Someone I know is dating three guys at once. One of them I know from school. Should I give hints to the guy that she's with other people, or should I let the guy figure that out by himself?
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I would warn him if you think they may be having intercourse. Three guys at once = unknown STD's.
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tell him. also talk to her about the possibilities....
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I wouldn't get involved. One of the rules I have is to never get involved in people's relationships.
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I would not tell him. Sometimes doing the right thing with the best of intentions.. can lead to negative things for you. I would let her know that it bothers you to know she is playing someone you know and you feel uncomfortable knowing and he does not and let her make up her mind whether to be decent or trifling.
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I would mind my own business, unless asked.
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it would all depend on how he felt about her if he rele cared then yea i would tell him because there is no point in him feeling like she cares about him it is best that u tell him as soon as possible
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If it's a friend, I would stay out of it. They will catch on to her sooner or later.
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Dating or relationship.... and is it worth it to make an enemy of someone? or is it because you like the guy?
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It is none of your business. Stay out of it. Should one of the men ask you, however, if your friend is dating other people, then you are allowed to tell the truth.
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The scary thing is... the guy most likely knows... I had a friend over the summer (who is an amazing person just a lousy gf) date a mutual friend of ours over the summer... he was completely aware that she most likely had a guy at school who she was leading on in exactly the same way (which she did). She also had a guy at the shore where she went every weekend... it was great...
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When I was in school I dated several females. Back then dating was going out and having a good time learning to get to know each other. It was not considered a committed relationship. I realize now people see dating as some sort of relationship but to each their own. If none of these people are friends of yours then it really is not your business to say anything to anyone. You would not like people saying things about you and how you behave. It works both ways. If one of these people are your friends then it is up to you to let them know if they are being used but you may want to beware of people taking what you say the wrong way and thinking it is no concern of yours. Personally I would let them figure it out by themselves and sit back and watch it unfold.
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If you're friends with this guy, then it's probably a good thing to let him know. But if you don't really talk, then I think it's in your best interest to stay out of it and let him figure it out himself.
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