by shobana on May 7th, 2007

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I am a 21/f married two years back. I love my husband and he too loves me a lot and we have fun and play with each other but now a days i am not in mood to have sex... I am very upset that i am not satisfying my husband.

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  • by Anonymous on May 7th, 2007

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    You know what ? That is the problem right there ! You are associating getting pregnant ( which you are clearly not ready to be ) with the act of sex . If YOU are not ready to have a baby . Please don't go and get pregnant cause others are pressuring you ! That's your problem ...I'm willing to bet . From now on be outwardly vocal that you and your love are NOT ready to have a baby . Get that off your chest , and then take B/C and don'thave a baby till after you are married and READY ! Let others know this is your life , and you will have a baby ..........just when it's right for you and your love .
    My last baby was NOT planned , and I looked at sex afterwards as if........"what if I get pregnant again?" And lost all interest in sex . Then I had my tubes tied and didn't have to worry anymore . I still have problems getting in "the mood" . I just give myself oh lets say all day to think about things while my husband is at work . So that way I am in the mood before he even thinks about sex ! I have a HOT husband , the problem is clearly not him . It's just me . Women are more hormonal and emotional . Also if your sex life lacks something in it . Let your love know . He is not a mind reader . Let him know how you want to be touched or approached . And then the next time he will know what it is that you want . I'm sure he will be happy to accomodate ........hee-hee .

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