I moved back to FL after my sons father wanted to be close to his son. He told me he would help me out since he knew I wouldn't have a job or a place to live. Since I've been here it has been nothing but drama over custody and his new GF ....cont.

Second night here I called the cops since his new GF wouldn't let me take my son. We had an agreement I'd keep my son and he could visit him when ever he wanted to. I took him and went to a hotel. 2 days later on fathers day he took us to seaworld since we have seasonal passes. We where there for less then two hours when she called yelling and screaming so he took off to go home. The next day he showed up at my hotel room with her telling me he was taking my son and have my son live with him. I called the cops. When I originally booked the hotel room I told the front desk that I didn't want them there so they told me to call the cops and they will have them arrested for trespassing. The cops told them not to return or they'll be arrested for trespassing and let them off. Told my ex that I had primary custody since this is the first time he has seen our son in 14 months. I had a ticket back to CT twice and didn't leave since he said he wanted to be a father to our son and be in our life. He paid for a month at the hotel Monday night after he shut my phone off and stranded me with no money and no place to go. My son stayed at his house that night and didn't return him so I walked to his house and got him. His gf got pissed and came to the hotel trying to cancel my room. She couldn't. I called the cops again but the cops got angry at me and told me not to call them anymore. They where gone by the time the cops got there. Cops said if I call them one more time someone will go to jail. Me and my ex had an agreement that his gf was not allowed with my son alone. She admits to hitting our son with a wooden spoon. My son says the same thing. I've seen her smack her two year old across the face and when she is mad at my ex she screams that my son is a little bastard and his father isn't allowed to see him. If she does this in front of me and my ex I am sure it's worse when she is alone with my son he is 5. He won't go to court to get legal custody and get this settled because she won't let him. I am tired of him wanting visitation and me fighting tooth and nail to get my son back. Online it says to let the other parent have visitation because it'll look good that I allow his father to see him if he did go after custody. I get no support and can't do this anymore. He leaves my son alone with her to go to work and doesn't return him for days on end. Even after we agree on a certain time. I don't trust her and don't want her around my son for his own safety. I don't work since I just moved here so I have no money to file anything in court. Would it be wrong for me not to allow the father to see his son unless we go threw the courts and how bad would it look on my part in court? Again he agreed to give me custody as long as he has visitation but he didn't go threw with it because she won't let him and doesn't return him because she won't let him. She has him by the balls and won't let him do anything without her permission. I also don't think it is safe over there because the cops keep getting called last time was on fathers day because she ran him down with his own car.