by ladyrose on March 28th, 2005

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A couple of years ago my husband had more of a sex drive than me and now the roles are reversed. I feel like he doesn't desire me anymore or like I'm doing something wrong. Is this situation normal?

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by curious2u on June 24th, 2010
Normal, sure but the causes may be complex and it sounds like you two needs to clear the air about the subject as he may very well have a low sex drive due to a number of factors. Sexual desire is not an easy subject to talk about and he may not even know the complete answer. It could be related to medication, stress, problems getting and maintaining an erection, health problems and more. Also how is your relationship in general? Try watching an adult movie, getting away for a couple of days, role playing with you wearing a sexy costume and he playing the role of an intruder or better yet a sexy male tv star, movie star or even a past boyfriend of yours. They have some really sexy costumes at www.flirtylingerie.com/costumes.html as well as you can rent adult movies online anonymously or even on direct tv or cable systerms. Maybe you need to talk frankly and find out what may be on his mind, but don't assume it your fault as it likely isn't that.
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