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by RCN_TV_2008 on May 2nd, 2008

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Would you forgive a boyfriend for cheating on your and expects you to be ok with it after he tells you? I have known my boyfriend has cheated on me but have done nothing about it. is something wrong with me?

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  • by Brand Y on May 2nd, 2008

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    Well it's likely that you're weak in the self-confidence and "defending your boundaries" area. That doesn't mean there's anything *wrong* with you, but it probably does indicate that some changes might be in order.

    It's possible that your desire to be wanted or loved is so strong that it drowns out the little voice that says "I should not put up with this". So if that's the case, you may want to do some investigation -- why do you have such an overpowering desire to hang on to someone who treats you like that? If you can get to the bottom of that question, you have a chance at getting a bit more power over your own life, and are less likely to be a victim in future relationships.

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    • excellent response! Cheating is NOT ok, and if we accept it from another, it shows we need to seriously question why we put up with this kind of lack of trust.

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      by Anonymous on May 4th, 2008

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