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I'd try to help as best as I could.
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Depends on how depressed that person is. If very depressed, you need to talk them out of it or recommend professional helps.
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"Can this wait until the morning or do you need me right now?" And I'd react accordingly.
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This has happened to me b4 I pulled on my jeans over my pjs threw on a coat and ran out to meet her immediately, if shes upset I wanna be there 4 her. I know she'd do the same for me.
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Are they suicidal depressed ,,or just bored depressed? ! If serious,,I'd get out of my pj's and go to their house,, if just bored depressed ,,i'd unplug my phone still get out of my PJ's and wake up the wife for a bit ,,then plug my phone back in ,,and call my friend and tell him all about it!
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I'd see what's wrong. One of my friends does the cutting thing, so I'm used to him being sad a lot. You just have to stay positive and be sure to be very considerate and such. Try to cheer them up and whatnot.
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I'd see what's the matter and try and cheer them up some way. I'd rather not say "F**k you, I'm passing back out!" I'm not a prick always... only on occasions.
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he..hello...what is it?....ermmm...again..go on......kroih..kroih..zzzzzzzzz
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If you were too sleepy and had to do something tomorow tell her to let you go to sleep and fix the problem tomorow. Or if it woke you up and you really care about her then tell her wats wrong, if she is ok and ask her if she needs you right now. :)
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Ask them what is bothering them.
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My answer is in my profile.
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ask questions and listen.
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If it was my best friend, I would say, "What's wrong? How do you feel? Let's discuss it." If it was anyone else, I would ask, "Are you fuckin' crazy? Do you know what time it is?"
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Don? Yeah I'd wake up and help him out.... He normally battles on, and doesn't let emotions get him down... So it'd be serious if he did that........ On the other hand i have some other friends i wouldn't be anywhere near as concerned about if they were to do that - some people are just always depressed.....
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I tell them to tell me all about it and if they wanted to do it in person or the phone. that i was there for them
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Ask questions, listen, consider the situation, and then suggest that we both sleep on it, and talk more in the morning!
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If the caller id showed it was a "friend" that thrived on drama and selfcreated crisis, I would possibly not answer the phone. If that's not the case, I'd answer. If they are not actively suicidal, I'd listen for a bit and validate their feelings. If I could identify any thought distortions, I'd point that out. Then I'd ask them to agree to a plan to get help in the morning. If they are actively suicidal and are willing to go to the hospital voluntarily, I'd offer to take them. If they don't want to go voluntarily, I'd call 911 and let them assess the situation further.
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Don't worry be happy?
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for any of my friends to phone me in the middle of the night, something big would be up, so Id have to take the appropriate action depending on what the issue was ! :)
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See what's up, if I can help and if I need to go over to make sure they don't do anything stupid. I've been at a low point before and it sure helps if someone who truly cares is there to keep you safe from yourself.
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whos ass do i need to kick and where can i find him?
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let me know when you find a cure.
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i'd tell her to come to my house right away
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Come on over and crawl in bed....we'll talk about it when you get here. See you in a bit, the doors unlocked..love you
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If possible I'll go to his place to make him comfortable! If not then i'll give him some advice on phone to control nervousness!
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Do all I can to help my friend of course.
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Best friend? What ever they needed that I had they would get, even if I had to find someone else that could help them.
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Go over there and help ;0)
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You can call me anytime. That's what friends are for!
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Just listen and try not to comment nor giving too many advise, that won't help. Try to find out the reason behind his / her depression. Since he/she is the only one who can help themselve. There is not much you can do...
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my best friend gets middle of the night calls from me all the time, and vice versa. I'd get up from my death bed to help her through a problem.
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I can miss out any party of my friend but can't miss to be present in any problem of my friend.I will try to bring him/er out of that depression on phone.In case, it is serious matter ,I would like to go & find out the solution of his/er problem...
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He's my friend. If he calls me in the middle of the night for ANYTHING it's because he honestly feels he must...that it can't wait. Of course I will give him my time. What's a little thing like sleep when you have a friend in need?
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My response would be to get out of bed and talk to the person until they felt better.
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Are you ok..I'm here for you. I say this because a friend of mine committed suicide three weeks after out last conversation.I was devasted. I later found out he was diagnosed with bipolar.
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well for someone to call in the middle of the night, he/she must be desperate in need of someone ......I would be there in a heartbeat for them ( I would hope anyways, I can be a grouch when first awaken)
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i would talk to her and if i felt the need i would go be with her.
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If they called during the night, I'd be there them. But people know that if my phone rings before noon, somebody better be seriously hurt
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I would talk to them.
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How can I help?
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Tell them 2 come over for a beer and talk. I,m up till about 5:00am anyway so no sweat(:
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id ask them whats wrong and if there was anything i can do if not id just let them talk about how they feel. if that person had a past of self harm i would go round or make them come 2 me!
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I will chat with them and show empathy.....and help the best I can...
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I would listen/talk to them for as long as they wanted and/or needed me to.
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I would just lay there and listen, give them some comforting words and hopefully get them out of their depression so that we both can go back to sleep.
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Why not? Of course I will respond as I think it as my duty to be of some help to my friends. In case if I am did not go to help him then what would I be worth of?
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Assuming that my bf is not an alarmist - or a drama queen - but then she wouldn't be my bf, I guess...I'd ask her tell me all about it.
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I have told ALL my friends they can call me when ever they need me. Even at 3am. I will answer talk and listen and help them through it.
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I would answer her!!! Jump out of the bed and talk to her about it !!
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Depend on her situation, if it's the same problem we went over before and she's not trying to find a solution to handle it. If I have work early the next day I would tell her I need to get some sleep. On the other hand, if it's something really important, I would be there for her. I'll probably drink extra cup of coffee in the morning to keep me up.
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My response would be what ever it took to make them feel better! No matter what!
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If it was my best friend I would know then he must be feeling really low. A it wouldn't be a thing he would do. I would listen to what he had to say, without a doubt. And try to help him.
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What do you need? What to talk? Or do you want to come over in the morning?
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Give her the time she deserves as my friend and as an human being in need.
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i would take the bus to their house and talk to them. find out whats going on.
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clue number one....its a really bad habbit to sleep with your cell phone on, if they are depressed enough to still be awake when you first go to sleep then there must be something wrong but out of respect for you, they should be considerate enough to wait till morning. but im not a happy camper when im woken up so my friends know better than to wake me up
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I would be up and attentive in a second. I'm always around to help my friends. My response would be something along the lines of; "Okay well I'm here, we can talk about this if you want or anything else if you want something to distract you for now. But remember I'm always here if you need me." Hope I helped :)
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I would respond to the best of my ability!
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I don't know anyone who would do that unless it was an emergency. So if it was an emergency I would get up and talk to them.
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i would definitely help him/her out as later even i mit get stuck in the same situation.. :) cheers
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I'd probably sit and talk with them a while.
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Since were both at college right now (different colleges) and i dont have my car here ... i would immediately sit up and talk her through it ... i wouldnt go to sleep until she felt 100% better. If we were home i would either do the same thing or go over to her house and talk about it in person.
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I'd be wide awake and concentrating on them in a second. I'm always there for my friends. +5
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I'll talk to him/her and I hope it'll help my friend to feel better.
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