ANSWERS: 100
  • No, you don't need to. What you sould be thinking about is your schooling, and completing it on a high. Do not worry about those things, I think you are influenced by television and your friends around you.
  • no. dont. you dont want to end up as a 15 year old mom,do you? concentrate on better things and dont let peers pressure you to do it.
  • Here is a summarized version of what I teach my kids: Sex can be a life or death decision. It can also be a decision that can possibly injure you and/or someone else. It can also result in bringing another life into the world - a life that will be affected by the security and maturity of it's parents. I also like to teach my kids that sex can be a wonderful thing under the right circumstances for people who understand how to protect their bodies. Sex shouldn't be shameful or feared, or with someone who is forceful or manipulative. With that said, we can all agree that sex is an activity for responsible adults, who understand how to take care of themselves both physically and emotionally. I tell my kids that I would prefer for them to make this decision when they are adults (sometime after 18 years of age and after graduating highschool), but if they should choose to have sex before then, I promise not to shame them or even judge them as long as they protect themselves. Even though I know I would be sad if this happens, I believe it would be so much worse if someone came home with an STD, a baby, or HIV.
  • No, that would be a very bad idea.
  • 14 is very young. it's actually illegal. don't get rapped up in it so young, there is plenty of living yet.
  • No. I know you don't want to hear this but you're not emotionally ready for that level of intimacy. It may not seem like such a big deal to you now, but when you find the one you want to be with for the rest of your life, you'll realize how special a thing sex can be, and you'll wish you had waited so you could share this special gift with them and them alone. I know I wish I'd waited.
  • Having sex at 14? NO! Do not even think of that. The life is ahead of you, so take it easy. If you think that you should because all of your friends had it, it doesn't mean that you should. Being the same as every1, well any1 can do it. But can you be urself and try living life without trying to copy others? think about it. Do not push it at such age. =)
  • Thats a big NO NO. I dont even know why you would even think about doing it. At 14 years old, you should be concentrating on school. The risks involved of having sex at an early age is very high. Apart from HIV/AIDS, there is the possibility of pregnancy. Would you get an abortion if you had a child? As a middle school student, are you financially equipped to support the baby? You will be overwhelmed with so much responsiblities as a young teenager. You have to weigh the consequences for your actions. Think before you act. Always think.
  • There is no certain age when starting to have sex is ok. 14 is not mature enough to handle the emotional aspects of sex. There are more important things in you life at your age that you should be thinking about right now.
  • Nononononono.Some guys are unscrupulous when it comes to virgins. Another notch on the bed post. You need to focus on education. becoming sexually active is not a teenage rite of passage.Its what committed couples do to express their love for each other, and even though you may feel you are in a committed relationshihp- you really arent. Women have more to lose from early sexual activity. You could get pregnant- and the guy will flee faster than you can blink. Then what? Abort your first child? i know women who have done that and regret it. Then the altewrnative is you will be 15, a single mom and your life will more of a challenge than it has to be. Be a teenager. Go to the movies, study, build a foundation for your future. Have some respect for yourself and that body you have to live in for the rest of your life.You can always have sex later when you are ready.
  • Absolutely not! Wait. Wait as long as you can. Plus, you are asking this question, so you can't be sure that you're ready. Just don't, please. :)
  • no!!!!!!!!bad idea. live your life for a little while longer. u don't need 2 become sexually active just yet.
  • are you crazy?concentrate on you're studies and try and complete school with flying colours.you remind me of me when I was 14,boy,was I crazy or what?but you would not know so let us leave it at that.
  • No. please don't do something so rash. You'll hurt yourself before you know it. My advice: do some research. Read about articles on teen sex. you might want to weigh all the factors first before you make such a big decision.
  • No, regardless of how mature you think you are, you are still a child. Your childhood is going to be coming to an end soon enough...why rush it? You have the rest of your life to be an adult, it would be sad for you to have to deal with some of the possible consequences of having sex at your age. Be a kid while you can.
  • No. the wrong decision can have lifelong consequences.
  • I believe that you should not have sex so young but you should never have sex just because you have reached a certain age! Enjoy being young. When you do adult things you may have to take the adult responsibilities for your actions.
  • No! ... wait until you are old enough to feel and understand the meaning of love.
