ANSWERS: 66
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Ummm... I'm not quite sure how to phrase this, but in most relationships, the biggest problem always seems to be that the guy thinks he might be in the relationship with me for the wrong reasons...
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After a while I just get tired of Most of the people I date (seems not to be happening now though, I might have actually met someone I can deal with XD)
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i think it is as simple as BOREDOM.
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too generous
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I don't pick up on social cues, so I have a tendency to be involved with pushy, needy men because they are so obvious in their attraction to me. I can't recognize the attraction of normal, decent men. Only unhappy emotional vacumes.
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The moment you start taking each other for granted, you realize you are in for a problem. To keep a relationship fresh and interesting you should always show that you care and is interested. Otherwise, it will simply lose its charm and wear off.
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i find myself getting bored of the person around the 1 month mark
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the biggest problem is not knowing what you really need, and go into a relationship thinking you will change them or they will change... or they were pretending to be what they aren't to catch a mate... that sucks too...
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Apparently I am "too nice."
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I say I have commitment issues, when really i just have an issue with me calling them unless they've called me, umm...they guy has to tell me they want to be in a relationship with me...they can't assume and i seem to always get those guys...also i seem to date guys that have WAY too much emotional baggage...
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I think my expectations are too high regarding just about everything. I really like the idea of traditional roles, but can't find someone smart enough for me to trust with them making decisions that effect my life.
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Communication. I do my darnedest to communicate how I feel and be open and clear, but being on the receiving end of ambiguity and unclear expectations leads to a lot of conflict.
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i tend to keep things bottled up inside and not let them know what im thinking for fear of rejection or being made fun of maybe
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I DON'T KNOW WHAT HEAD TO THINK WITH?
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HUGE lack of communication.
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not enough time in the day!
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My mouth.
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Running away from them...
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communication and understanding!!!!
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misunderstanding and dishonesty
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always getting caught on a lie!!! you know how the saying goes once a liar always a liar.... yup i really think thats true, is juts sometime i cant help it....
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Forbidden love. Not being allowed to date/have a boyfriend.
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ME!
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Not being able to see each other as much as we would like to.
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The biggest problem is I no longer have a relationship in the normal sense.
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Romantic relationships, hm...I'm a jelous type. Very possessive. That's not usually good. I also enjoy a good screaming match now and them.
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i date jerks. my friends tell me they are jerks but i dont listen, and always wind up hurt
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I always end up with control freaks!!But im going to break the cycle soon :)
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I'm a little boring, and a little too grown up for BOYS my age (20s). It seems they are all very interested in video games over reality. It's tiring. And because I'm not into it, I'm boring. I got to work and school every day and I don't have ENOUGH time for them. I just want a nice, normal guy that has a job and I can take home to my parents. Is that so much to ask?
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I'm selfish.
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My little willy.
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sometimes i can be a bit of a brat. I think i behave the best ever in this relationship i am in now. I am less selfish. I am a jealous person. I hate that about me.
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..I attract ASSHOLES. I'm too open with my feelings. Men play too many games. They tell me what I want to "hear" so they can drag me along. I'm over it. I'm one bitter chick now. Stronger though
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I think I have a target on my forehead that says asswholes cheaters and freaks date me. I'm a good person (so my shrink says) I work hard I take care of my two kids I can be serious when I absolutely have to. I don't get it. I get used a lot and now I'm to the point where I'm turning guys down so i don't have to deal with it all. I don't hate men. I just don't need them to make me feel whole anymore.
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I'm scared to death to stay in one for too long.
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I expect them to be mind readers - If I have certain looks on my face they should automatically know what I want, need or insist! :-)
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I have no problems, they do :)
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My biggest problem in relationships would be keeping the actual relationship alive. This usually happens because of a lack of conversation though...
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I would half to say jelousy issues, and keeping fully satisfied with them, even if you spend alot of time with them.
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My insecurities, lack of confidence, depression.
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That I think I can change how my partner feels about me. That if I do enough I can make him love me when in reality you cannot change anyone but yourself.
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i dont date girls who dwell on there looks, money, or have slept with 5 or more men, plus they gota have a good personality and not act ghetto. so its kind of a problem to be in one when they act that way plus im more of a commited person in a relationship and most women my age aren't to commited.
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The people I have been in relationships with have been the biggest problem..I seem to have a sign on my forehead that says use abuse and cheat on me please..LMAO
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I am kinda clingy I think
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Expecting adult (35-40) women to be as open, free, giving and unscarred as my first love was. I think after a while people just start prioritizing protecting themselves over everything else and deep down it's about convenience, expectations, fears--anything but love. Growing up sucks.
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My biggest problem is trust i have had many bad experiences that deals with trust that now its hard for me to trust people. Which really sucks! :
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managing expectations...
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getting one!
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trust - i either trust them and then i get screwed over - or they dont trust me and i tell them to take a hike
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trust and jealousy
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my relationships go fine untill i tell them i want to be a Navy SEAL and go to war. Does anyone think i should give up that dream?
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jealousy
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I find myself wanting things to be too perfect. I end up hurting girls that i don't want to hurt b/c I feel that it wouldn't work out, i sometimes question it, but tell myself not to. I re-think and tell myself I'm doing the right thing by leaving. I've always wondered if I had a good thing and let it slip, or if I just haven't found "the one" yet.
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I'm a man, and that's wrong. I'm sorry.
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trust
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....truSt and misunderstanding...
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having them around all the time. I can't stand when they never go do other things. I want my alone time and time to relax and also go and do thing with friends.
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Trust issues, and not getting along!
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currently in the relationship i am in my boyfriend likes to go out and have a few drinks with friends. now keep this in mind... he never knows anyone but his buddy and his buddy's girlfriend and he is not the person to talk to new people he doesnt know. now my boyfriend doesnt want me to go out without him because he donesnt want guys coming up to me talking to me. i dont want him to go because i worry about girls and his safty because he never drives. his buddy's girlfriend does and she normally drinks. he knows that i dont want him to go out and still does it. it causes conflict between us and drives me insane. i actually worry to the point to where i start crying. he knows i love him and i dont go out and even have given up other things to please him but he cant give up one thing? ugh idk!
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My willingness to open up. My ex from a long time ago had what I thought was MY daughter. A DNA test proved after she was born that she wasn't mine. She had cheated on me with her ex and she was his. Completely crushed me. Ever since, my trust and willingnes to open up to women only goes so far. Every woman I have dated has told me that it always seems like there is something more about me they don't know and that I always seem mysterious no matter how long we are together. I admit it's true, and it's something i'm trying to work on, but what my ex did to me put a huge hole through me, and it's been hard for me to trust women completely.
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trust.
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Staying interested and enthusiastic about it.
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communication and trust.
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I want to be smothered when I want to be smothered. Not when they want it. Then I just bite and get pissy.
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Only one problem, nothing else.
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Its never been my problem. It was always their problem. Lies and all kind of bullsh*t on their part.
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