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by Anonymous on August 25th, 2006

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I shower my girlfriend with affection and love, but she doesn't seem to return the favor. It's hard to get the affection I need from her. She only shows affection when I give it. Any advice?

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  • by Lilly on August 25th, 2006

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    i understand your situation. have to admit that sometimes i do the same with my boyfriend ! he pampers me a lot, loves to hug me when he can and almost spoils me with cuddles, but i rarely do the first steps myself!

    i think that i do so because i m used to having him do everything in the first place. i dont have to ask him to hug me, he just does! .. my advice is that you should stay back from showing affection to her for a while, so that she has the chance to start everything by herself!

    "I have to go up and kiss/hug her instead of her comming to me." <- this doesnt mean that she doesnt love you or is not attracted to you. it may be that she is used to your pampering ! 'Laziness' is the word! .. If this does not work, just talk to her and tell her that you need her affection too, even if you dont go up to her and start everything yourself!!

    good luck !

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    • I totally understand where you are coming from.

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      by A on September 16th, 2010

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