  • Unlike everyone else here, I am not going to tell you a flat out no. But the way you phrased the question, it was as if you think that the minute you reach fourteen you should suddenly be having sex, when it doesn't work like that. Now really, legally you shouldn't. But I am hardly the sort to preach over what the law says, because I am not a hypocrite. I started having sex at 14. Personally, I don't regret it, but many people do. To be honest, I was reckless and stupid, and hurt at the time. But I wasn't pressured into it because of what I thought everyone else was doing it, which I think you are. Honestly, the majority of things people say is just bollocks to look older or whatever. Really, it is if you feel you are ready. Don't just do it because you feel you have to. Most people have a lot of emotion tied up in sex (I personally don't understand this, but most people do) so I wouldn't just rush into it. Just promise me whatever you do, be safe and responsible when you do it. There are too many teen parents in this world who are not old enough to cope with the responsibility
  • i agree with everybody else on this question, no.
  • I'm sure your parents have spoke to you about this kind of subject. I would have to say, "You know better than that". Ask your parents and see what they say if they have'nt went there with you. Sex should be saved for marriage. Your life is very precious. You will get your feelings hurt; also you may catch a disease. I met a young lady with aids, and it was just sad. Do you your best to stay on track, and stay pure, keep that good reputation that you have now.
  • No, you should start growing a brain. (when will people stop asking this question????)
  • ARE YOU READY FOR A KID??? CAN YOU SUPPORT A KID??? IF NOT, THEN NO.
  • ARE YOU READY FOR A CHILD??? CAN YOU SUPPORT A CHILD??? IF NOT, THEN NO
  • WOW YOU SHOULDNT EVEN ASK THIS QUESTION.. THIS IS A BIG NO NO.. YOU DEFINETLY SHOULD NOT!!!!! YOU WILL REGRET IT IN THE END AND IT WILL CHANGE UR LIFE...IM 17 AND HAD SEX AT 15.. IT PRETTY MUCH RUINED MY LIFE BECAUSE I DONT HAVE THE RESPECT FOR MY BODY AS MUCH AS I SHOULD HAVE..
  • If you have to ask you arent ready. You will know that it is time for you to have sex when you feel ready and you see a real future with the girl.
  • If you think you're ready then go ahead. But if you get a std or get pregnant it is al your fault.
  • no dont it or do drugs either
  • Thats a sad question. Sex has turned into something that is never was meant to be. It was meant to be for husband and wife and if your 13 and asking that question then maybe no one ever taught you that. I dont know if your a boy or girl but especially if you are a girl dont let someone steal that from you. I have heard of many heart aches from young teenagers that have let themselves be degraded and disrespected and now as adult they have a hard time with self respect and trust. Sex is not supposed to be dirty it is supposed to be an act of love toward the person you love when you get married. I have heard too many stories about people who wished they would have waited. If you give that away at your age you will only hurt yourself.
  • No! Are you ready to face the responibilities that come along with having sex..even protected sex? All the STD's and the risk of getting pregnant? Being a parent ins't a small thing, its something that lasts the REST of your life, even when your kids are grown and out of the house. Sex is something that you need to wait on till you are with somebody that you love, perferably somebody you are MARRIED to. I know there is alot of peer presure out there, but school and your grades and future are what you need to be concerned about, being a kid and having fun hanging out with your friends, going to football games and dances..., not worring about sex.
  • good GOD no. Wait as LONG as you possibly can. REALLY. I really think 14 is just way too damn young. And this isn't some 35 year old trying to be a mama figure and simultaneously act like they remember being a teenager. I'll be 17 in a 2 months. I remember being 14. I didn't have sex until I was 16 and any sooner would've been ridiculous. Sex really does complicate your life. It adds a whole new mess of things to worry about and you really don't need that. You REALLY don't. In addition, PEOPLE WILL TALK SO MUCH SHIT ABOUT YOU IT'S DISGUSTING. I mean, you shouldn't care what people think, but you will get a bad reputation even before high school, and that makes things all the more difficult. It's hard to get in with the people you want to if everyone already has you labeled as a slut (and of course I am not saying that you'll be one if you do it. but that's what people WILL say.) So really. THIINK long and hard. You have to wait for the RIGHT time, the RIGHT person, the RIGHT circumstances, and I don't those will all come together at 14 years old.
  • No, for one thing it's illegal for you to have sex and who ever you have sex with will go to jail. And for another thing you are not mentally, emotionally, socially, physically, or financhally ready to have sex. And this one decission you will totally regret for the rest of your life. Please, be smart about this and wait untill you're really ready and are in a relationship with someone who truely loves and respects you.
