Should I be worried if my boyfriend hasnt told his mom about us yet because he is worried what she will say because we met online he said that if we hadnt met online he probably would have told her already. How would you take this and what would you do?

I did say that to him and he said " I know I just want to wait a little longer"

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by smb on September 13th, 2008

Nope it was a dating website nothing naughty about it. But we have been talking for a year met in July and have been together for 2 months and he wont tell her yet just because we met online and doesnt want to be asked a million questions and because of the fact we met online.

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by smb on September 13th, 2008

nope, thats what he telling you honey...does that sound logical to you?
Now, two months isn't that long...do you feel like this is really going somewhere?

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by Wise Latina on September 13th, 2008

I do think its going somewhere I told my mom and I told her the online thing and I didnt get asked a million questions but I dont think that he needs to hide me either. And thats how I feel because whenever we go out his mom just thinks he is out driving around and doesnt even know he is with anyone.

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by smb on September 13th, 2008

something is fishy, definately! So you live near by, and you go out often? It doesn't matter where you met, even if his mom just thinks you're just friends.....you need to talk about this.....do you call his house? Pick him up?? I think you should go knock on his door and let his mom answer, enough of this BS. He is hiding something. Maybe he's embarrassed of his mom....but still, you should have met her by now if he lives with her.

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by Wise Latina on September 13th, 2008

We live an hour away from each other and we go out once a week usually on Sundays if that. We usually have met half way or if I have gone to his town we meet at a plaza near his house. We have never met at his house so Ive nver seen his house and the only phone number I have of his is his cell phone number. He does live with his mom and i told mine and I really wish he would tell his :( I really take it personally that he hasnt told her yet because he is hiding me and I dont understand why

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by smb on September 13th, 2008

you should resent it, unless he is from a weird religion or something....you need to talk about this with him. Dont let anyone treat you poorly, if he doesn't step up to the plate soon....you have some thinking to do.

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by Wise Latina on September 13th, 2008