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Can I eat more? Portion control ...portion control.

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At what age did you feel/think that you where at your healthiest? I think fifty is the new thirty...so...thirty ..lol

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Beer and cigarettes are great for _________. Beer for drinking, cigarettes for the smell of the tobacco...which is as far as it goes for me.

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Do you like texting? Depends on the con-text ;)

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"oh yes I believe in love and I am a christian"Then with the same breath I hear"but first we have to kill the evil doers".Contradictory? What kind of Christians are you hanging around with ?? Buy them a New Testamant.

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For the first time in my life I paid attention to Pink Floyd last night (on a Public T.V. feature). How many agree that they are terrific? Agreed, and I think I will look into the Australian Pink Floyd show you mentioned, especially getting good reviews from Floyd, if I understand it correctly.

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In what situations would add "Once again," to the beginning of a statement? Once again, I must drag myself from Answerbag (for a short while) so I can pay the bills.

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Have you heard of a poem called 'Dark Land of Light' by Kate Roberts? What do you think of it? (http://www.freewebs.com/katpoet) I know someone who loves poetry more than any man I know. I am sure he would love to know where he could find it, as it does not seem to appear on the weblink.

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If your spouse was not interested in sex w/ you anymore, but was not cheating, would you have an affair? Been there, but didn't do that and glad I didn't. It would be a horrible thing to have to regret later, as she did when she finally had one herself, at which time, things changed dramatically for the better, for me at least.

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Is it true that Italians are more romantic than the French or Americans because they burp after a meal? LOL No ..it is just true that we are more romantic.

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Is it necessarily healthy to approach every new relationship like it "could be the one."? I mean like...Is always looking for love really that good? I am relationship oriented and life is too short to spend it with one who is not at leaset a potential life partner, UNLESS you are really just looking for a good friend.

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What is your definition of heaven and hell? Heaven is the continuation of living life in fellowship with God and everyone who worships him, but in a much more joyous sense then is available here. Hell is the continuation of life without... Obviously this is in my humble opinion -- I am certain there are much better definitions out there, none of which can be validated. But it makes life interesting to imagine what it will be like.

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Which singer has the most recognizable voice? Robert Plant!!!

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Do you think that it's fair for WOMEN to be able to hit men and get away with it? My wife used to beat me knowing I would never hit back. I warned her. Then she did it in front of my son. I did not hit back, not wanting to return evil for evil. But in this case, there is nothing evil about divorce, hence she is now my EX wife!

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How do you feel about people who never stop talking? Does it bother you? I DO get frustrated when someone talks incessantly -- but the solution is simple -- someone needs to start a 12 step program called Onaonanonymous!

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Which one of these avatars do you think I should use? The one with sprinkles for sure!

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Tootsie Rolls, yes or no? I wish I could find the excert from Caddyshack but everyone loves tootsie rolls as evidenced by this commercial!

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Do you think that psychology should be a compulsory part of the school curriculum for everyone aged 12+? Would this help kids to understand and empathize with each other, maybe lessen violence between gangs/individuals? I think it is a GREAT idea!! Can you propose something to the local school board?

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What are the goals of human being? TO LOVE AND BE LOVED

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Do you go in the front door or the back door more often? I have partied in sillyville way to much tonight and cannot answer that question in the straightforward manner in which it was no doubt intended.

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At which Olympic Games did Muhammad Ali win a gold medal? 1960 Summer Olympics -- I remember it well as I was in utero. I kicked and punched right along with him, just ask my Mom ;)

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What's the first song that comes to your mind for Devo? You got to WHIP IT, into shape, shape it up, get it straight , go forward, move ahead...

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Honestly-- not the whole, "It's the personality that matters", Am I good looking? (Pics inside) If I was your Dad I would have a full time job fighting off your wanna be boyfriends! Just remember what "trouble" says is true.

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My friend Princess Tater Tots/ Rockstar had a long day at work. Open to Close on her feet all day. Would you say/post something to make her smile?(She loves Metallica) I wish I could buy her the Metallica DVD where they are playing with a full orchestra (can't recall which one!)

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Hey AB friends - I am within spitting distance of level 20 so I want to celebrate early before the trolls take over -- what do you want to bring to my vanity party? Hey d/r's -- you are invited as well and I am not asking for points + OR - I know better! -- just pretend it is a real party - what would you bring??? I was feeling down and want to celebrate with AB friends right now.

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When its all over will there be pain? I think all emotions serve us well here on earth but when all is said and done, I believe God will wipe every tear from your eyes -- no more sorrow no more pain -- the only tears will be of joy. It may sound like a fairy tale but what is the harm in believing in what we cannot fathom?? Maybe we can live more thankfully then and not walk in fear or anxiety of the unknown, including and...

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Who would you bow for? Daycare workers and stay at home parents!!

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There are those who say that "nothing is impossible". They say this for motivational purposes, or, if they truly believe it, out of ignorance. What do you think is impossible? This is a silly answer but Steve Martin sang about that song "It's impossible... to put a cadillac up your nose its just impossible....etc etc I think it was from Let's Get Small album from WAY back when.

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Which do you perfer: An above ground pool or an inground pool? Most places do not even allow above ground pools. I don't like what it does to grass but I sure enjoy the memories of growing up with one!

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Why are we so curious? Because we love to experiment even if we are not rocket scientists. Plus we want to stay YOUNG!! Growing old is to stop asking questions for curiosity's sake.

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Do you enjoy talking to telemarketers? I tend to be too accommodating so it helps me learn to day no and I try and do it in a polite but firm way. But my fantasy is to turn the tables on them somehow and catch them off guard.

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With pizza .... Coke? or Beer? Ok here are the stats -- Coke (and other soft drinks) 70%, Beer 30% The healthiest answer was water but lets face it -- why bother with pizza if we are talking about health. Or as one ABer put it -- why bother with pizza when there is Beer?? Thanks for answering!

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Who is the first famous person you remember dying during your life? Mine is Princess Diana. JFK when I was only a few years old - I remember the pain and sadness that came over my parents and siblings though I did not understand at the time.

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I am your slave, how may I serve you Master? Free yourself ;-)

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Do you ever feel lonely even though your not the only person in the room? I think the loneliest of times can be when everyone else is having fun and not knowing or caring to ask about your pain.

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How could i tell if a guy likes me even though he is gonna get married? If this is a serious question then the lady who is about to marry this guy needs your help, not your competition.

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How do you get a girl friend Send her a friend request on AB and start giving her nice compliments using the comments tool. In life outside of AB, there are countless ways, and the other answers here I just checked out are very good! But friendships within AB can easily shift to chats outside of AB and you can meet some GREAT people here!

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What is worse to run out of in a house, toilet paper or food? hmmmm if you run out of food you won't be needing that toilet paper for very long...;)

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My teenage daughter is making me crazy. One minute she adores me, the next she hates my guts. Help!! What do I do with her? Read the book "YES! Your teenager IS crazy!" and you may get a more realistic perspective on what we are facing for a few years while we are raising tomorrow's leaders.

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How do you think a woman who is almost 30 years old never has had a relationship? She is smart and knows its worth the wait to find the right one.

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If you got paid $1000 dollars to pump gas nude, would you do it? Not sure it would be worth the fine nor the em-bareass- ment

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Did you ever want a different name as a kid? When my daughter was 4, she kept asking "Why didn’t you name me Marin?". My bro-in-law wanted to be "Batman", and since 12 or 14 has actually gone by "Pony" (from The Outsiders). No but I am glad my parents did not call me Jesus -- what a name to have to live up to! And so many do that, albeit in Spanish but still -- ouch!

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Is there anything I can take/eat/do to regain my sex drive which disappeared over last five years as a result of abstinence forced on me by my now separated husband? He made me feel unattractive, old and unsexy, yet my friends tell me I look very good Kat - I think you are going to have to try the M word with fantasy and visualization and shoot for once a day -- you may have to force yourself but it is probably the only way to jumpstart your motor and it will be well worth it for you and your new beau. I would try that first before experimenting with pharmaceuticals which are being worked on for female sex drive as well. Plus your partner...

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Guys which do you prefer the pretty blonde with bright blue eyes, the sexy brunette with gorgeous brown eyes or the hot red head with beautiful green eyes? You're descriptions are amazing and you make them all sound good. So I will have to pick you ;-)

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I have been dating the same guy for about 7yrs and we are 18yrs apart.Do you think that dating someone older is ok. My answer would be very different if you had not already been successfully dating for ... 7 years?? Sounds OK in this case! ANd I do have a very good friend who married someone about 20 years younger and they are doing great!

