ANSWERS: 6
  • What is your friendship worth? Maybe you can ask her about it. Ask her "did I loan that money to you or did I give it to you?". If she responds offended by it then, count the cost. If you want her for a friend then drop it. But if she says it was a loan, then she will probably add to it, like Ill mpay you back when I can. Then you have the choice to say ok or say its all good, you dont need to pay me back. If you are in a good place and not hurting for money, why not just drop it. If she would have asked if you could just give it to her, would you have? I dont loan money to friends or family. If they need money and I have it, I just give it. The thing I have found is that when I just give it, when they have the money they usually insist and pay me back anyways. But if they cant then no big deal because I just gave it to them.
  • You need to ask her to clarify what she understood the money was...a loan or a gift. Be understanding and mature but do yourself a favor and settle this matter now!
  • Babe, never loan money...give it and expect to never get it back. If you cant afford to do that then dont loan it at all- it causes rifts in friendships If however you ask her for something at some point and she refuses, well, take a view on the relationship Maybe she intends to pay you back but simply isnt in a position to do so yet. If you didnt agree a time constraint on the loan, you have no basis for complaint
  • i loan money to a friend, we even wrote an agreement to how to payback and was signed by both of us. i have now not seen a penny and they have ceased all contact. i have been shafted as was £3k. never lend money i have had my fingers burnt.
  • Depends on howmuch you gave her.
  • i would ask her for it, maybe she dont have the money right now

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