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  • he's manipulating you into doing what he wants, not what you want. Stop having sex with him and take back control of yourself! Edit: It takes a special kind of ASSHOLE to come back to an answer that is almost 4 months old and rate it spam.
  • Obviously he isn't emotionally mature enough to be in an intimate relationship.
  • There are several disturbing statements in your question. l5 is too young for sex...period. Its your body. no one can tell you what you can and cannot do with it. your boyfriend is playing the sympathy card in order to achieve a roll in the hay with you. and, broadcasting the event, shows absolutely no respect for you. when you lose your reputation, you have lost everything. Put a definite halt on the sex. if your boyfriend cannot wait for you, without sex, he is not worth being with. save yourself. Like i said, its your body and controlling your desires and his urges, is the key. tell him of your concerns. if he shows no interest. forget him. its your reputation....good or bad, it will haunt you the rest of your life.
  • Fiteen is too young to be sexually active. Also the fact that he's sharing these details with his friends is not right and IS manipulative. I say to stop having sex with him and if this means the end of the relp, so be it! Regardless, I hope you're protecting yourself from STD's and using birth control.
  • I had a guy do this too me.. only i was 14. He was also older than me. Nothing wrong with the age diiferance.I told him how it made me feel and that i didn't like it and i wish he would want to hang out and not just have sex. I also asked him if thats all i was to him.. just a sex toy. After i talked to him about it and told him if it kept going on that we would have to be over. He stoped and now i think he understands that i dont like being treated like some toy.
  • Stop having sex with him....no guy is worth it if he wont respect your decsion
  • At age 15 you shouldn't only stop having sex with him. But you ought to consider stopping completely. The goal should be wait till marriage. Nothing good can come out of having sex at this point. You have so much learning to do about love and relationships. Having sex now could likely prevent you from truly understanding what these things should be. At this age it is very easy to be blinded, decieved into believing that sex and love are the same, when in fact they are completely independent of one another. If you interested in being treated with genuine affection and respect and feel that you must date, I'd recomend that you find a new boyfriend who understands that you are not interested in a physical relationship. You deserve someone who is not selfish as your b/f appears to be.
  • I don't think this is really a guy you should be having a relationship. Most men (and a lot of women) try to persuade their partners to have sex when they don't feel like it at some point, that's human nature- but this has gone one step beyond. He's manipulating you emotionally into doing something you don't want to do, he's being insensitive to your feelings, and using you as something he can use to boast to his mates about. He's not treating you like a girlfriend, he's treating you as a thing he can use as a sex toy and a badge of honour. Do you really want to take a relationship with someone who treats you like this any further? You could be getting yourself into something very messy indeed- if he'll manipulate you into sex in such an insensitive manner he could soon start manipulating you into other things (I've seen young people persuaded to carry out robberies on their parents house by so called girlfriends/ boyfriends of a very similar character to yours). You need to get out before you lose yourself and your sense of self-respect completely. Get out of the relationship. You will find someone who respects you for who you are, and doesn't use you to further their own selfish ends. It may take a little while true, but I honestly believe youu're better off on your own with the freedom to be yourself than with this sorry excuse for a teenage boy.
  • get rid of him if hes gonna do that. I got tons of guy friends that are like that, its easy to say no, if you trust them enough that is. If youre afraid of him hittign you or something if you say no, id really get away. He doesnt need to brag, i slapped my last boyfriend for telling his little buddies at ROTC about what we did.
  • Tell his freinds that he is not very good in the sack, then dump him like a bad habit.
  • IM NOT GOING TO TELL YOU THAT YOUR STUPID AND THAT YOU SHOULDNT HAVE HAD SEX WITH HIM LIKE EVERYONE ELSE ON HERE..but i am going to tell you that you should only have sex if YOU want to..not him..only have sex if you think you are ready for it..take control of yourself hunny and just tell him straight up =)
  • Most guys talk alot anyway even older ones,just let him know that it bothers you.
  • he's an assohole who is all about his ego and getting it on with anybody who is willing to. if they say "if u luved me ud do it" u just say "and YOU loved ME ud respect my feelings" end it, i say.
  • not to judge you, but i feel like 15 is to young to be having sex in the first place. besides that, it sounds to me like your boyfriend is using you. i would get rid of him, you need to be with someone who repects you.
  • 1) grow a back bone 2) stop having sex 3) break up with the guy
  • Stop having sex with him. Period. He has nothing to talk about if you don't do it, and nothing to pressure you for if he knows you won't give it. He'll get the message.
  • guys this age are very high ego..(sp?) they want to do things ten just go brag about what they've done. its just how they are at this age. personally 15 is a little young to be having sex in the first place but do what you think is right, if you lvoe him talk to him aobut it, but if not you need to stop letting him have his way.
  • Number one what you are doing is illegal. At 15 you cannot consent to sexual activity at all. This is statutory rape. Number two this is sexual abuse. If you don't want to do it and he's forcing or manipulting you into doing it it's rape by coercion. Your boyfriend is a sexual preditor. Number three having sex at 15 is mentally and emmoitionally damaging. This goes double if you get pregnant. In fact getting pregnant at your age could kill you and the baby. The number one killer of teenage girls is complications from pregnancy and childbirth. Number five no guy who loves a girl would do to what he is doing. Not the manipulation and not the bragging. So, have I given you enough reasons to stop having sex with this jerk and dump him yet? Or do you need more details of where this could lead? Like the fact that if you stay with him this could very well lead to a rape by force or other forms of phsysical abuse. I can tell you right now there is no way you are going to get this to stop if you don't leave him now.
