay things to me" in his thoughts and fantasies . I said no and he was upset. Would it do any harm to let him think like that - what would you do in the situation?
He was totally coming on to you. I would have told him that I have no control over his thoughts, and he doesn't need my permission to think about anything he likes, but that I am not attracted to him. "I am not gay" is not really a response. Cause you don't have to be gay to have a homosexual romance or experience. When someone comes on to you, male or female, you do need to...
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Have you ever had so much on your mind that you couldn't sleep?
not in the last half hour
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I'm not a very affectionate person. My boyfriend, on the other hand, is a very affectionate person. How can I be more affectionate for him? I want to be, but I know that just wanting to be isn't enough.
Little things can demonstrate affection - you don't have to be full-on hugging or kissing. A small touch, a hand on the shoulder. Holding hands is also a great way to show your love.
Some people aren't affectionate because they were abused when they were younger - if you're dealing with that kind of issue, you need to find a way to disentangle it from your life now.
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Which country has the most beautiful women?
Thailand & Brazil.
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Who will be the last person to answer this question?
I am guessing Chris
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What's the hardest english word to spell?
diarrhea (alt spelling - diarrhoea)
Don't know why I write it as often as I do, but whenever I do I have to look it up.
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Im 14 and i havent had a boyfriend what should i do
Enjoy your life and focus on school. If that's not enough, learn to play an instrument or get involved in sports. You are too young to be worried about not having a boyfriend. If the situation is the same in 10 years, then worry.
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My parents hate my husband and are always telling me I can do better, I love my husband and love my parents so how do I keep the peace without losing either?
You're in a tough situation. Unless your husband is an addict or is abusive, I think your parents are behaving badly. If he's not abusive or an addict, then I think you need to sit your parents down and tell them point blank that you have made your choice as to spouse, they don't have to like your choice, but they do have to respect it. They don't have to live with the man,...
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Would you date someone with no belly button?
Sure, like I said in a comment - my auntie didn't have a belly button, and she had three nipples. I thought it was highly unusual when i was young, but have since met several people (and dated a guy) with more than 2 nipples. Her bellybuttonless state arose from a surgery she had in the 40s when they were much less careful with the incisions they made. They told her they could...
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Im 16 and my boyfriend is 21 and im pregnant what can i do?
Procure an abortion asap wherever you can then stop having sex until you are a good deal older and wiser.
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How do u kiss a guy?
Hard and long
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Can a woman drive her husband to commit suicide?
No one is ever responsible for another's suicide. People who kill themselves are not in their right mind, and are usually suffering deep depression. I know of no one clever enough to "make" someone depressed enough to kill themselves.
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Do you feel it is O.K. to post a question on AB when you don't really want a answer. Then give Negative points to the people who try to help you out by replying?
***cautiously setting out feelers for a trap***
:D
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I caught my boyfriend looking at porn and he lied to me about it. I also found out that he had been doing drugs behind my back. i really want to forgive him but its really hard. I just want to know how i can save our relationship of two years. Help?
All guys look at porn. All of them. Some of them lie about it because they think their GF will freak out, but all of them do it. So, step one is to get over your anti-porn thing. Doesn't mean you have to watch it with him, doesn't mean you have to like it, but you will have to accept it as one of his things.
As for the drugs. What drugs, how much, how often. Has he smoked up three...
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Would you mix your genes with an alien to save the human race?
Are we talking the really sexy aliens who look like Mel Gibson 20 years ago? or the aliens who are those horrible slavering, sharp-toothed things that rip people's heads off?
If the former, and he was well endowed, then - meh, why not.
or are you talking like, in a laboratory. Cause what would be the point of that?
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Is there anything that you can honestly say you are absolutely sure of?
I am absolutely sure that I know that I am what I am. But I am not sure what I am.
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Is there ANYONE on here who knows someone who has not in any way had a friend or family member NOT being addicted to these oxyicodone pills? 2 of my family are hooked & apparently, it's widespread. What the heck does it do for you other than destroy u?
Hillbilly Heroin is how it's known in these parts too. My dad was on them for pain caused by cancer. He was terminal with a very painful kind of cancer. When he was in my care, I was tempted to try one of his low dose (10 mg), but never did since I knew how addictive they were. He was on over 400 mg/day before he died.
Maybe, rather than outlawing it, the medical association could make...
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Is 18 too young to get married?
Yes, I think so. The divorce rate for teens is astronomically high.
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Ok, my bf is coming over and watching movies with me at my house, but my dad said he is going to sit next to us this time, so what can me and my bf do while watching the movie that my dad wont notice?
Hold hands and enjoy the movie. Or - here's a thought, y'all can play a board game together. At least then you can talk together. Maybe your Dad will get to know your bf and start feeling more at ease with his motives.
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How do i get my sexy teacher in the sack?
Well, you should consider doing this only if you want your sexy teacher to get sacked. Most teacher/student liaisons these days ends with the teacher losing their job or in jail.
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Do you pray your significant other isn't surveying and analyzing every move you make in a public forum such as AB?
Not being the praying type, nope I don't. Would I be totally comfortable with my SO reading all my answers here? Probably. Would I be creeped out if I found out he was surveying and analyzing every move I made here? Probably.
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If you could be one musical instrument, which one and why?
Fluglehorn - just cause I like the sound of it.
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Ladies:Is there one thing a man can do to guarantee a second or even a third date with you?
One thing? no. But here's some things:
1) Don't talk about ex-wives or girl friends
2) Don't talk about the things you own
3) Don't talk about your investments (see 2)
4) Don't talk about your car (see 2)
5) or your big screen TV (ditto)
6) Ask about me and my interests
7) Remember your manners
8) Talk about your interests and hobbies, but never in too much...
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Recently started dating a man who is almost finished with his divorce. He has two children. We get along great. When am I going to meet his children? It's frustrating.
If you recently started dating a man who is just getting divorced, it seems really smart on his part NOT to introduce you to his kids.
Firstly, there is enough already on their plate coping with their parents splitting up - he's wise not to bring you into the picture yet. If you do end up together, the kids may blame you (rightly or wrongly) for their parents' split.
Secondly,...
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I have a great job as a university professor in a beautiful small town. I'm not rich, but I have enough. Now I've had a corporate job offer in an ugly industrial city where I have no friends. But I'll be a millionaire. What would you do?
I would see if I could arrange some kind of telework situation. Try and spend most of my time in the small town, meeting via video conferencing, working online and flying in only when really necessary - or maybe spending a few days each month in the new place.
Otherwise, I would stay put and be content.
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What do you think is the first sign of aging?
being born?
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I am worried about a girl being pregnant. i have recently been worried about my girlfreind being pregnant (shes not thank god) and im on edge, i wore a glove belonging to a girl about 4 hours after masderbateing. could she get pregnant?
Absolutely, the sperm from your hand can get under her fingernails and impregnate her that way. Are you ever in for it!
But seriously, just on the off change this isn't a troll, I think you better stop having sex immediately (if indeed you are actually having sex) until you become slightly more informed - for your sake and your partner's.
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A friend said: "Since after our first few days my boyfriend has never told me he loves me. I'm thinking of dumping him and move on. That he doesn't say he loves me makes me doubt whether he'd know how pop the big Question." Your views, please!!
A little clarification is necessary, I believe.
As I read the question, the guy told his girl that he loved her in the first few days of the relationship, and not since. So after a year, she's wondering if he's got the ability to pop the question.
I would say if she needs more reassurance on his enduring love, then she should tell him that's what she needs. If, after...
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I was in 2 abusive relationships one when was in school other for 2yrs .and i know its hard to get threw and you find it hard to thrust guys again. but i found the most wonderful guy who would never hit me or put me down or call me names.
What's your question?
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A guy in my Spanish class said this:"Is anyone in this class gay?,because if you are I'll kill you",and also when he think one of his friends is gay,he saids this,"Are you gay?","If you are then get the hell away from me",what do you think about this?
He should be reported to the school authorities. Making threats like that is considered a hate crime, and given the predilection for people to take up guns in schools and shoot people, I would think he's a danger.
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When a long term partner is diagnosed with a medical condition, do you think that men or do you think that women are more likely to leave and file for divorce and get on with their life before their partner has passed on?
I think it's more likely that assholes will leave and file for divorce.
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Is texting during dinner rude?
Not if you're dining by yourself, then you can do anything you want. Otherwise it's very rude - dinner is face time with the people you are sitting with, it's insulting to them that you require a different conversation.
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What do you think is more important to an employer, education or experience?
Depends entirely on what the employer wants to hire you for. A neuro-surgeon with lots of experience (say as a mass murderer) would be perceived as lacking in the education department if he didn't have a medical degree but had cut up many brains.
On the other hand, if you are looking for a job cleaning toilets, education is less a factor, and the employer would be interested in a job...
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How can two people be at the same place at the same time, but take different meaning away from the whole day?
Everyone sees the world thru their own filters, and creates their own story about every single occurrence. The filters are created by our past, our expectations about how people are, our experiences with the particular people we're with, our mood, . . . etc.
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What is the worst thing you can say to someone?
(up close and personal) "I have typhoid"
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I am a Californian man. My whole life I am surrounded by women who seem to have no interest in a long term relationship or commitment. Where in the world should I go or what religion should I become to find a good woman?
Sorry I have to agree with the others who say the problem isn't with the women, the culture or your religion. There are people (men and women) everywhere who are willing to make a commitment.
Clearly there is a problem with the women you choose however, so you might consider asking yourself why you continue to choose women with commitment issues. (or why you choose women who have...
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Can you think of any reason that the abused could be at fault for the abuse?
I don't think it's useful to think in terms of "fault" - should a violent person who inflicts harm on others go to jail - YES, but I also think abuse is a relationship dynamic. It requires an abuser, but it also requires a victim. As long as the victim stays a victim, the abuser can continue to abuse.
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If so many others think a man likes you, but yet he won't admit it, what would/ should I do?
I guess the point would be . . . do you like him? If you do, then tell him so. If you don't, then forget about it. If you are waiting for him to make some kind of declaration before you can decide whether or not you like him, then I would say you probably shouldn't be dating.
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She is 39 he is 55 they live together she left her husband of 16 years to be with him,she had slept with him 1 time before she moved in,he gives her everything she wants she is a drunk is she just using him he said he is with her because its conveniate
She's using him, he's using her - a match made in heaven.
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If someone died in your house would you move out?
Only if it were me
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I am almost 15 years old and there is this guy that I have liked for a while who is almost 20 and thinks it's too big of an age difference right now. Do you agree? What should I do?
Yes, he's too old, and it's good that he's mature enough to know this. Find someone closer to your own age.
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How many women actually want a man to ask them how big their boobs are?
I suppose if he were blind, and not my lover, therefore incapable of actually seeing or feeling them, then . . . I would want him to mind his own fucking business.
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I believe we have three types of people in our lives, anchors(hold us back), crutches(falsely prop us up) and(rarely)partners(equals)...What do you think am I right or just misguided?
I think if you try to pidgeon-hole people, you will find they fit, but I am pretty sure that's not really a productive way to think about your friends.
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What does it mean when a guy says he is confused? He says he doesnt know exactly how he feels about me (as in he doesnt know if he wants to be with me). Guys can you help me understand what is going through his head.
He's just not that into you.
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What is the best way to tell my mom that i am moving five states away? she is remarried and he is very controlling and down talks me all the time. My mom doesn't like my husband and i am obviously moving with him. so i am afraid she won't understand.
If you are just moving away because you don't like your mother's husband, then you are moving for the wrong reason. If you are moving to pursue other employment or educational opportunities for yourself or your husband, then that's exactly what I would tell your mum.
