I think, they go for looks, but the personality keeps them around!

Some do, and some don't and sometimes "YES". Any other questions? Seriously, girls value and respond as individuals to different traits. Don't try to manufacture yourself to attract anyone. They would not be attracted to "You." Be yourself to attract the kind of girl who will be interested in knowing you.

i know a lot of geeky guys that have great personalitys..and their popular with the girls.

First immpressions are immportant but personality is definitely what makes the man !!

Girls look for earning potential, because even if they're just casually dating, subconsciously they are sizing up a guy to see if he could be a good father to her children. It's not manipulation, it's just nature's design. Hey, if your mother hadn't been this way, maybe you wouldn't be here. So they do like guys who can make a good living. Power also is an aphrodesiac. Kissinger has had many lovers and is not your typical Hollywood type. If you don't have money or power or looks, personality and talent are also good.

I think they're hot but there personality sucks. I usually date guys that charm me with other things besides good looks and also good looks fad with age but a personality wins your lovers heart.-I think that's how it goes.

Maybe initial attraction helps but I think a witty intelligent guy with a nice smile is more attractive in the long run

Obviously not prince charles has been married twice!!!!

Yes, (excepting mature well rounded girls of course) particularly the ones who's own vanity insures a very shallow relationship should one ensue.

Oh isn't this the classic question. :) On passing on the street, yeah, I'd say that looks attract because, quite honestly, what else do you have to go by? If you actually talk to the person, strike up a conversation, then other "attractions" would come into play (sense of humor, respect, cordial manners, etc. etc.) Then you could judge what might "attract" someone. :)

No, money does too...Jusy Kidding. Personally I think personality makes all the difference. A person who is cute can turn ugly if they have a bad personality and vice versa.

i will tell you what you really want to hear, no.

Um.... Heck NO! That's guys you're talking about. (Just half kidding.) My husband, an anthropologist, claims that we believe men are more attracted to appearances, that's why females are the ones with the more obvious bait, and that women are more attracted to stability, etc., things that make for a good long-term mate. It seems that both of these roles play an important part in the long-term continuance of our species, and that the roles may have been almost randomly distributed in this fashion. After all, the two have to be attracted in some way. Flashy bait (boobs, etc., in human female; feathers in the male birds; musk in female moths; etc.) gets the ball rolling. Having a general attractiveness (the human female) also works toward the longevity of genes since, her female progeny (at least) will likely also be attractive. If women get reputations as gold-diggers, perhaps too there is something in that. Since it is their job to insure that the male has indicia of long-term parenting traits: the ability to provide stability, good job, etc. We look at this as bad, but really should somebody be making sure that the XY can support the progeny? Anyway, this could have been distributed in another fashion. And of course it is highly theoretical. But think about it. When was the last time you heard a young man mention the attractiveness of a 60-70 year old WOMAN?! When was the last time you heard a young woman mention the attractiveness of an older dude? (Think Sean Connery.)

Only on first glance. I mean, sure good looks attract girls, but are looks ALL that attract girls? Heck no! In fact, I think there are many studies pointing to a good sense of humor being more attractive in the long run. We've all seen ugly dudes with beautiful women. Have you ever seen Lyle Lovett?!

Its not just girls...it goes for everyone...looks pull us all in and once your there its how you are that keeps you there...but its does suck when your in high and see how all the pretty girls go for the good looking guys...haha but if I remember it I was just going for the pretty girls...later down the line everyone learns that looks don't matter...but I still like alittle eye candy every now and then

i have to admit i may have been a bit shallow when it came to meeting my boyfriend... i wanted to get to know him because he was "insanely hott". After i got to know him i found out he was not only good looking, but he had a great personality... and that's why i'm dating him now. Girls may be attracked by looks, but if the guy has a bad personality things arn't going to last too long...

Not for me Hockey Guy. As long as a guy is nice and respectful, I could really care less about how he looks.