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How old were you the last time you went thru that "i cant live one second without him/her " stage? Infatuation is fun but I hope I never feel that enmeshed. I had a VERY bad experience with a woman who felt that way about me until she realized I was not her saviour, which did not take long. IMHO a partnership has to be two independent people coming together to be interdependent, not dependent or enmeshed. If it is you experiencing it I hope you enjoy it BUT also give it time!

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How would you feel if your ex was seeing someone new? Very mixed emotions -- I have a child with mine so it is always risky -- is he an a-hole or a good guy? As long as she meets someone who treats my daughter well I will be most happy for her.

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HEY! Goodlooking - What you got cooking? I have three kids playing "Rockband" downstairs while I am taking a break from working here in my home office -- life is good Diva!

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Do you know your own blood type? I try very hard to be positive -- so does my blood type ;-) B+

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If I started a Sillyville Photo Album..would you want to be in it? yes

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If you believe in adam and eve then are we all brothers and sisters? I tend to think we are brothers and sisters even if we don't believe in Adam and Eve...

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If you love someone that much then why would money matter? I think Marilyn Monroe said it best -- looks aren't everything but it helps. Money is not much different.

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Do you know what you really want? Rarely, and unfortunately I am not alone in that.

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Why cant we stop polluting? I just drove by two teens that tore up a Styrofoam cup and threw it on the ground. It is hard to fathom why people cannot "do the math" and imagine what life would be like if we all took that disrespectful approach. But it is just as bad to stand by and watch without taking action. Unfortunately safety issues prevented me from turning around and asking them your question!

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Why do people stay together with someone they are clearly miserable with? Change is wonderful but it comes at a cost that most people are unwilling to pay. It is much more "comfortable" even in a bad relationship, to stay put. Most experts believe change requires the same grieving process as death even for those who initiate the change! Their theory correlates well with my own experience, but for me, emotional/mental health is worth the emotional and...

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Thiiz boy juss called me a groupie . What exactlly is he saying about me? He is saying you saw the same band several times in concert, or he is using the term in some other way that an older guy like me cannot understand.

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What does a better job...folding the toilet paper or wadding it up? Just don't wrap it around your hand like a mummy -- what a waste ;-) btw I was married to someone that actually did that and that is why we now have Sam's and Costco.

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What do you think of this.. refer to the first answer.. lol I think it is it could have saved my marriage lol (just kidding -- it was beyond repair) really though -- good stuff!

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How many selfless people have you met in your life time? Jesus comes closest. My Mom and Dad are in second place.

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Do you think there should be a law that all restaurants have to be able to provide nutritional information if a customer requests it? It seems like too many people really don't have any idea how many calories, fat grams, etc. they are consuming. No law but I think that is a GREAT idea to ask the restaurant to provide the info. What you would run into legally are all sorts of issues regarding serving size, averages, etc. That is best left for fast food consistency of serving food. Restaurants should be fun!

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Do you hate the expression "Tell me about it"? Tell me about it!

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What makes you anxious? Answering neurotic questions ;)

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When watching a movie, do you want the hero or the villain to win? I am old fashioned and want the hero to win, but I like movies to at least help us understand the antagonist/villain.

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Guys do you like when girls wear black nail polish? Generally too Goth for me, BUT it kinda depends on your wardrobe...

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Did you ever play Duck, Duck, Goose as a child? I still play it. Does that count?

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Can a 39 year old date a 49 year old I sure as heck hope so or I am breaking all kinds of unwritten rules! ;)

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Can you decribe where you are right now in one word? ANswerbag!!

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You know for a fact that your dog licks its balls. does it bother you when he licks your face? I am not worried about that -- I bet the dog has licked worse things! Thus I do not own one. It is the healthy choice.

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What does the term "loose lips" mean to you? I just kissed a wonderful woman with loose lips - it was great! My ship did not sink...

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Do you own up, or pass the buck when you've made a mistake? I overly own up and need to allow others to take their part of the responsibility. But I would rather err on the side of owning up.

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Are you a John Mayer fan? I'm not but I'm going to see him live, is that cool? My dad liked him, does that make my dad cool? Yes it makes your Dad cool and you will love seeing him live! He was born with a guitar in his hands. Very underrated.

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Could you stay faithful to the right person? Absolutely -- even if it is the wrong person

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Who else find pay as you go cell phones expensive to use? AT&T does not charge for calls to and from other members, which includes go phone plans as well, unless they changed their policy.

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Guys, do you wash your hands after doing #1, assuming you didn't get anything on your hand except for your you know what? Women: why does that gross you out if we don't wash.....think for a second or two about it?:) I wash before hand -- How do I know where my hands have been ;)and I like to keep it clean.

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How many people out there are really inlove with their spouses? I was until it went unrequited and then abusive to me. It is hard to love in such cases, but as Shakespeare said: "if music be the food of love, play on.." so I will not become cynical so that I can continue to love and to do so unconditionally.

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Does a woman insult the man she loves by seeking help from another man? I am one who is closer to the middle of the male to female spectrum (God help those on the polar ends! ;) So I welcome those opportunities to help out but there is a catch -- there is always some electricity that can flow into an emotional or full out affair. Gotta be a bit careful but it clearly hinges on the mutual trust of the partner AND the person with whom you confide.

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What are your favorite sitcom reruns to watch? Seinfeld is great AND I love old Hitchcock vignettes - what a master!

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Are you enjoying each moment of your life? How do you think that could be achieved? There is a book by Spencer Johnson called, I believe, "The Precious Present" the present of course being the gift of the present moment which is all we really have. That alone is a revelation to me and a wake up call to live in the moment.

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Where do mosquitos, fruit flies and other flying bugs go when it rains? Under my skin ;-)

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We have Born to run, Born to be wild, etc. What short Born to... phrase would describe you best? Born to play drums

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I wonder if people could fly, would they fly away from the Earth? Why not? It is a hypothetical question so there is no reason not to imagine it could happen even though physically impossible at this time.

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Is it bad to be overly sentimental? What do you think of people who are overly sentimental? When I am overly sentimental I become a pack rat.

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Can u kiss someone for fun? I just did and it was a LOT of fun and who knows what it may lead to... but to kiss while in another relationship? not fun for the person in the relationship.

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Is arguing a fallacy? Based on the definition of fallacy in Wikipedia http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy I would have to say a fallacy renders an argument invalid but I would argue that it is not worth arguing about. ;-)

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I'm a girl. Is it still required that I wear a suit to an interview or are regular (still dressy) work clothes ok? If a professional position is what you are after I would lean towards a suit! Else dressing nicely would be fine.

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Do you think the government is concerned with Google Earth? Do you think they remain in contact with Google and modify Google Earth's images to protect their secrets? I cannot imagine a scenario in which the government would intervene in that way...

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In regards to your way of thinking, your values, morals, what's right/wrong, being for/against, etc, do you think those things are the way they are because of the influence of your parents/upbringing? Or is it solely your own independent decision? Parents/ upbringing/ spiritual journey/relationship with God all influence our own independent decisions. How is that for a lawyer type answer? Seriously though -- no matter the influence it is always our decision and we have to take responsibility for how we react to our influences.

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What is true silence? Taint no such thing for me unless I can shut out the voices inside my head -- whcih is probably true for most of us, which is probably why there will always be a demand for mind altering drugs.. just a thought.

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Can God forgive murder or is everyone who has killed going to hell? What if it was self-defense? I think God CAN forgive any sin and there is only one thing I can add to the other answers, which is that the bigger question is whther or not WE can forgive someone who has murdered someone, particularly someone close to us.

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Is loving thy neighbor one of the hardest commandments to follow? Second only to the one just like it -- Love God with all your heart soul mind and strength. Paul said wisely that if we cannot love our neighbor who we see, how can we love a God that we cannot see?

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Is the catholic church a cult? I think we need to be very careful with labels. All of Christianity was considered a cult historically, until Emperor Constantine in about 400AD if memory serves. It is all driven by One leader! In catholicism the pope is venerated only in as much as he is considered to be Christ's representative on earth and that is strictly based on position rather than the fallible person himself.

