by allalonetonight on November 14th, 2007

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I always want to know if my husband is masturbating while showering. I listen at the bathroom door or put a mirror under the door to try to watch him. If he did and he dont have sex with me I get mad, but he dont know. Is that normal at all?

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  • by Willie T. on February 25th, 2009

    Willie T.

    If you just run in on him on "accident", that should let you find out. But don't do it more than once! Otherwise, he might get suspicious. Or, try to have a shower WITH him. That might encourage him to have sex with you.

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    • I agree with this comment. Either catch him and offer him a (ahem) hand and then follow it up with afters or start by offering to shower with him as a prelude to the main course (as evinced by Violet so eloquently above!). What you cannot put up with is the bare-faced lying. All men do it and most would like an audience/helper.

      white rose man

      by white rose man on November 6th, 2009

    • He locks the door in the bathroom and when i knock he says he is going to the bathroom and can't answer the door... How else am i suppose to get it??? Don't have a key and can't break door down...lol He tells me that he doesn't do it anymore because he knows it makes me upset ( after i have told him it wouldn't ) and that he has stopped. WHICH now falls into the what she don't know won't hurt her thing and i just can't stand that... white lies is just as bad as lying to me. Don't you agree and what other should i do?

      aznicci

      by aznicci on November 6th, 2009

    • In that case I agree and you have to either put up with the lying or confront him with the evidence. I don't like either option but in my opinion I would opt for the confrontation. Just be prepared for an explosion and a crisis point in your relationship. Good luck and I hope it turns out in your favour- whatever that may be.

      white rose man

      by white rose man on November 6th, 2009

    • Thank you for the response again ... i honeslty have tried confronting him about it and he STILL denies it. The only way i can do that is by actually catching him masterbating and have VISUAL proof. which i do on my webcam but there is just NO way of telling him that i was SPYING ON him cuz he will flip... what man wouldn't!!!! This is exactly what he told me cuz i constantley complain to him about our sex life saying how we don't do it enough anymore, what can i do, we use to do it 2/3 x's a day and now 1 maybe 2's a week if that. We have only been together for almost 2 yrs and its already like this. He told me this..." You already think our sex life isn't enough so if i told you I was masterbating that would piss you off." I told him NO it wouldn't but he is sticking to it and just won't let me know.... I just don't know how to catch him in the act with out it being on camera, any ideas?????

      aznicci

      by aznicci on November 10th, 2009

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