ANSWERS: 28
  • no its def not love
  • Not unless he has met her in person. One cannot fall in love with an idea.
  • it could be, my sister met her mman online, theyve been married for 4 years
  • I met a lady online and became friends with her, then best friends. We then proceded to fall in love. We married in November of 2007. I am supremely happy. Marrying my best online friend was the smartest move I ever made. : )
  • well i hope he met her in person and knows her in person for most of that time. if so then its ok. if he didnt meet her or if he only met her in person like 15 times or less, then he's basing his love on what he thinks she's like, and not what she is like. you see?
  • No just infactuation. He has never met her and thing like that does not work out.
  • My sister met a man online over 6 years ago. Moved her and her son 1800 miles to be with him and has been with him ever since. They have had a baby together and have a super relationship. Good luck with your son. You never know, you must let him live and learn. Be a best friend and offer your advice and which ever way things fall you can reassure that you will be there for him no matter what.
  • I love you...why not...
  • Of course it can. They have been communicating and probably know each other better than they know people they might deal with in the flesh. At least it's not just a physical attraction...which rarely lasts.
  • Have they ever actually met each other face to face ? Have they gone on any actual dates ? Have they spent much time TOGETHER ? Ummmmmm if the answer is "NO" to the above ; then I DOUBT that they are reallly in love ...
  • how old is he?
  • It COULD be. It changes a lot when you meet someone, because you have to put up with their habits. Is your son a teenager? There was a study- the part of the brain dealing with obsession is very active when a teenager is "in love" vs. an adult. Your son may have a hard time in real life meeting people, and has found it easier to let his guard down when online, without fear of rejection. (A common phenomenon.) It's hard to say- but time will tell. I hope you support him regardless. He needs to know that you trust his judgement. Good luck!
  • It's all just luck, a hit or a miss. There's no harm in trying it out - they'll find out soon enough if it's not real or not. You know how it is online - you can edit yourself, basically, to sound like a different person. Anyway, I've seen the movie "You've got Mail" so I'm not skeptical about it. But there has been a lot of success considering online dating. She really might be quite suited to him - it has been two years after all.
  • Why not? I met my girlfriend (after my divorce) of two years online, and my wife there, too. ;-)
  • It isn't love until each one is willing to let the other one die first.
  • Only if they'd die for each other.
  • It's possible.
  • do u have son?u dont seems to me like mom.sorry but i thought u r very young around 21-24.but u r answers and u sprit is very young.i think he is not in love .he should be more mature before taking any decision
  • No no no. Puppy love yes. Have them live together for over 4 months see what happens, he won't know how to handle himself, once he is a man he will come to understand what love is
  • I don't think so, no... I think that would only come with time spent physically together. However, if he thinks he is in love - then that is very important too. Try telling him that he isn't in love and it will be thrown in your face. Even if he is only in love with the *idea* of her, it can be incredibly powerful. To all intents and purposes it almost doesn't matter if he is truly in love or not by our perception.
  • r u really a mother?
  • If they talk to each other almost ever day then yes it could be love!
  • Well all love is possible be ecause love can conquer anything. Anything can be love, and anyone can be in love. Try having him move on to other girls, if he does it no problem-then he was never inlove he was in lust. If he has troubles, shes all he thinks about, he just wants to see her-there are some connections and that can turn into love. Talk to him. Hear him out. Listen. -withlovejessicamarie,
  • My son did too...ended up marrying her...and divorcing her 1.5 years later. Tell him to be careful Roc.
  • nope,it's probably a dirty old man or some scam or other
  • I could understand how this might be. I've met a really nice woman online and with sometime and closeness who knows what would happen.
  • could be. like your son, i need more information.
  • What is Love? [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nsCXZczTQXo]

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