  • No. If I was your dad I'd buy a chastity belt for you and not unlock it till you're 18!!!
  • "ALMOST 14"? I advise that you read all of these comments over and over until they are inscripted in your head. Are you kidding me? You shouldn't even be thinking about that.
  • Are you crazy? At 14 you're too young to start having sex. You can do things that you can regret later on in life, remember that little red wagon youbought and traded it for an ice cream cone? That's what im talkign about. You could end up having a baby, what will your parents say when tehy find out? And not to mention what your friends and other people will say, they'll call you all sorts of things that will make you want to crawl in a hole and die.
  • dont waste your life like that
  • no... i am almost 14 also and I felt it was better just to talk to my mom about it.... i no its hard to talk to parents about stuff like this but once i broke thru the barrier it was a lot easy.... good luck and make the right desicion
  • Lets face the truth of it people...kids start having sex at age eight now. Fourteen year old girl...I am going to call you madison...Madison..listen to me and listen close cuz the rest of these people are just talking out thier asses. They don't understand the pressures of being fourteen nearly fifteen and not having had sex.... MYTH: Sex is fantastic....actually sex sucks the first time you have it no matter who you do it with. When someone sticks thier dick in you and "pops your cherry" it hurts like hell. When the guy sticks his dick in you guess what....he will be feeling physical pleasure when he comes but you will feel pain. The only way to overcome this first time is 1)having had sex before or 2)having sex with someoene you care about and can concetrate on the emotional feelings rather than the phyical....if you can feel pleasure at his pleasure then its right. If you know its gonna hurt when he breaks the vzginal membrance and you don't really care how he feels about it then you need to wait. btw...I am a married man aged 27. Trust me, when you love the person your with you will want to have sex with them even if YOU don't want to. Its not a school yard crush....I had about 67 of those befoew I mwr my wife...I can even name them..the point is..think long and hard about how you FEEL about the person. I don't think 14 is too young if you truly love the person but if you don't....please don't have random sex. Popularity? Yea..I was hot and good looking in high school and although the confidence helped me later in life the good looks did not. When you become a fully fledged adult (you'll know what I mean when you get there...if you don't know what I mean then consier this...what do you worry about? If you worry about anyting to do with respect or self image than your not yet an adult) Adults can't afford the luxuty of worrying about that stuff when they become adults) *continued from "when you become a fully fleged adult" then you'll understand that love is something you look for and look for..but never finds you..unti lat last you top looking. Just hold off on the sex for a bit. If you have trouble email me and we'll chat..My wife will tell you her horrrible experience with losing her citginity in high school....email is penned.kai.allen(at)gmail(dot)com
  • NOOOOO! EW! My sister is 15 and ew.
  • nope im also 13 but i bellieve you should have sex with someone you really love not some fake love get me? but i believe your young to be having sex anyways wait till ur a lil older but not now
  • no way just think about all the people who would use you and then just dump you but i live in canada and here the LEGAL age is 14 YEARS its your choice but for me a HUGE no
  • NO. You know the answer to that already. Consider the diseases, unwanted pregnancies, broken hearts and homes, the emotional problems with it and your home life, think of your parents. What you do now will follow you all your life. It's not worth it to explore sex. Sex will come along in your life and believe me, even as an adult it will pose some profound problems then too. Be smart. you're better than that.
  • No. By starting in earlier, you increase your chances of getting STDs and STIs. It's also a matter of being emotionally ready...sex is a really big deal. Some people do it early and on a regular basis, but I just wouldn't suggest it. It's not healthy and you have the rest of your life to do that. You haven't even hit your prime yet!
  • No. Are you prepared to deal with the possibility of pregnancy or contracting a sexually transmitted disease? You have so much time to enjoy sex later-- enjoy growing up right now.
  • no way dude! way 2 young! (im 16 and havent yet) wait till you at least fall in love and maybe intill you get married. dont do it just becuse everone elts is.
  • This is an easy one...NO, now do your homework and then clean your room!