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What are the meanings of the names of Joseph's brothers, which became the names (Joseph included) of the twelve tribes of Israel? http://children.calvarychapel.com/site/pdf/Old/Curr026.pdf istory ! It gives you the names of Jacob's sons (Joseph's brothers)and even has a qui or two for you;-) Each of the names can then be looked up in Wikipedia as to their meanings -- what an incredible set of resources we have collectively!

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Do you believe the bible to be divinely inspired by God, or the work of man? YES (both) As "the bible" consists of so many books written by so many men under the influence of one Holy Spirit that gives it a unity that is unsurpassed by many novelists trying to creat a cohseive novel!

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Did Jesus open the way to heaven for those who had died before his own death? Although no longer Catholic per se, I agree with ImCatholic2's answer but am at a loss for a "prooftext" at the moment... but conceptually since Jesus died even for our future sins that he knows we will commit, then surely his death was also intended to reach backward for our ancesters who proceeded him. Even Abraham was justified by faith, as Paul pointed out when he talked...

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Why are angels such aerodynamic monstrosities? Well... bumblebees fly don't they?

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If you were on American Idol, what would Simon say about your voice? Horrible... absolutely horrible.

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Eewww! How did you ever get me to do that? You SAID "I will try anything once!"

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There is rain, lighting, and thunder outside. How is the weather where you are at? I wish! It has been hot humid but dry here in Dallas for days on end...

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Have you ever considered writing a bucket list for yourself? Whenever I write a list of any kind I find myself on the bottom of it if the list is too long. As for a bucket list there are far too many things that would outlast a lifetime and leave me feeling overwhelmed.

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Do you think it's okay for a husband to have an EMOTIONAL MISTRESS? Do you think it's okay for a wife to have an EMOTIONAL Affair? Would there be any difference because of gender? Why? (An emotional affair = non-sexual). The mind and soul and spirit are the first lines of defense of the temptation to have a physical affair, and offer much less of a social consequence. So the temptation towards a strictly emotional one is enormous if a spouse is or seems inattentive or abusive. I think it is crucial not succumb to either one. But to me the physical affects the emotions as well unless someone is just cold as...

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Have you ever felt that you weren't good enough to be in a relationship? Relationships are incredibly difficult IMHO and I doubt that anyone goes in with out some feeling of inadequacy or doubt about their ability to contribute enough to make it last. I am no exception...

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Be as ludicrous as possible and finish the statement: I am being attacked by________? TIME -- But not to worry -- I am KILLING IT

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Have you ever gone on a positroll rampage? Trolls welcome...lol THe most fun I had on AB was doing what I now see has an official name! THen I realized (duh) that the more you give away the more you receive and more importantly -- everyone has a great time and gets their fun AND serious questions answered. I love this site. It ROCKS

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Wait! ...Listen!....Did you smell that? What was that? I should credit Ghostbusters for that line btw... I think it was Bill Murray. Let me know if that is right -- oops a looped question.

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Do you think fireworks are a waste of money? Villages or cities -- absolutely worth it on so many levels. Privately held, so to speak... not just a waste of money but a potentially costly venture both in hospital bills and broken hearts. I do say potentially, as there are a lot of funny stories and near misses - but that is my point! Is it worth the risk when we could be watching the real thing?

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Are you the class of 19-something or 2000-something? Dare I disclose it? Class of '79 Most here were not even born yet.

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Are you a Beginner(1-2), a Novice(3-4), a Contributor(5-9), a Wiz(10-14), a Authority(15-19), a Expert(20-29), a Professor(30-39),a Brain(40-49),a Sage (50-59) ,a Maestro(60-69), a Guru(70-79),or an Swami(80-89)? I am an authority and thanks to your breakdown I see how far I have to go for my next promotion - ouch -- good thing I am here now for the joy of the journey!

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Do you think it's a good idea for a couple with children to retain some separate bank accounts or should they lump everything together? From my experience it is best to have separate -- avoids lots of arguments especially if you have talked thru it -- that is the tough part if someone wants to know why NOW? But you might get away with wanting to have better accountability, less arguments as already indicated, and being able to GIVE to the other without tipping your hand which would ruin the surprise. You may try both OR...

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Eveytime I ask you for a little_____, your turn right around and ask me for some_____? sugar more could not resist another try with words vs phrases. Plus for you this applies -- you deserve a lot of sugar from your s/o

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Have you or your partner ever had to deal with problems of jealousy because of someone you talk to on the internet? How did you deal with it? I can imagine that would be difficult and he may feel intimidated or left out or...subjected to too many movies or TV shows about the dangers of cybertalk and webcams, etc etc My fear is this -- I believe totally in the theory of projection and I would be wary of this going in the other direction. I already think (can never really know) that your motives are pure and well intended! But...

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How many songs or song titles can you name that have sex or sexual meaning in them? Zep! Whols Lotta Love The LEMON song The list goes on

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If there was an 8th dwarf to Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs, what do you think his/her name should be? Lucky! Snow White is probably tired of the other clowns!

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What am I supposed to do with that? You can open a can of paint OR a beer bottle with it!! Or better yet -- both if you are just painting in your own home! PS it really works - very handy

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It's one o'clock in the morning, it's the middle of winter and I'm still on the computer. What the hell's wrong with me? I would worry about you only if it was midsummer as it is here. Besides your presence is a huge benefit to me and likely to be the case for many others! SO here is to your so called addiction to helping people! kaching kaching kaching

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Eveytime I ask you for a little_____, your turn right around and ask me for some_____? fill in the blank question words to fill them in FOR you ;-)

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Dinner or movie? Both of course -- preferably the movie first so you have a launchpad for great conversation.

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Do you take rejection well? NO -- I do not know how one can handle it to be honest. I WISH I could be that way.

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How do some questions get 6 or 5 points without the questions being answered, seconds after the questions is posted? some questions get alot of points is a short period of time, why? I can give you two reasons - ding ding See ... I gave you pts before I even answered! Good question. This is a very social and friendly environment we have here along with expertise -- a great combination.

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Why don't you recycle more often? I cannot wait to receycle these $&^# crutches! ;-) I will be recycling a lot more then.

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Do you think sex is over when intercourse is over? Probably the bigget mistake we can make as men...at least in that arena. And we only get so many chances ;-)

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If you had no choice but to be reincarnated as an animal......what animal would you be?? (meow 4 me) I would come back as a horse -- I already have the back end down pat! http://www.hedweb.com/animimag/horse-beach.htm

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Are all jokes meant to be funny? Not sarcasm -- it can be funny to others, very much so, but can wreak havac on a reationship if not done carefully.

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Would you rather swim a mile or run a mile? Swiming is excruciating -- I will run with you though. and much cooler avatar IMHO!

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Is Victoria actually Victor in disguise? NO -- Julie Andrews is disguised as Victor who is disguised as VIctoria -- let's get it straight ;-)

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How hard can you think? I am told I think WAY too deeply -- so if deep = hard I am a hard thinker ... I think.

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Do you think it is hard to be social? I have Social Anxiety DIsorder so it is very hard for me but I do it anyway and probably overcompensate. I will always be a little afraid that I may say "the wrong thing". I have to try harder not to speak as much as I do...

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What do you look like? Ok this is me in a nutshell

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Have you ever witnessed a parent abusing their child in public? What did you do? Do you consider it abusive to bring a child to a violent movie? I saw a movie a long time ago called "Ransom" and it involved a LOT of violence and a little guy kidnapped and treated badly. Definitely R rated stuff and this guy has all his kids with him at a 10PM showing -- I could not enjoy the movie thinking about what those kids experienced but allowed myself to be talked out of...

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Has spanking your kids become a thing of the past due to the fact of dcf and child abuse getting out of control. what are other effective meatheds to disapline your children? Follow the three R's -- discipline must be respectful, related to their actions, reasonable - can they or any reasonable person make sense of it? Natural consequences work best. But getting hit by a car is not an acceptable consequence... so you have to resort to logical consequences when natural ones are unacceptable.

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Have you ever left Answerbag for a brief time (<1 hour) and came back to find you had gained a level? Yeah -- Just now! I am an authority figure (but I am afraid of authority so I will have to hurry up and get to the next level! Right now I am an oxy-moron!)

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Are we pregnant? Did we forget to take our pill!?

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My friend Quinnfan likes jokes..would you post her some? Here is an old one around musicians-- What is the difference between a drummer and a pizza? A: The pizza can feed a family of four!

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OMG... What is that!!? It's a skin graft but don't worry -- the doctor says it will look like normal in a few weeks!

