I just found out my girlfriend cheated on me with a mutual friend. I'd like to forgive her, but worry that this will be a sore point later on. What should I do?

It would only be a "sore point" if one of you insists on making it one. She betrayed your trust - people are not infallible. If the two of you want to make the relationship work and both of you are mature and forgiving, you may be able to work things out. This depends on several things, such as why she "cheated" on you and how the two of you feel about one another. If you worry about it being a "sore point", I can only think that it is one with you. Drop it, as it serves no purpose. Work out the issues and decide: stay together or end it. Are you both interested in making a go of it or would you rather drop it now? Take that decision between the two of you and live with it.

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It's not that easy. I followed my wife today to dinner she said with her friend. Yes, it feels like someone kicking you in the stomach. I saw her and a guy together. He's at least 45, she's 30. I watched them for an hour and a half. The pain it feels I never wish this on anybody. This explain a lot. The past couple months we been fighting and every time I apologize she just shrugged it off. Everything I do I did something wrong. When I was mad she said I scare her. The thing was her heart is never here in this relationship. I confronted her tell her everything. I told her that I forgive her and it would be up to her if she wants this relationship. Either way I feel better confronting her. How can any man hold this feeling? Without trust in a relationship there isn't one.
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