Hell no,I like a guy with a sense of humor,good disposition,respect and tenderness.It also helps if they can lick thier eyebrows.lol

I'll admit that looks are part of it for me, but the other thing that's a necessity is how I perceive them once they speak.

not me. my crush is concidered ugly but he's reallyyyyy funny. hes awesome :)

If so, I'm in deep doo-doo.

I'd say the package- looks, confidence, intelligence and money.

I know it always seems like a lie when girls say no to questions like this, but there are those of us who mean it. For example, a few weeks ago I met a skinny guy with long curly hair, and thought, wtf??? That's weird. But I've spoken to him on MSN every night since, and now I really adore him, despite how odd he looks.

i would rather have a sweet guy then a "hot" guy. if it comes together..id be in heaven. looks do attract girls...but as someone said..its the personality and trustworthiness (if its even a word) that keeps them with ya.

As much as I don't like hearing that looks are the main reason why a girl likes a guy it doesn't take as much precedence over a guy with a great personality, sense of humor, sweet...there's A LOT more things for a girl to be attracted to a guy by. I'm not that good looking (e.g., I've heard that I'm cute, but I'm a hella sweet guy and I have a great sense of humor and thats how I got one girl to like me and the feeling is mutual :)

money helps greatly

Yes but take heart, WOMEN look for other qualities.

No, If it was, I would still be single, My girl fell for my personality, It couldnt have been my looks. :]

No way..you give me a great smile and a sence of humor and manners and I'll ask him out.

I don't think that it's the only factor, but it would be a lie to say that we don't choose based on looks. But I don't care if he's the sexiest thing since sliced bread (wtf?) -- if he's a jerk, no chance!

no, but it might be what catches their attention at first

True for some girls.

no, not necessarily. It certainly isn't what keeps girls around.

Thats very general, I should answer with: "Do guys only go for big breasts and porn star looks?"

sometimes maybe looks does matter. Bt its nt all d@ important. The character, behaviour, personality does play an important role..

No.

Hell no. O.O I actually had a crush on my current boyfriend before I knew what he looked like ^^'''''. Good thing he turned out pleasing to the eyes too ^.^

no, i wanted a man who is also honest, fun, reliable, -i think hes beautiful!

No. We also like big units.

You don't have to necessarily be "Hot" but have to be "hot" to that specific girl.

No not at all. There are three main things; 1: A sence of humor: If you can make a girl laugh... you can be with her. 2: Courage: You should be very clear about what you want and say and not be like a shy person nor should you ever lower yourself or give anyone the chanse to do so. 3: Beeing Sweet: Complemet her, buy her a flower once in a while, just be nice... and you sould make cute facial impressions and childish jokes at least once in a while aswell. and as long as you are ok looking.. and not obese or a -10 out of a 100 if u were to score yourself phisically u can get the girl you want.

To me looks aren't all that important. I mean he needs to be a little cute but I'm not big on looks. It's on the inside that counts more then looks to me and as long as he's nice and has a good sense of humor and I can get along with him then I'd possible date him.

girls are attracted to tall, well built and aggressive males.....

Some do some don't. I personally like a guy that can make me laugh and is fun to be around above some hot guy :)

some girls yes, but alot of girls are attracted to guys for their personalities..

most girls are attracted to guys with nice cars, and nice teeth.

That this girl. A nice personality and sense of humor will win me over before looks.

no, trouble seems to attract girls more.. personality, stability, and sexual ability attracts women

no 1. i need to be able to have an intelligent conversation with a guy. not just about my feelings and that chick crap, but like a decent conversation about work, or something i saw on the news, or advice on how to deal with something. 2. i need to be able to trust you like nothing else in the world - god knows that takes loads of time since i'm slow to trust anybody these days. 3. if you're hot, i might notice. if you flaunt it or you're cocky. goodbye. if you're confident but not a jerk... that's a turn on. but the first two are wayyy more important to me

i think if u are muscle-cat and look like money and like cute chances are u going to be rushed by girls. if u are slim-bird who looks like poor and like kinda ugly chances are u cant get a girl even if YOU rushed them lol but basically g´forget all that crap turn your lif into hapyone and then girks will follow u cant buy a cow without money

nope!! i fell in love with a guy that i didnt really find attractive but i was able to look past that because i liked him so much!! but then when i told him i liked him he started to ignore me and thats what turned me off not his looks!!

