Why cant i find another girlfriend? I cant seem to even get a girl to like me.

i think you should stop thinking about love life for now, you need to expand your social life.

Here is a short guide to expanding your social circle
and getting a social life. I promise you that if you follow it
to the bone, you will encounter MANY women on the way:


1) Stop watching so much television. If you watch more than
one hour a day, it's too much. Cancel your full cable
TV subscription and use the money to go out instead.

2) Cut down on computer games. No more than 30 minutes a day.
NO MORE.

3) Stop shopping on Amazon, Ebay, and other retail stores
for awhile. Do "window-shopping" at malls and just interact
with the sales people. It's good practice - they have been
trained to be nice to you.

4) Stop getting take out or deliveries. Eat out with friends.
Learn to cook and go to potlucks.

5) Find new hobbies and join various hobbie groups. I know
a guy who has met dozens of people over just one summer by
acting in a play.

6) Take a night class outside work or college.

7) Take dancing and yoga classes.

8) Get a gym membership instead of working out in the basement.
(Or not even working out at all.) It's not about hitting on girls
or meeting people at the gym - it's about having people around
you and breaking out of your shell.

9) Invite your co-workers or college classmates to hang out
with you for food or for drinks.

10) Scour your city or community's social calendar for interesting
plays, art exhibition, musicals, classical or pop concerts. Learn
as much about arts as you can because it can really make you look
smart in front of people.

11) Volunteer. Great way to meet people (and women).

12) Most important of all, don't be afraid of meeting people in
general and getting numbers and emails/Instant Messenger nicknames
from both men and women.

Here's the truth: lots of men who are good at women
are just natural alpha males with strong social and leader
skills. A strong leader does NOT mind adding new recruits to
his circle of influence. He knows that the more friends he has,
the more power social status he will have.

So if you're the type of guy who doesn't get invited
to a lot of events because you haven't been socially active in
the past, you REALLY need to start taking the time and effort
to invite other people to hang out with YOU. It'll be hard at
first...but once you have your own "stable" of boys and guys,
you can just keep on rolling it bigger and bigger - and eventually
meeting even MORE people just through your own friends.

If you look at all the successful people in pretty
much every single field (including dating), one common trait
is that they are all strong leaders with huge social circles.

Spend the next 6 months building up your social circle.
I promise you that you'll be surrounded by women very shortly.

Chicks dig self-confidence (though usually not cockiness).
Most find whining a *serious* turn-off.

Quit your bitching and you'll get another girl sooner.

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start flirting. grab the one who flirts back.

Ya I seem to have the same problem. I am a great guy, fun, and energetic. I just can't seem to grab one's attention. I'm not sure if it is my approach or not putting myself out there enough. The whole just letting it come to you only works if you already are an outgoing person.

seriously - look for friends first - a female will surely enter into the equation eventually. the key is less in LOOKing - when you stop looking you find. when you look too hard, you get blinded by your needs, seein things that aren't there. just go out and do everything YOU want to do as much as you can - the more you fullfill yourself, the better chance you will find someone fulfilling.

Calm down ^^
She'll come, you just have to chill it a little. Girls or boys don't like it when somebody's stressed because it takes too long before Mr/Mrs Right comes..

Don't even worry about it ....Maybe It's not meant for you to have a girlfriend right now ....Go out and have fun! Be patient and when you least expect it you'll meet a girl whos just right for you =]

"All good things come to those who wait."

- a nice quote from the movie Ronin

maybe.. u scare them away.. i was surprised to see so many single girls online,myspace..etc.. looking for guys like u.. if u want a g/f is easy.. just act sweet and kiend.. when approaching.. see if she gives u ''IOI's ( licks lips, raises brow, smiles, touches u, flirts,etc.. if she dosnt.. move on to the next girl.. u should be able to get e-mail,phone.. with in 5 minutes..than progress.. the secret is to go out with different girls.. dont rely on one..girl..

Takes time...just go on with your life and one will come along at the right time....dont waste your time looking and trying.

Be patient man, it'll come when you least expect it. Just keep doing your thing and don't even think of being in one right now. When you are around women, be confident, charming, and act like you don't want them, then you will get them scrambling to you in no time

girls can sense desperation. relax and enjoy being single. you usually attract girls when you're having fun.

I started laying in puddles, it may be in the age group also, I seemed to find more success with long term relationships with women over 25.. pull out the old fashion stuff, doesn't work for some but will help land the catch to hold on to! People have gotten so far away from these traditions...maybe I am wrong-but it worked for me!

Sometimes when we want to go after something or someone we tend to try too hard or not try hard enough, then sometimes it is the persons attitude, may be it is the way you carry yourself or act when you are around girls. However there are some girls who are just too picky on what kind of relationship they want and what kind of guys there are after, so it is not totally you, Maybe you could take a break for awhile and think things through and then get back into the dating scene again this time with an attitude that you can do it and be confident, most girls like confident guys.

you could go to a brothel and spin her a line about you are set to inherit millions. get her pregnant, married and then tell her you made it up becuase of the love you fealt for her. Worked for me!