  • no but if you want then you go a head and do it
  • NOPEEEE! dont start having sex because of your age. have sex when you find someone you are comftorable with about your body and that there wouldnt be an akwardness. trust and believe. i wanted to loose my virginity before i turned 16 so a couple weeks before my birthday i hooked up with this kid. i had dated him before but didnt like him immensly. anyways it happened but it was horrible, he was a virgin to and i wouldnt even call that sex. i was so mortified about his small penis. haha. anyways he told all of his friends and i was agravated because thats something personal. you see you gotta have enough trust in that person to share something as special as sex.
  • I could say yes, I could say no. But in all honesty this decision is totally upto you. But the one thing I would ask you to think about is Why? do you want to have sex???, is it because you want to experience it, is it because (this sounds so cheesy) your friends have done it?, or is it because you have been with your bf for more than 1 year and know that he loves you and you love him and you have researched contraception and other options. Because sex is not the only self expression of Love, etc. so if your answer is as valuable as the experience that you would be diving into and you have understanding then do what you feel you need to. But if your answer is dry and doesn't have include something that when you look back and think OMG why did I do that? then don't. Your worth more then a cheap experience!!!
  • hell no. if othr kids around you are doing it than fine, but itll ruin your life it takes on time to get pregnant and ur way to young. believe me i had sex a month before i turned 14 and amn do i regret it... i dont want you to make the same mistake
  • I"M probably the only kid thats answering but PLEASE DON'T HAVE SEX YET!!!! I'm only 13 and I know that sex is wrong and if you have sex do you think you would want to take care of a baby all the time.I don't think so.SO wait till you're married and you'll save a lot of pain and embarrasement.
  • No, sex is nothing to worry about at that age...
  • Are you stupid NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
  • NO! Not until you are at least 25. Finish all your schooling first then get a job before ou even think about having sex.
  • no, u could ruin your life and be stuck in a low-paying factory job, getting cures for std's or die from STD's
  • No. Wait until marriage. It is best to do that. -In the Master's service. Thank you and God bless you!
  • No. Wait until marriage. It is best to do that. -In the Master's service. Thank you and God bless you!
  • No. Wait until marriage. That is best. -In the Master's service. Thank you and God bless you!
  • Regardless of age, if you have to ask then the answer is no. I think one thing that is overlooked here is that the questioner actually is asking. That tells me that tey have a sense of right and wrong and an appreciation for the possible consequences of their actions. Maybe not as acute as someone old enough to have 14 year old children, but they seem wiser than a few people in the 20-25 age group I know.
  • Coming from a 14 year old... ... absolutely not. At your age, school is your priority. You're going to be in what, 8th grade? Maybe freshman year... but still, do you understand how that can hurt your education? Plus your reputation ontop of that. You want to have a good high school experience and having sex is definetly not the way to do that. Also, from a non-religious standpoint, wait until you're with somebody that you love and understand what love really is. You can get seriously hurt and shouldnt chance that at 13. Hope I helped :)
  • Wait till junior prom
  • If you are asking? what answer do you expect?? Do you really expect some sap to come on here and tell you to have as much sex as you can, it will feel good? If they do they are not your friend, they are crack heads or pedophiles, or Both. But it is your ultimate decision whether to damage your mental development and flush your life down the toilet. I know several women that started their sexual activity before 16, and they are still screwed up in the head to this day. (now 27 and 33 respectively) Wait on sex, Besides when you have sex for the first time, you should know what you want, and be with someone that cares how you feel, not just there to get his ricks off. He should Care bout how to pleasure you. You are too young to even look at porn, much less find out about all the sexual things that you need to know about before you even think about sex, that is if you actually want to enjoy sex. Sex should never be used against you, if a boy wants to have sex for you to be his girlfriend, tell him to go date rosy and leave you alone. you know Rosy Palm... I just hope that you have hot already had sex, and are just coming on here to try to find out that you did not make a big mistake??
  • do what you want its your life!
  • no. Wait till you're married, it'll be so much more worth it then.
  • no, you shouldn't unless you personally feel ready but you do have to keep in mind that you are still technically underage and it does have major consequences on your life. That might sound a bit OTT but really, there are so many things that could go wrong so don't do it until you're ready and you're with someone who you know cares for you.
  • No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. NO.
  • Negative, It will have a impact on you for the rest of your life, rather wait another 4-8 years, what happens if you get pregnant or father a child, are you old enough for the responsibilities like looking after the child financially, you are still a child, try to stay that way for as long as you can, all things will happen when the time is right.
  • You either are a sicko, or you just want attention on this site. If you want attention on this site, then it looks like you got it.