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Where can I find cultured friends? I am currently seeking friends who are not "trendy," simple-minded, or into the nonsense that people think is "cool.." Don't get me wrong, I'm in my early 20s.. but still.. there has to be more than what I find. =\
Go to grad school in a big city in Europe
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My man is showing me that he do not love me know more what should i do?
Do you even need to ask?
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A girl kissed my bf, it took him two days to tell me. He said he was afraid of how I would react. He says that she's the one that came on to him but that he didn't respond to her kiss. Idk I'm confused! What should I do? Help!
Someone said you should talk to the girl. If you do that, you will look and sound like a stupid jealous girlfriend.
I would talk to your bf and thank him for telling you about the situation. Let him know that you're not going to freak out or act like a stupid jealous gf, but that still you are upset about it and need to talk to him more about how you feel.
If it was just a peck on...
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When I was with my ex, I told her that I would do anything for her and she DID NOT like that----at all. I've been seeing someone else for a couple of months now, but I'm afraid. What are some green/red light things that I should tell her?
Depends on when and why you're telling them these things. In the first months of a relationship, everyone gets crazy about the person they're with and at the height of craziness, they say things like what you said to your ex. That's not honesty, it's stupidity (not saying you were stupid - I have no idea how long you were with her).
Give it time. As you get to know...
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What wa the political party that formed to stop immigration?
Depends where you are - there are lunatic fringe parties in every country. There was one in France who wanted to end immigration and to have the Queen of England arrested for being a drug dealer.
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My husband wants to have sex, in a different way, i mean doing it from behind. i do too, but im scared cause the pain, my friend has told me its the best feeling ever, that its better than the regular way. what do i need to use before i start.
Presumably you are talking about anal sex, rather than "doggy style". There are loads of resources and info available, books, toys and different kinds of lubes.
If you don't have a good, female positive sex shop (and one with XXX in the window, is likely not a good one) in your city, then look for them online. Good ones look like this one: www.venusenvy.ca
They have good...
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Which gases are denser than air?
Well "air" is not really a gas, but a mix nitrogen and oxygen. There are a lot of gasses that are denser than these two, H2O for one. Gas density is also dependent on temperature, so dry ice - or solid CO2 - sinks in "air" when it gasifies.
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What does this mean okay this girl i like when i am talking to her she is looking at something else and when she answers my question she smiles when i look at her she looks back for ten seconds and her and all of her friends look at me when i look at them
It means you need to learn how write a sentence, and use punctuation.
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I'm a 20 year male virgin, never been kissed, and never had a girl. I have no women in my life and I cannot seem to start a relationship with any girl as I'm too shy, nervous, and afraid of rejection. Help me please this is ruining my life.
No, no, this is not ruining your life - this is your first piece of advice. STOP caring so much, and STOP thinking that life is all about a relationship.
Being a virgin at 20 is nothing. Seriously. Though a lot of people lose their virginity at a young age, many don't. STOP obsessing about it or treating it like a problem.
If you are too shy, nervous and afraid of rejection that...
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Are you male or female? And, on a scale from 1 to 10, what are your politics? (1=extreme right; 10=extreme left)
I am female in my politics, and about 5.5 gender-wise.
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Do you think my kid will hate me if I name them Phred?
Personally, I like it. I always thought Fred was a really cute name, and Phred is even cuter. I heard of someone called Pred once. The kid will either grow up with a sense of humor, or be a jerk. It's one way of testing their mettle. :D
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Sometimes love just isn't enough to ensure the success of a marriage. You can lower your odds for divorce by being selective in who you marry. True or false?
Love is NEVER enough to sustain anything. That is a load of romantic hooey. Tho I believe in love and the power of love, I certainly don't believe that all you need is love. Love and romance are ONE part of a relationship (err.. . TWO parts, actually). Communication, trust, respect, honesty and the ability to pick up your socks are all almost equally important. Should you be selective in...
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Can someone please help me write a really nice honest love letter. I want to but dont know how to go about it. I want to write it to my ex girlfriend!!!! I really want her baccccckk.
An "honest" love letter is something that comes from the heart. YOUR heart. It's not something that you're too lazy to sit down and spend some time thinking about so you go on AB to get someone to write it for you.
I believe that is the crux of Rinky Dinky Do's response.
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How would you react if your mom felt obligated to babysit your kids while you went to work, eventhough you pay her?
I would pay someone else. My mother-in-law hardly ever wanted to baby sit her grandchildren. It was surreal and very disappointing to me, but i got over it.
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Why do some people think that love doesnt exist?
Because "love" isn't like "paper". You can't define it in terms that will mean the same thing to everyone. Most people experience love but few can define it in a way with which everyone will agree.
Our society romanticizes it so much, makes it feel like it should be self-evident, but it's not.
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What advice should I give to my little boy who is being bullied around at school?
Some kids are particular bully targets. I am not saying it's his FAULT, just that kids with issues like Asperger Syndrome tend to attract bullies. Check out this link, and see if there is stuff here that rings true for your kid.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger_syndrome
It's not how you deal with the bullies, that's a separate issue, which you need to deal with, with...
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What are some reasons that a serial killer would kill?
I am a cereal killer. At least that's what my kids tell me. This morning I killed a box of Fruit Loops, and they were mad, cause they wanted some. I would say, in my case, it's cause of hunger and a desire for that fruity taste.
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When gay or lesbian couples get married, does one of them change their surnames to the name of their partner they have married? If so how do you decide whos to use?
As anyone who has been liberated from convention knows - anything goes. I can ONLY guess that homosexual couples who marry have been liberated from convention.
I didn't take my kids' father's name, and their name is hyphenated with his coming first. It just sounded better that way. What will they do when they meet and decide to marry (or not) someone (of a different or same...
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Why does a immature girls, come and ask advice about why womens hated them. if they werent sleeping around with theses other womens mans.
Who cares?
If I slept with your spouse, I wouldn't care if you hated me. But if you are reserving your hate for me, I would say you are blaming the wrong person. I made no promise to you, he did. It is he who deserves your ire, not I.
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What does your family tease you about? Are they right?
I have lived apart from them for my entire adult life and I have developed a mild regional accent (something of which I would otherwise be unaware). When they hear it, they think I am putting on airs or something, and mock me in a mostly hostile manner.
Are they right? I think they're just assholes.
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How can your marriage work if you really don't want the stepkids living with you?The mother doesn't want them either.
Not a good situation at all.
A blended family is one of the toughest relationships ever. You have to really want a relationship with every one involved, or it's a disaster. Yours sounds like a train wreck, and I feel sorry for the kids.
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Is it always possible to make time for a relationship or are some people genuinely too busy?
It's all about priorities. Someone who is "too busy" for a relationship is either uninterested in having any relationship or just not into the person that's askin for one at the time.
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Today I saw a white male/black female couple. When was the last time you saw this combo? I think it is adorable!
"adorable" "that combo"? that's disturbing. you are treating these people like they are some kind of freak show. Have some respect.
In answer to your question - quite a lot, it is common in places where there are a lot of Africans, like Europe. And, of course, Africa.
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I am 25 and have been talking to a man who is 39. The age i have no problem with but he is divorced with 4 kids!! Do you think its a dead end road?
That's way too much baggage to take on. You have your whole life, career and family ahead of you. Do you want to make your choices, or do you want to be saddled with a life you didn't create? (and I am not talking just the kids here)
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Do you know tactics to prevent your bf from taking you for granted?
if you are talking "tactics" it's an indication that you're not communicating with him.
Try "honey, I am not feeling very appreciated". Think of some specific examples of things he did that made you feel unappreciated or taken advantage of and talk about them with him.
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I'm 17 and I'm certain I'll never smoke/do drugs/drink alcohol/coffee ever when I grow up. Not even wine at special occasions or anything. I just don't think I need it. Am I in for social issues when I am older? Do people find that boring?
I would say it depends why you are doing it. I think making any decision like that when you are 17 is not really based in much other than some dogma or other. I don't mean to be offensive, but, really, why make that decision now? It leads not to, "no thanks, I don't feel like drinking wine tonight", which most everyone will feel is inoffensive to being branded as someone who...
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If your employer (a city) kept talking about possibly having to layoff people to balance the budget, but your supervisor kept assuring you your job was not at risk, would you believe them?
I would say that it depends entirely on what your job function is, and whether or not that function will continue. Your boss should be able to provide an explanation of why s/he believes that your job is safe.
Also in bad economic times, government is less likely to lay people off, since government is an important economic engine. Of course the higher up in government you are (municipal,...
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I have a recipe for no-knead bread (NY Times Mark Bittman). It calls for 1/4 oz or 1 pk of instant yeast. How do I substitute regular yeast for instant? Do I use the same amount only dissolve the yeast?
Don't think you can substitute regular for instant. That's how it's "no-knead" is partly because it used instant yeast. Using regular yeast in a no-knead bread will result - if you get results - in huge holes surrounded by bread.
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What do you think the U.S. debt will be one year from now?
Okay, here it is. :)
Any and all governments will try and spend their way out of recession (or are we seeing a . . . depression?). Eurozone, Japan, North America will all see deficit spending and increased debt.
Currently the US public debt is $10,622,190,704,090.97. I am not even sure how to say that number. I am guessing that a year from now the US debt will be 12,843,672,943,100.52
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Never date a woman who..........?
Asks you if your life insurance payments are up-to-date
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Can you describe your father in one word?
My first answer was "dying"
Now it's "dead"
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If you could have anything named after you, what would you pick?
The world. So, instead of planet earth we'd have planet Falenes.
But then we'd also have falenesworm and that would be yucky.
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I have a 2007 toyota yaris tt. I have accidentally changed the speedometer so it reads in kilometres instead of miles - how can I change it back?
Divide by 1.6 and know in your heart that you have joined the rest of the world.
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If you believe being gay is a choice, then do you believe a straight man can choose to be gay? Thoughts? Be honest!
I think that's the whole idea, isn't it? If being gay is a choice, that assumes that either we are all straight and some of us choose to be gay, we are all gay and most of us choose to be straight or we are all nothing with most of us choosing to be straight and some of us choosing to be gay.
Kinsey said that most people fall somewhere on the spectrum between "straight"...
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Is someone else in the household of this account asking questions on this account?
Yes, mom, it HAS been me asking all those questions on your account about coming out.
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What is the best and the cheapest way to get to canada from CA
Well, Canada is a pretty big place. And though "Victoria" is a city in Canada, it's not the only one. So, where are you going in Canada - or are you just trying to get out of the US?
So
1) driving (cycling or walking) - Oregon and Washington states are 300 miles from southern border to norther border, so from where you are in Calif, once you hit Oregon, you only have a 600...
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If hypochondria is thinking that you are sick all the time, then what is the condition for someone who always thinks that they are pregnant?
Falenes?
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Does anyone else ever watch the show Nanny 911, and think to yourself, "These people are nimrods ! "
Actually I find myself thinking that about most TV reality shows.
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How long can you hold your bladder?
Hold it? Like in my hands? I never have done that. But if i had to, I would say "gently" is the response to Q2
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What do you think the U.S. debt will be one year from now?
One MILLION dollars.
(cue Dr. Evil laughter)
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Should I marry a man 11 years my senior
Not if he's 25.
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Was it scary your first time seeing someone die
I just watched my father die yesterday. It was interesting, and he already looked so different from before. So, if the soul really changes how a person looks, then his soul maybe left his body a week ago. Today I saw him in the funeral home and he looked just like he did yesterday when he died. THAT surprised me. I remember seeing my mum dead and she looked so different - almost unrecognizable....