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Which ABer has the hottest real pic of their face for an avatar? You do!

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My s/o will be having surgery Tuesday, July 1st and is very anxious. Can my AB friends please keep her in their prayers and send some happy thoughts her way? Got it!

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BAM! You've just hit rock bottom. Now what do you do? Get on AB and answer your question...

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What makes you want to turn over to another TV channel? And now we will find out who is in the bottom three .... right after this 10 minute commercial break when our RESULTS show dredges on and on and tries to come up with new ways to hold your interest while we let our contestant agonize over the decision as we show you mere snippets of their hard work. Something like that if memory serves.

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Happy Weight: Weight you gain when you are in a relationship and, of course, are happy. How much happy weight have you gained? I gained minus 20 lbs, but I was sure striving for more happy weight -- everyone reacts differently to stress. Not sure if that was the answer you were looking for because some people WANT to lose weight.

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What signs or graffitti have made you smile. I saw this in a toilet today. " if you have a tinkle and you happen to sprinkle, be a sweet and wipe the seat. Not seeing my name! ;-)

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Can one ride a llama? I think you have to gallop in front of them and bang two coconuts together to get the right sound. Remember to grip them by the husk. and don't forget to feed la llama. Love Monty P

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Do you like hardboiled eggs? How do you like to eat them, do you eat them warm or cold, plain, or as an ingredient in something else? GREEN -- with ham to match Yours Dr. Suess-pino

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Grandma question: How's the weather today? I doubt you will roll down Rose! But you are really funny! You need to blog or write a column!

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Have you ever looked at a word so many times over and over again that it starts not looking like a word any more? When I was growing up I had a friend that sked that same question -- The only problem was he tried it out verbally and gave an example of the top of his head - the word "hit" he kept saying "hit hit hit hit -- what does it even mean?" At which point someone smacked him -- not hard -- just a reminder of what the word meant! It was hilarious at the time...

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What is your favorite Alfred Hitchcock movie and/or scene? http://classicfilm.about.com/od/actorsanddirectors/tp/Best-Hitchcock-Movie-List.htm This is a great link for Hitchcock fans -- hopefully it will spark a memory or two and an inkling to see the master at work again in a long forgotten film. Thanks for your answers..

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Want to play a game? You say one sentence from a movie and we'll see who can guess it the quickest! Okay? It can either be the name of the movie, or the actor. Ohhh Ratfarts!

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Who was the last person you said "I love you" to? My three year old just an hour ago! And it is SOO cool to hear it back now!

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Whats everybodys cringe cd that they hide away from people King Crimson's Court of the Crimson King (famous but no one really listens to it!) Also I have been TOLD to hide my Peter Gabriel Secret World DVD which is one of my all time favorite performances. People just don't get it!

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Do you hate the sound of someone else's voice? YES -- Every time I record myself there is some gremlin trying to impersonate me and he is positively awful at it.

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Is it really that bad to break up with someone on their birthday? I would feel very disrespected if someone was to do that to me, especially if it was unexpected. Then again there are at least two relationships I had where it would definitely have been cause for celebration!

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Which is correct: Hispanic or Latino? Both and neither. Based on cursory research, I would use Latin American or Mexican American, etc., assuming the person in question is living in the US. Hispanic seems more popoular and conventional to me but is still Euro-centric in the Spanish speaking community. It will be interesting to hear from our Spanish speaking amigos.

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If you got a pet spider, what would you name it? Leggs ;-)

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Can you rearrange the letters in your name to make one or more common words? (ex: pam--> map, amp, dawn-->wand, etc...) Chris >is > His. Christopher >is > too time consuming

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Does a guys "size" matter when trying to get pregnant? if he is smaller then average? would this make it harder to get pregnant? I willy don't think so, but if I am to take the question literally, it sounds like you are trying to increase the odds by 100 percent! ;-)

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Which words do you think would most closely describe your overall demeanor? Grateful! I have great friends on AB and outside of AB in my so called "real life" which is pretty unreal at times. Plus I have 3 pts to bless with -- life is good.

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What is your favorite sword-fighting scene from any movie?? and what movie is it??? mine is from Kingdom of Heaven when Balian(Orlando Bloom) just learns how to use a sword... Rob ROy .. gut wrenching movie at times but great swordfight driven by appropriate amount of anger by protagonist..

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How many times have you changed you Avatar/Username? Four times for me. People are just gonna have to live with it or D/R me because I ain't changing again unless I put my photo in there (which would be redundantly redundant.

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Would it be fair, in my opinion, if someone doesn't like a particular question, for whatever reason, just ignore the question and move on to the next instead of DR it? Or if that person choses to DR the question at least to offer an argument? I like your question even though I have no argument for it. It is meta-analytical which is right up my alley. I hope you are better than I at getting out of the thinking mode frequently and into feeling mode. Not an easy transition for some of us. (btw I do mean 'meta' and not 'mega')

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What was your first avatar? Mine was a picture of a SNARE DRUM with a plaque on it that has one of my a favorite quotes: "if music be the food of love, play on..." (Shakespeare) But of course it was illegible given the space alloted. Then I began to use the figurine which looks scarily like me as I grew more confident in exposing myself. Great question!

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Saw a sign in south Georgia that advertised ladies manicures. the name of the business was "Bubba's Nails". ladies, would you trust this business? "Bubba's Nails"? What if it was run by Bubblehead? Would that help?

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Is this guy not amazing?! (see video) Holy Toledo. He is AWESOME. Yanni tours with some incredible musicians - Live at the Acropolis features a female violinist that is phenomenal as well but not quite in the same vein. The drum solo is mesmerizing. I will see if I can find it if interested.

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Aside from water, what is the best beverage for you? Got milk?

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What are your favorite three words? I love you

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Do you think with the new ruling by the FTC requiring DTV setup boxes, that DIrect TV will have an advantage over Dish (unrelated to the ruling) just because of coincidence of the initials? Sorry for the misinformation -- it is the FCC not the FTC. We have too many TLA's! (three letter acronyms) And the ruling has more to do with those who cannot afford it and need "coupons" from the govt. But here is the link I was referring to: (hope it helps) http://www.fcc.gov/cgb/consumerfacts/digitaltv.html

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Just wondering: Is it okay for teachers to impose their personal beliefs onto their students? I actually had a college professor who did that -- it was pretty awful even at that level! It did NOT even relate to the subject matter!

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Have you ever helped a stranger on AB without ever expecting anything in return? What were the circumstances? AB is a great opportunity to do so for me, thanks to your encouragement to do so awhile back!

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What is the best gift you have ever received? The love and care I am getting from my partents! I came here to help THEM for Pete's sake!

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Are you able to describe your current feelings? Unstable on my one good foot -- frustrated I can't walk for FOUR friggin' weeks! In the mean time I am making the best of it and keeping close to my bass guitar and AB!

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Are you ready for the switch to DTV on February 17, 2009? This may help http://www.fcc.gov/cgb/consumerfacts/digitaltv.html My understanding is that DTV box does not require Cable or satelitte TV subscriptions -- same rabbit ears (or other off air antenna) will work just fine! You will receive pure digital picture over the same airwabes, but quality willl still be limited by your TV resolution!

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Would you rather work a job that is physically straining or emotionally straining? Definitely physical -- it takes a very strong person to handle emotional strain day in and day out. Many (unfortunately) get enough on the home front and need their job to get away from that!

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I am in need of household tools. Screw drivers; hammer & nails, renches, drill etc. I am a signal Mom with 2 kids & Ex took all these items with him. I would pull out Lowes, Home Depot, and Menards and see which ones have the stuff on sale. Good luck -- I know that must be VERY difficult and it sounds like you can use a chance to vent.

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Has a kiss ever caused you to wet yourself? At my age I am not sure if it is the kiss that did the trick.. lol (just kidding of course -- 4o something is younger than most people think!)

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Anyone want an update on the kittens? new photos in first answer.:-) I want one -- and I am ALLERGIC to cats ;-) very cute

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Anyone else here a proud virgin? As long as you include fidelity and post marriage vrginity than I too fall into that category. Not sure about the pride though ;-) It is just who I am.

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Why does it mean when a man tells you he loves you on the first date? I can only tell you as a man that I would never say that nor would I expect anyone to believe me if I did.

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I've lost 50lbs aren't you proud? WOW!!Awesome work.

