by Jannae on September 19th, 2008

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Have you ever given someone a "sympathy fuck?" (Had sex with them, even though you were not attracted to them, just because you feel bad that they'll likely not get it from anybody else).

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by wezsox on September 20th, 2008
Not at all. I save myself for my girl who I love more than the world.
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- Very nice of you!
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
- That is sweet.
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  by AnonymousGirl on December 1st, 2008
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by JaySurf on September 20th, 2008
nope...i wouldn't be able to do that at all...to me, sex means a lot. i only have sex with someone who means a lot to me
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- Very sweet of you to be that way. I may be condoning the sympathy fuck, but your way of viewing it is really cool too.
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
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by Mesia on September 19th, 2008
Yes, plenty of times. Though its rare that I'm not attracted to them.
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- Very sweet of you to say that, Mesia.
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  by Jannae on September 19th, 2008
- You're really nice, Mesia. A salute to women out there who give sympathy fucks!
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  by Anonymous on November 29th, 2008
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by xRedfoxx on November 25th, 2008
Nope. Means way more than that to me. I don't want it to be cheap in my mind. As usual, my opinion only.
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- Which is why we're all here. I appreciate everyone's opinion, even the ones I disagree with. Thanks for your input.
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  by Jannae on November 26th, 2008
- I can understand why you say that it's "cheap." On the other hand, if it's not a question of the woman doing this for her own pleasure but altruistically surrenders her virtue purely to help a guy it could also be seen as something beautiful on her part.
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  by danielcboyer on January 15th, 2009
- Remember,we can always be wrong in our facts but never in our opinions.
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  by Ladydivine on April 1st, 2009
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by AmorousLilith on September 25th, 2008
Once, that was enough to remind me not to do it again.
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- Why was it a bad experience? The times I've done it they were so sincerely appreciative it was cute.
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  by Jannae on September 25th, 2008
- Because I wouldn't be doing it out of sincerity.
  One thing I hate more then lying, is giving people a false sense of sympathy.
  If I have no intentions behind the act, why bother putting myself in that predicament anyway, or even them for that matter.
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  by AmorousLilith on September 25th, 2008
- I guess I don't look at it as a predicament, but rather just consentual fun.
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  by Jannae on September 25th, 2008
- I just know that some how the other person would find out it was on the basis of sympathy, and they just might not take it as well as they did when you were going at it.
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  by AmorousLilith on September 25th, 2008
- True, that's a danger, but at least a couple times, they knew it and were even more appreciative knowing I did it solely to please them. I thought it was a good way to look at it.
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  by Jannae on September 25th, 2008
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by Superman1001 on September 19th, 2008
unfortunately... yes.
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- I don't think that's unfortunate. You're being kind and giving someone pleasure. It's sweet. +6 4U
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  by Jannae on September 19th, 2008
- Yeah probably... But she ended up stalking me.. And I didnt want 2 be nastly and just politely tell her 2 "fuck off". :P
  But atleast she moved..
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by Never saw it coming on September 19th, 2008
Yes.
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- So, do tell ... Was it good anyway?
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  by Jannae on September 19th, 2008
- Not really. It was this really skinny girl. It was creepy, and I couldn't get off. She did, though, and wouldn't stop thanking me afterward.
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  by Never saw it coming on September 19th, 2008
- That is so sweet. I think this sort of thing should happen more often. Sorry you didn't get off, but it's cool that you did it for her.
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  by Jannae on September 19th, 2008
- I suppose so. Thank you. Nice question, too. I'll reply to your email as soon as I get the chance to sit down and write it, I've been extremely busy. I'm going to my brother's for the weekend, so it may not be til next week.
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  by Never saw it coming on September 20th, 2008
- I'll watch for it.
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
- I still haven't had time to write you back. I've been very busy, and my computer at home had a meltdown. The only time I can log on here is when I'm at my mom's, at least for the next few weeks until I can get a new computer.
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  by Never saw it coming on September 25th, 2008
- I'll wait. Sometimes it can be way worth it. So, when you finally get back online and have the privacy you need, make sure it's melt-your-eyes-raunchy and we'll say it was worth it. ;-)
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  by Jannae on September 25th, 2008
- Agreed.
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  by Never saw it coming on September 27th, 2008
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by Jossue on September 20th, 2008
HELL YEAH! This squirrel got its nut!
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- Didya now? Well good on ya mate! LOL
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
- How about it then Jannae? I need some HELP!
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  by Jossue on September 22nd, 2008
- Huh? What do you mean?
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  by Jannae on September 23rd, 2008
- I need a sympathy fuck! Can you help me out?! haha, just kidding.
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  by Jossue on September 23rd, 2008
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by devil is back on September 22nd, 2008
Yes and i was way too drunk! the worst of it is that i didi it twice with the same girl...
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- This is not sympathy then. It was just the beer goggles. This was not an act of kindness, but just loss of control.
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
- you hit target, bulls eye:-(
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  by devil is back on September 22nd, 2008
- Strike two for you today, angel1974. Be careful or you'll 'on the outs' with me. ;-)
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
- how many bonuses do i have left?
  i'll be very carefull;-)
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  by devil is back on September 22nd, 2008
- Bonuses have expiration dates. It's been a while, baby. I was feeling neglected.
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
- i could feel that in your tone...would a toe sucking session help settle?
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  by devil is back on September 22nd, 2008
- Oh, I know how that would please YOU, but you'll have to suck a lot more than my toes to even it up.
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
- i don't want you to feel neglected :-( i'll start from the toes and work myself all the way up to your mouth without leaving a single spot neglected...
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  by devil is back on September 22nd, 2008
- Now we're talking ...
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
- and anything else that would please YOU, of course...
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  by devil is back on September 22nd, 2008
- The best way for a submissive to get back in my good graces is deep pussy licking and ass-licking! Mmmmmm, I love it!
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
- well, as i REALLY want to get back in your graces...i guess i would have to do thatever you like...
  *lies down on the floor* :-P
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  by devil is back on September 22nd, 2008
- Lowers her lower torso over your face ...
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  Whew! We better take this to e-mail before it gets any further!
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  by Jannae on September 22nd, 2008
- all righty:-)
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by TjoeBaxter is Hot Yo on September 20th, 2008
No:):) But I drank to much one night and slept with someone I regretted..is that still sympathy:):)??
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- lol, no. Thats called the "I-cant-hold-my-liquour" fuck.
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  by Superman1001 on September 21st, 2008
- LOL!!! Thanks:):)
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  by TjoeBaxter is Hot Yo on September 21st, 2008
- hehehe, im just kidding. Happens 2 the best of us :-/
  
