by Anonymous on March 21st, 2005

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Is slapping a 14 month old baby's hand an effective way
teach them not to touch things that shouldn't be touched?

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  • by riffraff814 on March 22nd, 2005

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    Well, it will certainly teach them that it hurts to try to touch those things when you are around. One has to wonder what they think will happen when they touch them when you aren't around.

    Also, it teaches them that hitting is an effective and acceptable means of communication. A lesson that you probably don't want them to learn.

    On balance, I'd say the answer to your question is "no".

    ETA:
    Well, if you can always be there to hit your child rather than have the child learn that electric outlets "bite", or some similar analogy a child can understand, then more power to you and your bruised child. I'd rather teach my child a lesson they will actually carry with them about the power of electricity, instead of a lesson about how they should duck when they see me coming.

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    • sounds reasonable

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on March 25th, 2005

    • You rather have them get electricuted? Slap that hand and say NO, better than a funeral any day!!

      sleeppro

      by sleeppro on May 26th, 2005

    • Right on, riffraff. Excellent points.

      Jodie44

      by Jodie44 on June 30th, 2005

    • Anonymous

      by Anonymous on January 5th, 2006

    • your answer is wrong. spanking a child in the biblical way will teach the child respect and obediance

      free4life79

      by free4life79 on April 22nd, 2006

    • Spanking teaches a child fear and violence. Many of us really don't care what the Bible has to say on the matter.

      AntigoneRising

      by AntigoneRising on December 13th, 2006

    • And I don't think the Bible condones slapping a baby. I don't read "the rod" in the same light.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on December 27th, 2006

    • free4life, you are wrong about what the bible says. It does not say that one should spank his or her child! The verse, "Spare the rod, spoil the child is" is referring to the bible, not spanking! The "rod" is a metaphor for the bible. That is what I and those from my church believe. What kind of loving God would want us to hit our children, especially given that fact that spanking serves only to hurt & destroy. It does nothing positive.

      Sherilane

      by Sherilane on March 22nd, 2007

    • You and your "church" are wrong. The "rod" is NOT a metaphor for the Bible. Think about it. You CANNOT spoil a child by not teaching him or her the Bible. You can lead him to destruction and God will ultimately punish you for that. When God punishes you, he is not trying to "hurt & destroy" you...He's only CORRECTING you. You CAN spoil a child if you don't spank/punish their behinds when they do somthing they have been taught not to do. My son is 18 (recent High School Graduate!!!)and spankings did not "destroy" him. They made him a respectable, productive, positive, proud young man and I plan to raise my 14 month old daughter the same way...not sparing the "rod."

      Shelease

      by Shelease on June 16th, 2009

    • AnigoneRising, you and the "many" who "don't care what the bible says on the matter" probably don't really need to be raising children...

      Shelease

      by Shelease on June 16th, 2009

    • Are you saying that the only way to raise children is to raise them according to the bible? Fine, I'll exile my teenage daughter from the house whenever she gets her period.

      I wouldn't slap a kid. A firm verbal warning should suffice. Especially if this is their first time trying to touch something off-limits, they don't know they're doing anything wrong. Punishing a child for something he doesn't know is wrong seems unfair. Always give a warning first.

      donnala

      by donnala on May 31st, 2010

    • I Agree with riffraff.

      This is how I learned. I have no problem with it. After all, this is why outlet proofs exist. And As about the stove. No one ever died. My mother is 63...and she has been burned so many times...That she doesn't feel it anymore. I Admire her (only for that).

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