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What is more immoral child molester or a murder I had the misfortune of being related by marriage to one. Vomiting is mild compared to what I would like to have done. Not murder though. I am a pacifist as well. Besides there are fates worse than death and he deserves every one of them. Death does not become such a person who takes away the purity of childhood. I will stop there lest I beat a dead horse.

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My parents just informed me that they will be taking my three kids for four days! I have 1000 dollars and no kids for four days..where should I go for my mini vacation (I live in Ohio)? Go to Vegas - sounds cliche but it is REALLY fun. ANd of course what goes on in Vegas... stays in Vegas, depending on those with whom you are traveling.

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My daughter who is 13 can rock out to The Guitar Hero, Do you think I would tolerate this? NO WAY -- Buy Rock Band for her so you can sing or play bass or drums while she shows off her guitar licks!

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How tall are you? Are you happy with your height? I KNOW more girls and better management positions await those who are taller than I but I really don't care. If people are that shallow I will wait for those who aren't. In the mean time all I can do is give every inch of my love.

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How do I put a video from Youtube into an Answer ,using the upload video. Please don't dazzle me with cryptic jargon expertise.This is why I'm asking for help,because obviously I can't do it at my first few attempts.I need a,b,c instructions. Thanks again hopefully this works

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How do I put a video from Youtube into an Answer ,using the upload video. Please don't dazzle me with cryptic jargon expertise.This is why I'm asking for help,because obviously I can't do it at my first few attempts.I need a,b,c instructions. Thanks http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=17-hu1E1bYg

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Do you love or despise perfection? Its a hypothetical question -- there is no such thing. Now... if you mean perfectionISM -- I think it is a waste of time. Nature, though, is perfect to me. The graphics are even better than my Mac ;-)

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Why do some people comment positively on a question yet fail to rate it? I think people sometimes get too busy trying to answer the question (thoughfully we hope) and forget to rate it.

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Sillyville is going to have a blues concert, who do you want to see up on stage? Buddy Guy !! Can I come?

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Is there any one here who actually thinks their body is perfect? What would you change about yours for you to think it is? There is a six pack hiding here somewhere... oh THERE it is glugluglug

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What do you look like? Not sure this worked ... but if so this is me...

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Do you view your parents differently after having kids? Much more understanding of what they faced and more respect as a result but still disagree with the means to the end. especially MY end ;-)

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What's that beer I see in your hand? Rolling Rock here...

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If i dont take the sugar pills is that bad FYI sugar pills are incredibly effective for most illnesses as long as you do not know it is a sugar pill. Pharma companies get medicines approved based on how they compare to sugar pills!! A few percentage points is all it takes. Interesting?

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Do you feel like you are free to be yourself on Answerbag? More so than outside the bag, so to speak.

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What is one thing that you've lost respect for? People who cannot differentiate between prejudice and ignorant hatred.

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How do you differentiate between real and fake gesture? If you want to get really deep, there is a HUGE difference between a suicide gesture and a real suicide attempt. I have only seen gestures, and I am glad of that, but hate when they say it was real to try and achieve the guilt factor...

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The pay is good and your co-workers are nice. But you find out later that your company is actually used by terrorists as a front to finance their operations. What would you do? I'm outta there immediately.

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Have you ever turned a problem into a opportunity? Just had foot surgery -- what a great time to get off the drums and learn to play bass!

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Did your parents beat you as a kid? Yes my dad did and I am still paying for it. BUT he did teach me respect, so there are upsides.

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What would you do if someone in your workplace ate your lunch? I would ask if they would not mind if I joined them, then grab a fork and start digging in. If they already ate it I would just make a "nice" smartass comment like, is there anything else I can get for you? (just so they know I know...)

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Are you completely independent, interdependent, or dependent on your partner? I strive for interdependence. it is always best IMHO

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Religionists insist that everything in the Bible is of "historical" proportion. Is it there any non-biblical, non-partisan historical records of the alleged time of the astonishing events such as: The "walking on water", " rasing the dead", etc, etc? I have to agree that there have no doubt been many who had felt the need to change the scriptures to support their theology, nevertheless, how do you explain away the lives of the apostles who carried the torch and went through significant torture to do so. Paul himself said that if Jesus was not raised from the dead then he of all men was most to be pitied. Then again he could have just...

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Does a rare or undercooked steak that is oozing blood when cut into it,turn your stomach,and put you off from eating it? Nothing more unappetizing than an overcooked steak!

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How do you say 'idiot' in different languages? Dufus, but not sure what language ;-)

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Trick question: What number comes after 1? I do.

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What are some reasons people get married? That is like asking why fools fall in love - at least this FOOL fell in love AND marriage twice. But you know what Bush says --

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What state are you from? Illinois (PS - the s is silent! ;-)

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How many kids do you have that you know of? Three is enough for me. They are a handful but AWESOME and would not trade them for the world.

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Steve Perry...or the new guy? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gFC8sDTXlng Still their best album yet...IMHO

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Drop everything and stop! it's Zack's birthday!! (20th june) today!! would you like to wish him a good one? Happy birthday to Zach from an AB kook!

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Steve Perry...or the new guy? Steve Perry dude, but must admit the new guy is awesome. I saw them with Styx (MY favorite "comeback" band - very high energy show). Now Styx is playing with Def Leppard with DL headlining of course. I am friends with Todd S - Styx drummer he is phenomenal.

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Are you gellin'? Ma-gellan? (yuch)

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If I get one more negative rating I am going to .............? Self evaluate and see what I am doing wrong or better yet -- ask others?

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If you were stuck inside your T.V., what channel would you be? VH1

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I got my girlfriend pregnant, and she doesn't have insurance. I have a full coverage plan. Can I get married now and have my girlfriend's pre-natal and pregnancy concerns taken care of? I like the above answer, but hope your relationship blossoms in spite of this unexpected blessing. And he or she WILL be a blessing, believe me.

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Do you like Chocolate Milk or Hot Chocolate better? Hot with 1 huge marshmellow por favor

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What kind of soda is in your fridge right now? Diet Pepsi Cherry

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Would you please help me congratulate, Rollie, Mexican beaches are great, on reaching Sage, Level 50? Muchos congratulaciones!! ;)

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My friend who is having her 1st baby via c-section next weds. was never given a baby shower. Would it be a poor etiquette (or even tacky) to throw a "Welcome Baby" party for her a while after the baby is born in lue of an actual shower? Great idea -- knowing the gender makes it easier to get the right gift too.

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Anyone want a peanut? Depends on whether or nut the're Crackerjacks or chocolate coated.

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What the best and cheapest car insurance that you can get with full coverage? I think Geico does. Try doing an online search and have your current data handy but do not give them the $$ amounts!

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Do you think capri pants look good on a girl? state your sex I must not be a man's man because I think they look great on a tall woman. As for the latter part ... not very often these days.

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If someone who MIGHT like me asks me for my email, is that love? R U Serious? I would settle for LIKE at this stage!

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Whats worse, an alcoholic or a pothead? I am waiting for the punchline ... pray tell. As for me I don't think I inhaled but it is hard to say - I was really drunk at the time.

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Religionists insist that everything in the Bible is of "historical" proportion. Is it there any non-biblical, non-partisan historical records of the alleged time of the astonishing events such as: The "walking on water", " rasing the dead", etc, etc? I believe it still happens! That's what makes it current... history aside. But to answer more directly, aren't there a lot of writings about the flood? And as for Jesus' life, albeit short, there is the Jewish historian Josephus for example, who really didn't give a @@$% and did not have to write about him.

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Would white guys like to learn SALSA.TANGO or RANCHERO? I am seeing red... make it a tango for me. Then put me on the hot tamale train.

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What is one trait of a good relationship? Mutual trust is everything... and then humor. Nuts that's two. sorry

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I have a '88 Bonneville with an issue but the service engine light has never come (in the 11 yrs I've had the car). I'm now being told a computer can not do any form of diagnotics with out the service engine light on. Any suggestions? What KIND of issues???

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What initiates a muscle contraction? Keep runnin runnin... this is fun. Thanks to you I am FINALY getting the hang of it... I think too much.

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What were you thinking i would ask next? Where do you want to go today?

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Can you live without chocolate? Hey - we can't all be as punny as you!

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What is your porn name? ( middle name + street you grew up on ) Sounds like a recipe for Identity theft lol

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What is the date of your current AB Avatar personal photo (i.e. if you use one)? Its' a current statue

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Yay it's thundering!! Who else loves thunder storms? Thunderstorms show God's power!!! Or that he is angry that he is losing in bowling with angels.

