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by jenniferprofitt on May 27th, 2005
In three words or less:-) describe The "perfect date" ?
by Bornabrit on January 4th, 2012
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would you date someone who had done a porno movie?
by d1984 on December 21st, 2011
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Do you remember our first date?
by Weylon on January 23rd, 2012
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Is it alright to date your 5th cousin?
by MOON_LIGHT_88 on December 21st, 2011
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Confess, immediately, one of your dating sins, will you please?
by prof. mes solzhenitsy on January 9th, 2012
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You're reading I've been with this guy in a long distance relationship for about a year. I want him to be my first lover. I'm afraid that after we have sex and I have to go home, he's going to move on. What should I do?
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Pre-marital sex is wrong & having sex with him won't change his mind. Bad idea.
by Answers101 on March 16th, 2006
This is sensible advice- A101 I don't see how your comment relates to the answer!
by Anonymous on May 4th, 2006
RE: A101 me neither - and A101 I don't think you should force your opinions on someone who has asked a question that clearly is bothering them - whether we choose to have sex before marriage or not is irrelevant and 'OUR' choice!
by zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz on September 27th, 2009
Answers101, time for some but-whooping !
You preach about no pre-marital, right.
It's time for a bit of reality check for you.
Let's say, the legal age in your area is 18 YO.
Let's say that, driving my car one day, I see your very pretty 18 YO daughter on the side-walk.
Now, I'm a pretty slick bastard.
I work for the phone company.
It's all too easy for me to obtain personal data.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
I open my dirty eye and observe your social status.
Let's say you're an office man. I think: you want a better future for your girl. Who do you admire? A big time business owner would be a bit overkill, might raise a red flag. Age is an issue.
Ok, let's build a pleasing structure.
A newly admitted Law College student with possibly bright future, a good mind, already living in his own small, but tastefull apartment (your wife's oppinion will be based on immage and weigh a LOT; yours is based on relatively superficial analysis and can be played).
Coming fom good, healthy family, especially if at your social level.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Decent car, not flashy, but a good quality choice. Shows a good head on shoulders.
That's the verifiable part.
The rest is all behaviour.
If I can play a suspicious, but impressionable 18 YO girl that's naturally hard to read because she hasn't established her set of values yet, I can play you, whose set of values I already know, like a fiddle.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
I sort of "accidentally", "incidentally" start appearing in the same circles as your daughter.
A good slick knows how.
In a short while I learn or "read" her prefferences. And I come with a bit better. The serious, yet fun, mature guy. Not old, but a student is a holy grail for a schoolgirl. Makes her look so cool and that's her poison. Importance.
Just 4 years difference. Not that much. A mere nothing legally, but a real pedestal in her universe.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Of course I have a perfectly logical, natural reason to be in the same place as her.
We like the same icecream at Rosie's, and I just happen to know all about that special icecream. It's originm recipe, effects on feelings, the works.
A few exchanged looks and smiles and one day, Rosie deliveres her icecream with a big red rose on top and says that it's from me.
Poor Rosie can't tell the difference between highschooler type clothes and student clothes. But the girl can.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
For some reason and in some way, we strike a conversation, and I'm just so smart and interesting and free and confident, not like all those horny highschool boys. How would she know to read the signs? Daddy kept her away from dangerous boys.
Three weeks time and she's smittened.
Dates begin, at first you're cautious about age difference, but after I play the compassion tune that my family had some financial trouble and I had to pitch in so I couldn't get to college immediately, you start to get the "responsible guy effect".
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Three months later I come with the cannonball.
I found the perfect, safe, summer job for her at a library and I already researched a bunch of colleges.
Mother's all over me. HE CARES HE GETS INVOLVED
Of course in all this time, in little stolen moments, hidden from your eyes, I erotized the heck out of her.
Carefully.
Nothing pushed, nothing forced, just a tiny bit further.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
A bit of breast caressing, later on a bit of belly kissing, much later on a bit of vulva rubbing - through panties, of course.
I know how to work the steps.
Slick, remember?
By now I'm her one and only loveboy.
Things slowly escalate, I appear a steady, reliable guy.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Six months later, after I filled her mind with all kinds of crap, in our little stolen moments of intimacy (of course unbeknownst to you), as she was just admitted to a good college (where I too study and know the ropes, she didn't really had much choice with all my charming), I come red as lobster with big bouquet of flowers and, in front of family, propose to her. Of course engagement only, we're too young for marriage, right?
