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by have mercy love :( forgive me. on November 3rd, 2009
Firstly, sex is to procreate. It is designed to work no matter if the person loves or not. However, personally I don't believe they should be seperate.
What a selfish thing to post kokoro, I know your ex boyfriend and the reason you two did it that night was because he thought you were going to be different. I know for a fact considering who I am that that is BS and youre here trying to get sympathy. The thing you don't share here is that not only are you lying, but youre slandering someone for your own pity. I thought you were better than this. You decided you thought best and made terrible, evil rash decisions and didn't even talk to him. you jumped to a huge conclusion and STILL havent decided to talk about it.
He was a jerk at the time and I'm sure he feels bad but he did not by any means do what you have described here. I hope you remove all that you can about this crap and do the right thing.
Vaporeongirl, wake up. ALL men are not jerks. I thought you were different as well, you have even commented on some of our posts. You know damn well you have no right to say something like that, just because you surround yourself (or are unfortunate to be surrounded by) assholes doesn't mean thats how life is or should be!!! And if you do well I am sorry you feel that way and hope you will open your eyes and find someone that treats you right, and hope you don't do what kokoro does.
After your significant other has been released from prison, how hard is it to have a normal relationship after a 10 yr sentence?
by Yella86 on January 24th, 2012
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need advice? please help me
by brandonsteele82109 on January 25th, 2012
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Why are relationships with another the best and worst thing to experience?
by Dimstar on January 27th, 2012
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Does anyone have a member of the family(married into the family) that thinks they can take over your land,that will be yours one day?insite.
by thebrowns on January 23rd, 2012
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How to forget someone I love so so much from the bottom of my heart?
by Adeesha_D on January 25th, 2012
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Bullshit, Nightsrush. I know my ex boyfriend too, and now more than ever. I was trying to be different, but the problem was - so was my ex. Apparently instead of being a lover, he was single instead. You keep telling yourself that I'm the one who is making the wrong decisions or having the wrong feelings but no. It's all very clear to me now in the past week. Either he's changed or I just didn't know he was this kind of person and now his true colors show.
by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009
Or you just don't want to fix it, and you don't want to allow yourself to actually try. You have not talked to him, so you are lying when you say you are trying/tried to fix it. You don't know anything about him, and the sooner you try to listen instead of telling yourself what you don't know the better you will feel. Stop being bitter and wake up. Other people are hurt too you know, or is that something beneath you?
by have mercy love :( forgive me. on November 3rd, 2009
I'm done trying. Trying has only brought me pain. I already said I put my foot down when my partner decides that he wants to be single and skank around.
by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009
He didn't say that though, thats the thing you need to stop.
You< are doing this. You are pushing me and him away, please just get yourself under control and at least talk in a reasonable manner. "I'm done trying" is just a quitter, selfish and disappointing attitude. I'm pretty sure since he still tries to talk to you that he's not a quitter, so how do you expect things to actually get better if youre the one not trying???
by have mercy love :( forgive me. on November 3rd, 2009
I don't trust him anymore. All he's been saying is, "You you you! You're not this, you're not that," when he shows no signs of taking responsibility for the things he's said or done.
by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009
Did you ask him to do so? I'm pretty sure he would. I do trust you, so it may not be fair but considering you said at one point you >loved< him you should give the benefit of the doubt. I know I've done stupid things, but it is painful to think that you would toss the entire thing for a small trust-related issue.
by have mercy love :( forgive me. on November 3rd, 2009
I shouldn't have to ask. It's a mature and adult thing to take responsibility for your actions and say so. It's not SMALL. To you maybe, but it's serious to me.
by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009
Seriousness has nothing to do with how small it is! everything in our relationship was serious, big or small, but to toss it aside is not worth it when you realize nothing is too big!!!!
by have mercy love :( forgive me. on November 3rd, 2009
I have deal breakers. I will refuse to be with someone who talks to me the way that you have, going to be single and not feel guilty about looking. What a childish reaction/solution to a problem.
by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009
You think that it is the looking that is the problem, which is the problem. Its the pressure and stereotypes and insecurities you pool on me. thats all.
by have mercy love :( forgive me. on November 3rd, 2009
I think they're both problems, and that you should not have reacted the way you did.
by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009