A couple of months ago, my at-the-time bf found out something about my best friend and told a few people. well she found out and almost ended our friendship. since then i felt like she's been more distant, how do i handle this?
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Dezimae is FINALLY 21
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You've tarnished your trust with your best friend. In her eyes, whether this is what you believe or not, you have chosen to divulge personal information to your boyfriend which she confided in you. To her, and to anyone else, this is probably pretty unnacceptable and you're seeing the repercussions of your actions (whether they be intentional or not). Now, you have to rectify that situation. The way to do it is completely up to you. Just know that you have to prove to her that you can be trusted again. This is definitely going to take time and don't expect her to tell you anything really secret ever again (or for at least a long, long time). Let this be a lesson in life. If you truly value someone's friendship then don't betray them. And I know this information may have been an "accident," but next time don't let it be. Most accidents can be prevented if properly thought through.
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I saddens me the amount of conflicts there are like this, between two best friends . . . I think that you owe it to your best friend to apologize. If you already have, then make it up to her. If you want her to trust you again, more strongley than now, then tell her ALL of your secrets, or find another way, any should work, to reassure her that YOU trust her still. Most girls like to be secretly reassured that "Oh, if she tells anyone this, i can tell someone that . . ." bitchy, but true. I'm not one for violence, but someone needs to kick your ex's ass. (I hope i dont get in trouble for that). Lol, well seriously, i hope i've helped. I've been in your situation. And i hope things work out for you :)
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