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by Blingblong20 on February 19th, 2011

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Should I trust my boyfriend?

How I found out about it is I got a text from him and it said " baby you mean document". I confronted him about it and he said it was not a big deal.He also kept avoiding the subject. He brought up his ex girlfriend that lives in a different country. They've been dating for a year and they broke up because she moved. I recently found out that he lied about his real facebook. And that's another way I found out that that he still had feelings for his ex. He still won't add me on his real facebook. He says that he'll have his ex call me and we'll talk. I don't want to talk to her. I'm afraid he still has feelings for her. He also said that last time they talked, they exchanged two messages and the last one she didn't respond back to him. We've been dating for almost 2 months now.

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  • by DorkPangs on February 19th, 2011

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    It was wrong of him to keep that from you. Personally, if he had done something like that to me, I would've been very upset. Admittedly, you've been dating for two months, but once you guys got past the whole 'finding out about you' stage, he should've told you.

    Also, you shouldn't have to talk to this ex of his. If he really wants to make it work with you, he needs to tell you himself about the situation, and not make someone else do it. He owes it to you, as a partner in the relationship.

    Trust is very important in a relationship, and if you can't trust him, you really can't be with him in any meaningful way. It's only going to make you more miserable, because you'll always be questioning what you really mean to him and if he's really doing what he says he's doing.

    My two cents? Dump him, and find someone willing to be honest with you. Though, maybe you might figure out how to make it work with him, I personally wouldn't.

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