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I need to dispose of my stepdads body because my cat chewed it up wat do i do with the body?
You didn't need to dispose of it prior to your cat chewing it? or did "stepdad as a cat chew toy" lead to his demise? Cause if, say, you had the body and were going to put it on display or something, getting rid of it because of a few teeth marks seems somewhat drastic. On the other hand, if you need to get rid of a body with or without kitty teeth punctures, then I would go for...
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Whats the best way for a virgin to be a tiger for her first time?i dont want him being bored!
i am hoping he is a lot more concerned with you than you are with him. This is your time baby - he needs to make sure it's an awesome experience for you. Ask him what he plans to do.
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Whats going to happen in 2012
I think the autoshop down the road will have to get out their chisel and make a new one. The BIG questions are: will it be a giveaway with an oil change, like the last time? and Will they carve a naked girlie on it leaning against a car?
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Have we ever tried to close a black hole?
I will choose to take this as a serious question, or would that be silly?
A black hole isn't really a hole in the sense that it's an empty spot - like a hole in your shirt is a spot empty of shirt. That's not what it is, so maybe it's misnamed.
In fact, it's a spot so densely packed with matter that if you were to approach it with a needle and thread, you would be...
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I got jealous when I see people driving luxurious cars like BMW, Mercedes Benz. I feel totally worthless and feel bad about myself because they have better car than me. What can I do to gain self-esteem?
Get a flippin bicycle and be proud that you're not contributing to global warming.
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Why do you always have to be so difficult?!
You just don't understand me.
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I need an amazing sentence to start my book off with. it just going to be a random intro scene so anything good will be good. any ideas?
Once she was ready to tell the truth about the incident with the handbag, the Inspector was less interested in her role in the murder than he was in her cherry red lips, but that was only before he saw the knife in her hand.
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1:is it right to stay with a cheater who's past history is known for cheating with those men, because they cheated her too?
2: after being with her for 2 1/2 years with her she has proven me that she wont do it again. should i trust her?
From your question, it seems like she hasn't cheated on you, so why do you care about what's happened in the past, in other relationships? Have you talked to her about it? Does she understand why she did it?
It seems strange that you are asking us after 2.5 years together. Maybe you suspect something now . . .
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Tomorrow is my BIRTHDAY, if invited, what gift will you get me?, what food would you bring? and what kind of music do you want played?
Since I don't know you, I would make a donation to the local animal shelter in your name as your gift.
I would bring some yummy cheese and baguette
As for music, well . . . I am a pretty big fan of Hayden
God, I sound boring!
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Who said or created the first word?
Getting away from the silly and religious - one can imagine the first vocalisation to be something like "arrrrrk". It meant "look behind you, fool, that mastadon is charging!"
Okay, maybe we weren't getting away from the silly.
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Since when did you stop using punctuation
Never did. I am a punctuation nazi. I want to really give people hell for a misplaced comma. Those who over-use punctuation, by, say, putting three exclamation points at the end of a sentence, I flag them for offensive content.
Is there any cure?
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What is really good to know?
That the limb you are goin out on is being sawn off.
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Ladies, saying to your man.."whats yours is mine and whats mine is mine," is funny right?
I'm thinkin . . . not so much. People are generally concerned about getting fleeced by their partners, so unless you like to push those fear and doubt buttons . . .
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Regardless of who wins this presidential race, do you think Sara Palin will make a run for President in 2012?
I thought she might until I read the excerpts from Newsweek's Special Election Project. Reporters hung out and got the inside scoop from both party's campaigns under the promise that all the info would be embargoed until after the election.
Republican party insiders do not seem in the least pleased with Mrs Palin.
http://www.newsweek.com/id/167581
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What is your favorite thing about children?
That they are both chewy and crunchy :)
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Question for single moms. I'm 16 and being raised by a single mom; I just got over being grounded for some stupid stunt I pulled; I messed up and want to do something nice for my mom to make up for it. What can I do to make her feel as special as she is?
Tell her how sorry you are that you messed up and let her know what a great mum she is, and that you hope she doesn't blame herself for your behavior.
Then clean the house ;)
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Can a 37 year old male date a 19 year old dissabled female
Can he? yes
Ought he? probably not.
The age/maturity thing is a huge issue.
Clearly her disability is also an issue, or you wouldn't mention it. Depending on how she is disabled (mentally, physically), your actions may be perceived as being highly predatory.
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If Obama is a "Christian" why did he have his "Birth Records" locked up & why won't he give his "Testimony" as to how he came to "Know the Lord Jesus Christ" as his "Savior"?
Who cares? Last I heard the USA wasn't a flippin CHURCH state. Go live in the Vatican if you want to be sure all your leaders are squeaky clean Christians.
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Question: How do you feel about me!!!!!!!!
Answer: Irritated!!!!!!
Here's why
a) we already know it's a question without you writing "question" in front of it. How? because it starts with a question word "how" and ends with . . .
b) you don't end a question with exclamation points
c) using an exclamation point is like laughing at your own joke
d) using multiple punctuation is retarded
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How many miles have you walked, in those shoes?
They're new, so not that far. But I use a site that tracks the miles I put on my running shoes. It's impressive how those miles build up. Each pair is only good for about 500 miles tho.
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Why did Barack Obama win the election?
Place: Republican Campaign War Room
Date: August 2008
Well boys, we're really in the crapper now fer sure. All these billions of dollars of empty assets are heading home to roost, and we're gonna have to bail out some friends. Our debt will be ginormous! Lazear is predicting a recession lasting four years, minimum. God, what a time to be in power!
Hey - here's a thought:...
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IS 21 too young to get married?
60 percent of marriages for couples between the ages of 20 and 25 end in divorce. 50 percent of marriages for couples where the woman is over 25 end in divorce.
So, waiting three years will increase your chances of staying married.
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WHY IS IT THAT MEN LIE ABOUT WATCHING PORN AND THEN TELL YOU THEY LOVE YOU AND ITS ALL OK? OR AM I OVER REACTING?
I have one thing to say
CAP LOCK off please.
Thanks
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Im 15 dating a 24 year old what can my parents do if they find out
Yeah, he can be labelled a sex offender and end up on the National Sex Offender Registry FOR LIFE. If that's what you want, honey, keep on seeing him.
http://www.familywatchdog.us/
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Is it right for a parent to take away a child's video game for a long time if he doesnt get good grades in one class?
It may be more useful to think in terms of "consequences" rather than "punishment". In my mind, a consequence of not spending enough time studying is losing privileges, especially those that are very time-consuming.
I always tried to rely on natural consequences as much as possible (you didn't want to wear your mittens, and now your hands are cold). But my kids...
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My ex dump me for another girl in front of my eyes, we have a 2 year old, and I'm pregnant, both are his, he has not help me financially during this time, he has not come to see our daughter, now he wants me back, should I take him back?
Sure, take him back. Especially if you want your children to learn that it's okay to treat people like shit. Especially if you want them to learn they are worthless (cause that's what this man is teaching them. Especially if you have no respect for yourself. By all means.
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My 2 year old son has pooped on the potty since he was 18 months old but he will not tell me when he has to pee... How do I get him to pee in the potty instead of his diaper?
Two words: cloth diapers.
I raised both my kids in cloth, and they were both fully toilet trained by age two (give or take a few months) without any encouragement from me.
Disposable diapers stop kids from developing the awareness of their own bodily function. They don't feel wet, and it takes forever for them to make the connection between the need to pee and the actual release....
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If your 16 year old went to a party with out your permission; how would you punish them? I got grounded for a month with no phone; internet, ect.
This is extreme. Treating a 16 year old like this is ridiculous. At 16, you can legally leave home and get married, so why the hell would you treat someone of this age like a baby? If a kid sneaks out to go to a party, maybe they are exercising their adult muscle called "choice"
So many parents want to control their kids in all aspects. When does that stop? Do you dump your kid out...
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My ex Adult Girlfriend keeps checking out my profiles on the dating sites I belong to Why.
Probably for the same reason that you care about the fact that she keeps checking out your profiles.
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Why does my boyfriend stare alot at me ,its kinda annoying, and when i tell him to stop hes all like.. why should i.. I like looking at you
oh man, I do this to my boyfriend. It makes him crazy. but, yeah, I like looking at him and thinking about what he might be thinking about. He calls it staring. *shrug* I try to stop, but maybe I am too obedient.
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Can you desribe you mother in one word?
deceased
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If I won 4 million dollars, could I set investments at low risk, to live off the interest immediately?
In a savings acc't you could pull 3%, grossing you $120,000/annum. With a 40% tax rate (at a guess), you would be netting $72,000. Not GREAT money, but not shabby.
There are better investments tho, that are still safe, like GICs. Also, depending on what country you're in, you may want to check out the deposit insurance situation, and inform yourself of the tax situation for things...
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Is there any way to build a cold tolerance so my wife can willingly wear skirts for me in the winter (given I would give her road side assistance and make it as painless for her as possible)? I see (adult) women wearing mini's with snow on the ground...
Personally, I wear pants all winter and skirts all summer. Part of the reason is fucking stockings. I hate hate hate them. So if I can't be nude-legged, I won't wear a skirt.
I suggest you invent a mini heater that attaches to her shoes and wafts warm air on her legs. Then send me the prototype.
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Would a "homosexual religion" be legal in the USA?
Would that be a religion that would take a stand against "straight" marriages? Or list all the reasons why straight marriages are evil? Cause that would be funny AND unlikely. The thing about homosexuals is, having been on the receiving end of discrimination, they tend to be much more accepting of others.
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When a parent loses a child, and gives birth to or adopts a new one, why do I almost never hear of the parent naming their new child the name of the one they lost?
It used to be done quite often, especially if it was the eldest boy and he carried his father's name.
I think now we have a different cultural understanding about these things.
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Would you consider the phrase "You only hurt the ones you love" roughly equivalent to "It's always in the last place you look"?
No, not at all.
One is about how we treat people and is used to console someone who has been hurt.
The other is about how we look for things - and it's IRONIC in intent. OF COURSE it's always in the last place you looked, because you are not going to continue looking for something you have found.
Sheesh!
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How do you know if your a lesbian?
I think a lot of people flirt with the idea of being gay, some are attracted, some fantasize, some just really love their best friend.
Though I call myself a heterosexual, I have to say that genitalia have very little to do with attraction for me, and have been attracted to both sexes. As far as fantasies go, they are a no-holds-barred kinda thing. You get to do whatever you want in them....
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Do guys like woman going trough their staff? e.q phones, messages
trough their staff
do you mean
through their stuff, or
through their staff
Personally, when I go to see my bf at work, I have to talk to his receptionist to find out if there is someone in his office with him. So, I am thinking he probably prefers it when I go through his staff.
However, I am also pretty sure he would not want me going through his stuff, UNLESS I am emptying his...
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Girls- when you go out to meet a guy do you only like to talk to the ones who have cute/hansome faces, nice bodys, or the ones who seem realy nice and have good perssonalitys?
Where I come from, those attributes are not mutually exclusive.
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I am 31 weeks pregnant and i Just experienced a sharp stabbing pain in my upper right abdomen. I couldnt even breath it hurt so bad. It lasted for about 20 mins. Anyone know what this could be?
Does your baby have a shiv? Cause that can cause some damage.
No, seriously, it sounds like gas, or possibly gall bladder. Did you get it after eating very fatty foods, or gas-producing foods? As the baby grows there is less room for things (like gas) to move around easily. So where before you could eat anything and not have issues, now you may have to eat smaller meals and watch what you...
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Are you kids tidy around the house?
Yes mom! I is always tidy.
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What should i do if my child is having sex?
Leave the room!
