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  • Personnally i think he is.Clearly his drugs and alcohol are more important.Im not saying he's got to buy you everything, but at least spoil the woman you love sometimes. I'd dump him, but that's just me.
  • My dear , he has no future and will be source of misery. He's wrong.
  • I'm definitely not going to support his spending choices, but to demand that he buys things for you might mean that your relationship priorities are a little off-balance, too. Unless it was your birthday or anniversary, of course.
  • He isnt wrong. He is doing it right by maintaining his supply of pot and access to alcohol. He is just being selfish. He cant see giving anyone anything. the vice is more important than gifting. He wont change. He is hooked.
  • Why don't you buy it yourself?
  • I was going to tell you to pee in his butt, but IO could not quite figure out how that will work so : 1) Yes, he's selfish 2) He doesn't owe you anything so technically he's not wrong 3) The order of important things in his life are evidently 1. Him 2.alcohol 3. wee 4. possibly you 4) he sounds like a loser...dump him and get a guy who is more suited to your expectations of a bf when it comes to sharing
  • If you get a job, you can purchase items yourself wo wondering why pot smoking is more important to him. However if your smoking his pot, then I assume its a joint venture...and still you need to purchase your own pot. Hence it all comes down to getting a job so you can purchase your own shit.
  • Did you actually ask him to buy it? The word tacky comes to mind.
  • Any man/woman that takes preference over drugs and alcohol with their mate is being abusive and you do need to let that person go and find someone that will treat you like a person would want to be treated. GOOD LUCK!
  • Do you sometimes spend money on him also. I mean, it isn't just the guys job to buy gifts and dinner for the girlfriend. Now, I am not defending him (I don't like his choice in money) but he shouldn't be forced to spend it on you. Only if he wants to

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