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not that important... if her opinion is going to matter THAT much to my s/o then we're gonna have problems anyways
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i am my s/o's best friend, so it is very important.
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Not at all important, if his friends hate me then so what - if HE starts hating me...then *shove* Byebye!
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Well, I'm lucky enough to be in a situation where we both have the same best friend. The three of us have been a group of friends for about a year, and we still see ourselves that way, even though two of us live together and do things that transcend the conventional boundaries of friendship. But, supposing that wasn't the case, and this best friend was someone who I wasn't exactly friendly with, I would at least try to be on good terms with them. I mean, it can be only helpful...
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I'm not dating his friend so it's not important at all ...hisfamily well that's a different story.
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well one of my GFs friends is an evil nazi. no matter what the situation she will find some kind of joke about killing black people or arabs. my GF insists its not her speaking but confusion and ignorance and though i agree i would still like to see her admit her feelings to a large group af agresive black arab and jewish people....basicly i hate her but i dont think it efects my relationship with my GF so...not important atall.
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Its important. Depending on how long they have known each other and how close they are. Its not good to get negativity from either person about each other and it will probaly annoy him from both sides
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It is important to me...thankfully in the case that I was just in, his best friend also became my best friend...it's important because he'll be spending time with his best friend when he isn't with you and you don't want his friends trying to break the two of us up and all when you aren't there...so yeah, to me it's important
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Very important, needs to be 110% becauses she sleeps with us
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It's important for some people. It wouldn't bother me if a boyfriend's best friend didn't like me, but I would be upset if my best friend tried to stand in and mess up my relationship.
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It does seem important in the beginning but years down the road when you get married and have kids (if that is what your are looking for), you realize that it wasn't important at all. My wifes best friend hated me from the word go. It was mostly because she found me as a threat to destroy her time with her best friend. Like most couples we started spending alot of time together. Unfortunately for most best friends of both parties this usually cuts into time spent with them. Most best friends don't get this because in my experience the best friends themselves are either single or not in a serious relationship therefore they do not totally understand the present situation. In the long run I don't find it important at all if they like you are not. Your S/O will just have to get past the fact that the women or man they love isn't always going to be compatible with what they want in their best friend. Other wise wouldn't they just be having sex with their best friend, Right?
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well get this: my s/o's best friend ALSO is in love with me. talk about complicated. he's one of my best guy friends but man...it's tricky!! anyways it isn't that important to me unless it's important to my bfriend.
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Not very. Although, as far as I know, her friends all like me just fine.
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Well, considering that my best friend is also my S/O and my S/O is also my wife ... I'd say pretty damned important! :)
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If they don't like me, it gives me a very uncomfortable feeling to be around them. I don't think we can change the way that they feel about us so I don't try to change the situation in any way.
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pretty important
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