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What is the first thing or person that comes to mind upon hearing "Venus"?
They were learning about the planets in my son's daycare. He was about four at the time. He was telling me about it, and blurted out "Planet Penis". The coat room erupted with squeals of laughter and chaos ensued. It ended with the kids holding hands in a circle, jumping around chanting "Planet Penis, Planet Penis". Alas, the parents were helpless.
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Whats the best way to get rid of a hickey?
Turtleneck
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Men - why would you take a picture of your package and show someone? (The rest of the question is in the answer).
It was a total flirt thing. He wants you. But maybe only as a FwB
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Whats the best way to tell someone your interested in them?
Send them an email saying:
I'm gonna be bold here and tell you that I find you attractive. I don't expect you to respond, or for anything to change, unless you also are interested. Either way, it's cool. I just wanted to let you know.
That's my theoretical approach anyway - it's honest, open, but doesn't put pressure on the person to react immediately (like...
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Are there other siates to work for like chach for free?
Huh?
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For lack of a better way to ask this, how long is a dog's memory?
That's a good question. I don't really have a good answer.
I had a dog when I was a teenager, and it was given away to some people when my mum died. I didn't see her for three or four years, but when we went to visit, she sure remembered me. It made me cry :'(
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Alright, my last one got rejected, so I'll rephrase. Excluding yourself, how many homosexuals have you seen in the past 5 hours? For the record I am a lesbian and have nothing against homosexuals!
I have no idea. Unlike say, dogs and cats, homosexuals are not an easily identifiable group. On the flip side, I also have no idea how many heterosexuals I have seen.
I can tell you how many red smarties I have seen tho - Zer0 - :(
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Why do parents who expect their kids to move out at 18 even bother having kids in the first place?
I was expected to move out at 18, and I have no regrets that my parents had me. None. Not one.
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If a couple had been drinking and then had sex,, she claims rape.. how hard is going to be to prove your inoccence?
Your innocence can be proven by proving it was a consensual situation. I am assuming that you can't do that because you either don't remember what was said or you didn't talk about having sex together, it just happened. How can YOU even know that it wasn't rape? This situation illustrates what a really bad idea it is to have drunken sex with someone you don't know. What...
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So i think i might be pregnant cause im two weeks late for my period but one of my boobs got like double the size of the other one and is really sore. Could this be a sign of pregnancy even though it's only one? Just wondering...it's kinda wierd
Yes it could be. Get tested.
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I took a pregnancy test on sunday it came up positive, I think its my period today, what does it mean, can I still be pregnant?
If I have understood your question, you are unsure if you can be pregnant without missing your period. The answer is yes. You become pregnant at the time of ovulation, not at the time you miss your period. By the time you have missed your first period, you are already about 10 - 14 days pregnant.
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I think a girlfriend made me cum in her on purpose so she could get pregnate do girls really do that are are i thinking crazy?
a girlfriend "made" you cum in her? So she raped you? You have no control over your hands that you couldn't put a condom on?
I guess you're the same guy who wrote the question about how you cum in girls on purpose cause you want to get them "pregnate" - your spelling, m'dear, exposes you.
You just seem like a confused and silly person who likely ought...
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My wife wants me to do all the work to start sex. Since it's too much work and then she ends up saying "not now" I just retort to porn. We have sex once every 2 months after I complain about how she's never in the mood. Is my wife being selfish?
Are you helping around the house and with the kids? A lot of women spend their working days working, and their evenings working on housework and kids, and by the time they go to bed, they're exhausted.
Do you pay her compliments and tell her you love her? Many women lose interest in sex because they feel used for the sexual satisfaction of their mate rather than made love to.
Do...
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Can fingering a girl damage any of their internal organs
Yes, if you're Edward Scissorhands.
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My boyfriend and i just started to date like 1 month and all we do is fight atleast once a week when ever i try to brake up i cant we all ways make up can u tell me whats the problem
Yes, the problem is you have known each other for only a month, you fight a lot, but your youthful hormones keep dragging you back together. You will keep doing this, maybe forever. But there are guys out there that you can have just as strong an attraction to, that you don't fight with. I suggest you seek one out.
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I'm having problems with my 3yr old daughter;after she's been with my ex husbands gf & her 2 daughters (aged 2 & 4) she comes back to me with a real attitude problem &bad behaviour. I've approached him about this he doesn't see a problem,what do i do?
She's only three years old. How can she have an "attitude" problem? Sounds to me like she's struggling with the change between houses, and is having some emotional difficulty around that, and possibly acting out. I would talk to her about her feelings and help her explore what's going on inside her. You may want to consult an early childhood educator about this. Young...
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Did it bum you out at all when your kid started calling you "Mom" or "Dad" instead of Mommy/Daddy? I noticed recently that my son has been making the switch (he's 6), and it just kinda brings me down...
Awww, my kids still call me Mummy. I love it. They call me that in front of their friends, and their friends tease them about it. They just laugh. They have never stopped hugging and kissing me goodbye either - though around about age 10 my son got a little shy for a while and asked that we say our goodbyes in the house. He forgot about it soon tho, and started hugging and kissing me in public...
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Can you train a rabbit to use the cat litter box
My bun was easily litter-box trained. She used it all the time (for poops too) and she wasn't fixed. I kept her in the kitchen initially, til she found it and started using it - then she had free range of the house. Sometimes she would poop on the beds, but not often.
She was never caged tho, maybe that makes a difference.
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My 4y.o. daughter sometimes tells me that the girls at school don't want to be her friend. When I goto pick her up, they seem to get along fine. It upsets her to know that she can't always be the centre of attention I suppose. How do I comfort her?
If my child said that, I would likely respond with "that seems kind of disappointing, how do you feel about it?" Simply allowing children to express themselves and helping them to explore their feelings is enough. She'll learn that she can't be the center of attention, and she'll learn that you are there to listen to her and to understand her feelings. You don't...
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I told a guy that things weren't working out between us and to take care. He texted back saying he thinks the same and don't call or text him anymore. Why did he say that? I thought I made myself clear the first time that I'm not going to!
You should text him back and say "fine, I won't text you ever again, and I have blocked you so you can't text me" ;)
He sounds pretty immature.
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Yesterday I posted a question about lies in relationships. I've been seeing a guy I really liked, but felt was hiding something. Last night I discovered he's not 22, like he told me, but 18. I am 31. He is very remorseful.. Would I be mad to continue?
Yes. At that age, the gap is too much for any serious relationship. You are at what I would call "marrying stage" and he is "school stage". If you can't abide by the half plus seven rule, (31 - 15.5 + 7 = 22.5 being the youngest person you should date) then I would at least consider the stages of life rule.
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Can you describe your father in one word?
Dying
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Is it wrong to have out of relationship sex? I haven't gotten any in almost two years and I miss the comfort of a man. my relationship life is a little slow and I need something to tie me over. what to do?
In my experience, you'll only be disappointed in casual sex if you expect something more than sex. Women often engage in casual sex hoping to find a relationship. They are usually disappointed. I have had experiences like that, but I have also had deliberate, casual, ongoing friends with benefits situations that have been both satisfying and enjoyable.
Now I am in a long-term...
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What do you do when a person who always comes in to your work to purchase things, starts to creep you out?
keep your interaction very professional. Don't hold their gaze. Smile pleasantly and greet them, just like anyone else. If they linger too long, or stare, say in a very loud voice "is there something I can help you with?"
If that doesn't work and their behavior is still strange, tell your boss, it's really up to them to deal with things like that.
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My bf of 2 years wants to have a break. he says he loves me & loves spending time with me and we're closer then ever when we're alone but he also wants to go out and with his friends and feel 'single' again. i love him but what should i do?
Let him go. There's nothing else you can do.
Be sad, get over it, move on.
Good luck
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What do you take for headaches?
Aspirin when it's just a long day, achy headache
Ibuprofen (600 - 800 mg) for a migraine.
For inbetweens, 200 - 400 mg Ibuprofen or 500 mg aspirin
Too much detail, I know. but you asked.
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Can Tom Cruise do any more good movies or has he lost it?
Wait, have you seen him in Tropic Thunder. . . ? I mean, He is awesome, . . . took me half the film to recognise him.
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The best kind of kisser is someone who ________?
Q1) That's a tough one, cause I don't remember a lot about how people kissed me. I once wrote that a guy was a great kisser, but I don't remember that about him independently. So, I'd have to go with the kisser I do remember, n that's my BF
Q2) That's a tough one, cause it's incomprehensible.
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My bro's friend is really cute and I'm pretty sure he told my bro that I'm cute but my brother won't admit this b/c he doesn't want anything to happen b/w us.I feel like his friend always looks at me during lunch and in the hall, what can I do to flirt?
I'm thinking that if your brother isn't cool with you dating his friend, you might want to think twice about it. You may or may not date this guy for a bit, but your brother will be around forever, providing you with a steady supply of good guys, one who you may actually end up with. He potentially has the ability to be a GREAT jerk filter for you.
I would be tempted to let this...
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What is your favorite halloween candy? What is your spouses favorite?
Changed my mind : Rockets!
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What is your favorite halloween candy? What is your spouses favorite?
I gotta go with caramels. I went to get some today and they were sold out!
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I've got the house to myself ( what shall i do)?
Popcorn, the most indulgent movie and hog the whole couch!
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My ex is always so rude and mean to me and just told a friend of mine that he believes im crazy. I'm worried he is saying things like this in front of my kids. How do I make him understand that he needs to not be doing this because it will scare them?
Take the high road here sugar.
It sounds like he's still really angry and is taking his anger out on you in this way. Insist that he be civil towards you, and about you in front of the kids. Always treat him with respect and speak kindly towards him.
What he says to your friends behind your back you can do nothing about. I would suggest you ignore it. Act with dignity and kindness,...
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Everyone says that I'm a know-it-all. I just don't see it, no matter how much I try to psychoanalyze myself. In fact, I'm quite certain that I'm right. How can I convince them that they are wrong?
Can you say trolling?
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My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year and a half. Her ex boyfriend calls every now and then and sweet talks to her. One of the latest things he has said is I'm going to marry you one day, I'm sorry that I hurt u in the past, I dream of u ofte
She clearly digs the attention, but this is totally disrespectful to you and your relationship. Tell her to clean up her act and stop taking calls from her ex, or you will dump her sorry ass.
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If I get a girls number and she seems anxious to give it, but then I call her and she doesn't answer right away, what does that mean? If a girl really wants to talk to you, dont you think she would pick up her phone right away?
Maybe she was taking a crap.
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What % of married couples make it to 60 years of marriage?
This is actually a pretty complicated question. There is really only one way to answer it and that's with a model. Try and stay with me, cause the model will illustrate the complexity of your question.
So this model takes 100 couples married in 1950. The men are approximately 26 years old (this was the average age of marriage for men at that time). This year, how many would be...
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What should i do i am dating this guy and i like him but yet again i dont and i dont want to break up with him cuz i am afraid to hurt him, WHAT DO I DO?
Try using punctuation.
Seriously. If you can't express yourself clearly, you can't think clearly. Sit down with a pen in hand and write out a list of all the things you want from a relationship, and all the things you want in your BF. Then see if his attributes measure up. You know in your heart what you want, but you have filled your head with noise. Be quiet and get some clarity.
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My husband calls me names and insults me, more so after he has been drinking, why do deep deep down do i still love him or do i?
This is one of the reasons why child abuse is so heinous. Children end up believing that they deserve their abuse and it's a belief they carry into adulthood. If you were abused as a child, you may still love your man because you believe you deserve to be treated this way.
You don't.
Please find help to get yourself out of this situation. It will only worsen over time. I am...
