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  • There's no 'should' about it. But if his mother is a big part of his life, and you sense that he's avoiding the introduction, it may be a good idea to ask him what's going on. Asking us is pretty useless: we've never met her either.
  • Don't take it personally if a guy doesn't introduce you to his mother. Some guys, myself included, don't really get along with their parents and would prefer not to expose someone they care about to their family problems. However, if he is in good standing with his mother, you will probably be introduced within 2-3 months. This estimate is based on the average guy. All of this is dependent on several factors though: distance he lives from home (1000 miles will seriously delay introduction), his job (time available to take the trip), and his age (younger guys are quicker to introduce girls to their moms).
  • thats up to him
  • Assuming he has a reasonably good relationship with his mother, it doesn't require air fare to see her, and your relationship with him is pretty serious I would say from 1 to 3 years. Maybe less but if you haven't met her after about 3 years tell him you would like to meet her and see what happens.
  • IMHO there is no specific length of time. I'd say it depends on how serious the relationship is. That is the key question. Plus his relationship with his mother. Plus what about his father? Is only one parent still living?

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