  • Good Lord NO! Not that most youngsters listen to those who have made the mistakes they are about to, anyway - but at least you cannot say you were not given the best advice I, and I see others, could possibly offer you....
  • I think you should first ask yourself why you are even asking the question.....there is no right age to start having sex but understand that there are consequences. I have a 13 year old daughter and hope that she is not asking herself this question and pray that she will come to me first, as I will be there to educate her and if I cannot then I will get her the education she needs to answer. Best of luck!
  • I had sex at 14. I didn't get a disease or get pregnant, but it was the stupidest thing I ever did, and pretty much the only thing I ever did as a child that I really regret. To this day I wish to heaven that I hadn't done that. Sex is not something you need to be worried about at fourteen. Trust me on this one.
  • If you have to ask others whether they think you should start having sex or not, then I would definately say no...you are not ready. Sex is a personal decision that you will make when you find the right person. I think 14 is too young...but that's my opinion. You will know when the time is right. Don't rush it.
  • Altho I think 14 is a little young, I think you should do what you feel is right. But always always always always always BE SAFE. That is very very very important. If you're going to have sex, you HAVE to be responsible enough to use condoms!!
  • Yes, as soon as you are almost nineteen
  • No you shouldn't. But I started haveing sex when i was 16 and I think i should have waited.
  • no your still to young wait until your married lol i think its a little young to even be thinking about that
  • are you ready to be a parent? or have an STD? didn't think so.. no you should wait till you are older. and are ready.
  • Are you ready to be a mother/father? I doubt it. Let me put it this way - I started having sex when I was 17 years old, with my boyfriend of about 8 months. We love eachother a lot, and we're still together. But the first couple of times we had sex I felt guilty afterwards, and I was constantly worrying if I was pregnant or not. If you're ready to probably feel that way then go for it, but I seriously doubt that you are.
  • no, your not emotionally stable yet. SO DON'T DO IT!!
  • Ok first off, I am only fourteen myself. But I consider myself an extremely mature one so everyone that reads this don't just brush it away since I'm 14. -.- Anyways, the simple fact that you are asking this question points to me that you are unready. When you feel that you are ready and ready for the possible consequences of your actions, and are prepared to try and prevent pregnancy(I.E. condoms, etc) then you are ready. Also, anyone who says that a 14 year old cannot know the meaning of love is obviously an idiot. Age has no bearing on maturity of emotions.
  • If you are questioning yourself then you are not ready
  • I Had Sex When I Was 14 && I Regret It To This Day. It Should Be Special With Someone You Reallly Care About, Not Just Think You Do. Keep it As Long As You Can, I Would Say AT LEAST Junior Senior Year
  • its really your choice to make, i know 13 year olds who are having sex and i know 17 year olds that arnt, so its really not so much about the age, more about the person who you want lose your virginity to.
  • Simple Answer.....NO! What you do now effects your life later. STD's, AIDS, depression, everythign counts at this age
  • no - that would not be a good idea
  • My opinion no your too young, but I know my opinion wont have any effect on you so please remember to use protection.
  • your flower is a gift dont give it to anyone. i am 18 and i dint wanted have sex. my virginity is a gift for my husband to be. and he will respect me more. that i assure you
  • well if u think ur ready the go ahed but i know u arent ok because im 17 and my frist time was diffrent then i thought ok its alot diffrent ok
  • Are you ready to be a parent...I highly doubt it...so NO!
  • Not unless you're also prepared to raise and provide for a baby -- because invariably, inevitably, that's what happens when you have sex.
  • Of course you should consider it if you have the chance. You need to get experienced at an early age so you can continue to wow your partners in the up and coming years. If I could be having sex at fourteen I would be a whole new ballgame. Plus the pleasures are unbelievable.
  • are you kidding? i'm a Catholic and i was taught to wit until marriage until having sex. i can not absolutely guarantee that that will happen but i'll make an effort. save yourself for the one true love of your life
  • Ask your parents!
  • That's entirely your desicion. If your in love, you can start. but you should also be safe and relize what you could be getting yourself into.
  • Don't you respect yourself? The guy that would pressure you to have sex at the age of 14 DOES NOT respect you whatsoever! DOES NOT love you! He may lust for you which at your age you could confuse w/ love. Lust is not love. Don't diminish your worth by having sex at 14.
  • not till your 16

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