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How often do you find yourself on AB and thinking to yourself "God, I really should be doing..) I SHOULD be learning to play bass -- my left foot is in a brace and I can't step on a hi hat pedal for awhile. Instead I am here with you blokes.

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What motivates you to get out of bed and go to work/school each morning? I keep dreaming that this scary bald avatar is chasing me and I wake up and run out of the house. It works well. Just stare at it for awhile!

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Can you live without chocolate? I can if there are raisins or cherries hidden inside. But it would still be the pits.

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Why / how did you pick your avatar ? what (if anything) does it mean (to you)? I changed mine SEVERAL times until I found one that looks so much like me it is scary... as is my avatar... as is me.

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Do you think your name and/or phone number is on a bathroom stall somewhere? I have been waiting and waiting but have yet to recive an obscene phone call... so I guess not. lol

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What initiates a muscle contraction? Ummm... a Victoria Secret commercial?

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Is it okay to cheat on a girlfriend? not a wife NO way -- as is true in music, practice does not make perfect .. but it DOES make permanent. Do you want to be a permanent cheater?

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What is good to keep spiders out of the house? Economics 101 It's supply and demand curve. Spiders demand the bugs you are supplying. Sorry to break it to you. Go buy some bait to keep away the eight.

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Who wrote "Free Falling" sung by Tom Petty? Definitely Petty and Jeff Lynne of ELO fame. I had no idea that song is from 1989 - still sounds fresh to me.

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First thing that comes to mind when i say "lotus"? Garden

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If you met someone and they were cool, you clicked, and everything was right, but word around the campfire was that they cheated on their last partner... would you still date this person? would go with caution - its just talk... for now.

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Just wondering what do you reckon about people staying with their first and only loves forever? And only being intimate with that person for the rest of their life? I refuse to be cynical -- it can work!!! BUT -- not without knowing themselves well enough -- i.e. they better wait awhile. The fact is -- I have two friends who have been soulmates FOREVER. It can happen to you as well.

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I want to cook/make something for my boyfriend, preferably a dessert (because he's a sweetie<3). I want him to think of me when he eats it, maybe something to nibble on at his work? Any suggestions? Key lime pie with Macademia nut crust...he will love it!

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What do you take real pride in? I agree with Lucky, having been humbled MANY times it is always a better place to be, and I look forward to not caring about whether or not the humility leads upward.

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What do you have a great fear of? Success (not sure why...)

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Well, just as when I made Sage, nobody has yet made a question to congratulate me on making Maestro. Therefore, I have had to do so myself. Would anyone like to share their congratulations? If you'd rather heap scorn upon me, that's okay, too, but why? Here is a pear toward your next promotion. haha COngratulations!!

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OK slap my @#$ and call me Sally but how do I get a photo into my profile??? (without changing my Avatar for the umpteenth time...) Would it help if I asked nicely??? I really want to know!

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Are there an abundance of southerners on AB or is it just me? No one here but us Texans, where AB is mighty big like everything else down here.

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What do you feel about the idea the the Gods of many other religions have the same back story as Jesus( virgin birth, resurrected after 3 days, etc) there are over 100 and most of them are pre-Christ. I am secure in my faith but I must admit it certainly appears to be more than a coincidence. Could they be foreshadows of that which was to come in earnest? I know that may sounds like a stretch, but what of the 1000's of prophesies fulfilled from the Old Testament, in which no one had an idea of the meaning of their own prophesies in many cases.

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What are the headlines on the front page of your newspaper? "Cruzpino gets the boot" (I just had foot surgery, LOL)

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Hey you honest managers in here, can you give me an example in which you were inadvertantly rewarding behavior B while expecting behavior A? For example ... rewarding perfect attendance but overlooking the fact that this may result in great workers staying home to combat the illness spread by a perfectly attending ne'er-do-well.

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If you were offered $50,000 to appear in an underwear ad, this very minute, would you do it? You are kidding, right? I would take $5,000 and join a health club to boot(y).

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What are the first three things that come to mind when you remember and look back on your teenage years? Band -- we went on "chaperoned" band tours to places like New Orleans... Worked hard. Played hard. Got hard.

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What are the first three things that come to mind when you remember and look back on your teenage years? Band -- we went on "chaperoned" band tours to places like New Orleans... Worked hard. Played hard. Got hard.

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If you dropped something on the floor, would you still eat it afterwards? I religiously follow the five second rule. After that, forget about it...

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I'm in San Antonio, TX. What would you like me to take a picture of? The highest rollercoaster with your smiling face on the way down.

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Who do you find it really irritating/distracting to talk to? (ex: someone with a lisp) Myself -- I am an arrogant SOB and I am always losing arguments. I hate it when that happens.

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I removed a callus from my toe, but now there is a light spot where the callus was. How can I fix this? Is there something I can buy from the store? I wonder if it was an ordinary callus -- I would try a dermatologist if I were you. He may recommend a product for scars called Maderma which has worked well for me. Good luck.

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Do you like your feet? I love my feet enough to have received my 7th surgery on them. But this time I am on crutches for 4 weeks, so it will take me awhile to forgive them for what they've bun to me. lol

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Are askers more inventive than answerers? I got gigged on my last answer -- let me articulate: I think asking questions is a sign of intelligence, in most cases. I think answers are a sign of wisdom and kindness. I ask a lot of questions but I value the answers more because of the love shown to me. Do you feel the love?

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Why am I so damn HOTT? Because God gave you the hottie envelope and you took it to the edge. You go girl!

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What exactly does canada want? They want a Geddy Lee encore singing the Great White North with the old Second City comedy team, eh?

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Is it worth saving the environment if it could hurt you in the wallet? Are you willing to do less, use less, save more even if it costs you money, time, or pleasure? Whatever it takes, within reason -- what do you have in YOUR wallet? ;-)

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Are askers more inventive than answerers? I think that is a leading question, don't you?

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Is there a work around to install visioneer 6100 usb driver in windows vista No -- try the Visioneer website though -- they may allow you to trade up and give you some credit. The website is Nuance.com

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Is there any version of ots turntables that is compartable with windows vista? Try connecting thru a compatible DV camcorder that has analog inputs - hard to find but well worth it. Vista does not need to see the turntable...

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I usually use firefox, but when I use IE or something IE based (usually an IM) and close it, a window pops up saying that IE closed for some unknown reason and windows is trying to find whats wrong. Why would it do that when I actually closed it? Windows will forever try and find what's wrong. Stick with Firefox! Same goes for Mac.

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Does Microsoft Vista have any serious problems? I understand that Mr. Gates is scrambling to come up with the next Big Idea. Long live Apple OS!!

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Don't you hate it when well wisher's spray your car with "Happy Birthday" goop and your still trying to get it off your paint job a week later? How very insensitive! With friends like that, who needs enemies? But perhaps you ought to give them a chance to apologize -- and let THEM remove it so they can experience the consequences of their actions without you getting revenge!

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Why do punks ware a mohawk? And how did that start? Because they can!

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Who 'should' you be able to discuss politics and religion with? Anyone who is willing - take a risk!

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Has anyone ever lived close to a murderer or someone who has committed a hideous crime? First wife cheated with our next-door neighbor who allegedly In the mean time he threatened to kill me if I told his wife! I had simply warned him that if he laid one hand on my wife I would tell his and then received a death threat?! Close enough call for me. I had a cop talk to him and read him the riot act for threatening me! That stopped the monster in its tracks!

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The next day after working out I'm sore. So how long should I wait to work out again? Should you be fully recovered, or is it ok to lift again even if the muscles are still kind of sore? How about trying this work out your upper body one day and lower the next. The repeat the pattern so you give your muscles 48 hrs to recover...

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In your marriage, did you honour and obey or did you stray? how about honor and respect -- so cheating was out of question -- it is the most disrespectful act possible.

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How did you deal with a cheating partner First wife cheated with our next-door neighbor who allegedly had a great marriage and whose kids played with ours. I was crushed but forgave her and gave her a chance to stop. I begged her not to be passive aggressive and to divorce me if she no longer wanted me but also to stop the affair to prove it. She said she did not want the divorce but kept the affair going. In the mean time he...