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Why do girls always blame the man for everything?why is it always are fault?lol
Because you're a homonym abuser.
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What is the most economical method of boiling water, in an electric kettle or in a kettle on an electric stove?
I would GUESS that it's with an electric kettle because all the heat produced goes into the water, whereas with a stove some of the heat goes into heating up the stove and up the sides of the kettle.
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Do you suffer from Foot in Mouth?
mefh, I voo. makfes if verrwy diffuffult fo falk
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Whats a good picture to put on a wall in a conservative medical office?
I would go for Monet prints - they are pretty and relaxing, but reveal a touch of sophistication. Also images of water and growing things are shown to improve people's feeling of well being
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Would you date a geek?
I love geeks. But I am not a teenager, so . . .
My daughter, who is a teenager also loves geeks.
D'uh she's 20, sorry.
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I am intrested in a 22 year old and im 27 yr old! is this bad , we get on great am just worried about the age gap x
According to the famed "half plus seven" rule, you're good to go.
Half plus seven?
anyone who is half your age plus seven years (or older, obviously) is dating material.
It's kinda cool cause for a . . .
. . .14 y/o: 14/2+7 = 14
. . . 20 y/o: 20/2+7 = 17
. . . 40 y/o: 40/2+7 = 27
You? 27/2+7 = 20.5
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How do you break up two people when you KNOW FOR A FACT one of them wants out. they just dont have the heart to do it, they feel like there is something to hold onto but they cant find it.
There's a big difference between helping and interfering. If your friend needs support, you can listen and sympathize - that's helpful. Trying to solve their problem for them - that's interfering.
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What's you favorite breakup song?
Thorn in my side - Eurythmics
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Why are we still in Iraq? If it is truely to instill a democracy, what about other places in the world like Darfur, Chad, Kenya, Cambodia, Laos, Vietnam, etc? Not enough natural resources there?
You're right when you mention resources. History shows us that almost all wars are fought over resources.
The history of the middle east tho is pretty fascinating. There's something about that place on earth (more than the oil - tho the oil certainly fuels the conflicts (scuse the pun)) that has drawn conflict since man first wielded a rock.
American involvement there has also...
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Did Obama & his Advisors help destroy the US economy and was it on purpose?
Wow, the Republicans, and their mouthpiece - FOX - are flippin desperate!
Turn over those same rocks looking for republicans, they're there - no worries.
The economic crisis was created thru the loosening of financial regulations - on the republican's watch. Economists have been sounding the alarm bells for a few years on this looming crisis, and the Republican-lead government...
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Can you sleep at night knowing you voted for a man who supports infanticide?
I can't sleep thinking that if the republicans win, Sarah Palin (yeaup, I'm a hockey mom from Alaska, I can SEE Russia - how's THAT for foreign policy experience) is but one heartbeat from the Oval Office.
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How many people here can't wait for this election to be over so we don't have to hear how bad President Bush is? That is all I hear on this site Evil Bush this and that as if he is responsible for all problems here from the begining of time.
Not really a question is it. More like a complaint.
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When is it safe for men to hug?
1) after the bomb has been safely dismantled
2) out of traffic
3) if there is oxygen
4) once the fire has been put out
5) when the pilot switches off the seatbelt light
6) once the cigars are in their hands or the ashtray
7) after the rampaging elephant has been safely sedated
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My teenagers is driving me crazy, talking back, dirty room, curfew broken etc...how do you deal with your teenager?
My personal approach with my kids was to employ a lot of perspective.
If they were not:
1) being brought home by the cops
2) dealing drugs
3) being violent towards anyone (including themselves)
4) skipping school (so that anyone would notice anyway)
5) failing classes
6) being abusive towards animals or people
7) failing to call to let me know where they were
8) driving drunk or...
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Just when you thought you knew it all, what happened?
I grew up :)
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Have you ever used a relative's extra e- mail addresses to keep others from tracking your ID because of personal matters?
No, I have several email addresses that I use for different purposes - mostly because my real email address has my first and last name, and I obviously wouldn't use that to post on the web.
Just be aware that you can ALWAYS be tracked thru your IP address. That's not really applicable to a situation where you are hiding things from, say, your wife, but it is if you are hiding...
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How will this end?
in tears
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What are some signs that a woman can look for in a current relationship to determine if a man views her as a "good for now girl" vs. wife material?
Some signs are - you talk with him about your hopes and expectations for the relationship, ask him about his, listen to what he says, clarify your understanding, and see if you are or are heading for the state of being on the same page.
If you can't have an honest discussion about the state of your relationship, then you either haven't been together long enough or you are not...
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Should homosexual couples be allowed to marry?
I can see how people might be personally against homosexuality and choose not to engage in it themselves, but what I don't understand is why they think that quoting from the bible, or the koran or the talmud gives them the right to impose their beliefs on others.
It's funny how it seems like the very people who are threatened by radical islamists who want us all to follow Allah,...
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If you get a text saying... "The only thing I feel that I should say is, I adore you as a friend, but am not wanting to be more than friends." Does that mean give up all hope of maybe a dating relationship?
In a word, yes.
There are a lot of comments here saying you shouldn't give up, but I don't understand what that's about. At the risk of sounding clichéd, there are plenty more fish in the sea. You've lost a lover and gained a friend (maybe). Smile and move on.
If your friend is playing games with you don't play along. There are a lot of people getting...
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Have you ever had to share your bed with a sibling?
Funny. I never had to share a bed growing up in a family of four kids, and I don't ever remember sharing one voluntarily. But, my kids have shared a bed off and on all their lives. They have never minded, and in fact often have preferred sharing a room if not a bed. To this day my son is able to share a single bed with someone, but having had him in my bed on numerous occasions, i know for...
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My girlfriend just broke up with me please help me I feel lost.
Re-establish contact with your friends - now's when you need them.
You are in shock and will go through the stages of grief like someone has died. That's normal. Don't resist the bad feelings you have, just accept them.
Cry, watch some good movies. Do NOT go out and find another girl right away. Spend some time reflecting on what you liked and what you didn't like in...
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Can you substitute eggs in a cake? allergic to eggs
Yes, one tablespoon of oil is a good egg substitute
Depending on what you're allergic to there are also yoke-less egg substitutes.
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How do you know when you're in love?
*sigh* Yes, yes I am.
1) we've been together 8 months so I know it's not too soon
2) it gets better and better
3) we can talk more and more openly about things
4) I feel all squishy inside when I think about him
5) I feel loved and accepted for who I am
6) everyday I am reminded by the things he does and by his consideration, what a great BF he is.
. . . how's that?
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My bf and i took some time apart, but still hung out and were getting back together. as soon as we had time apart he started hanging out with his ex gf at work, and went to see fireworks with her. he swears she was just a friend, am i being paranoid?
Yes, you're being paranoid. You were separated at the time, if I am not mistaken, so he was free to do whatever he wanted, as were you. Maybe he was just putting his old relationship to bed - metaphorically speaking.
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Do you let your best friends wear your clothes?
Just my underwear
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The other night my 5 years old daughter walked in on my husband and I making love and she been asking questions about it ever since. I don't know what to tell her, I still think she too young to know about sex,what should I tell her?Any advice?
Depends on what position you were in. There's probably a significant difference between her catching you tussling under the sheets and her catching her father gagged and bound with you standing over him with a paddle in your hand. ;)
If the former, you can tell her you were loving each other - I, like others, have no issues telling kids about sex and explaining that it's a way for...
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What's the lamest breaking up excuse you can think of?
I can't marry you, I have to wash my hair that night.
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Would you say that bad break ups are a result of the increase in bunny boilers?
You may have the cause and effect reversed.
Stalking and other obsessive behaviors could likely be reduced by clear communications around dating, expectations and breaking-up.
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I just want a fling. Pretty sure he just wants a fling. He was supposed to come over; I asked him to bring condoms. The next thing I know, he flaked out. He said he was just hoping to hang out, watch a movie and see what happends. Did I
Jump the gun? yeah. Even people just wanting flings often still want romance, and sometimes they still want the pursuit and seduction.
If you're a good, grown-up lover, you should have a supply of condoms anyway.
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Keep strong and in control in a relationship
okay
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My wife recently changed her logon to the computer. In which I reacted by changing mine. The relationship has been rocky. She thinks I am cheating on her because "I changed my logon" no answer for changing hers. Should I be the worried one?
Uh hum, yep, I'd say so.
Given what you have said, I would recommend, if you are interested in saving your marriage, get thee to counseling asap. Sounds like you have no communication going on at all.
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How would you explain the heisenberg uncertainty principle to a fourth grader?please help
The uncertainty principle arises from quantum mechanics. The concept is that any occurrence observed is changed by being observed - leading to the uncertainty of the actual occurrence.
On an atomic level, if someone is observing a reaction, light energy is absorbed by the watcher. Taking away the light energy has an impact on the reaction. That's the simplest way I can think to explain...
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My teenage daughter insists on wearing baggy sweatpants and big t-shirts to school. She's a little heavy and more "developed" than most in her class. I feel it's to cover up because she's uncomfortable. My husband wants her to start
Being a teenager is really hard. Love her, support her, let her make her own choices as long as she's not harming herself or others.
Pressuring her into some ideal of what your husband thinks she ought to look or dress like will just make her feel awkward, uncomfortable and misunderstood.
My daughter was uncomfortable and heavy as a teen. She did the proverbial butterfly emerging...
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Do you prefer teens or kids?
. . .
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Do you prefer teens or kids?
I like babies best, but I can't eat a whole one.
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Have you ever had to deal with a person who was absolutely unreasonable? Tell me about it so I feel better.
If this is someone with whom you are in a relationship, then you need to get to the bottom of whatever it is that's driving this. Judging someone as "unreasonable" prevents comprehensive understanding of a situation. A lot of people in conflict get stuck in a position, no matter how unreasonable it may seem, for a variety of reasons. They could be locked in a power struggle, they...
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What % of married couples make it to 60 years of marriage?
A lot more than unmarried, that's fer sure
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What is a bovcat called
I would guess: bovcat
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when you read "To make sure everyone gets their chance to ask a question, we ask that you post no more than 5 questions within 15 minutes. Please try posting your question again later!"
I would say that the chance of anyone being able to come up with more than five well thought-out questions in 15 minutes is close to nil. Given the quality of some of the questions on this site, I would say "Thank you AB admin!"
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I'm with a beautiful girl, but it isn't working out. She told me too much about her past, and she's already had sex. I'm a virgin. I want my first time to be with another virgin. It bothers me and we've talked about it. I plan to break up with her. How?
Coachmaster, you sound like a shallow, sad young thing. I took a boy's virginity once as a rather experienced young woman, we both knew what we were getting into, and I have to say that I gave him one of the sweetest experiences. Of course it was just that, an experience, not a relationship, but we both went away happy.
Check out the movie "Forgetting Sarah Marshall" if you...
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Do you do what your told?
yes sir, yes i do
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What would you do if an aber was dating one of your kids?
I am dating your kids. . . . all of them
Mouahahahahahaha
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You see a female riding (driving) a Harley Davidson, what is the first thing that comes to your mind?
She likes power between her legs.
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If how much she likes me is conditionally based upon how well I would make a good dad to her kid then can how much I like her be based upon how well she cooks a good meal?
She wants to raise a family and how well you can parent is her number one concern
You want to eat and how well she can cook is your number one concern
Tho raising a family and eating are not mutually exclusive activities, I would say that it's possible the two of you have slightly different priorities.
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Me and my bf had a talk last night, and he's going travelling. He's scared to fall in love with me, because next year we may not be together. He wants to travel as a single guy, because he's only 20 and hasn't ever gone anywhere! Should i stay with him?