I think you're thinking about it too much. If it's a relationship you want then that person will come along when you're not desperately looking. Just go out, have fun with your mates etc and you'll meet someone at some point. Stop pushing for it and it will happen!

I always like it when a guy approaches me. Go for the ones that aren't so loud and obnoxious, try someone who seems nice, but not too shy because the conversation can get silent.

Maybe you are trying too hard. Just try to relax and especially try to relax and be confident around girls. Girls love confident men but confident in a good way, not showing off, etc. Good Luck :-D

It will happen when you least expect it. I think you're trying too hard! : O )
Just chillax

because you are maybe working too hard to get them. It's like fishing. Takes time but when you get a good fish she's a keeper. Good luck.

you need to give it time, and dont just try and get a girl to like you, wait for her to tell you herself if she does like you!

flirt with girls, but donnt be to flirty or she might just think your looking for some fun not a relationship

hope this helps!

Stop trying to hard .Be yourself do not follow peer pressure.Believe me it will happen when you do not expect it. annmac

Stop looking. Concentrate on yourself and things you like to do. Usually when you stop looking, thats when you find someone.

I'd proboly like you! LOL! No I got a boyfriend look for female friends first then take it slow you'll find someone soon don't worry!

you cant get a girl to like you??? why? you sound nice and everything and well....... youre hot lol sorry i just had to say it:)

Find something else to distract yourself with and just spend time on something else and let the girls comes naturally.
+5

You may just have to accept that, like me, you are one of those people who has no aptitude for playing that game. Some ca, others can't. Better to be a loner than continuously rejected or ridiculed. Or worse, like being accused of stalking or sexual harassment. +4

be yourself are you being yourself? and if that doesnt work get a makeover maybe that will work. your probably weird not all girls lkie weird boys.

Stop looking for a situation. The best situations always happen when you aren't looking or trying for them. Also, don't smile and show your teeth. It is a submission signal in primates. All the woman will see is a monkey begging for its life.

Because you aren't paying enough!

Just let it happen, don;t try and get a girl to like you. Just make friends and go from there,you might be surprised..

and there is way less pressure.
and its even better when you don't see it coming :)

look just take a step back and concentrate on other things, unless your a sex maniac? anyways it will hit you when you least expect it, i use to be inpatient but no i'm layed back and let it come to me, and i'm 17 for goodness sake, best way, unless your looking for a one-night-stand of course

Stop trying and it will happen.
That's just how it goes...so get busy doing other things.
:D
Good luck!

Maybe you should be alone for some time.
and in future you ll get lots dont worry ;)
*good luck*

It takes time.

Time will tell!

hmm well its hard to make heads or tails of this question because we don't know you but sometimes its hard to obtain something when you want it so badly...so prehaps stop looking and just be yourself. Join new sporting teams or a gym or something that exposes you to new people :)

it sounds, already, you're trying too hard

hahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. YOU CANT FIND A GILFRIEND YOUR PENIS IS PROBEBLY TO SMALL LOL LMFAO......

To get a girlfriend you need to increase your social circle and this will help you accomplish two things at once: meet more single girls and encrease your social status. When you are popular it is very easy to get a girlfriend even if you not good looking or tall. Remeber dude chicks are all about status.
Find girlfriend

Get yourself a guy then!

You can find chicks on craigslist

What happened to the first one? And maybe its cause girls can be snobby.

Stop looking, take some time out and it will happen when you're least expecting it to.

Don't "try" to find a girlfriend or to find someone who likes you. That's about the most unattractive thing there is. Just be yourself -- and hopefully you're a likable person, or this gets more difficult -- and like other people, men as well as women, and it will happen naturally.

Probably.

I feel the same way. I broke up with my bf and I have been making an effort to meet other men, just to get back out there and to get my bf off my mind because I still love him, but don't want to be sucked back into the relationship because of problems he has, which I dont believe will ever change. Anyway, I have met several men on dating sites, but have not had any luck. They seem to be afraid to meet me in person. Unbelievable! They are soooo afraid I am going to be fat and ugly (and this is according to what they are saying, indirectly). So, I think it is sad that they wont even muster up the nerve to meet in person. It's not like a woman would tie them down and drag them off if they didnt want to be with them. While being so afraid to meet, they are missing out on meeting me. I know that most men find me attractive. What a waste of time this internet dating thing has been. I have just about given up! I have also joined a few groups and have gotten out, but mostly women show up to the activies, there are some men, but there are about 5 woman to every man. What are the chances???

could be a number of things. you could come off as a creeper. thats what i would guess

Gain confidence. Talk to everypne you meet. Ok - at first it will seem strange, but eventually people in your immediate area will start to notice you and say hi. Use this as a building block. I was the most shyest, most insecure man in the universe, until someone close to me one day said..."You're a really nice guy, but you have a problem". (See the response to the comment by Anonymous on 20th Oct.)
A good way to meet women I've found is if you can get a dog. Take it for walks every day at the same time. You'll find other people doing the same, and they are a great conversation opener..."What a cute dog, whats it's name- and what's yours?". Good luck.

Your looking too hard!When you stop looking,it will find you.Hard to believe but try it

It takes time and someone will come along. At least that's what I keep telling myself.