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What personality type are you? Atypical ;-)

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Do you swear to tell the truth, nothing but the truth? Have you cheated on your partner? Never, but as Jesus said, what is in your heart counts, so I then have to say I did in my mind's eye, but no one is perfect!

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What exactly does canada want? guns and butter -- basic economics

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If you could bring back ONE musical artist from the grave who would it be? Jim Morrison!

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If you could bring back ONE musical artist from the grave who would it be? Robert Plant's son -- he would have been an awesome vocalist so that counts right? It took SO much from RP and Zeppelin- and cost his marriage as well.

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Which is the best band ever: The Beatles, Led Zepplin, The Who, The Rolling Stones or someone else (if so Who?) Continued, with apologies to the MANY MANY artists who deserve much better recognition IMHO... Most creative - Zappa, King Crinson Best Production- Peter Gabriel, Robert Fripp Most energetic resurrected classic rock band - Styx Longevity award - Stones, of course, but also Rush still relatively strong. I will stop now. Looking forward to other answers now!

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Which is the best band ever: The Beatles, Led Zepplin, The Who, The Rolling Stones or someone else (if so Who?) Here is my vote -- I can't resist a punny question ;) Best song writing award -- Beatles (but tough decision - both Zeppelin and Who are awesome song writing) Best studio work - Zeppelin (Beatles CLOSE second) Best live - Stones Best cohesive albums - the Who Best drummer/songwriter/philospher - Neal Peart (duh) Personal favorite -- Zeppelin, overplayed songs and all. Favorite...

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Which is the best band ever: The Beatles, Led Zepplin, The Who, The Rolling Stones or someone else (if so Who?) Define great first..

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If you made a new candy bar with caramel and peppermint dipped in chocolate what would you call it? Wild Thing

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I WANT THE TRUTH!! Who here dislikes Hispanics being here? My hubby is Mexican, but it doesn't matter. Speak up! Not me. I love hispanic culture. Sorry you are having trouble with others acceptance. ignorance is not bliss. Creo que su esposo se ama mucho. Not sure if my Spanish is still accurate but you get the idea. I am sure he is proud of you.

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Where in Dallas can a college educated, middle aged, single woman go to meet professional middle aged single men? I love live music & dancing. I need to know places where I can go safely & comfortably alone. Ummm ... you just found one so I guess Answer is one way, and it does not get much safer!

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Is design a product of economic forces or is it a pure expression of individual artists? Its a product of listening to what people want, but done in a way that honors one's pure expression if done well...so the answer is yes ;-)

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Where is the best place to meet the perfect guy? history books ;-) sorry... but it is relatively true

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Why is it that both women and men seem to be attracted to those that give them the hardest time; treat them the poorest? Why don't we respect ourselves more? Counselor says -- You chose your partner/boss, etc because (s)he was what you needed in order to grow. Cruz says -- I wish I knew why! BUT when we beat ourselves up people will be tempted to "help" us in one of two ways. They will either grab the stick and continue to beat us or grab it and throw it away. But how about if we listen to the ones who encourage US to throw away the...

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Do you have a pet name for your partner Hun when she was my partner. Attila the Hun when I was able to break free. (long story) But glad you have (I hope) a much sweeter one for yours!

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What is the lettle connector called that hooks directly to your TV antenna, the coaxial cable goes into it. It is important to use good RG6 rated cable, high Q connectors , and as few (hi quality) connectors as possible between the source and the TV, especially with satelite, but I know that is not what you are into for the time being. Consider DTC or Dish (or FIOS)when $ permits

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5months. He is leaveing for Iraq in 5days and wants me to wait for him, I love him but he doesnt love me he says, I just dont know if i want to wait for some one for a whole year who doesnt even love me. Should I? I would keep him in your thoughts and prayers and out of your love life, but I do not enjoy pain as some folks do

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My BF of 4 yrs is very in love with me and we just moved in together. We broke up last year for 2 months and he slept with someone else, which he said was the biggest mistake of his life. I keep dwelling on the past, I trust him - will I ever get over it? Relationships are built on trust. Your forgiveness is exemplary, yet in my experience leopards rarely change their spots and it is awfully early for him to be LOOKING at others let alone sleep with them (it is ALWAYS too early for that.) SO... living together enables you to know someone before you get hitched. How much more do you need to know??

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If you love your best friend, but he has a girlfriend and just loves you as a friend, how can you get noticed as a girlfriend? How can you ever be happy? I can't move on, because no one else will ever be good enough. I'm so sad, I long to share my life Unfortunately she may not accept your friendship with him for very long so what is the risk of giving another guy a chance to at least be good friends while you are sorting thru the painful feelings in a tough situation. I feel for you

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What do you put on minor cuts? Pts to all the neosporin fanatics -- I agree. Why suffer pain the next day, when a little neosporin does the trick, after H2O and HO. No pain... your gain.

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What song are you hooked on right now? Steely Dan - Aja -- best studio musicians ever... Steve Gadd on drums. He can definitely feed a family of four!

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What is the difference between a drummer and a pizza? Quite right ... A pizza can feed a family of four.

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Can I run around naked, and call that art? Why do you want to hang around with that Art guy? (ask a weird question....)

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Beyonce says she has stopped attending church because she gets mobbed when she goes & she feels guilty about this. I feel she should still go because if it was not for her God given talents she would not be where she is today, do you agree? She should have fellowship with others of similar status. I think it is good she refrains if she feels she may be taking something away from the True Object of Worship.

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Are all hand signs universal? (thumbs up, peace, middle finger, etc.) No but stay tuned for a question about how we got the middle finger idea! Example for you. the hang loose sign is considered an insult for many countries. Although, they hang them whether offended or not....

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Would you trust President Bush to teach your children? He already is! Hopefully they are learning from his mistakes!! Hopefully they will learn that 'an eye for an eye' was from the OLD testament and even then, it did NOT not apply to someone who was uninvolved! Hopefully we will not make the same mistake THREE times!!!

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What is the weirdest music you can think of . Im kinda in the mood for really weird music . any suggestions? Just about anything you can find by Frank Zappa and the Mothers of Invention (remember their name from Smoke on the Water?

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If, for some reason, your only choices in the 2008 election were Hillary Clinton and George W. Bush, who would you vote for? The probablity of winning a third term is approximately..... zero. Even for the best of presidents. So the question is moot and frankly if I were Hilary I would be offended with this question, even if a 3rd term was possible! Sorry -- you caught me on a bad night. I am not usually this nice. ;-)

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What is your favorite band that you think I have never heard of? Have you ever heard of Crack the Sky? Awesome Progressive Rock band that went .... nowhere, at least as far as I know. There best "LP" was "Safety in Numbers" - you would have appreciated the sense of humor embedded within their philosophical lyrics.

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How can a President be Commander & Chief without prior military experience? I am just thankful there is a two term limit. On the other hand, I am pretty certain that those limits would NOT have been put to the test, with all due respect to our humble and lovable POTUS.

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Have you ever tried a woo woo? I had to give you a point just for being brave enough to ask the question. In my day, people would shudder even to mention the word let alone ask if any one else has partaken of the incredible .... oh never mind... just tell me what the heck it is! I have to get back to answering serious inquiries, like "Do you think I am attractive?" and other inane questions that have...

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Can you describe your father in one word? Incredible

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If you answer a question, shouldn't you give it some points? As it pulled your attention from the myriad of other questions, it...must have SOMETHING to it, right? Makes good sense to me -- sometimes I forget because I am too interested in what I have to say ;-(

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My husband travels a lot and calls me like 50 times a day. He wants to know everything that i do, and is so annoying. We've been married for 10 yrs. and he really gets on my nerves. I feel like he controls me, any advice how to handle this w/out explodin WOW -- that sucks. Maybe there is some kind way you can let him know that your conversations will be much more fulfilling for both of you when you get some things accomplished during the day and that as much as you appreciate his interest, you and he will have much more interesting conversations 2 -3 times a day, perferably planned (e.g. wake up call/have a nice day, lunch how are things...

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Whenever I make an attempt to have a meaningful conversation with my husband, his uninterested attitude hurts. He says his lack of interest is due to the topics being focused on him. I only want him to empathize. But he thinks thats controlling. thoughts? Ask HIM what he would like to talk about. Sounds to me like he is the one controlling you by stifling your questions...