You can't "stay with him" because he is clearly breaking up with you. Sorry to put it so bluntly, but wake up and smell the coffee, sugar.
Most 20-year-old boys would love to do precisely what he's doing and they want the freedom to explore themselves in the world, as themselves. I think it's really good for them to do that, AS IT WOULD BE REALLY GOOD FOR YOU to do...
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Do you think it's cruel and "out of touch" to make your kid send thank-you notes for birthday presents?
That's funny. I am guessing by the use of quotation marks that you are in a custody battle with your ex. I hope you feel vindicated in your position by all the people who agree with you.
If I have this right, just know this. That whether you are right or wrong, having battles like this with your ex is really damaging to your kids. Find a way to work things out with your ex and let go...
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Why is it when you post your profile as divorced but you are still married and dating some jerk and he finds out and now uses you just for sex and your money for capital gain. Now you tell friends and family and say you dont trust men?
why is it when you post incoherent questions but you are still confused and confusing to others and others find out that you dont use punctuation and they just use you to make jokes and to make fun. Now you tell your friends and family that the internet sucks and they say your right
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I've become really good friends with a girl, we talk almost everyday and see each other a couple of times. She seems to be in love with me but 'seems' is what ruins it. I don't want to make the wrong move, what do I do, I'm afraid to make the first move?
All you can do is find out. As long as you don't jump her, there's a possibility that you will remain friends, if that's what you want.
Here's how to do it. . .
Pick a moment when you are both really feeling up and happy about things. Tell her that you don't want to freak her out or ruin your friendship, but that you have been wondering if there is something...
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I have been with a guy for over a year&he recently just moved.he started playing a sport.so now we talk for an hour a day.which is really hard.so just tonight he said he needs to think about stuff for a couple of days because hes confused.what to do?
Nothing. You sound like you're young which means that you will have lots of opportunities to meet nice guys. One big problem with young love is that an 18-year-old girl is way more inclined to settle down than an 18, 19, 20 year old guy.
Sorry if i have guessed wrong, but that's how it sounds to me.
P.S., a lot of guys HATE long telephone convos.
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If your man keeps accusing you of cheating and you truly are not what is it you do? How do you make it stop?
I would be concerned there is a lot underlying this behavior. It's the thin edge of the wedge for an abusive relationship. Please proceed in this situation with caution, and I would strongly suggest you get out of it as soon as possible.
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Do guys tell the truth when theyre drunk?My bf keeps everything in and finds it hard to open up. Weve been together 2 years, hes coming back from the army for a month then goes to Germany.He text me Fri drunk and said he wanted to come get married? Truth?
Guess you'll find out when he comes back, but I wouldn't hold him to a drunken text message, specially given that he's probably lonely and misses you. I would take it as a compliment, and wait for a sober proposal.
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My man is jealous of my myspace, what do i do? I dont want to delete it, i keep in touch with my relatives on it...
Have you asked him why he's concerned about it? Cause it's hard to tell what the issue is without some context.
It could be you're spending too much time in front of the computer (I know I do!), or he fears you are using your online time to meet other men. Maybe he's jealous of your family . . . It's hard to know what the problem is, but it seems to me that deleting...
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Do you think to be considered bisexual is it necessary to have partners of both genders or can you just have one partner and be equally sexually attracted to both genders?
um . . . do you mean AT THE SAME TIME? cause if you do, then you're thinking of another kind of bi - A bigamist.
Someone who is bisexual is someone who is attracted to both genders. So a bisexual person could be in a relationship with someone from the same gender or from the opposite gender - either way. Once that relationship is over, they may choose to be in a relationship with a...
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I forgave my boyfriend after he cheated on me, but I cannot seem to let go, can someone please give me advice on what to do. Its kind of depressing!
I don't think that not "bringing it up" is a good idea. You need to work thru this issue together as a couple. A lot of people don't want to deal with painful times in their lives, but by not dealing with it openly, it continues to torment you. There are some great books out there about surviving infidelity, and I don't know of one that says, "forget about it and...
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My BF is on a writing website & I've been wrongly reading his messages. He met this girl about 8 years older. They call each other mami and papi & she says love you & they're gonna start webcam. I can't tell him I read his stuff.. should this bother me?
It doesn't really matter if we think it should bother you. What matters is whether or not it bothers you.
It would bother me, and I would consider it cheating. Given that I would consider it cheating, then I wouldn't hesitate to confront my BF with the fact that I knew.
Where it's true that it is sneaky and untrustworthy to snoop, his behavior was likely such that it...
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Would you forgive and forget your bestfriend and boyfriend for sending NAKED PICTURES of themselves?
Forgive them, yes.
Forget them, yes.
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How do I get my Husband to quit having contact with a woman whom he cheated on me with on two different occassions? He claims its just business but I don't trust either one of them around each other?
Sorry, but I have to agree with the top posters. He's not trying to fix anything, he's not clued into how you're feeling, and is putting himself and this other woman above you and the relationship.
You have to decide:
Whether you want to be in a relationship where you will always play second fiddle, and he will likely always cheat,
Whether you give him a second chance...
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Could you forgive a wife of fifteen years for kissing and hugging another man when she was drunk, considering she stopped it before it lead to sex or intercourse?
Don't know who downgraded all the answers that said "forgive her" but I upgraded y'all.
Look, we are all entitled to make a mistake. Fifteen years? There are people who put up with a hell of a lot of sh*t to stay in a fifteen year relationship.
You clearly need to talk about it with her and find out how you feel about it. Maybe explore what is going on with her that...
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My husband is talking to youngest daugther (17) his step daugther about having an affair both with a male in detail but he said if she told me that he would deny everything. So what should I do?
Whether or not he actually has the affair is a moot point. The important thing is that he is being sexually inappropriate and abusive towards your daughter. I would sit him down and tell him exactly what you know. Let him deny it all he wants. Tell him you are not seeking to "prove" anything, but if he ever speaks to her like that again, you will report him immediately to the...
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What is Helsinki known for?
Hosted the Olympics.
It's in Finland
It's a northern European capital
It's a coastal city, connected to Stockholm, Sweden by ferry
That's it off the top of my head. If you look it up on Wikipedia, I am sure they will have much more interesting things to say about it.
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Have you ever been able to use your frequent flyer miles?
Not with British Airways - cause they expired after a year, but with Air France I cashed in two free flights and with Air Canada, I've cashed in at least six, and about to do two more.
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What is the first thing you think when someone says "guess what"?
You're gay?
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What is the first thing that comes to your mind when I say "sugar"
. . . pie Honey bunch, you know that I love you! Can't help myself, I love you and nobody else."
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Does anyone play board games anymore? If so, which ones are your favorites? If not, which one would you love to play again if you could find other people to play with?
Just so I am out of the closet on this one . . .
I am an avid Scrabble player, and my kids recently introduced me to Settlers of Catan - it's a great family board game for the 12 and over crowd.
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Would you still love your partner if you could never sleep with them(sexual) again?This is a serious question?
If this is a serious question, and you are really in a situation where one of you will be unable to have intercourse after some medical procedure (and it just happened recently to a friend of mine), then I would suggest that you have a lot of talks about how you can remain physically close and even have "sex" together. Cause sex is about physical and emotional intimacy, not just about...
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Has your wife ever bought the condoms?
On morning, I wanted to . . . , well, you know, and my BF said, "we're out of condoms". I was really pissed, got up, went to the pharmacy and bought 3 big packs. Only when I put them on the check-out counter did I stop to think what it may have looked like - this woman buying $38.00 worth of "her pleasure" condoms 8:00 on a Saturday morning, and I really couldn't...
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What are some adjectives, verbs, and lastly one thing OTHER THAN BLOOD SUCKING that Dracula does?
Here are some more
Verbs:
flies like a bat
sleeps in a coffin
fears garlic
avoids crucifixes
shuns daylight
skulks in his castle
hides from the sun
arises in the night
Adjectives:
nattily-dressed
caped
pale
drawn
thin
wane
charming
disarming
seductive
dangerous
infamous
nocturnal
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My wife and I are married 30+ years I still want sex, but we seem like sex doesnt matter to our relationship, How can i stir things up?
How is it that you still want sex, but "we seem like" it doesn't matter? I'm gonna guess here that it matters to YOU. And, since it matters to you, you need to do something about the current sexlessness of your marriage.
The first thing is to take a good hard look at yourself.
Are you still physically attractive, or have you let yourself go over the years? Do you...
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How can I get on my husbands desktop? Can I check his e-mail? I need serious instruction here, new to computers...
If you are too short to get on his desktop by merely climbing up on it, then get on his chair first, and climb up from there.
Good luck!
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I really like a girl in my class. i think she likes me a little too but im not sure.i want to say hi or have a conversation with her but i'm super shy and shes shy too. would it be kinda wierd if i passed her a note instead?
If you are in Arithmetic, then it's fine.
If you are in Differential Calculus, I would say not so fine.
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Which Nursery Rhyme has stuck in you mind, word for word, since small?
I see I see
Icy cold
I see I see
young and old
I see I see
all world kind
I be I be
Billy Blind
Totally totally weird, which is maybe why I remembered it.
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Is it just me, or is reading something on physical paper better than reading it on the internet..?
Personally I prefer metaphysical paper . . .
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Do you think mimes should have equal rights?
No, I think when it comes to freedom of speech, mimes should not have a voice.
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How old were you when you you relized you needed a girlfrind or boyfriend in your life?
I was 14 when I realized that I needed a boyfriend in my life.
Then when I was 28 I realized that I didn't need a boyfriend in my life.
When I was 35 I realized that I wanted a boyfriend but didn't need one.
Once again I have one, I love him, I want him in my life, but I know I can live without him if I have to.
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For 6 months I've dated a woman going thru a nasty divorce/custody. I'm div & I get her emotions. In recent wks she's been less attentive to our relationship and my needs. She admits this. I love her but feel used. Should I stay or go? Confront or Wait?
No one going thru a divorce should be in a relationship, and I would say if you date someone in the throes of divorce, separation, etc. you run the very real risk of being the "rebound" guy or gal.
"Dating for Dummies" says if you are less than one year divorced or out of a significant long-term relationship, you have no business dating. I think it's wise advice, but...
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Does it upset you when your boyfriend can just tell that your upset? do you want him to be able to pick up the fact that something is wrong, without actually telling him?
You are responsible for your feelings. If you are upset about something, be honest about it. It is pretty immature to sit and sulk and expect someone else to be upfront about how you feel if you won't do it yourself.
Suck it up, look at your BF and say "I am really upset/angry/sad about X" and invite discussion. The benefit is that you don't have to wait to have the talk...
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Is it the little things they say that make you love them more?
Um, no. Little things said can be cute and charming, but it's the big things he DOES and the little things he does all the time that really reveal a person's character. And his great character is what makes me love him.
Unless you're talking about my dog, in which case, when she looks at me and makes a little gurgle cause I forgot to feed her, that makes me love her heaps :)
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Do woman like hairy dudes? (ie. full beards, hairy chests, legs, and backs, etc.)
I have loved hairy and hairless dudes.
Just cause you're hairy tho is no reason not to shave your face. I have never been fond of facial hair, and just letting it all grow, untrimmed, is unattractive.
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My husband recently changed the passwords on his three desktops. He wont give me acess, yet says nothing is going on. He has a history of cheating (this is how we got together, regrettably). Do I worry?
Yes, if you are worried about him cheating, then worry. But I say that because of the context in which this happened.
For those who think couples shouldn't have secrets: My BF and I have separate accounts on each other's computers. He doesn't have my password and I don't have his. But we have no reason to suspect each other. I do have private writing that I wouldn't...