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
If I played my cards right, you, the ever vigilant daddy are already bought and sold by now.
I'm the son in law for all you care.
We leave for college. Of course she'll live whith me, why pay extra, you all know me already and we come and visit often and she tells you all, right? Right? Like all those fingering moments?
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Two months of college life, a good innitiation in the arts of cunnilingus, NO penetration whatsoever, so it's not really sex, is it? your "grown up" student daughter comes home with the ton of bricks.
"He's at his parents his mother fell sick, oh daddy, I love him soooooo much, we couldn't bare it, we signed the legal papers, we're married now, he wanted to wait 'till next week-end (yeah, right, and face the music? neah, better planned this way, mom's in Bahamas anyway) so we could tell you together but I couldn't wait"
BOOM!
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
OF COURSE you'll swallow it ! After the shockwave is over you'll just resign to thinking it's just two kids in love rushing things like they allways do.
You might have a bout of healthy paranoia, but your wise wife'll "set you straight" quickly.
And, after all, it's just the papers. The wedding will be textbook as it should be.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Next summer, after serious negotiations with his parrents, well manipulated by him (there are so many emotional mechanisms one can exploit in a family), the date is set. Summer holliday, the wedding.
All goes according to plan.
That's where the buck stops !
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
What was the game all along?
The guy saw a very pretty fresh teen kid and found himself wanting a brand new, excellent looking, mint condition, f*ckdoll.
Cards played just right, objective attained.
Doll's his now. Enough with the theatrics.
For the wedding night he feigns a backacke. No sex. Too close to parrents.
Next day, they leave for college.
That night, after meeting with his lifelong buddies, left temporarily in the background for completion of said objective, he comes home.
Their home.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
For the sake of efficiency and avoidance of unnecessary headache, he feigns a nice erotic play at first. After her clothes, the main barrier, have been removed, he grabs her by the legs, pulls her near and hust sticks it into her without a second's notice.
No tenderness, no care. He just F*cks her like a dog.
Your little girl.
Then, he keels over and falls asleep, leaving her to deal with the pain and blood and emotional brutality.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
By the time of her next home visit, all her first tears have been cried.
She seems a little upset, but avoids an answer. Too much shame.
They leave for college again.
Strategically, he gives her some space for a few weeks, than one day, comes home and orderes her to strip.
She weakly protests.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
He immediately begins with all the male crap in the world.
"I thought you said you loved me, or was that a woman's deceit, huh?"
"You are my WIFE, act like one !"
"C'mon baby, you know you love me, right"
All the dirt a cold heart can ooze.
And at the first sign she gives in... "Come on, take it in your mouth baby"
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
After coming on her face, his old habit and dream, he slaps her ass a bit, I mean, porn is cool, right? Gulps a beer to have time to reset, spreads her and starts pounding her again.
No emotion, not giving a damn.
Next day, it's anal time.
And she learns to take it quietly.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Your little daughter, whom you carefully protected from harm, gave her a good life and education (but never allowed her to carefully probe life's dirt so she can see and avoid it in time), your little princess is MY unpayed prostitute now.
My F*CKDOLL.
Legally !
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Answer me this question, Answers101, Mr. Big No Pre-Marital Sex Advocate:
When and how did your no pre-marital policy helped prevent the irreversible psychological and emotional disaster in your now 19 YO daughter's life ?
Sex is the new experience I offer, that appears to require trust, my easy way of making her mine.
If she hasn't tasted this poison safely, when law and parents could shield her, if she doesn't know what "big mistery" I offer, she is caught off guard. Every time.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Legally, she is mine now. If she does not file official complaint with the pollice, I can do all my twisted sick fantasies with your daughter.
F*CKDOLL
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Sex is the hook i use to fish and rip her from you.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
But with a girl that already knows the ins and outs of sex and she is in any way free of me by previous life experience...
.
In such case, she easily sees my shine is fake and my core rotten.
She can "smell" me. Experienced woman's instinct. Hard to fool, that one.
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
Answer me, Answer101, how do you plead?
by BlackTomcat on November 12th, 2009
WOW
I dont know what to say other than wow
by zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz on November 12th, 2009