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by Bangaram on January 17th, 2007

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Do women like men only if they are fit. Are fat men a turn off .

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  • by Anonymous on April 12th, 2008

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    You know it always makes me laugh when I hear women say this rubbish about "it's what's on the inside that counts" and "looks are not important as long as he has a great personality" why do they pretend to have this inner nobility, when in reality 99.9% of them would not give a fat guy the time of day. I speak with authority as in my job I see it everyday. I myself am a bar manager in a health and fitness club, I am in great physical shape (a perk of the job). You see a great many of my clientele are overweight men and a great many are women. I have become pretty friendly with a lot of these men as they are genuinely nice guys who are fat for many different reasons but who are all too often unfairly judged and dismissed as being beneath those of normal weight.
    And the worst culprits for this judgemental attitude you guessed it, the women who frequent my bar.
    How is a guy supposed to show his personality, kindness, warmth etc if he is rejected at first glance.
    In my opinion most of the women I come across on a regular basis are shallow liars .

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    • Thank you sir. I am a fat guy and I call every single woman I meet on this crap. How many times have I heard girls explain themselves with "Oh, you know, *I* don't find it attractive, but that's just me, there are a lot of women who don't care, it's what is on the inside, etc etc etc" Please stop condescending to us, women! Way to pass the buck. "Move on down the line, sir, it's gonna be a long walk." The only women who find fat guys really attractive are A) Fat women, and that's because they have a hard time themselves and must settle, and B) Chubby chasers, but at that point I am reduced to a mere fetish. Wow. Thanks. Really appreciate the fact that I can't find anyone who truly cares about me what so ever. Take off this veil around your shallow selves. If you're going to be that way, be honest. Know what is more of a turnoff for me than fatness? Condescension and dishonesty with ones self, and with these two characteristics, 90% of you are all guilty.

      n0pe says

      by n0pe says on August 30th, 2008

    • Thank you for a common sense answer. Many women will 'say' that they don't care about looks, but they'll often be the first to shoot a heavy or chubby guy down when approached. I am very lucky that I have found a beautiful woman who loves me for who I am and not how I look, but there are millions of men out there struggling to find happiness and love that are ignored because of extra baggage. These shallow-minded people should be ashamed of themselves.

      Rufus_T_Firefly

      by Rufus_T_Firefly on February 15th, 2009

    • I'll admit it. I'm a fit woman that loves fit men. That doesn't mean I don't want to be treated right. Just like big guys can be nice so can fit guys. I'm just more inclined to it.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on October 7th, 2010

    • Im not fat but im not fit either. And I honestly prefer "chubby" or "fat" guys. To me skinny guys are a major turn off. I love chubby guy's and I always have my fist crush was way overweight and everyone since has been to. And I think y'all unfairly judge women. Cause you as in the whole male population go after skinny girls or sluts and that just as unfair if not worse.

      LynLyn91

      by LynLyn91 on February 4th, 2012

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