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Is it OK to use putrefied bat bile past the expiration date when making a witches brew?
Putrefied bat bile only gets more putrefied with age. So use it, but you may want to cut down on the quantity, or risk too strong a reaction. btw, what's the potion for?
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If you had a garage full of "BAD STUFF" what would be in there?
My car, the wood from an old hardwood floor, stairs to a fire escape, tires, an old rickety wood ladder, dry rot, plastic pots from gardening, an old rat's nest, spiders, an ancient rolled up rug that I am afraid to unroll, a wooden box high on a shelf that I am afraid to look in, and my bicycle. but my bicycle I love and isn't bad stuff. :)
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My husband stole naked pictures of my sister from her home. Is this considered cheating?
My gut response is that there's a lot more going on here. Sure men desire other women, sure they desire our sisters. I would say that no well-adjusted healthy man would steal naked pictures from anyone's home. This is someone who has no respect for boundaries and is exhibiting predatory behavior.
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Do you ditch 10 yrs of marriage based on a friends accusation? Night of drinking and everyone has had secrets to hide. Do I believe my husband when he says he doesn't remember "feeling up" this friend of mine!
I don't think feeling someone up is a marriage-breaker, specially under those circumstances. Whether or not you dump your husband should be based on whether or not he's prepared to discuss and respect your feelings about what happened, whether or not he's prepared to curb his drinking, and how you both together can deal with your friend - and to me it sounds like he needs to...
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Why do people like to try and make other people mad? eg. push their buttons
Cause it works :D
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3rd time's a charm, what is this magical number and why does it always seem to work?
Throughout history the number three, or the symbol that represents it, has been held to have "mystical" properties. My fav is the triskele from Celtic mythology. It is said to represent many things including the stages of birth, life and death, and the three stages of womanhood: maiden, mother, crone. I have heard tell that the concept of the triskele was co-opted by the early...
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What is the distance from the East to West coast?
of what?
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Where is the best place to Vacation? I have already been to Jamaica, Alaska, Europe, Hawaii, Bahama's, Costa Rica. What about Dubai? I heard it is great there. Has anyone been?
Depends on what you're looking for clearly, but one place I have been to a few times and I'd go back in a heartbeat, is Scotland. The islands (Hebrides, Orkneys) especially are nothing short of magical. If you go, I would recommend end of May early June, since the weather is great, it's easy to get accommodation on a drop-in basis, and the entire country looks like a garden....
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Is swearing a compromise between running away and fighting?
Uh, no. Swearing is swearing.
Fighting and running away are two distinct responses to conflict. I would say that swearing is part of fighting in that it is a form of self-expression.
Rather than fight or run away, you may try expressing yourself more clearly and calmly. There are lots of tips on handing conflict on the web and there are loads of books. Usually when people are in conflict...
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Women, if you had been dating a guy for 6 months, would be upset if he didnt invite you to fly home with him to spend christmas with his family?
It's a little tricky at six months. I have been dating my BF for about eight months, and we are planning on spending Xmas with his family (about a ten-hour drive). Then I am flying off to have a visit with mine (other side of the country). I am going for four days and I told him he was welcome to come, but he's just not that interested in coming, and it's not that important for...
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I've just split with my fiance for another girl, she is also in a long term relationship. We work together and have been sleeping with each other, she said that she has too much to lose by seeing me and wants me to back off. What should
Back off. Some people really get excited by forbidden fruit, but once that fruit is available for a committed relationship, they are no longer intrigued. Not sayin that's what happened, but who knows. She's just not that into you.
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I let a preteen giv me(4 yrs oldr) head and felt bad and protectiv of her. she gav hed to anothr gi an we had sex. she then cheated alot more even w/her sis's husb. She lied about it all. Should I still feel responsible for her and be with her for my gilt
Damn, if this is true and you let a 12-year-old give you head, you better run, run so far away.
There is a guy in the Sex Offender registry, who will be on there FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE because he had sex with a 13-year-old when he was 16. The 3 year age difference was the difference between him being a bad boy and him being a Registered Sex Offender. For you, my friend, the crime is...
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My boyfriend freaked out because i left his side for less then 15 minutes to tlk to a friend. He kept on saying how he is allways paying attention to me, and i am not to him...what do i say to him?..i am in love with him.
I would say to watch out for other kinds of controlling and jealous behaviour. Maybe he's right and you're not as attentive as he is. There's nothing wrong with that. You are who you are, and presumably you accept him as he is. He needs to do the same with you.
If he really needs someone to be by his side, always then it's possible that you're not right for him,...
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Is there an expiration date for fire extinguisher (I had mine for over 7 years), would it still work?
Fire extinguishers often come with test buttons for testing the pressure. which is the only thing that will go "bad" with age.
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Whats your life story in 3 words?
six
two
four
;)
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If you were trapped in a house with 6 girls and two and 4 guys all year what would you do
Is that eight girls? (6 girls and two)? or six guys (two and 4 guys). Or is that 6 girls, 4 guys and two unknown entities?
If it's the latter, then i would probably band together with the humans and try to eradicate the unknown entities. cause they are prolly zombies or aliens who will only want to infect you with some kinda alien monster disease that will cause freakish alien monsters...
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I Joined The Special Forces Unit In The US Army (Navy Seals) ....Was That Dumb? Joining The Seals Is My Dream...protecting Others. What Do you Think?
If "protecting others" is your dream, then you should become a fireman. Being in the military means you have to kill people, so really you are only protecting some people, maybe. Sadly what you are usually protecting is some political ideal or some politician's backside.
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Did Jesus have a beginning? If yes, when did this begining start?
Woah! what happened to the Sumerians, to the manger, and Bethlehem, the three wise men, Mary, Joseph? I understand that America has changed the face of Christianity and warped into some kind of weird religion, but is there now mass denial of the existence of a world before Christ?
From Wikipedia - which I would suggest is a better source than some of the loonies (not that I am pointing any...
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If the Government gave all the poor people a million dollars each, how long do you think it would take them to spend it and be back on the streets and on welfare?
Lack of money is not what causes poverty.
Almost all studies show that education and health care are the number one and two determinants of wealth.
So, handing out cash doesn't help. It's often done because it's easy. What's harder is providing opportunities to people, teaching them skills, empowering them.
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Found my bf cheated on the weekend for a quick"goodtime"..says i not giving it enough.. life is tough with work and house and children.. How do i work out the loving him and hating him now all at the same time?
If you want to work it out, tell him that if he helped more around the house, you would have more time for him. You're not Superwoman. You can't cook, clean, work, care for the kids and have the energy left for lovemaking.
Tell him to help out and work on making it work FOR BOTH of you.
Then tell him if he ever does anything like that again you will cut off his balls.
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Have you ever paid a professional window washer to wash the windows in your house? Were you happy with the results?
Yes, one year a student offered to wash all my windows for an unbelievably good price. I was so happy with it. It was done in an afternoon, no mess, no fuss (at least not for me). I would pay three times what I paid him to have it done for me again like that.
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What are the odds of surviving 1 night in -30 dregree winter tempetures if youve been drinking and fell asleep from exhaustion and stress? Wearing good jacket, hood jeans and boots?
Happened to someone I knew. Came home drunk, couldn't find his keys. They found him dead the next morning on his step. I am not sure exactly the temp, but it was probably around -30 C.
He wasn't exhausted or stressed, just passed out. Someone suffering exhaustion and stress with alcohol in the mix is incredibly vulnerable to hypothermia. I would say the chance of survival are very...
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Whats the earliest you could tell if your pregnant if ur periods irregular and you just finshed ur period the 1st of april but he came in me 4 times the 4th 5th 6th and 8th .. i want to no as soon as possible ..
Unless you are over 35, I would suggest you forget about it. The hardest way to get pregnant is to stress about it and try too hard. If you are over 35 and have been trying for more than 3 months, then you should go and see a fertility specialist.
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What is the name of the song played at the end,and danced?
what is the name of the singer?
There was an end? When did that happen?
Dammit, I missed the end!
shoooooot
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Have you ever had a rooftop garden?
I lived in the tropics for a couple of years, and we had a beautiful roof garden. Many different plants in very large ceramic pots. Flowers all year round - trees too. It was really great.
Now I live in a more temperate clime, I grow a grape vine over my pergola. It gives me a beautiful leafy shade in the summer. Not really a "roof" garden, but I call it my vertical garden. I also...
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My wife says I can't built a fort out of the sofa cushions to hide from the guests I don't like....what's her problem?
Bummer, I LOVE sofa cushion forts! specially when you can line up chairs and make a tunnel to the table where the food is. Tell your wife to chill or you'll find someone more sofa cushion fort tolerant.
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Is it ok for a 14 year old and 16 to date?
I would exercise caution. It's not legal EVERYWHERE. Please inform yourself of the legal age of consent in your jurisdiction.
If it's older than 14 your BF can be charged and branded a sexual offender for the rest of his life.
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At work, how does it make you feel when someone less qualified with no real substance gets promoted above someone else who is much more qualified, just because one is a much smoother talker and knows how to put on a better "show" and talk the talk?
I used to get really angry about this guy at work. Really not very qualified, a bit of a slacker, but could really talk the good talk. Always telling people what they want to hear and always being positive and upbeat. He got a lot of attention from the boss and a lot of undeserved credit.
In the end I took a good look at myself and wondered if I was putting my best foot forward. I have...
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I am your 6 year old child, I ask you "How are babies made?" What do you say?
There are lots of great books out there that are helpful for kids to learn about sex and reproduction. If you start talking to your kid at 6 about sex, it will never get awkward to talk to them about it. My kids would always ask questions and I would start answering them honestly. When they wandered off, I knew they had enough info to satisfy them. I probably told them "too much" but...
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What do you do differently with with subsequent children after the first? More lax or stricter with things?
I had two kids, close in age. I always figured that we should have the option of throwing the first one out after about 18 months. Don't get me wrong here, I love her to pieces, but I think as a parent the first one is a bit of an experimental model. Kinda like a "learner" model - they teach you how to parent - you realize that you had a lot of dumb ideas about what you thought...
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IS IT WEIRD THAT IM AFRAID TO GET CLOSE WITH MY BOYFRIEND SON.
No, it's not weird. There are lots of reasons why you may want to avoid forming a bond with him. Maybe you don't like the kid. Or, more importantly, maybe you are unsure of your relationship with your BF. If you are not pretty sure you will stay together, then avoiding contact with his kid is a really good idea. You don't want to get him close just to have him hurt when the...
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Have you tried online dating sites and have a success story?
I met my BF on Lavalife. It took about 8 - 10 months to screen through a whole pile of guys who didn't realise they were still hooked into their past relationship, guys who had no idea of what they wanted other than sex, guys who really were actually still in relationships and or married who were just looking for sex, guys who were really just hopeless, and guys for whom the pieces were in...
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Is Pakistan the new Al Qaeda hub?
It's pretty well known that Pakistan was and is the Al Queda hub outside of the middle east. Afghanistan only had about 300 Al Queda members ever. Likely the most active cells are in Saudi Arabia, Syria and the Sudan.
Afghanistan and Iraq are strawmen. Easy targets that made good press, and again, made the people think their leaders were "doing something".
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What is hospice care?
A hospice is where someone goes when they are dying. Usually hospice care focuses on pain relief and making the person and their family comfortable rather than trying to cure them.
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Isn't it strange that someone you just know on facebook would superpoke you with
Only if you think "Superpoke" has an intended meaning that is well understood by everyone. Also, only if this person is well-versed with facebook. When I first got facebook I accidently did something to EVERYONE on my list.