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My 18 month old son is getting naggy and screaming alot. Its hard to go any where with him....i dont know what to do. I try ignoring it, but he still does it. Anyone have some good tips on how to solve this problem? Try a book by Dr Harvey Karp called "The Hapiest Toddler on the Block." His previousu book about quieting fussy babies saved what wasa left of my sanity!! He has a website... Good luck and the other answers appear wise to me as well... PS -- I was a stay at home dad for 2+ years.. so please do not write me off..

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Its been two months fighting with my girl we fighiting all the time about jelous stuff she does not like me to go see my friends at his house because she does not get along with his wife . finally last week she ask me if i was pregnand what would youdo Last thing first - remind her that you cannot possibly get pregnant ;-) (i.e. you may want to make sure your questin is more clear or you will have smart asses like me teasing you (in fun...) Seriously, I would dump her. What a total lack of respect and over-control. Been there -- had that -- DON'T go there. btw guess who she will demand to go out with -- yup -- HER friends wheter...

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Should it be ok for a guy in a relationship to "oogle" other girls. e.g magazines, movies, tv, friends, ect. when the girl doesn't? Only with other guys -- how rude and disrespectful to do so in front of you!! On the otherhand, with due respect to the comment you received, how naive to think a man is not attracted to another woman's looks -and it does NOT mean they are going to be unfaithful, but the temptation is stronger if our natural reflex is stifled.

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When a girl told a guy that we should be friends and he say ok however you want. does it mean that he doesnt care and he wasnt ever even interested in her or the relationship? You may be too young to remember a song lyric from Lobo that says "I love you too much to ever start liking you, so don't expect me to be your friend." In other words, I agree with you!

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Is it possible to say that a guy/girl is everything you've ever wanted even if you've never met that person yet except exchange a few emails in the past? No freakin way -- sorry to burst your romantic buble, love at first write is even scarier than love at first sight. You do not know someone until you live with them. I know a very moral couple who had lived together WITHOUT getting physical (so I am told...) and that helped confirm what is now a LONG term relationship,.. Otherwise, make him meet the parents and make sure you meet...

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Do you think you have a soul mate? What do you do if you think YOUR "Soul Mate" has already passed threw your life and is with someone else? Find out if she is married or engaged. If not -- what is the harm of meeting him for coffee just to catch up as a friend. You will KNOW right away -- trust your gut.

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Is thinking that someone is self-centered is being self-centered on your part? Absolutely! We see in others what we see in ourselves -- it is called "projection." "If you spot it, you got it" is a short way to remember that.

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What if you arent the prettiest girl? do guys still like you? My soul mate, who I am unfortunately not able to with currently, is not as "attractive" as she would like to be. The is to befriend someone and let them see how beautiful you are on the inside, since most of us are naive enough to be seduced by outward beauty. Remember the Sirens, guys! or read up on Greek mythology if that image does not resonate with you.

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My hardrive on my computer crashed, and I got a new one, but my itunes library was lost. I have all of my songs in a folder called ipod_control, but I can't transfer them into my itunes library. Does anyone know how to do this? Look for a program called TouchCopy from WideAngle software! There are others, but I rarely trust freebiews...

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If you could write one book about yourself, what would the title be, and if it had chapters, what is Chapter 1 called? Diary of a Mad Househusband Ch 1: I DID SO tell you I went off Birth control on our honeymoon!

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Ok.......so how important are feet in the pecking order of attraction? OK -- HOw about with shoes ON! I bet there are many woman who are looking at our "feet" in shoes. C'mon women -- help me out here. Are you all trying to say you do not notice and that it is not a little higher in the pecking order? Since this is supposed to be an answer -- I will just say in my experience as a metro-sexual man, it is very important to have stylish, well...

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Ok.......so how important are feet in the pecking order of attraction? I never leave home without 'em.

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If you could live in a huge house with pool, garden etc., but lonely and unhappy with rejecting partner or live in small apt. with friends and freedom which would you choose? I would even settle for alone and happy, but we all need friends. What we DONT need is overly controlling, discouraging and unsupportive spouses, at least after trying hard to make it work... which I bet you have already done. You deserve the freedom.

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Can you prove to me that you exist? Absolutely not.

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In matters of love, does 'unfinished business' just fade away if unrequited (mutual passions) - or does it go on the 'back burner' and flare up when the circumstances allow - even several years later? I have not been on this site in a LONG time and I am delighted to see that you are still asking questions that are both intriguing and challenging. As for me, there is someone with whom I had a short but enriching relationship AFTER my 1st divorce, but my children hated her, so I moved on. I tried very hard to put her on the backburner, went on and married someone with whom my children...

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Can you think of songs where the lyricist uses a different way to say the same thing in the previous line?? Why do you think they do that? Here is an example of what I was getting at -- Remember Journey?? Their song Lovin touchin squeezin has a line that goes "When I'm alone....all by myself...with no one around" (OK I made that last part up.) but the point is that the words are just there to fill up space in my opinion. I was just curious as to what other songs are redundantly redundant. I enjoy it when...

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Do you play other 'Air' instruments besides guitar? I drum, therefore I am. (an air drummer that is. ESPECIALLY at a Rush concert where everyone in the audience knows every lick that Neal Peart plays!) I am dog tired but could not resist answering this.

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Has everyone gone to bed for the night? Is anyone still up? Thanks for the reminder -- I have to actually perform work tomorrow that requires cognitive and analytical processes. And I cannot remember what that even means.;-) With enough sleep I am fairly articulate. Now I am just plain verbose, and I use too many words, and think I am witty when I am really just a "professional" dreaming about following my passions -- playing drums,...

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Has this ever happened to you? See my answer for more details. Yes! But then again I have not made the effort to make frinds as I am rarely able to find the time. But certainly willing to have you be my ... umm first friend (hurts to admit that) so we can see, if nothing else, whether or not I experience the same problem.

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Can i run 2 monitors off may mac book pro and if so how? I like the answer above. As for usefulness -- I love it! If you hate paper like I do, you can use one for say, an Adobe doc, and the other to type in data in Excel or other program. ou just slide the image from your primary screen to the bigger screen you bought. Can do the same with Windows of course...but need to go into "Appearances tab within the monitor icon.

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PC people: would you ever buy a MAC? MAC people: would you ever buy a PC? My only frustration in making the switch is that for some reason I cannot figure out how to do a screen print. Very important for training purposes... Let me know if you know how to do so or if there is a program required. I really like having both op systems on my MacBookPro -- BUT -- in business world -- people are extremely prejudiced and it does not make for a good first impresion in...

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Is there a better software program for scanners than paperport? I have used it for some time with Visioneer and love it. I know HP has its own SW. Do any scanners come with it besides Visioneer? Have not come across any other scanners bundled with Pperport and I agree with you -- it is the best I have come across. I decided to go mobile and get the "Roadwarrior from Visioneer which comes with paperport 11 and is a small yet fast sheetfed scanner. It is pricey but then so is the software and I have not had great luck with scanning from HP printers -- slow as molasses. Good luck

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Do you think that six months is too soon to know that you wanna spend the rest of your life with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Not to soon to know you WANT TO, but MAYBE too soon to know if you would be compatible in the long run. Opposites attract -- ("You complete me...") if you do not have enough in common you will you may find yourself a statistic (either the 50% divorced or the ??% married but not happy. Also watch out for imbalance of "power" in the relationship because no matter who gets...

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What ringtone do you have on your cell phone right now? Funk #49 by the James Gang (old school but Joe Walsh had to start somewhere!)

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My boyfriend calls me names like bitch,slut,whore,ugly,fat,skank,smelly,tramp,etc.But he says that he is just joking and he doesnt mean it.Well I dont take it as a joke,and I take very seriously.Do you think that Im overreacting?Would you take it as joke? I am tempted to think you are exagerating, but even so, anything close to that is emotionally abusive in my opinion. In my experience people stay in those relationships because they are afraid to leave (financial? best for the kids? afraid of being alone? )or just comfortable with the status quo even though it is hurtful. Change is hard!

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My friend and I "argued" last night over whether the Police's lyrics were meant to be a twisted kind of funny (Songs like "I Can't Stand Losing" and "Don't Stand So Close to Me.") Also, do some people think that "Every Breath You Take" is a love song? As for your last question, given the stark contrast of his solo tune "If you love someone, set them free...", I would say it is more about posession and jealousy rather than love. But I agree that most of their songs are meant to be fun/witty and are cleverly written in my opinion.

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Can you name a song that has the word rain in it? Love reign o'er me (The Who) a play on words but you must admit -- pretty original...