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by Nninee on April 23rd, 2011

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My husband and I are young. We have been married 1 year and haven't had sex in 5 months. I feel like he doesn't desire me anymore. Advice?

I am 20, fit and pretty. My husband just can't get it up around me. The rest of our relationship is great, but he either rejects me or is disinterested in being intimate with me. I've told him I feel terrible about it, but we end up fighting and I feel like I can't bring it up anymore. All I get from him is an occasional nipple flick. I've tried being naughty, being sweet, etc. Nothing gets a reaction from him and I end up feeling foolish and undesirable. I don't understand why this is happening. Please advise if you have experienced something similar.

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  • by Athrael on April 24th, 2011

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    Does he work? How is the financial situation in your home? Money is the biggest sex killer out there. If money is strained, and if not but the future is uncertain if you and/or he will end up without an income it can cause stress that can kill anyone's libido.

    There are medical reasons that could be the underlying cause. Good luck trying to get him to see a doctor... most men who have problems 'down there' are not going to see a doctor.

    While there are a few 'mechanical' problems that a young man can suffer from to cause ED, most cases is emotional/mental illness that leads to the problem 'down there'.

    Since he is unwilling to discuss this with you, you may have to pull out the D word... divorce.

    However don't threaten Divorce if you can not or will not carry through with the threat.

    Until he is ready to talk, I fear we can't actually answer the problem nor give any real advice on how to pursue and 'fix' the problem.

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