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by AJ Sacher on February 25th, 2008

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My gf and I have been going out for almost 11 months. I found out recently that a guy likes my gf, and she kind of likes him too. she keeps telling me that she won't act on her feelings. we don't see each other often, so she gets lonely. How should i feel

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  • by Brand Y on February 25th, 2008

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    That bit about "not acting on the feelings" is critical. You can't really expect your girlfriend to not find other guys attractive, that's like asking her to turn off millions of years of evolution.

    But you CAN expect her to restrain herself from acting on those feelings. That's all that any of us can really expect from our partners. So she's doing the right thing.

    However, it probably would have been wise for her to keep those feelings to herself -- if she volunteered them, I would advise her not to do that again. If you "pried them out of her" with pointed questions, I would suggest you stop doing that sort of thing. Be content with the fact that she's being faithful, don't expect sainthood.

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