by CleverlyPut on December 3rd, 2006

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What's your darkest secret?

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  • by CDaws on December 3rd, 2006

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    Even though I'm sure my ratings will go down the drain and everyone will never trust me again as well as hate to see me still alive... I'm a pedophile/paedophile. I've never acted on it, am trusty of my will to never do so, and have commited myself to see a doctor weekly.

    Unfortunetely, I've noticed many people see things in black or white...there never seems to be a gray area in life any more--you either ARE or you AREN'T.

    I'll keep this answer for a week and not answer or ask any other questions as a personal test to see the effects of truth. :)

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    • Good rating from me, and a well done to you.

      anonymous

      by anonymous on December 3rd, 2006

    • Oh, and I still trust you just as much as I did before, for the record, and am glad there are people like you alive.

      anonymous

      by anonymous on December 3rd, 2006

    • Fair play to you. I agree with boredasmustard also

      Hyper

      by Hyper on December 3rd, 2006

    • You have no idea how much love and respect I have for you right now sYmboL

      anonymous

      by anonymous on December 3rd, 2006

    • Wow, that is honest. I also trust you.

      anonymous

      by anonymous on December 5th, 2006

    • I am a big believer in grey areas! I don't think there is anything wrong with thinking about things (that is one thing I would NEVER think about, but with my past that is probably not much of a surprise!) and good on you for getting help, just stick with it and always try to think about how much long term emotional damage you would do if you ever did do it, plus the people with baseball bats that would visit IF you did do it.

      Psyonic

      by Psyonic on December 5th, 2006

    • That took a lot of balls to say. Now I know to stay away from you. +3 for your honesty.

      Coheed

      by Coheed on December 5th, 2006

    • I will agree with Coheed, I'll rate you up for honesty.

      navyvet1

      by navyvet1 on December 5th, 2006

    • You don't have to stay away from sYmboL. He sees a doctor weekly, and he's a strong guy, he won't do anything. It's the people who aren't getting help you have to worry about coheed

      anonymous

      by anonymous on December 5th, 2006

    • It takes a strong person to control urges that they don't believe are right and it takes even stronger character to seek help from a professional. Everyone has some type of weakness, it's part of being human. Keep seeing your doctor and pray to God for help to control your urges. God wants to help you resist these inclinations.

      Wendora

      by Wendora on December 6th, 2006

    • Shit. That must really suck. Props for admiting it.

      CalvinCD

      by CalvinCD on December 6th, 2006

    • It's hard to come up with a better illustration of the basic moral principle: it's bad ACTIONS that matter, not THOUGHTS. Of course, it's best to not "entertain" those thoughts (don't take them out to dinner!).

      Stableboy

      by Stableboy on December 9th, 2006

    • Yep, big difference between thoughts and actions, I have NEVER been unfaithful to my wife and I hope that I never will, but that does not mean I have never done any window shopping!

      Psyonic

      by Psyonic on December 9th, 2006

    • Exactly.

      Stableboy

      by Stableboy on December 9th, 2006

    • Although you harbour these thoughts do you have normal sexual relations with women?

      Firebrand

      by Firebrand on January 15th, 2007

    • I think you can really only be classified if you act apon the thoughts

      Firebrand

      by Firebrand on January 15th, 2007

    • I admire your honesty. I was ecpecting to come to the page and see a series of stupid answers, but this one is amazing. Points are in order and if I could give you a hug, you'd definitely have it and a couple pats on the back just for good measure ;)

      Tinkabelle

      by Tinkabelle on January 15th, 2007

    • Much kudos for the honesty. i think a lot of people don't realise that there is a big difference between feeling something and acting on it, and that you can't change the desires etc you have.

      btw, Firebrand: A paedophile is just someone who finds children attractive, a pederast is someone who acts on it.

      weezypops

      by weezypops on February 16th, 2007

    • the plain truth... +2 ;)

      hitokaji

      by hitokaji on January 6th, 2009

    • that is the first step in admitting it. I do hope you aren't making this up, and I pray for you to get better. Keep us posted on how the doctors visits are coming.. good luck to you

      fantasy child

      by fantasy child on June 17th, 2009

    • Very brave, and good that you have control over your darker side, we all have one that needs to be kept in check. +

      The Scotsman

      by The Scotsman on June 18th, 2009

    • Knowing you want something you should never have & living with that want is far harder than just acting on it. I wish I could know you better your will is like an oak if all you say is true. The things I want are other womens husbands. I have acted on it a few times & have no guilt. Only shame.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on July 9th, 2009

    • I understand the want of someone else. (weather married or not) What I find shame in, is the way I allow others to treat me, because I want them so badly.. after a few years I have no idea how to end it, so I stay..

      fantasy child

      by fantasy child on July 9th, 2009

    • I admire your sense of right and wrong mate. Please stay strong - that way you wont create any victims or ruin lives. It must be tough to live like that, well done for doing so.

      stuart

      by stuart on August 20th, 2009

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