just telling the truth i like their looks and personaliy my sis thinks she will get an "ugly" baby if she has a kid with someone that isn't perfit

Not mee! i love personality, it will get me there everytime!

no

Not at all. In fact, no matter how pretty someone may be to me, if they have a shitty attitude then I view them as being ugly.

To be honest...personality is what attracts me

Looks don't hurt, though confidence is key. Also, you must wonder what "looks" means. Looks could be raw attractiveness or just the way you present yourself.

i definately go for personality.. looks is a small tribute.. but the smile eyes and personality makes me stick around!!! i love a sense of humour too..

no, brains and kindness help a lot...

Not really. If you see a girl who is attracted solely to looks I think you'll end up finding that all there is in her head is just enough spring to keep the bubble gum from tumbling out of her mouth.

To be honest, my good friend and I have completely different tastes in guys. For most of my friends, it seems to be that way. Everyone has different tastes. Even celebrities like Brad Pitt, Orlando Bloom, Johnny Depp, etc. are not thought of as handsome or attractive by all girls (at least not the ones I know). I personally like guys that are really tall, although I myself am short. I don't like guys that are too skinny or too muscular. I guess I just like that average, natural look on a guy and not all of my friends would agree with this. To get to my point....Looks are one of the first things that attract anyone, because looks are on the physical level, which is one of the only things you see at first. But even looks matter amongst women being attracted to men. Yes, people also see the "presence" that you have around you. Having a strong presence can make an average looking person look incredibly hot. After that instant meeting the person phase, I think that most people scope the person out to see if they like their personality. I don't care how nice looking a guy is- if he is a nasty person, it will completely degrade any and all physical beauty.

Looks are certainly important--it's what you first see. You don't normally hear someone say, wow...look at the personality on that girl/guy! Beauty fades...depth perseveres.

at first glance i think everyone gos for looks ,but if a person has a good personality you can get attracted to them,ive thought people were real ugly but ended dating them because they had that spark about them ,anyway most of these fit men have no personality.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder........get it out with Optrex. We all have different views as to what we think its handsome, hot, cool or whatever term is used these days. So there is probably always going to be someone who thinks you are good looking and some who think you are not. Personally, I give everyone a chance to let me get to know them because who they are is not their looks but their personalities. Their sense of humour, their sense of honour and morality, how confident they are ( not cocky confident, there is a difference). All of that is way more important than looks which in time fade for us all anyway. The body is merely the vessel that carries us through this life.

Not necessarily.

Not at all,as I am physically disabled with mobility issues and some women think I am cute and they often contact me.Some of them prefer disabled men and ask me to send them photos.

Looks is what catches the eye if you don't know a person... But if you know this person on a friend level and the more you hang out with them, the more you like them and that can soon turn into something more even if your friend is not the best looking. So in a nut shell No looks are not all that matters to women!!!

I am physically disabled but have plenty of fans!

NO! honesty can be attractive too! i'd like to find someone who is both good and good looking! ;)

Not at all.Some women like physically disabled men with mobility issues,they prefer us!

Yes - at least until around the age of 18 when they just search for some fun. After that they start to think more with their heads and to appreciate other male qualities that will lead to more successful and lasting relationship and looks are not that much important.

looks are part of it, i won't lie, but personality is more important.

nop i dont go for the looks i go for thr personality why get a guy with the looks when he treats you bad? all i want is a guys who is sweet and caring.

Not necessary it depend also the kindness ,emotional feelings ,respect to girls and gentleness.

i have seen guys literally stand in one spot and say absolutely nothing and get numbers from girls. yes it matters. good looking guys get girls coming up to them. they dont even have to try