by battlecat on April 10th, 2004

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My boyfriend refers to me as his 'friend' when he talks to his ex-girlfriend, who has since married. He acknowledges to her that he's "seeing someone," but we've been dating for 2.5 years. Does this seem weird to anyone else?

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  • by frankied on March 21st, 2005

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    Yes, strange. Subconsciously, he still has feelings for this ex-girlfriend - and the question is why are they still in a relationship? It's likely that her marriage is in trouble (a successful wife should be wise enough to let go of her previous partners), and there is sufficient reason to believe that when it fails, your boyfriend has positioned himself to be next in line.

    By saying you are his "friend" is diminishing any guilt she might have in interfering with your relationship.

    This may be considered leacherous; a deadly sin.

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    • I was thinking the same thing. It sounds as if he's still in love with the other woman.

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      by Answers101 on April 19th, 2006

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