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by ctaylo25 on January 25th, 2007

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I just had a baby by a 36 year old guy, I'm 23 and I really want to marry him, but he is hesitant about marriage because he is recently divorced. We are shacking up,should I stop having sex with him, or continue to give my all to him and we aren't married

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  • by Anonymous on January 27th, 2007

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    Wow, what a tough situation. It might seem like having that little piece of paper will settle your nerves, but it sounds like he has just been through the wringer... Why not focus your attention on that little baby for the time being and let the relationship play itself out. Witholding sex is not going to make your boyfriend marry you any faster. Just be a good mom and encourage him to be a good father. There are no guarantees whether or not you ever marry, but you can vow to be the best parent possible to your child.

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    • WOW, really great answer, I know from a religious aspect, marriage is so important, but my B/F and I have been together for nearly 10 years, and if we had a baby, I know that we would make great a Mommy and Daddy and would concentrate all of our energy on the baby, because it's the baby that's important. I'm not sure that a piece of paper will help, if the love isn't there. And I agree, it may be just a little late to withold sex now, "WHAT DO YOU THINK"

      Hotchik

      by Hotchik on September 28th, 2009

    • We have been talking about having a baby, and if we did, I don't think marriage would be a factor in our decision. It's probably to late for me anyway,we should have done it when we first got together,but we've been talking anyway.

      Hotchik

      by Hotchik on September 28th, 2009

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