  I think I might still have traces of bear hair in my clothes from last night's camp party...
  
  haha jk ;)
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by johndetroit on October 7th, 2010
Yes, but sometimes it is the easy way to go.
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by Todd_T2846 on September 25th, 2011
Yes, I was OK with it but I don't think the girl was overly happy afterwards because I didn't want to repeat. She just quite wasn't girlfriend material.
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by Ladydivine on April 1st, 2009
yeah,once,but he was such a nice guy that I wouldnt call it sympathy so much as a mercy.(I should look him up...)
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by stillcurious on December 6th, 2009
yes
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by vR0029 on August 30th, 2010
well not cuz they couldn't get it from anyone else... why the fuck would i wanna get with some nasty guy who couldn't get laid ha. but if i'm drunk, you can safely assume that i wanna get fucked. and some guys put in so much effort to get with you, i'll fuck em. figure they deserved it ha
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by AnonymousGirl on December 1st, 2008
No.
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- Question does not compute... if a woman wants something sexual from me, even if she's not ideal but is even remotely cute, it turns me on!
  
  For me, to give a sympathy fuck would not be possible, because for me to be sympathetic to anyone in that regard would require that she be so grossly unattractive (stinky, morbidly obese, etc...) as to make sex impossible.
  
  I do, though, appreciate greatly the sympathies of all the fine ladies who've ever been sweet enough to get nakid w/ me though!!
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  by LuvMyDong on March 31st, 2009
- Did you mean to post that as an answer?
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