ANSWERS: 36
  • If he is a new BF and doing that sort of thing already, I would forget him and be thankful that I hadn't invested (wasted) any more time in the relationship. It is probably a glimpse of the future.
  • Do what you feel is best,if you want to try again and give him another change, then do it,if not dump him,cry a little,be depressed a little,then move on with your life.
  • If it was a "PoP" tart, let it slide. Otherwise, kick his butt to the curb! Nip it in the bud!
  • I think that you should make him an old boyfriend.
  • chuck him out of the window, thats the least you can do :)
  • Oh I think I'd throw this one back
  • The key is that he is a NEW BOYFRIEND and by tart, I am guessing you are not talking about a pastry. I'm going to toss in some tough love here. Walk away. There are others out there that won't bounce from bed to bed. Give him the boot, and make sure you tell him about your herpes/hepitis/other made up disease, and tell his that he really tell his new girlfriend that she should get tested. Make up something! Tell him that you have ebonics and that he and his new friend should get tested. That should really make her question her relations with him, and make him realize that people don't like to be screwed around on. Yes, it's a bit mean, but I'm guessing your both young and this is just one of those learning experiences you'll walk away and learn from. Chin up little buckaroo, there is better out there.
  • When you say "try again" you don't mean give him another chance, do you? Move on to someone who can be honorable, faithful and on whom you can depend to be truthful! :)
  • cya later and tell him you hope he doesn't get the STD you just found out about....the doctor said you should inform all your partners. he is a loser!!!! he just lost you.
  • You call this other woman a tart but do you know that she had any idea you existed? He made a commitment to you not her and he is the one who should stand judged for his decision. Whether you give him a second chance or not is a decision only you can make, but realise that you are taking a huge risk and protect yourself.
  • He's a new boyfriend and already in bed with someone else? Forget him.
  • Well if he does it once he will do it again. Besides how many times has he done this without being caught. Apperently this boy likes to roam and does not like to commit to a relationship. You must also understand the heritant risk associated with this behavior, don't be a unintended victim. You will know without a doubt when the right one comes along, so when in doubt don't commit.
  • Whoah. you should already have forgotten about him.
  • all i gotta say is * S C R E W HIM ***
  • Staffie, please say this is some kind of joke.
  • Staffie- you've been here a while. You've answered questions like this before. What would you say if I asked this question? You would say something about how stupid it would be to try again and find someone better. So now, why would you think something different for yourself??? Forget this cheating piece of dog sh*t left out in the sun for too long and get a real man. One that isn't a selfish bastard!
  • I can't actually believe that you want to take the cheating pig back! Are you nuts? He cheated on you! He will cheat again. Don't you deserve someone better that won't lie and cheat? Don't you deserve to be respected??
  • once a cheater always a cheater get rid!
  • No, just stay with him and while your at it stand in front of a speeding freight train! That's not nice of me to say but it's kind of the equivelent...ya see??
  • FORGET HIM!!!!! I mean, you cant be as stupid as believe thaat he was in bed with someone and that it wasnt his fault!
  • Dump...
  • Staffie I am very sorry but he is a jerk, get out fast.
  • Don't try again, you don't need that kind of bf..I am sorry that you were hurt. :)
  • stay with him hes the best thing thats ever going to happen to you YOUR A TART!!!!!
  • are you kidding me? you're not even a married woman asking if she should work things out with a husband because you have kids but you just started seeing this guy...i wouldnt bother with him anymore. He's a cheater and doesnt really respect you.
  • I'm sorry, anyone who cheats on me isn't worth my time. I've been in a relationship with someone who (I'm 99% sure) cheated on me and lied to me. Needless to say, I dumped the cheater!
  • Forget him now! Screw around on you once-shame on him. Screw around on you twice-shame on you.
  • DROP him like a HOT POTATOE!!
  • Staffie sorry I didn't see this before until now and only because a new member ressurected it. I don't know if you are still with this guy or not. Hopefully you dumped him. I have seen quite a few of your posts and it seems like if it wasn't for bad luckj you would have no luck with men. I seem to recall you talking about this happening with the last guy you were with unless I have you confused with someone else. I hope if you have left this guy that you one day find a guy who will treat you as you deserve to be treated.
  • Wow, most females I know would have beat the crap out of a cheating boyfriend, and the tart, too! My sympathy to you for having such low esteem, that you can think its okay to be with a cheater who could expose you to STD's... Besides he sounds like a real trustworty bloke, if you ask me.
  • Get rid of him! This shouldn't be a question, you know you deserve better.
  • if he is new it shouldnt be that hard to get rid of him. and if he does that right at the beginning of the relationship it might only get worse.
  • I think it's time to move on.
  • if he is so dumb as to let that happen you are undoubtedly better off without him-starting immediately. tell him why-cheating is one thing-cheating in a situation where you can get caught in the act by you s/o is horribly selfish, self-distructive and stupid-not to mention insulting to you.
  • Do you have an exclusive relationship? If not, time for a big talk, and an immediate decision on your part. You need to figure out what your boundaries are, and what you will allow in our life that will make you happy, or keep you from being happy.
  • be smart-forget him

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