Why do some people fall in love very fast?
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pagan-babe
ANSWERS: 29
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For me it was love at first sight! I knew straight away that Yolanda was the person for me, we were engaged after three weeks and have now been very happily married for over nine years!
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Sometimes, people are in love with being in love. They just want to care for someone and have someone care for them. They convince themselves that they'll love the next person they see to fill up an empty space in their heart. It's usually just lust...or desperation. Or, it could truly be love at first sight.
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Because they haven't been burned enough.
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Because they 'love' the fact that someone cares for them and it makes them feel special.
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I suppose it has something to do with brain chemistry and general horniness. I can't speak for myself. I married my stalker.
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Here's a chemical explanation... The Brain In Love Science suggests we're neurologically wired to look for romance. But how to tell if it will last is another question. by Benedict Carey, L.A. Times Staff Writer "...scientists have developed some of the first direct evidence that the neural mechanisms of romantic attraction are distinct from those of sexual attraction and arousal. ... Biologists have linked high levels of dopamine and a related agent, norepinephrine, to heightened attention and short-term memory, hyperactivity, sleeplessness and goal-oriented behavior. When they're first captivated, Fisher [Helen Fisher, an anthropologist at Rutgers University in New Jersey] argues, couples often show the signs of surging dopamine: increased energy, less need for sleep or food, focused attention and exquisite delight in smallest details of this novel relationship." 2002
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It just depends on the person. I fell in love at first sight with my girl, and I will always remain loyal to her no matter what till I die and even after death if I have a say in it. Different people experience things in different ways, whether it be stress, love, hate, etc.
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I think that it may be that they are confussing lust, infatuation , & the desire not to be alone, with real love.
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What one calls falling in love fast is simply sudden intimacy . It is made up of sexual attraction and emotional intimacy. If one is emotionally open with someone who is attractive , and its mutual, its inevitable that this falling in love will happen
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I think sometimes people just get caught up in the moment.
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The need to be loved.
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co-dependancy
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As the saying goes, fools rush in. Falling in love takes longer than being infatuated with someone. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119141/
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Maybe it's the love at first sight thing, but everybody knows love takes time.
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For the same reason some people take their time. We are all DIFFERENT - get used to it. Life contains lots of DIFFERENT people.
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Oxytocin. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin
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Some people are less guarded than others with their emotions. They meet someone they connect with and they run with it. There is no right or wrong way to fall in love.
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Some people fall in love so fast because they can not stand to be alone and they settle for whomever they feel comfortable with at that time.
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For me, it starts when that special woman does and says nice things to me. After that, I'm hooked.
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They're impulsive-and reeeeeeeeeeealy horny.
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some people fll in love so fast because they think that that person at that time is the best they will get, and most do it because its better to be in love than alone, but others are actually so in love that they do actually stay together for years to come!
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Because people are different. Some people have better intuition and are not always second-guessing themselves or their feelings. Other people are more cautious or take longer to discover the things they consider important in another human being. To each his own, different strokes for different folks, and all that.
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Not being one of those types, I'd have to say that I have no idea. I wish I could fall in love faster. I haven't been in love for...ever. Not since I thought I loved some boy in high school. But I blame hormones.
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Some things in life are just meant to be. Like me and this guy. He's the one on the left;)
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Loneliness or horniness. They would be my big two. I don't believe in love at first sight......oh, and it's falling in lust
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It si very confusing, we never know when it'll happen and when it does, our whole outlook changes, have them break your heart and see where the outlook even lies.
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Because love is not a feeling, it's an ability. -Dan in Real Life. Very poignant quote.
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Is that love or lust?
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At one time, I didn't believe in love at first sight until it happen to me. When i first meant my friend right away we just click together. So, it depends on the person. If your the kind of person who thinks that your first attraction is all about lust,horniness,and loneliness then that's all you will see. When it could be true love. It all depends how a person excepts love. Then again some people don't know how to recieve love,maybe thats way they don't believe love in first sight.
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