I want to have a 3-sum but am still looking for 2 people to help me? xx

3-somes 4-somes many somesomes.. sigh..In the days when sexual exploration-- extreme by extremist standards,, was a priority , I did it all and even more.. & sometimes found myself in some new uncharted or at least undocumented territory..
Any combo of 3-somes can be cool.. but very seldomly do they generate a truly profound experience.. but sometimes they do.. "wow" do they ever..So overall irecommend that u try them often and vary the mix - ie-- 2 males (preferably very bi-comfortable)and a female who is turned on men in tune with that side of there sexuality,, etc etc.

If it is another man and woman u seek i urge u to be very dicerning when dealing with those that come packaged as "a pair" -- a couple married or not-- Thats very sketchy territory-- most of the time..

People think they are more open than they are but when they get on the "swing" they find themselves prey to a whole pandoras box of emotions/thoughts they are not prepared to deal with.. this can get ugly.. and does often.. Beig the 3rd wheel --U often funcion as some sort of glue to fix a twisted relationship or u become crucified 4 breaking up the family.. there are many more perils but these are the most common scenarios ive experienced.
POInt= Be very weary of the beast of 2 who are 1.
There are xeptions = My x-significant other "opened" our relationship after three years and kept it that way until it ended 6 years later (4 other reasons!!!btw Ther those who would blame our the "open" in our relationship 4 its downfall) ..We were the exeption not the rule..
In our arrangement as a "pair" we allowed 4 shared sexual partners & individual experimentation /intimacies..this takes real stregth,, but ironically it streghtened our bond.. and added many profound or just amusing experiences to talk about and laugh about together.

Lastly i encourage u to keep experimenting.. even if u have some really ugly experiences.. and even go further 2 try it all .. Sex in groups can be extremely profound spiritually or just frackin fun...

This answer is long i know. but its a topic on which i i could write enough to fill a good sized library ... from personal experiences alone. Who knows ?maybe I should --there i so little genuine information "out there" to guide those seeking such explorations..Americans particularly have a very deranged view of anything sexual..

If u do take the time to read it I hope it helped.. if U have any questions or need some suggestions .. Or After a trauma/drama 3-some experience U need the ears of of someone who probably truly understands. Im available..
Or if u feel like telling some1 about a particular cherished experiece without being judged -thats ok too.. of course u can dismiss all of this as nonsense verbage -- "I" can not be offended..
AT 37 - (so they say thats where i am-- I just leave it at "I am Now" ) My extensive experience and understanding of human sexuality and its vast array of possible expressions has made "me" a good resource thats available to any1--Use it or not..Im selling nothing.

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I congradgulate and admire U or 4 venturing out of the "the programming" in anyway ---sexually specific or other- to explore the exotic, mysterious or unknown..


Its spring after-all .. the right season 4 this kind of hunting--
May the goddess bring u many feasts to feed the lust u hunger 4.
Rofl.