  • Stop having sex with him. You are too young to be engaging in it. He is not worth being around. Find a friend, not someone who is going to pressure you into having sex with him.
  • If your friends mention it than tell them he realy was not that good at it. the word will get back to him and he may think twice about manipulating you
  • At your age what did you expect - you know that at 15 your asking for trouble in more than one way -
  • Break up with the A-hole
  • Almost everyone about me is saying it's your body, do what you want, but don't be sexually active! Contradiction? Yes, yes. I say you want to have sex, have sex. But do it because you want to, not because someone else wants you to.
  • It seems the guy doesn't have any respet for you at all. You or anyone for that matter do not deserve speople with such extreme sense of inferirority complex. By what you mentioned it is very obivous that this guy not only suffers from inferiority complext but also has no respect for you or your feelings. He is acting like a pig and deserves a nice kick on his rotten stinky ass. Do it fast, please?
  • He's to immature to be Having sex. This is probably going to sound like bad advice but try going for someone older, maybe 18 or 19. There USUALLY not as manipulative.
  • It sounds as if he's a major bunghole, and that's not something you can talk him out of. Is that the type of guy you want to go out with?
  • you are toooo young to be having sex......wait 3 yrs, and i am sure that some guy will be around who will treat you better....take care....Brian....
  • Just tell him to stop. If you dont want to have sex dont and if you don't want his friends knowing about your personal life tell him not to tell them.
  • If you dont feel like having sex with him, dont feel pressured to do anything. You are in control of your life and to him you are only a booty call. There is no relationship, just sex. And he will be sticking his dick in the next female that comes his way after you. Move on honey, you are young. I didn't lose my virginity until I was in college. Partly because I didnt feel I was ready to have sex. And no one could force that decision on me to have sex. Follow your heart. Don't assist him in his pleasures if he doesnt pay you back. I hated sex because I felt it was a chore. Don't worry, in time you will find the right guy who will treat you right and sex will not be an important issue.
  • REALLY? do you really need to ask what you should do? You know what you should do!
  • Your being used honey. You just don't know it because you are too young. To get him to stop you need to stop. You should have already done it a long time ago.
  • You and your boyfriend are silly. He playing you like a fool . We want to fuck you and you are giving it to him. If you say no then he should respect that if not you should respect yourself and say tough luck.
  • You didn't state how much you love him.If its not a serious relationship,than dump him.It is not acceptable for him to tell his friends about what you did.But if you love him,than don't let your relationship to weaken just beause the sex thing.Most of the couples have problems about sex.Yours is simple;you think it is not the time.He should wait until you feel ready.Of course,use protection,I reccomend condoms when you deciede to have sex.This is more important than you two being young for sex.
  • Don't allow your boyfriend to do what he wants. There's should be a boundary and limtation for all relationship. Sex is allowed only for married couples, but of course in todays time sex was common for all relationship. But with your age, sex is not at all advisable.So learn to say "NO" if he's upset then it is up to him...Look for a guy who will respect you and care for you.
  • Girls should date trees instead of boys, if it were not for the wood pecker. Girls get a clue, men like woman, because men like sex. No sex = Guy goes fishing.
  • you can't just stop having sex your 2 younge..and there isnt going to be very much of a future anyway..so just quit
  • To get him to stop just tell him that the stuff you do behind closed doors should stay between you and him. Also you should tell him that you feel uncomfortable with his friends knowing what you guys do when you are alone together behind closed doors. But if he doesn`t stop then maybe he`s not the right person to be with.
  • How long have you been doing it with him? That is what most guys want all the time too
  • Tell his parents
  • you should definitely tell him that the sex is over! first your to young. He is using you, as well as telling his buddies to make himself look good for getting it. I am sure this is embarrassing you alot. HOW much tho.ugh? You continue to have sex, with him even though it sounds like you really dont want to. I know you have heard the expression JUST SAY NO! I know alot of teenage mothers who wish now that they had just said no, Birth control, is not an ok to have sex, from your parents. IT's protection just in case. There are many disease's out here in this world we live in, whether it's a teenager having sex with someone, who has had sex with someone who has an STD or an adult who is doing the same, the results are the same, It can and will be damaging to any future relationships you might have.
  • A 16 year old guy is going to want to have alot of sex, and he is going to talk about it alot. Best thing to do would be to set some ground rules. Easiest way to do it would be to be kind of funny about it. Example: If he tells his friends the details, then he gets no sex for 3 days. Be careful having that much sex at 15 in particular though. My GF had a pregnancy scare at 17 and that was bad enough. But back to the point, If he is not mature enough to see that talking about all the dirty details is a bad thing, then put him in the dog house
  • let him get mad your no ones trophy what you & him do is your business not every body elses
  • dump him and stop having sex. he doesnt respect you, and you are'nt respecting yourself. if you keep giving it up, you will become known as a slut, if you arent already.
  • youre too young to have sex, let him get upset, i would dump him, you dont need to get pregnant at your age

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