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How do you get the outside door handle off of a 1998 ford explorer
Park about two feet off the curb and open your door quickly in traffic.
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Have our civil liberties been excessively curbed in the name of counter-terrorism?
Trying to enact laws to eradicate "terrorism" is like trying to wipe out drug use thru the war on drugs. It's ineffective policy, but makes for great hyperbole and wins votes because the population is sucked into believing that their politicians are "doing something".
Anyone who calls the constitution "just a piece of paper" is not fit to rule, and the...
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My good friend Jason have never had any smoking habit,but suddenly he wants to smoke weeds.Can you figure out any reasons?
He wants to smoke weeds, eh? Maybe he's into gardening . . . sounds like a pretty harmless habit to me actually. I hear that smokin those weeds is the best way to get rid of them. What's he using? I really hope it's not some Monsanto product. Monsanto is owned by Satan.
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My longs feel like something si squeezung them and there is an occisinal stab in my lungs. I don't know what's wrong.
I think you have a problem in your vowels. I would have them checked.
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WOMEN:DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER?, WHAT ABOUT GIRTH?
yes, if my shoes are too small, they really hurt my feet!
As for girth? well, I suppose anyone too fat would have a hard time keeping up with my active lifestyle.
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A person swirves their car to avoid hitting an animal, and as result they crash and die. Did they do an honorable thing by trying to avoid killing the animal?
no, I had a friend who was killed trying to save a cat and knew someone else who killed their brother swerving to avoid hitting a dog. I really believe people need to think of their families before they try saving an animal.
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As a guy, one of my good friends just got into a relationship. She heard that her boyfriend had "friends with benefits." When asked, he said it was a lie. She believed him. What should I do as a friend?
And, SO WHAT if he had a friend with benefits? How many of us disclose the details of our past sexual liasions with our new partners? What's past is past.
If she's smart she'll ask for STI tests before becoming sexually involved with him, but then, EVERYONE should do that.
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As a guy, one of my good friends just got into a relationship. She heard that her boyfriend had "friends with benefits." When asked, he said it was a lie. She believed him. What should I do as a friend?
no no, mind your own business. There's nothing worse for a friendship than that kind of interference. I would *possibly* make an exception to that rule if I knew for an absolute FACT that my friend's husband or wife were fooling around on them, but . . . only possibly.
They will never ever forgive you for that kind of interference.
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Truthfully, is your current husband/wife, the one you like the most out of all your ex's in your past relationships? I've heard that the one you are with is almost never the one you would have liked the most.
sorry, but that's just silly.
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In mid-northern latitudes, which phases of the moon would you see if the moon is at an altitude of 45 degree above the eastern horizon during the following times?
sunset
midday
sunrise
midnight
All of them?
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Have you ever been divorced with a kid and managed to forget all about your ex and find someone more than you've ever love anyone?
Why were you married to a kid in the first place? I will never understand you people, I swear.
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Is it illegal to buy a wife/husband from China?
Depends who you are paying. Slavery is illegal most everywhere, but if you are "buying" someone, as in paying for them to come out to you or giving them a dowry, then it's somewhat more acceptable.
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How long does love last?
Maybe slightly off topic, but I heard a funny the other night.
a performer was talking to a couple after a gig, and the man said "The first time I made love to my wife it was to your music" The performer (jokingly) asked "which song"? And the guy got all offended. "It was the whole album"!
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Would you allow your fiance/husband take nude pictures of you pregnant?
Did that, no regrets. They are some of the best photos of me ever.
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My boyfriend dosen't like to talk everyday and this bothers me. Is this normal? We see each other alot and everythign else is good. It's just the phone thing. He is in 2 bands, works a full time job to. we have only been going out for 2 months.
At two months you barely know each other. Give him time and space. I know I would feel really crowded if my bf was whining at me that we didn't talk every day.
Also some people just don't like talking on the telephone.
Que sera, sera - you can't force the relationship, it will work whether or not the frequency of phone contact is up to your expectations based on how much...
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If you could make one item a lower price and set the price so it would never raise what would you choose.
Love
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My husband just walked out on me and our 2 kids age 13, and 10. How long before it is a case of abandonment, and how long do I have to hang on to his stuff? He left all his belongings for me to deal with. Thank you
wow, what's happening to him? He could be having a breakdown or some kind of crisis. Did he tell you anything?
Crap, if I had a breakdown and all my guy could think of was "how long to I have to hold onto her stuff" I would be bitter!
Where's the love? or was he really doing you a favour?
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Are you in a relationship?
mmmmmm, yeah :)
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What would you do if your boyfriend died?
Go to the funeral?
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How long do I have to own my house to avoid capital gains when I sell?
(Canadian Residence)
Five years as your principle residence.
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Please help- I'm at a loss- why do I find it so hard to accept the reality that I don't need to be in a relationship because I'm miserable?
woah, wait, what's the question? Why do you find it so hard to accept reality? Why don't you need to be in a relationship. Why aren't your miserable because you're in a relationship?
I will take a stab that your question is something like. . .
Why am I staying in a relationship that makes me so miserable for the sake of being in a relationship?
IF that's...
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Would you date a girl with a butter face?
Only if I had some corn on the cob to rub on it.
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Ok, does a chick like you when she looks at you and when you look back she doesnt look away until a few secs after? This chick has been looking at me for like a week. I dont know what kind of signal shes trying to send me. Help?
Dude, get some balls! Ask her out.
If she says no, shrug and go on your way. It always becomes a BIG DEAL because we make it so. Make asking women out no big deal, and it will cease to torment you.
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Is there anyone you would marry, without ever having met?
George Cloony
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Is this normal? My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex while drunk. He says it was a mistake, feels awful and that she seduced him. He still wants to remain friends with her, promises it won't happen again and wants us to meet.
That's a tough one. Clearly he still has feelings for her. That's not good for either of you. My standard for BFs was always that they had to be 6 months single before I would date them. Guys who bounce from girl to girl cannot learn the lessons of their past experience and cannot be counted on to stay faithful especially if you are separated for any length of time.
Unless you are...
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Are there any other girls/women here who DON'T feel the need to/want to be "protected" in a relationship?
ummmm, yeah. It's really nice when my bf puts his arm around me, and I can feel real cozy, etc. but when it comes to telling the people behind us in the theatre to be quiet, or to yell at someone being really stupid, baby I'm on the hook for that.
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When was the last time you saw your Mom?
Oh, well, if we're counting corpses, then it was December 13th 1980.
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Why is it, if a bar calls itself a "straight bar", it's really bad, but Gay bars are seen as ok?
I am really not down with bars "labelling" themselves like this. I think all bars should feel free to experiment and explore their sexuality, their drink preference and even their class level. Really, how damaging to the self-esteem is it for a bar to be labelled a "hooker" bar? And is it necessarily so that "once a gay bar, always a gay bar"?
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How do you get over your ex?
I take a large step every time I need to get to the furnace.
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How can I get my wife to cheat on me?
don't have sex with her. don't talk to her. shut her out emotionally and physically. eventually she'll meet someone else.
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Why does being depressed make me turn into a phantom? I don't eat. I don't talk to anyone . I don't care about anything. I don't do anything but lay on my bed and stare at the ceiling for hours without any significant thoughts passing through my mind.
That's what depression does. You're sick, go see a doctor.
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If a girl says she likes you but keeps alot of pictures around of her kissing other guys what does that mean?
Sounds like a narcissississi. . . narcassist. . . norcis. . . erp! someone who loves herself too much.
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Whats something i could do to appreciate my boyfriend more? Hes like almost PERFECT but for some stupid reason i always choose to like ruin are relationship?
oh! like wow, I like had the same problem. Reading your question was like deja vu. I don't even know what that means lolz! Maybe you should like, colour your hair. Try like brunette for a while.
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Should I inform my 7 year old son about Santa or wait until after christmas?
"Inform" him? WTF?? What happened to Santa?
Oh god, don't tell me something happened to Santa
*sobs*
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Is being gay a mental disorder?
You're a mental disorder
(apologies if someone said this already, I didn't want to filter thru 45 sincere and educating answers)
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Do you make an effort to remember the anniverseries of friends and family? How do you feel if they do not remember yours?
I suppose you mean "birthdays", and my answer is no, I do not make an effort at all. I sometimes feel guilty about that, but I don't expect anyone to remember my birthday - I don't really care, I guess. I think if someone wants to celebrate their birthday, they should throw a party and invite their friends to come celebrate with them. I have a friend who does that for...
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Does anyone stress over family get togethers? Any time we have a birthday or holiday get-to-gether, it seems somebody has to stay something to get someone upset. Why cant they just have a good time?
Oh yeah! Family get-togethers are the worst! My theory is that everyone in the family plays a role growing up. Then you move away and develop on your own. All the kids become adults and play different roles at work or school or with their new family. Then someone suggests a get-together, and it's all supposed to be fun and a laugh riot. The only problem is that everyone has changed, and...
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I like guys that are best friends.One i like more than the other because hes more of a chaglange. but they but know i like them(bigmouthfriend).One told me to call him sometime-saturday-and the other told me to txt him-like five minutes ago-Wut shuld i do
I liked the chaglanges too when I was 14
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Why do all women love hot/cute guys with snobby/egotistical attitudes? I don't understand it. I try so hard to be nice but they keep rejecting me.
Usually anyone who's experience is "all women do X" or "all men are like Y" are either young and have little experience or are older but always go for the same "type". Whenever I have heard men complain about "all women want is a rich guy", they are usually referring to a group of women 15 years or so younger than they are, with large breasts and...
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At what age should an 8 year old girl stop asking to be cuddled at night in order to fall asleep?
She'll probably never stop asking on her own. If you're uncomfortable with it, you should talk to her and ask her to help think about a solution (like a new teddy bear to cuddle) that would make her feel comforted while she adjusts to the new routine.
Another way to ween her off would be to agree with her on a time limit that would gradually be shortened over a few weeks - just to...
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Does age play a role in friendships and relationships?
So, clearly we're talking relationships here, not friendships, right?
I used to think that age doesn't matter, but when I heard the half plus seven rule, it actually made a lot of sense to me. The "rule" works like this. If the age difference between the older and younger parties is half the older person's age plus seven years, then it's fine. Anything younger...
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How awesome are you?
On an awesomeness scale of 1 to 10, I would have to say I am a C+
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My boyfriend hates everything about my beloved grey parrot. His asthma acts up when he comes to my house from the parrot dust. He hates it when I show my parrot any affection. I love my bf, but the ultimatum I have been given is him or the parrot.
Any person who adores their pet finds it difficult to sympathise with the person who is literally made sick by the same animal. Unless your BF finds a way to bond with the animal, and have his feelings of love for the parrot overcome his distress about the animal making him sick, there is no way that he can live happily with it. Standing in your BF's shoes, (as someone allergic to certain...
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Is it always best to forgive your enemies because nothing annoys them so much?
1) what is an enemy?
2) how is one created?
I would suggest that by the time you have come to think of someone as an "enemy" there has already been a lot of bad shit going on. However, most conflicts start with miscommunication and misconception on either or both parts. Anything that you can do to reduce conflict in your life will improve your life and health. So, don't...
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My daughter just came out and told me she's gay. Naturally, I was furious since now I can't have grandchildren, but after I calmed down a bit, I got to thinking- do those 'ex-gay' camps really work? Can you recommend me a good one?
Let me get this straight. You were furious because you couldn't have grandchildren? Mom - this is not even remotely your decision or nor is it about you in any way. Holy moses, would you be furious if she were infertile? would you be furious if she decided not to have children as a personal choice? Based on what you wrote, your objective in having a child in the first place was not to love...
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