ANSWERS: 15
  • No,there's nothing wrong with that at all.We all have desires. BTW,that's a nice fantasy. +5.
  • No, why should something so good be wrong! We all wish for the perfect life, fairytale from reality doesnt always have to be seperated, it can be mixed, and he wonder is yours!
  • There is nothing wrong with it! Its perfectly normal!
  • No! But I suppose there's still going to be those times when you'll have to sweep out the cinders from the hearth, scrub the floors & make porridge for bears and make their beds & cook the odd meals for tired, hungry dwarves.
  • no way!!! we all want that. we all want a perfect life, a happy ending...but sometiemsi can b better not 2 have a perfect life. i liek this quote... "Someone should sue Disney for putting the idea in little girls' minds that everyone has a prince charming and everything will end happily ever after." "Snow White. Cinderella. All about wanting a guy, being saved by the guy. Today it's Little Mermaid, Aladdin, Pocahontas. All about getting a guy. So basically we're screwed up because of Disney."
  • Rose petals... bikes have pedals....
  • there's nothing wrong with wanting it....but, sometimes you gotta remember that your partner can't read your mind, and the best way to get something is to ask for it. If you want more romance, ask for it! To me, being specific would make me feel silly, so I probably wouln't give details....and also, lead by example...if you dream of flowers on your desk, well, heck, send a card to your partner (even if you live together) telling them how much they mean to you and perhaps with a gift card inside. You get what you give :) ♥
  • None of us get that. Life is full of challenges, obstacles and heartache. The best thing is to have a partner who will meet those challenges with you. If you make your partner spend all their strength making your dreams come true, are you going to meet all of his? And if you are both busy meeting one another's dreams, who is going to take care of the kids? Paying the mortgage? Taking care of the elderly parent's? My husband and I spent six years concurrently taking care of our sick child and my dying mother. More than a few times my husband sat all night at the hospital with mom and refused to leave her side while I stayed at home nursing our sick baby, who was also having chemo and couldn't be exposed to the microbes present in the ER. That's life. I'm so grateful I had a partner willing to meet it with me, and not immature enough to want me to make all his dreams come true while meeting those challenges.
  • i have most of that.... except the long distance part....which wont be forever :)
  • NO.. If you found a partner who is compatible with you in everything. Finacially, Idiologically, sexually, healthy, personality, hobbies, education back ground (optional), faith, etc etc..... but Good luck !!!!
  • I want a fairytale life. Well, the adventurous kind! In fairytales, damsels in distress attract brave princes (or at least white knights). In real life, damsels is distress attract abusive guys and creeps. In fairytales, everyone has a special gift. Even the lowly, slimy creeps do. And they all know, by the time they are 21, what that gift is. I don't know what the hell I'm good at and I'm 31 (of course I realize that this isn't exactly a rare concern and many 30-somethings are still "searching themselves"). In fairytales, driving isn't a prerequisite (like it is in this car-centric society that is insensitive to the needs of people who have--say--spino-cerebellar ataxia). Trials and tribulations are always rewarded. Unknown/unresearched diseases don't exist. Magic does.
  • i prefer real love to a fantasy. do you have realistic relationship expectations? life isn't a meg ryan movie, y'know i don't love my husband because he's perfect, i think he's perfect BECAUSE i love him we do lots of romantic things together, but none that you mentioned. he has brought me flowers, he's left me notes on my cellphone, but that's the exception not the normal routine of our lives. he comes home to me every night, treats me with respect and thinks i'm beautiful. that's real love
  • no it aint wrong
  • No it is a good thing. Just believe that it is possible and don't compromise your dreams.
  • it's not wrong to have that desire, but it is unrealistic to have that expectation.

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