Anyone here 'afraid' of having kids?
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Too late now, have got 6
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i never wanted children - i leave it up to others - besides they are way too expensive
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i was untill i had one. a lot of whats. what if i don't have enough money what if ther is some thing wronge with it, what if i'm not a good mom. but now that he's here i'm no longer scared of having it just wha tif he falls or at night is he brathing and i check on him every couple of hours.
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no. but if you're 20 and a man thats pretty freaking normal dont sweat it. It took my b/f til he was 31 to realize it wasnt THAT scary.
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Yep im gonna adopt or not have a kid at all
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Be afraid...be very afraid No, seriously. It's nothing to fear. I have three and I still have a full head of hair. lol
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No. I just don't want them.
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I'm not afraid. I just don't want them.
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i got two boys and one girl, my daughter changed my life kids are awesome
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If you mean labor, then yes. I love being pregnant and I love my babies though! Wouldn't trade them for the world.
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I'm a tad bit worried about the pain... I think I'll leave it until I'm like 30.
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Mostly I'm afraid of post natal depression (which seems a likely outcome for me) and regretting the decision to have it/them forever. I think it's quite normal to be worried, as it is to decide you don't want the hassle of children. It seems a lot to put yourself through for the sake of what? Passing your DNA on?
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Actually, no. I want kids someday, not right now! Eventually, once I have things settled more in my life. :)
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Mortified. I see how people unfit to have them pop them out like they are collecting pokemons or something. I see how kids sometimes act today. I see how my brother and sister who both have kids struggle and constantly have a headache and have very little free time, I see the strain it is on their relationship and finances. To me I just don't see what anyone gets out of having kids. I'm 33 and haven't had kids yet, my relationship is great with my gf (going on 10 yrs now) we have free time and money to do things and we can be spontaneous and have fun...why ruin that?
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I wouldn't want to bring children into this world because I would hate to see them go through pain or have anything bad happen to them. This is inevitable of course, which is why I won't give it the chance.
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Yes. The way kids are today, I don't want my kids to be thrown into that mix. Teenage girls wanting to get pregnant. Talking like Paris Hilten. Looking like they should be standing on a corner, offering their services... However, I don't want to feel the need to shelter them, either.
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No, I'm not afraid. It's great to see them growing up into independent individuals. And it's great to be able to help equip them for facing the world without making all the same mistakes as their parents did :-)
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Oh yes. I know enough about motherhood, to know how awful it can be.
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no... i actually REALLLLLLY want some right now.. :(
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Since I'm a man and the medical community hasn't found a way for us to concieve and give birth then the answer would be no......................
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I already have two and YES I am "afraid" of having more. My fiance was born with a cleft palate and so was one of my sons. I couldnt bare the thought of watching my child go through all those operations again.
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Nope. My wife and I are very excited about having kids as soon as we're ready.
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Yes! But we had two of them anyway. They are in their twenties, so the fear has subsided ... somewhat. ;-)
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I get a little stressed about having them or not having them. Its a done deal either way.
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Yep but I already had one. Hell of a thing how that worked out.
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I was terrified. I had a completely miserable childhood and at 14 i remember walking home and deciding not to have children because I couldn't in all conscience put anyone else through the misery I'd known. Later a girlfriend did think she was pregnant and I was completely terrified. She miscarried which was tragic for her. Later I was happily married and we were considering a baby. then cancer put paid to that.
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Not at all. I love the idea of having someone to pass my knowledge and self to. Of course I'll wait until I'm older, because if it was during highschool THEN I would be scared lol. But once I'm settled down, I would love to have kids.
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Well I'm a teen, but I'm not afraid. I asked my mother a lot about child birth and kids- now I can't wait to find my true love and have a baby.
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Im way afraid of having kids, the pain, the raising them what to do what not to do ahhhhhh!!!! tehe
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